We Wasted Thousands Of Dollars Helping An Entitled Best Friend r/Relationships

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[00:00:19] [SPEAKER_00]: Now todays first story is from the entitled people subreddit from jealousdoubt2401 and

[00:00:25] [SPEAKER_00]: says thousands of dollars wasted hosting a brand.

[00:00:30] [SPEAKER_00]: They start off, originally posted on alt but it got deleted because of lack of comment

[00:00:35] [SPEAKER_00]: history. I wanted to hide comment history since it highlights the country in question

[00:00:39] [SPEAKER_00]: but I don't give a fuck anymore. Not safe for work just in case, mentions of drugs

[00:00:45] [SPEAKER_00]: and sex. My friend from high school has been down in the dumps for a while. It's

[00:00:50] [SPEAKER_00]: her third year of college and while her parents pay for all her school needs and

[00:00:53] [SPEAKER_00]: a little more, her reluctance to get a part time job leaves her strapped for

[00:00:57] [SPEAKER_00]: cash all the time. This culminated to her spending all three of her summer

[00:01:02] [SPEAKER_00]: breaks in relative nothingness. She's taken a gap year to stall out her senior

[00:01:06] [SPEAKER_00]: year and I offered to host her at my parents house in my home country. She

[00:01:11] [SPEAKER_00]: was ecstatic. I told her to bring enough money to be comfortable but to

[00:01:15] [SPEAKER_00]: not worry too much about food costs as my parents can foot the bill. My

[00:01:19] [SPEAKER_00]: parents offered to do so. For some reason she thought that this meant we

[00:01:23] [SPEAKER_00]: would be paying her ticket. Mind you a ticket would have costed a minimum of

[00:01:28] [SPEAKER_00]: $1,100. Chaos ensued just two weeks out from the designated time of her

[00:01:34] [SPEAKER_00]: arrival but she managed to cough out a ticket courtesy of her parents. We're on

[00:01:39] [SPEAKER_00]: the third week of her stay and it's been hell. I never knew anyone could

[00:01:44] [SPEAKER_00]: change so much in five college semesters. Because we were a long

[00:01:48] [SPEAKER_00]: distance friendship I never saw her behavior in the flesh. Let me just

[00:01:52] [SPEAKER_00]: highlight some of the utter audacity of this bitch. She's been avoiding doing

[00:01:58] [SPEAKER_00]: the laundry, stuffing all her dirty clothes underneath the bed. At first it

[00:02:02] [SPEAKER_00]: was because she was too lazy to put her clothes in the hamper. My mum

[00:02:06] [SPEAKER_00]: graciously does all of our laundry mostly because she's into fitness and

[00:02:10] [SPEAKER_00]: a busy body. Then when I ended up piling up she got too embarrassed to

[00:02:14] [SPEAKER_00]: admit it. I ended up doing the laundry for her. Her room is a mess from

[00:02:18] [SPEAKER_00]: the nightly food binging and somehow she snuck alcohol bottles into the

[00:02:21] [SPEAKER_00]: house. I'm well into my fourth gnat trap in her room because she can't keep

[00:02:26] [SPEAKER_00]: her shit clean enough to avoid an infestation. She FaceTimes her cousin

[00:02:29] [SPEAKER_00]: or best friend or whatever in the middle of the night. Then when she

[00:02:34] [SPEAKER_00]: inevitably misses our agreed schedule the next morning because she's

[00:02:37] [SPEAKER_00]: too tired she lies and tells me it's because the mattress is too

[00:02:40] [SPEAKER_00]: uncomfortable. I can literally hear you laughing in the other room. We went

[00:02:45] [SPEAKER_00]: to a bar. She meets a local there and asks me to hang around the city while

[00:02:49] [SPEAKER_00]: she dates him because she didn't want to be left alone. I told her to eat

[00:02:53] [SPEAKER_00]: ours because I never agreed to being ditched like this but decided to stick

[00:02:58] [SPEAKER_00]: around anyways because I still had things I wanted to do in the city.

[00:03:02] [SPEAKER_00]: Come night time and I went to pick her up only to see that she changed her

[00:03:05] [SPEAKER_00]: mind and went home with the guy she just met. Womp womp. Later she tells

[00:03:10] [SPEAKER_00]: me she lied to him saying she moved here. He didn't want a one-night

[00:03:14] [SPEAKER_00]: stand with a tourist but an actual relationship. She just wanted free drinks

[00:03:19] [SPEAKER_00]: and sex. She then mentions that she was getting frustrated because guys

[00:03:23] [SPEAKER_00]: weren't approaching her when she was a foreigner. She's literally the same

[00:03:27] [SPEAKER_00]: race as the locals except with a darker complexion. Think French versus

[00:03:31] [SPEAKER_00]: Portuguese in comparison. She's doing drugs like the illegal ones. I don't

[00:03:37] [SPEAKER_00]: even know how she got her hands on those probably from the guy she just

[00:03:40] [SPEAKER_00]: met. She brought them home and tried to smoke out the window. The drugs

[00:03:44] [SPEAKER_00]: had gone from the house at least. I used the cleaning room as an excuse to flush

[00:03:47] [SPEAKER_00]: it out. Not literally. Parents bought us event tickets that were approximately

[00:03:52] [SPEAKER_00]: $70 each. She decided to go to a club instead and wouldn't answer her phone

[00:03:57] [SPEAKER_00]: when I was left blindsided. She agreed to go but didn't tell me she

[00:04:01] [SPEAKER_00]: changed her mind. I lied to my parents because I didn't have the heart

[00:04:04] [SPEAKER_00]: to tell my mom only I went. She never tells us she's hungover or

[00:04:09] [SPEAKER_00]: whatever. Only after my parents buy the food she decides she's too wasted

[00:04:13] [SPEAKER_00]: to eat. Parents asked her to be a bit more thorough with her scheduling

[00:04:17] [SPEAKER_00]: because she kept cancelling plans and sleeping in. Her response was to call

[00:04:21] [SPEAKER_00]: my parents nosy and told them to get off her back. Luckily they don't

[00:04:25] [SPEAKER_00]: speak her language and they didn't bother asking me what she said. They

[00:04:29] [SPEAKER_00]: know she's being a bitch. This isn't even all the things she's done so

[00:04:34] [SPEAKER_00]: far. My parents have spent close to $3,500 on her ranging from food

[00:04:39] [SPEAKER_00]: and luxury trips around the country. They were going to take us to get a full

[00:04:43] [SPEAKER_00]: course meal ranging around $150 and a trip to another country but cancelled

[00:04:48] [SPEAKER_00]: everything because of her behavior. Now she's asking me about these things

[00:04:52] [SPEAKER_00]: that was supposedly promised to her and I just told her straight she's

[00:04:56] [SPEAKER_00]: acting like a festering cockroach. I think she knows our friendship is over.

[00:05:01] [SPEAKER_00]: She came out of the room yesterday after a long Sabbath pretending to

[00:05:04] [SPEAKER_00]: have starved out of stress. She has snack stashed in her room when I

[00:05:08] [SPEAKER_00]: peeked in to see wrappers on the floor. She slammed the door in my face so I

[00:05:12] [SPEAKER_00]: couldn't see the mess. She claimed that she's just depressed and didn't

[00:05:15] [SPEAKER_00]: realize my family had all these Eastern rules that were too foreign for her

[00:05:20] [SPEAKER_00]: comprehension. Rules like no shoes in the house and well not turning the

[00:05:25] [SPEAKER_00]: room into a pigsty. We both literally grew up in the same Western country

[00:05:29] [SPEAKER_00]: so these rules being too Eastern for us isn't new to me. This isn't even

[00:05:34] [SPEAKER_00]: from an Eastern country. She sat me down to tell me we need to communicate

[00:05:39] [SPEAKER_00]: better on what I expect from her since we're adults now. But I don't see why

[00:05:44] [SPEAKER_00]: I need to communicate that she shouldn't be putting half-eaten ramen

[00:05:47] [SPEAKER_00]: in the closet for two weeks. Anyways I told her she can do what she wants

[00:05:51] [SPEAKER_00]: to do for the last week and I'll stay out of her hair. She again asked

[00:05:55] [SPEAKER_00]: me if we're going on that foreign country trip we initially planned for.

[00:05:59] [SPEAKER_00]: I told her no and she's sulking in her room again. Oh noes. Anyway I have one

[00:06:06] [SPEAKER_00]: more week of this. Parasite. Reddit. Give me strength.

[00:06:12] [SPEAKER_00]: Firstly I'm sorry to hear you and your family are going through that.

[00:06:15] [SPEAKER_00]: Dealing with that kind of entitlement is wild. Someone's housing

[00:06:20] [SPEAKER_00]: you, offered to get you food, giving you trips, all this sort of stuff

[00:06:24] [SPEAKER_00]: and you treat them like this. It's just crazy. And look I know the OP isn't

[00:06:29] [SPEAKER_00]: looking for advice. I don't think they need advice on this since the last

[00:06:33] [SPEAKER_00]: week but I would strongly consider getting rid of that person

[00:06:36] [SPEAKER_00]: immediately, giving them a couple of days saying look you need to get

[00:06:38] [SPEAKER_00]: your shit together and get out because I just feel this behaviour

[00:06:41] [SPEAKER_00]: should have been stomped down on a long time ago because in the end

[00:06:45] [SPEAKER_00]: you know there's that thin line where it becomes enabling behaviour.

[00:06:49] [SPEAKER_00]: You know you just enable the person to keep doing these shitty things

[00:06:52] [SPEAKER_00]: time and time again. That simply isn't a friend. I couldn't imagine

[00:06:56] [SPEAKER_00]: ever treating a friend like that at all. Especially when they're doing

[00:07:00] [SPEAKER_00]: this for you at the same time. It's just crazy. But the real red paradox

[00:07:05] [SPEAKER_00]: says yeah burn that bridge and never speak to her again OP.

[00:07:08] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm sorry her true colours came out that way. OP replies in thank you.

[00:07:13] [SPEAKER_00]: She sounded so put together aside from her obvious financial issues when

[00:07:17] [SPEAKER_00]: we were long distance. I thought she was genuinely just a bit depressed.

[00:07:21] [SPEAKER_00]: Known her since elementary school but this friendship is no longer salvageable.

[00:07:26] [SPEAKER_00]: MX Nacho says I doubt she's been down in the dumps. She just ran out of

[00:07:31] [SPEAKER_00]: friends shortly after she decided she couldn't care less and that

[00:07:34] [SPEAKER_00]: people are to be used until they dump you. Don't lose your faith in

[00:07:38] [SPEAKER_00]: humanity but do lose your faith in her.

[00:07:42] [SPEAKER_00]: Nethercommenter says my story isn't as bad but we hosted our niece,

[00:07:46] [SPEAKER_00]: a friend's 20 year old daughter for two summers. I even got a job

[00:07:50] [SPEAKER_00]: both summers where I work, a university. She's an avid online

[00:07:55] [SPEAKER_00]: chick dating guys in Canada. She lives in Philly we live in Washington DC.

[00:08:00] [SPEAKER_00]: Of her 3-4 boyfriends only one was in person. She would stay up until

[00:08:05] [SPEAKER_00]: 2 or 3 am chatting with friends online. Her voice would carry

[00:08:09] [SPEAKER_00]: upstairs and through our closed bedroom door. Keeping us awake.

[00:08:13] [SPEAKER_00]: One night at 1 am I called down to her to please keep it down

[00:08:16] [SPEAKER_00]: was keeping us up. Then I heard her say to her online friend,

[00:08:20] [SPEAKER_00]: I don't need this shit. Well that was the end of such offers.

[00:08:25] [SPEAKER_00]: Her mother is the one who ingrained this behaviour in her so she can have her.

[00:08:31] [SPEAKER_00]: Then OP comes in with her update and says I wasn't going to post

[00:08:34] [SPEAKER_00]: an update or anything but I thought what happened two days ago

[00:08:37] [SPEAKER_00]: warranted another post. Not safe for work just because the

[00:08:40] [SPEAKER_00]: original post had it. Summary of the original post my

[00:08:43] [SPEAKER_00]: family decided to host my friend in a foreign country

[00:08:46] [SPEAKER_00]: and proceeded to spend thousands of dollars on her.

[00:08:49] [SPEAKER_00]: It all goes down the drain culminating in cancelling a trip abroad planned for her

[00:08:53] [SPEAKER_00]: due to her drug and generally terrible guest habits.

[00:08:56] [SPEAKER_00]: This isn't some coming of Christ or scorned lover

[00:08:59] [SPEAKER_00]: friend revenge update but I felt the need to vent.

[00:09:04] [SPEAKER_00]: About 4 days ago I went on a camping trip with my family.

[00:09:07] [SPEAKER_00]: My friend decided to sleep over at her new not so one night

[00:09:12] [SPEAKER_00]: stands house until she left the country. Most likely because she no longer felt

[00:09:16] [SPEAKER_00]: welcome in my house. I told her we won't be home but I get a

[00:09:19] [SPEAKER_00]: text message from her while camping saying she's going back home and needed

[00:09:22] [SPEAKER_00]: the passcode to the house. There was no way in hell I was going

[00:09:26] [SPEAKER_00]: to let her in the house alone so I ignored her text.

[00:09:29] [SPEAKER_00]: She blew up my phone shortly after including calls that I can't even

[00:09:33] [SPEAKER_00]: pick up anyways because it had billed me international calls.

[00:09:37] [SPEAKER_00]: Judging from her sporadic texts and calls I can only summarize she

[00:09:40] [SPEAKER_00]: got kicked out of her guys house. Unfortunately I got a side of the story

[00:09:45] [SPEAKER_00]: I suspect she either got too hung up on his drugs and ignored him or

[00:09:49] [SPEAKER_00]: grossed him out with her living habits. Did I mention this girl left

[00:09:52] [SPEAKER_00]: vomit trails in the bathtub? Why doesn't she puke in the toilet?

[00:09:57] [SPEAKER_00]: It was either that or she revealed she doesn't actually live here since

[00:10:00] [SPEAKER_00]: she did trick him into thinking this isn't going to be a summer fling.

[00:10:04] [SPEAKER_00]: I text her back while coming back 2 days ago telling her

[00:10:07] [SPEAKER_00]: I didn't have reception and she replies with a real short OK.

[00:10:12] [SPEAKER_00]: We let her in sometime in the evening because my parents are still willing

[00:10:15] [SPEAKER_00]: to house her and her way of showing gratitude is to give us the cold

[00:10:19] [SPEAKER_00]: shoulder. She asks me to buy her dinner later

[00:10:21] [SPEAKER_00]: because she's broke after affording a day at a hotel.

[00:10:25] [SPEAKER_00]: Hmmkay I just rolled my eyes and said no she's not my responsibility.

[00:10:30] [SPEAKER_00]: She comes out of her room later dressed like she forgot half of her

[00:10:33] [SPEAKER_00]: clothes in her room. I felt like I was in the

[00:10:35] [SPEAKER_00]: Twilight Zone watching a 26 year old woman wearing bootie shorts and a

[00:10:39] [SPEAKER_00]: tank top with little duckies and ribbons on it.

[00:10:42] [SPEAKER_00]: I gave her a weird look and she tells me she's going to ask my parents

[00:10:45] [SPEAKER_00]: instead since they're nice and she's cute. I swear I fucking bathed then

[00:10:50] [SPEAKER_00]: and there. I guess the reception wasn't what she

[00:10:53] [SPEAKER_00]: expected because my mum just laughed at her the moment she saw

[00:10:56] [SPEAKER_00]: and my dad gave her a look of absolute disgust. I guess she lost her

[00:11:00] [SPEAKER_00]: nerve and didn't bother asking. She just casually grabbed some water

[00:11:03] [SPEAKER_00]: and walked back to her room. I don't understand what her plan was.

[00:11:07] [SPEAKER_00]: Did the shock of getting dumped by her fling make her think she can seduce my

[00:11:11] [SPEAKER_00]: parents? The whole thing was stupid. She wanted

[00:11:14] [SPEAKER_00]: to eat expensive food considering you can eat a meal for less than five

[00:11:17] [SPEAKER_00]: dollars in my country. She lives in some fantasy world where

[00:11:21] [SPEAKER_00]: she's entitled to things as long as she does some cliche main character

[00:11:24] [SPEAKER_00]: stuff. She's been quiet after that so I guess

[00:11:26] [SPEAKER_00]: going through that mental trauma was worth it.

[00:11:29] [SPEAKER_00]: She just left the house several hours ago because she's been so out

[00:11:32] [SPEAKER_00]: of her mind due to all the partying. She's completely

[00:11:35] [SPEAKER_00]: forgot it takes a good one to two hour trip to the airport and she's left the

[00:11:39] [SPEAKER_00]: house in tears because she's late. She even had the gall to yell at me

[00:11:43] [SPEAKER_00]: because I didn't remind her or reserve her bus ticket and I told her

[00:11:46] [SPEAKER_00]: she's 26 not 12 years old. If she can't figure out how long it

[00:11:50] [SPEAKER_00]: takes to get to the airport ahead of time

[00:11:52] [SPEAKER_00]: then she's not mature enough to be doing drugs. Lo and behold

[00:11:56] [SPEAKER_00]: not only did she miss her flight she lost her wallet at the airport in the

[00:11:59] [SPEAKER_00]: chaos. She only bothered to tell me about

[00:12:02] [SPEAKER_00]: it because she wanted me to book a hotel for her

[00:12:04] [SPEAKER_00]: she figures that all out lol okay sure she's out of my hair now and

[00:12:09] [SPEAKER_00]: I'll probably never talk to her again. I was so stressful in the beginning but

[00:12:13] [SPEAKER_00]: towards the end I just didn't care anymore.

[00:12:15] [SPEAKER_00]: Thank you to those who commented on my original post. You guys were real gems

[00:12:19] [SPEAKER_00]: who kept me strong through the filth that is my leech. I didn't reply to

[00:12:23] [SPEAKER_00]: most but I did read through all of it. Have a nice day and remember to

[00:12:27] [SPEAKER_00]: take the trash out before it wears laundry and tries to

[00:12:30] [SPEAKER_00]: seduce your parents. Commenter says to op your

[00:12:34] [SPEAKER_00]: parents are saints. Op says they truly are but they're also very low key

[00:12:39] [SPEAKER_00]: people who hang out with other low key folks. If I get the feeling

[00:12:43] [SPEAKER_00]: they just found their antics really entertaining. Maleficent Can says

[00:12:47] [SPEAKER_00]: wait 26 years old for short shorts and tank tops will

[00:12:51] [SPEAKER_00]: lounge in around the house. Well shit I'm still doing that at 38

[00:12:55] [SPEAKER_00]: unless the clothing was multiple sizes too small. In that case

[00:12:58] [SPEAKER_00]: ooh weird gross etc. Op says not at all

[00:13:02] [SPEAKER_00]: I walk around the house in my panties and tank tops in the dead of summer from

[00:13:06] [SPEAKER_00]: time to time. Yeah the clothes were I don't know how

[00:13:10] [SPEAKER_00]: to describe it but like intentionally infantile like very

[00:13:14] [SPEAKER_00]: childish and weirdly sexualized. She doesn't normally dress like that

[00:13:18] [SPEAKER_00]: she usually dresses in loose sheer tops with leggings or long pants.

[00:13:23] [SPEAKER_00]: But now I'm gonna turn this one to you guys. What do you guys make

[00:13:28] [SPEAKER_00]: of this situation? Have you ever dealt with an entitled roommate or similar

[00:13:33] [SPEAKER_00]: before? Let us know your thoughts down in the

[00:13:36] [SPEAKER_00]: comments below and let's move on to another story.

[00:13:41] [SPEAKER_00]: Now our next story comes from our very own subreddit

[00:13:44] [SPEAKER_00]: r slash mark narrations get involved over there if you feel like it.

[00:13:48] [SPEAKER_00]: It does come with an update as well it's from sad chapter

[00:13:53] [SPEAKER_00]: 3758 and says exam partner tried dragging me down with her.

[00:13:58] [SPEAKER_00]: This probably isn't much of a revenge story but

[00:14:00] [SPEAKER_00]: I still want to share it and they say the best kind of revenge is to do well.

[00:14:06] [SPEAKER_00]: Absolutely so I'm graduating and yesterday I finished my last exam.

[00:14:10] [SPEAKER_00]: The way my school works is that you're guaranteed to have a math

[00:14:13] [SPEAKER_00]: english and an exam including science geography and biology.

[00:14:17] [SPEAKER_00]: The other subjects are randomly given out to different classes.

[00:14:20] [SPEAKER_00]: For example my class got religion and PE. The other class in my grade got social

[00:14:26] [SPEAKER_00]: studies in German. My then best friend and I decided to

[00:14:30] [SPEAKER_00]: work together in our science bio slash geo exam. Our religion exam and our

[00:14:35] [SPEAKER_00]: PA exam because it would be the three hardest to do. This ended up

[00:14:39] [SPEAKER_00]: being the worst decision ever. Our first exam was PE and I told

[00:14:44] [SPEAKER_00]: how important it is for me that we do our best

[00:14:46] [SPEAKER_00]: because my grades are important to me because even though I don't need PE to

[00:14:51] [SPEAKER_00]: be an architect you have to have pretty good grades

[00:14:54] [SPEAKER_00]: to be able to study architecture. She promised me she would do her best

[00:14:58] [SPEAKER_00]: and I reassured her that I'd be okay as long as she promised to work with me.

[00:15:02] [SPEAKER_00]: Well she didn't. We met up two days before our exam and

[00:15:06] [SPEAKER_00]: she told me she hadn't done half of the project.

[00:15:09] [SPEAKER_00]: I asked her why. She told me she couldn't find the motivation to do it.

[00:15:13] [SPEAKER_00]: I said fine we could just split the work I had done and we would take the

[00:15:17] [SPEAKER_00]: bad grade. I tried explaining to her again that this was important to me

[00:15:21] [SPEAKER_00]: and I'm not expecting her to go above and beyond and get us the perfect grade

[00:15:25] [SPEAKER_00]: but that she would at least do her half of the project. She said she

[00:15:29] [SPEAKER_00]: understood and we both went home to prepare for our religion exam or at

[00:15:33] [SPEAKER_00]: least I did because the same thing happened the

[00:15:36] [SPEAKER_00]: week after. She asked to split the work again and I said no

[00:15:40] [SPEAKER_00]: that she had to do her best and I wasn't saving her butt again.

[00:15:44] [SPEAKER_00]: Well this time we didn't get the same grade because she wasn't able to

[00:15:47] [SPEAKER_00]: present anything. I got an A and she got an F.

[00:15:51] [SPEAKER_00]: When the exam was over we walked out and she told me that she hates me

[00:15:55] [SPEAKER_00]: and even though I knew I did nothing wrong it stung and she stopped

[00:15:59] [SPEAKER_00]: talking to me. Well Thursday evening I decided to pull

[00:16:02] [SPEAKER_00]: myself together and finally prepare myself for our last exam together

[00:16:06] [SPEAKER_00]: and I realized that she deleted our synopsis and no I didn't have my own

[00:16:11] [SPEAKER_00]: copy of it or printed out version and I couldn't text any of my teachers

[00:16:15] [SPEAKER_00]: because it was late and they wouldn't be able to check my message after the

[00:16:18] [SPEAKER_00]: exam anyways. Hindsight is a bitch and I really should

[00:16:22] [SPEAKER_00]: have started on our project earlier. I felt completely hopeless. I felt

[00:16:27] [SPEAKER_00]: like I couldn't do anything because I couldn't remember everything

[00:16:30] [SPEAKER_00]: I needed to talk about. She got her revenge and finally managed

[00:16:33] [SPEAKER_00]: to pull me down with her. I decided that I'd just have to talk

[00:16:37] [SPEAKER_00]: to my teacher about it the next day before the exam and take the F

[00:16:40] [SPEAKER_00]: and not pass and I did. However he ended up hyping me up

[00:16:45] [SPEAKER_00]: and because I came 15 minutes before my exam was supposed to start

[00:16:48] [SPEAKER_00]: he encouraged me to try my best and write down everything I could

[00:16:52] [SPEAKER_00]: and handed me a copy of our synopsis. Right now I'm extremely grateful for

[00:16:56] [SPEAKER_00]: my teacher because I ended up doing really well

[00:16:58] [SPEAKER_00]: and got a B for my presentation. My partner however

[00:17:02] [SPEAKER_00]: didn't even show up because she kind of rightfully thought that I would not

[00:17:06] [SPEAKER_00]: show up either and she ended up not passing this exam either.

[00:17:11] [SPEAKER_00]: Gee whiz both stories are about absolute leeches in this one.

[00:17:16] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm super glad that you did well in your exam and she didn't actually

[00:17:19] [SPEAKER_00]: drag you down with her because I go back to the beginning and then

[00:17:24] [SPEAKER_00]: you say you're your then best friend and you was working together

[00:17:28] [SPEAKER_00]: you know this this is someone that you should have been able to trust

[00:17:30] [SPEAKER_00]: your friend etc. Supposedly you have a good relationship and I think

[00:17:34] [SPEAKER_00]: what what happened was she always like this and you just didn't realize

[00:17:40] [SPEAKER_00]: there's been signs in the past from it obviously I'm not accusing you of

[00:17:43] [SPEAKER_00]: anything but for her to do this to you and then try to drag you down

[00:17:46] [SPEAKER_00]: at the same time is madness isn't it.

[00:17:50] [SPEAKER_00]: But EDC says good for you glad your grade was good even after a sabotage

[00:17:55] [SPEAKER_00]: you have learned valuable lessons always back up your work and never

[00:17:59] [SPEAKER_00]: project partner says they're working on it.

[00:18:01] [SPEAKER_00]: He's a major leech she's not a friend.

[00:18:06] [SPEAKER_00]: Usual stranger says she deserved to fail not only for not doing her

[00:18:10] [SPEAKER_00]: fair share but also for trying to sabotage you when she realized

[00:18:14] [SPEAKER_00]: would no longer let her take credit for your work what happened to her

[00:18:18] [SPEAKER_00]: after that did she stay away or did she try and slither away back.

[00:18:23] [SPEAKER_00]: OP said she's luckily staying away from me but she's trashing me to our

[00:18:28] [SPEAKER_00]: mutual friends or trying to that only confirms I did the right thing in my opinion.

[00:18:34] [SPEAKER_00]: So OP did come in with her update and said first off thank you so much for

[00:18:38] [SPEAKER_00]: everyone who took the time to read my original post and to the extremely

[00:18:41] [SPEAKER_00]: helpful people commenting it was really helpful for me to let off steam by writing down everything.

[00:18:46] [SPEAKER_00]: Anyways I'll be giving people names now to make it easier to write and

[00:18:50] [SPEAKER_00]: Daisy, exam partner, Teresa our mutual friend and me yours truly OP.

[00:18:58] [SPEAKER_00]: Trigger warning of drug abuse addiction mental health issues and mentions of physical abuse.

[00:19:05] [SPEAKER_00]: So I decided to have a talk with mine and Daisy's friend

[00:19:08] [SPEAKER_00]: Teresa because Teresa had the same issues with her and I was honestly done with

[00:19:12] [SPEAKER_00]: Daisy's bullshit she'd been talking shit about Teresa to me behind her back and

[00:19:17] [SPEAKER_00]: felt like I needed to step up and be a better friend to Teresa

[00:19:20] [SPEAKER_00]: because she deserved to know the truth turns out she, Daisy had been talking shit about me too.

[00:19:27] [SPEAKER_00]: The thing she said about me was she'd been making fun of me for getting into drugs and

[00:19:32] [SPEAKER_00]: alcohol abuse at the age of 13-14 even though she knew how hard my life had been

[00:19:37] [SPEAKER_00]: and I was struggling to get by and was using those things to cope.

[00:19:41] [SPEAKER_00]: She made fun of a black eye I got from an ex-boyfriend that was extremely abusive towards

[00:19:45] [SPEAKER_00]: me said I was lying about having BPD that it was my fault for ending up in a children's home

[00:19:50] [SPEAKER_00]: even though my mum was sick almost dying from an eating disorder and my dad was an abusive piece

[00:19:56] [SPEAKER_00]: of shit. My mum is totally alright now she's happy and healthy and absolutely thriving today.

[00:20:03] [SPEAKER_00]: She'd been calling me selfish for not letting her leech off of me anymore.

[00:20:06] [SPEAKER_00]: The thing she said about Teresa made fun of her because her dad left her

[00:20:11] [SPEAKER_00]: even though Teresa was the bravest and strongest person ever and cut off contact by herself.

[00:20:16] [SPEAKER_00]: Made fun of her eczema. Kept calling her a narcissist, pretty sure she doesn't know what

[00:20:21] [SPEAKER_00]: that diagnosis means. Said that Teresa actually didn't have ADHD and depression

[00:20:27] [SPEAKER_00]: and that she was just lazy and grateful. Yikes. When we confronted her about all of this

[00:20:34] [SPEAKER_00]: she just sat there confirming it no emotion in her eyes not excusing any of it. It was

[00:20:40] [SPEAKER_00]: terrifying. She clearly had no reason for saying all of this and she said that she

[00:20:45] [SPEAKER_00]: didn't know why she said it other than she was bored. It was scary. She was our so called

[00:20:51] [SPEAKER_00]: best friends and she said all of this just because she was bored. Not gonna lie we cut

[00:20:57] [SPEAKER_00]: her off after this conversation. But I was actually nervous she was gonna do something.

[00:21:03] [SPEAKER_00]: Luckily she hasn't or at least not yet so hopefully this will be my one

[00:21:07] [SPEAKER_00]: only update. Thank you so much for reading.

[00:21:37] [SPEAKER_00]: I certainly hope that doesn't happen and she just continues off in another path somewhere

[00:21:41] [SPEAKER_00]: because you don't need that shit. Holy moly. And it just casts my mind back to the first post

[00:21:46] [SPEAKER_00]: and the whole best friend thing again. OP if you do listen to this and you're in the comments

[00:21:51] [SPEAKER_00]: below this video let us know about do you think there was ever any signs before that

[00:21:56] [SPEAKER_00]: that she showed this kind of behaviour before or something just happened? Could it be something

[00:22:01] [SPEAKER_00]: to do with like mental health or something along those lines? Again as always not excusing

[00:22:06] [SPEAKER_00]: behaviour in the slightest just trying to find that reason like going from best friend like

[00:22:11] [SPEAKER_00]: status to this crazy ass behaviour of taking a piss out of past traumas behind your back etc.

[00:22:18] [SPEAKER_00]: Absolute madness. But now I'm gonna turn this one to you guys what do you guys make of this

[00:22:25] [SPEAKER_00]: situation? Let us know your thoughts down in the comments below. Now if you have your own

[00:22:30] [SPEAKER_00]: preferably with updates along the way or a full story if you can over on r slash mark narrations

[00:22:36] [SPEAKER_00]: get involved share your stories there. Would totally love to see it and just a huge thank

[00:22:41] [SPEAKER_00]: you from the bottom of my heart for being here today getting involved in the stories,

[00:22:44] [SPEAKER_00]: your love support and time always means the absolute world to me so thank you so so much

[00:22:48] [SPEAKER_00]: and hopefully I will see you in the next one. Take care and much love.