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[00:00:57] throwaway united fordon who says I the asshole here for calling my boyfriend disgusting for knowing

[00:01:03] so much about his sister's periods boyfriend has read it but not completely sure if he is on this

[00:01:09] sub reason for throwaway might be a little confusing but please bear with me me and my

[00:01:15] boyfriend have been together for a year my boyfriend has been taken care of his siblings

[00:01:20] 16 female 12 female 11 male since his older sister was born when he was 18 he moved out of

[00:01:27] his parents house and took them with him he currently has custody over all his siblings

[00:01:33] he's a really hard worker and I haven't seen him or a sibling struggle at all they have all

[00:01:38] they need and as far as I know has never gone to bed hungry because of him one of the reasons

[00:01:43] I fell in love with him is because of his caring nature especially for his siblings

[00:01:48] not going to explain the whole dynamics but when I say taking care I mean he took care of them from

[00:01:54] buying food to helping with homework he did it all it was basically mum and dad for them

[00:02:00] they still finish school in the process his youngest brother even calls him dad his parents

[00:02:06] are the definition of dead beasts current situation with them is that they don't even

[00:02:11] know if their parents are alive and have no other family these four is all that he has left

[00:02:16] of the whole family I slept over at his house last night this morning around 6 a.m his sister 12

[00:02:23] female came into the kitchen crying hysterically she woke up with blood in her pants and freaked out

[00:02:29] she started her period my boyfriend got her to calm down and explain that she is all right

[00:02:35] and everything will be okay he then gave her a brief explanation of what is happening and

[00:02:40] that her body is changing he asked her to go take a shower to get cleaned up and told her

[00:02:45] where to find the pads his other sister 16 female is using and to use them as the oldest sister showed

[00:02:51] her when she left to go and take a shower he said shit I thought we'd have another year left

[00:02:57] I asked what he meant and he said his sister 16 started her period when she was 13 and he knows

[00:03:03] not all females and bodies are the same but he thought it would be around the same time

[00:03:08] so he was a bit unprepared for the discussion I was shocked with that comment and the fact

[00:03:13] that he knew his sister used pads why does he know when she started her fit period in the first place

[00:03:20] why does he know what she uses wanted to ask him why he knows this but kept the question to myself

[00:03:27] when his sister returned from her shower he asked if everything was all right and if she

[00:03:31] was having any discomfort I started to get disgusted when he asked that question he told

[00:03:37] her she doesn't have to go to school today and he will take her for some shopping after

[00:03:41] breakfast he sat her down in the living room and explained everything in detail to her regarding

[00:03:47] what is going on what will happen with all of it he said he helped the older sister with her first

[00:03:53] time and will help her as well he finished with saying that her sister 16 will be able to help her

[00:03:59] more with the type of products to use and how they work I was surprised shocked and disgusted

[00:04:05] about all the things he told her he was correct in everything that he told her but

[00:04:10] no brother should know that much about what is happening to his sister's bodies

[00:04:14] unfortunately his oldest sister wasn't at home to help she had a sleepover at a friend's due to

[00:04:20] a project for school so he took charge of explaining everything he must have seen the disgust in my

[00:04:27] face and asked me what is wrong and it just slipped out I told him you're a disgusting pig

[00:04:34] the words just kept coming out of my mouth and I couldn't stop talking I told him exactly

[00:04:39] what I thought about the situation that is disgusting that he knows that much especially

[00:04:44] about his own sisters and is now trying to coach the younger sister on what to do

[00:04:49] he just asked me to leave he didn't argue yell nothing just said leave my house I know

[00:04:55] I went about it in the wrong way but my stance is the same no brother should know that much

[00:05:00] about his own sister's body functions and I the asshole here edits if you don't believe

[00:05:07] me that is fine but don't comment I was there I said what I said I don't know what I can say

[00:05:13] other than what I know to prove this is real I just want to know if I'm the asshole here if my stance

[00:05:19] is correct and if I should apologize for everything I said seeing some of the comments I think you

[00:05:24] guys are not understanding my point I don't want to sound mean but he could have just called

[00:05:28] his sister to explain everything to her or better ask me to explain it to her it would

[00:05:33] have been a lot better if it came from another girl yes he explained everything correctly and even

[00:05:39] told her about the different products to use but said the other sister will explain those better

[00:05:44] as she is experiencing what actually works why didn't he ask me to explain anything to her I

[00:05:50] would have done it gladly there are certain things that should stay private and especially

[00:05:56] should not know now you started off with this post explaining what an absolute wonderful guy

[00:06:03] this is you love him for this very reason and then this guy starts explaining a totally normal

[00:06:11] bodily function to his younger sister showing her love and support telling him not to be worried

[00:06:18] and how to deal with it in that moment offering advice and this is very much a you problem

[00:06:24] you called him a disgusting pig for explaining this that says more about you than it does him

[00:06:30] he sounds like a wonderful supportive brother again you explained all of this in the very first part

[00:06:36] of your post and you can apologize to your boyfriend but to be quite honest I can't see

[00:06:42] forgiveness coming your way but who knows Danny Capps fan says your boyfriend has been

[00:06:47] pre-rentified to hell and it sounds as if he's doing a pretty damn good job taking care

[00:06:52] of his younger siblings given that their sperm and egg donors are in the wind I think all guys

[00:06:57] should have a basic understanding of what a period is and how it can affect girls and women

[00:07:01] it's a basic biological function that just about everyone born with a uterus experiences

[00:07:07] and if these guys are going to be dating women and they should be able to explain what a period

[00:07:11] is he probably knows about the past because he has to buy them for his 16 year old sister

[00:07:16] or at least is at the store with her when she gets them or he sees them in the bathroom

[00:07:21] and remember all the sister is the one who also showed younger sister the ropes

[00:07:26] he even said to her remember what sister told you what would you have him do when his younger

[00:07:31] sister woke up crying say sorry I can't help you wait until your sister gets home it had

[00:07:37] occurred to you to maybe help the kid when she was freaked out over a first period or did you

[00:07:42] just sit in judgment of a young man is doing the best he can to take care of his siblings

[00:07:47] even if it involves knowing things you don't think a guy should know you owe your boyfriend

[00:07:51] a huge apology you're the arsehole Liza says you're the arsehole you're too young and too immature

[00:08:00] men should all know how it works and he has a better reaction than you it's natural and

[00:08:04] there's no reason to be ashamed or disgusted by periods my son is 11 and with me and his

[00:08:10] sister having periods he knows what a pad is and when we have our period as we all eat chocolate

[00:08:15] but you also know that you have to take care of his siblings since they're young and that he has

[00:08:20] custody on them it was absolutely normal for him to know all those things leave him he deserves

[00:08:26] so much better than a judgmental little princess let them be in peace you're not good enough

[00:08:31] for that family and one more comment from external rip who says you're the arsehole your boyfriend

[00:08:36] is being a caretaker even if he wasn't basically their parents which he is they clearly trust

[00:08:42] him enough to share this information knowing what could be helpful for their health is what

[00:08:46] an empathetic family member does honestly more parents and families could stand to have better

[00:08:52] communication about periods rather than having disgust and shame so op did update their post and

[00:08:59] says i posted originally in another sub can't repost here because of rules another reddit has

[00:09:04] suggested i post here for advice original post is on my profile which we just read

[00:09:09] here's a summary of what happened when our ex basically is a parent mom and dad to his three

[00:09:14] younger siblings their parents are the definition of deadbeats moved out at 18 and has been taking

[00:09:19] care of them ever since hear the talk with this 12 year old sister about her period because she

[00:09:24] woke up one morning in a period started he calmed her down and took her through the talk

[00:09:29] i flipped out and told him he's a disgusting pig because no brother should know that much

[00:09:34] about his sister's body and he just told me to leave current events i went to his house to

[00:09:39] apologize to him and his little sister the 16 year old was there as well she slapped me

[00:09:45] and shouted at me calling me vile names my now ex got her to stop and send her to a room

[00:09:50] along with the other siblings i wanted to apologize but before i could even start

[00:09:55] he told me to keep my mouth shut and listen he forgave me before i even asked for forgiveness

[00:10:01] but said what he can't forgive is the fact that i basically turned his little sister against him

[00:10:06] making her doubt his intentions it took him almost a full day to get her to talk to him

[00:10:11] and she only talked to him after the 16 year old assured her that he did nothing wrong

[00:10:15] and only want to help her like he helped her his exact words were you turned one of my children

[00:10:21] against me and that is something i can't and will not forgive you were dead to me now get the

[00:10:26] fuck out of my house he said it was so much anger in his voice and i could see in his eyes that he

[00:10:32] absolutely hated me in that moment i was actually scared for myself in that moment

[00:10:37] i've talked to some of my friends about this but i'm losing my friends as well

[00:10:41] even my own sister is now refusing to talk to me yes in our house my father had nothing

[00:10:46] to do with our periods and my mom handled everything what should i have done i thought

[00:10:51] he did something wrong i can see i'm in the wrong but still why am i being punished for this

[00:10:57] his words really hurt me that is not fair i didn't even get a chance to explain myself

[00:11:02] or anything after he was done talking he again just kicked me out of his house

[00:11:07] i'm blocked everywhere and can't get a hold of him i even tried his sister's phone but

[00:11:11] i'm also blocked there how can i fix this relationship the other sub made me understand

[00:11:17] i actually had a diamond of a man and that i was wrong i want him back what can i do to get him back

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[00:12:35] i don't want to dismiss my actions but that is how i was raised my father had nothing to do

[00:12:40] with our periods all of it was dealt by our mother who weren't allowed to talk about our

[00:12:44] periods when our father was in the vicinity if we needed products or anything we had to go to our

[00:12:49] mother for it if we talked about anything relating to our periods pain discomfort our father would

[00:12:54] leave the room i remember once my father actually left the house because my sister complained about

[00:13:00] the pain during a period couple of top comments from that one not for commenting says you do

[00:13:05] not deserve him back you do not deserve to date any man ever given how quickly your mind

[00:13:10] interpreted good parenting as being inappropriate sexual interaction with a child any man will be

[00:13:16] a fool to date you let alone have children with you get the to a nunnery on just survey says

[00:13:22] she posted originally on mi the arsehole she got railed there for the last two days and still

[00:13:27] think she's going to get back together with him hope your reply 10 why i made a mistake i see that

[00:13:32] now i was raised like that thought for commenting and replying you're 26th you've been exposed

[00:13:38] to other families in real life on tv etc you can't blame your parents anymore for

[00:13:43] failing to know what is normal janet in spain says ooh my father would never have done that for me

[00:13:50] and he says that's a mistake and says and quotes again you're a disgusting pig and says

[00:13:55] that's unforgivable opi says i know that no need to remind me i love him and i know he

[00:14:01] still loves me too just watch i will get him back and all of you will be sucking it

[00:14:07] ugh theory me and i think you know if i was advising opi i'd just be saying you know it's time

[00:14:14] to move on now the way he spoke to you in that last moment i don't think you're getting him back

[00:14:18] i don't think i'd be able to forgive you for this at the same time your words you know

[00:14:22] you need to take this as an educational moment that you fucked up you need to learn from it

[00:14:27] and move on and just better yourself but what do you guys make of this situation let me know

[00:14:34] your thoughts down in the comments below and let's move on to another story

[00:14:41] and our next story does have an update as well from otherwise salt 737 from the am i the ars

[00:14:46] all here subreddit that says am i the ars all here for refusing a threesome with my girlfriend's

[00:14:51] best friend my girlfriend and her best friend have been friends for almost their entire adult

[00:14:57] lives and they've had threesomes with previous partners on both their sides now

[00:15:02] i didn't know this until recently as my girlfriend mentioned this like a week or so before she asked

[00:15:07] me to if i wanted now this may be where i messed up but my immediate answer was fuck no i'm never

[00:15:13] doing that i'm very monogamous and i'll be honest the idea of being shared or sharing simply

[00:15:20] grosses me out i don't think it's morally wrong or anything but it's just not for me

[00:15:25] apparently my girlfriend told her best friend and now the best friend is offended my girlfriend

[00:15:30] says i should apologize to her i don't think i did anything wrong here maybe i could have used

[00:15:35] better words but it's not like the best friend heard me key bullfrog says on this one not the ars

[00:15:40] all you should be able to have an unfiltered reaction with your partner give them a true and

[00:15:45] potentially raw response to something there are better ways to respond you reacted now you

[00:15:51] can respond my question is why did your girlfriend share your raw unfiltered reaction with her

[00:15:56] best friend if it's safe enough for threesomes it's safe enough for you to be honest or is it

[00:16:02] only safe when they want slash need this already feels out of balance good luck the user says there's

[00:16:09] no legitimacy behind being offended because your friend's boyfriend doesn't want to fuck you

[00:16:13] it's not your problem not the arsehole king norman says what they said you didn't say it

[00:16:18] to them and it's not your thing you did nothing wrong oh oops says how come this guy's not

[00:16:25] questioning his relationship in its future there are so many red flags pickel award says

[00:16:30] that's what i was thinking she's not her friend she's a lover and only a matter of time until

[00:16:35] she cheats with her and i was kind of thinking down that line as well it's like you just

[00:16:40] you got blindsided by your girlfriend asking you for a threesome with her best friend i was just

[00:16:47] like hold up wait a minute something ain't right i absolutely would not be apologizing either update

[00:16:56] two days later that says hello everyone i figured i should post an update after all the advice you

[00:17:00] all gave me so to start off i had a talk with my girlfriend and cleared some things up i told her i

[00:17:06] wasn't sorry for my decision or my reaction but i told her i had nothing to do with her friend

[00:17:11] i told her it didn't matter whom she suggested it would have been a no i didn't think about

[00:17:16] you all mentioned is what would happen to her friend ask for a threesome with her boyfriend

[00:17:20] her friend is single right now so it's not a current issue i asked my girl from what would

[00:17:25] happen if her friend asked her she said she had thought it'd be cool as the previous

[00:17:29] boyfriends were but after seeing my reaction she knows i wouldn't approve she then asked me why

[00:17:35] i didn't want a threesome with two women i told her i didn't like the idea of having sex

[00:17:39] with anyone but her i asked her if she needed to have threesome to be satisfied

[00:17:44] she tried to dodge the question and said i mean they're just fun you know and it's become a habit

[00:17:50] by now i told her it was a yes or no question she still wouldn't give me a straight answer

[00:17:56] i decided that our sexual needs are just too different and broke up with her

[00:18:00] i'm sad that out of everything that could cause a breakup this was it

[00:18:05] me not wanting to have sex with someone other than my girlfriend also to answer some of the

[00:18:10] comments no her friend wasn't ugly and a couple of top comments from that one so mad says still

[00:18:17] not the asshole in my opinion differing sexual desires is a very valid reason to break up though

[00:18:23] the commenter says not just the sexual incompatibility but the roping in of real feelings into

[00:18:28] something that she would later describe as fun and a habit that is what struck me the

[00:18:34] girlfriend trying to guilt opi about her friends feelings as if they were polyamorous or a

[00:18:38] thruple like he already owed the other girl something i did opi's private reaction have to

[00:18:44] be shared and commiserated over in such detail that it would elicit outraged reactions from both

[00:18:49] people one who was not even there and did not have to know just doesn't seem right

[00:18:56] opi did not sign up for the extra significant other that alone gave me a red flag and i think

[00:19:02] opi made the right decision potential pen says what i don't understand is that now that you're

[00:19:08] broken up you will inevitably pursue another sexual relationship with another woman so how is

[00:19:12] your previous statement tracking with reality you don't want sex with anyone but her by the way this

[00:19:18] is coming from someone who doesn't understand monogamy in the least is it going to take a while

[00:19:23] to become attracted to other women again is it like a switch you turn off once you break up

[00:19:28] is there a process to that opi says i'm a demi-sexual i think that's the term only

[00:19:34] feels sexually attracted to people have an emotional connection with i gotta be honest i didn't

[00:19:38] understand that last comment too much i found it a bit strange but maybe you got a different opinion

[00:19:44] on that but now i'm gonna turn this one to you guys what do you guys make of this situation

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