My Husband Accused Me Of Murder Out Of The Blue r/Relationships

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[00:00:35] [SPEAKER_00]: Thank you now. Our next story comes from throwaway not a killer and says my husband accused me of murder

[00:00:43] [SPEAKER_00]: How does the blue how do I salvage this?

[00:00:46] [SPEAKER_00]: This is long and ridiculous sorry my 30 female husband Luke the email had a sister

[00:00:53] [SPEAKER_00]: Laura 29 female

[00:00:55] [SPEAKER_00]: We were all closed in each other two to three times a month along with their parents

[00:01:00] [SPEAKER_00]: Almost six months ago Laura found down the stairs at their family home and died

[00:01:05] [SPEAKER_00]: There's a freak accident as a window on the half landing and she hit her head on the cell

[00:01:11] [SPEAKER_00]: I was the last person to see her. I was there for less than 10 minutes and she was in upper jamas making coffee

[00:01:17] [SPEAKER_00]: I didn't even stay for a drink and I struggled with how such a brief and meaningless interaction could have been our last

[00:01:24] [SPEAKER_00]: She deserved so much more

[00:01:26] [SPEAKER_00]: My husband and I have only been married for a year, but we've been together for four and no need each other for 20 plus

[00:01:32] [SPEAKER_00]: When Laura's parents found her they called my husband stray away and we rushed over

[00:01:37] [SPEAKER_00]: We faced the whole thing as a family in the days after Luke started quizzing me

[00:01:43] [SPEAKER_00]: Exactly what we talked about what she was wearing where we were standing et cetera

[00:01:47] [SPEAKER_00]: It progressed to saying I was providing conflicting information on tiny details

[00:01:53] [SPEAKER_00]: He was deliberately misunderstanding they're accusing me of withholding information because I couldn't tell him things like what pajamas she was wearing

[00:02:00] [SPEAKER_00]: This escalated quickly, but lasted for less than a week as I lost my call and made it clear that I was done answering questions

[00:02:08] [SPEAKER_00]: He didn't bring it up again and I wrote it off as a grief quirk

[00:02:13] [SPEAKER_00]: His behavior was generally that of a normal grieving person

[00:02:18] [SPEAKER_00]: Last Friday he outright accused me of murdering her in front of his parents out of the blue

[00:02:24] [SPEAKER_00]: We were all stunned. There was an inquest which recently concluded and there was never any doubt the verdict would be

[00:02:31] [SPEAKER_00]: Accidental death

[00:02:32] [SPEAKER_00]: He said it was completely obvious and he couldn't believe that no one else could see it

[00:02:36] [SPEAKER_00]: He claimed to went through his phone and found his messages with Laura

[00:02:39] [SPEAKER_00]: I've absolutely no idea what messages he's talking about

[00:02:43] [SPEAKER_00]: I've never looked at his phone and that I went over to confront her and things got out of hand

[00:02:48] [SPEAKER_00]: And I pushed her down the stairs

[00:02:50] [SPEAKER_00]: By the end he was shouting about going to the police and getting the inquest overturned

[00:02:54] [SPEAKER_00]: How I wasn't going to get away with it

[00:02:57] [SPEAKER_00]: Let me be clear

[00:02:58] [SPEAKER_00]: Laura and I had a great relationship

[00:03:01] [SPEAKER_00]: We all did

[00:03:02] [SPEAKER_00]: I have no idea where this came from other than these messages I haven't seen and even then

[00:03:07] [SPEAKER_00]: I don't think there's anything I could ever see on someone's phone that would drive me to murder

[00:03:11] [SPEAKER_00]: It's just ridiculous

[00:03:14] [SPEAKER_00]: He's been with his parents since has happened and will not talk to me at all

[00:03:18] [SPEAKER_00]: I've had some contact with his mum, but she's not been very communicative

[00:03:22] [SPEAKER_00]: The last I heard she didn't know what messages he was referring to either

[00:03:26] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm still completely stunned

[00:03:28] [SPEAKER_00]: I have no idea how to proceed

[00:03:30] [SPEAKER_00]: I made a commitment to be there for him always and I understand that grief can manifest in strange ways

[00:03:36] [SPEAKER_00]: But part of me feels like my love him died the second he called me a murderer

[00:03:40] [SPEAKER_00]: And I don't know how we could possibly work through this

[00:03:43] [SPEAKER_00]: I also really don't want to be thought of in this way

[00:03:46] [SPEAKER_00]: Now I have no idea if he has said anything to people we know

[00:03:49] [SPEAKER_00]: I obviously haven't

[00:03:51] [SPEAKER_00]: A brain tumour or psychotic break is crossed my mind and I suggested it to his mother

[00:03:55] [SPEAKER_00]: And she just said she'll talk to him

[00:03:58] [SPEAKER_00]: Other than the questions before he hasn't been acting odd

[00:04:01] [SPEAKER_00]: Obviously he's been grieving but he seemed sane and sensible other than this

[00:04:07] [SPEAKER_00]: I feel like I'm going mad

[00:04:08] [SPEAKER_00]: Does anyone have any advice at all?

[00:04:11] [SPEAKER_00]: I think the first thing would be just to get a lawyer in this situation if he's really going to go down this route

[00:04:16] [SPEAKER_00]: But the big question in this story is what were those messages that

[00:04:21] [SPEAKER_00]: You think it would send you that far over the edge to potentially murder someone

[00:04:26] [SPEAKER_00]: Wild

[00:04:27] [SPEAKER_00]: Moral Taxes fart no you don't salvage this

[00:04:30] [SPEAKER_00]: You get a lawyer and get the fuck out

[00:04:32] [SPEAKER_00]: Best case scenario he's just admitted to sending messages with a sister that any things would make you angry and

[00:04:38] [SPEAKER_00]: Enough to kill her over them

[00:04:39] [SPEAKER_00]: Have some ideas about what those might be and they're all bad

[00:04:43] [SPEAKER_00]: How did the parents react when he did this?

[00:04:46] [SPEAKER_00]: Bad to be a live says and it is his guilt slush fear of discovery of whatever's in those messages

[00:04:51] [SPEAKER_00]: That is causing him to make these accusations

[00:04:54] [SPEAKER_00]: Using anger as an offence mechanism

[00:04:57] [SPEAKER_00]: Someone said what do you think the message isn't hailed?

[00:05:00] [SPEAKER_00]: Someone replied that saying incest I don't know

[00:05:03] [SPEAKER_00]: I can't think of a single other thing it could be

[00:05:05] [SPEAKER_00]: The two of them insulting her wouldn't be enough

[00:05:08] [SPEAKER_00]: Honestly then being incestuous kind of explains everything

[00:05:12] [SPEAKER_00]: All be forever says initially I was thinking he was having enough fear in the sister was helping him

[00:05:17] [SPEAKER_00]: But wouldn't he then expect her to kill him and not the sister?

[00:05:21] [SPEAKER_00]: But that electronic locks as well OP they said they were really close

[00:05:25] [SPEAKER_00]: Maybe he thinks she got angry at the sister for not telling her

[00:05:28] [SPEAKER_00]: Wonderful prior says you need to get a lawyer to protect yourself in case he does go to the police

[00:05:34] [SPEAKER_00]: I write down everything that you can remember that's happened that day and keep it just in case

[00:05:39] [SPEAKER_00]: He may be having a psychotic break

[00:05:41] [SPEAKER_00]: A stated don't talk to him or is immediate family or your friends without someone present or

[00:05:46] [SPEAKER_00]: Preferably by text or email

[00:05:48] [SPEAKER_00]: Save everything need to take his accusation seriously and cover your ass

[00:05:54] [SPEAKER_00]: OP says I was interviewed by the coroner's office after a death that's also last person to see her

[00:06:00] [SPEAKER_00]: She died about three hours after I saw her not being to the supermarket and was home by that point

[00:06:06] [SPEAKER_00]: It's all very fireable and what's a recorded interview I'm

[00:06:09] [SPEAKER_00]: Spoken to anyone but his mother and that's only been ever messages

[00:06:13] [SPEAKER_00]: She's never been a big text there, but she seemed very cagey over the past few days

[00:06:18] [SPEAKER_00]: Don't know if this means she's seen the messages

[00:06:20] [SPEAKER_00]: I've asked them being ignored

[00:06:22] [SPEAKER_00]: Another comment is says I think they mean record everything you remember about the day you're soon to be executed of murder

[00:06:29] [SPEAKER_00]: OP says I'm feeling so freaked out at the idea they came up with this almost immediately after a death

[00:06:35] [SPEAKER_00]: And has either been sitting on it or planning his confrontation

[00:06:39] [SPEAKER_00]: But I'm basically trying to dissect the past six months

[00:06:42] [SPEAKER_00]: Maybe it's time I start writing things down right into what happened things felt very normal

[00:06:47] [SPEAKER_00]: Obviously her death has been felt deeply by all of us and things like anything like they were

[00:06:53] [SPEAKER_00]: There have been no signs of anything like this even on the day

[00:06:57] [SPEAKER_00]: Proper file can says where was he when a sister died which troublesome turn it replies right is

[00:07:03] [SPEAKER_00]: An assistant nature is looking at a real suspicious

[00:07:07] [SPEAKER_00]: OP added another post saying can I force my husband to get a mental health assessment and do I risk being arrested and prosecuted?

[00:07:14] [SPEAKER_00]: We're in England

[00:07:16] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm in a bizarre and complex situation with my husband

[00:07:19] [SPEAKER_00]: I've broken the law and I feel I have no choice but to do so again for my safety

[00:07:24] [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know what type of solicitor I need or what the next step should look like

[00:07:28] [SPEAKER_00]: We're in England and I try not to edit the tutorial eyes too much

[00:07:32] [SPEAKER_00]: I has been sister died suddenly at the start of the year the death was an accident and there was no

[00:07:37] [SPEAKER_00]: Suggestions of the contrary in quest was recently concluded in the verdict of accidental death return

[00:07:43] [SPEAKER_00]: I was the last person to see her but a time of death which was almost immediate due to her injury was confirmed to the hours after i'd left the house

[00:07:52] [SPEAKER_00]: All of this was verified at the time

[00:07:54] [SPEAKER_00]: And then media after math my husband bave strangely and kept trying to trip up my story the last time we saw each other

[00:08:01] [SPEAKER_00]: Which was a brief interaction

[00:08:03] [SPEAKER_00]: Last week months after this was first and last mentioned get reticused me of murder in front of his parents

[00:08:11] [SPEAKER_00]: He says I saw his messages with his sister and confronted her and that he's gonna have the coroner decision overturned and have the police

[00:08:17] [SPEAKER_00]: Investigate and seen or hope from him since today is day nine

[00:08:22] [SPEAKER_00]: I posted for advice on Reddit

[00:08:23] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm pretty desperate at this point and it has spooked me quite reasonably, I think

[00:08:28] [SPEAKER_00]: But also led me to committing a crime and planning another

[00:08:31] [SPEAKER_00]: My husband's eye cloud credentials was saved on his old iPad in his office. I downloaded his backup last night

[00:08:38] [SPEAKER_00]: I've read all of his messages with his sister. There is absolutely nothing like he describes

[00:08:43] [SPEAKER_00]: Understand this is illegal and I'm concerned about the possible ramifications

[00:08:47] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm also waiting for a callback from a locksmith to change a locks on the home

[00:08:51] [SPEAKER_00]: The end together which i believe is also against a law

[00:08:54] [SPEAKER_00]: Don't this leads me to my questions?

[00:08:57] [SPEAKER_00]: I feel justified in what I've done for my safety

[00:09:00] [SPEAKER_00]: There is a degree of pragmatism under the law for these issues because of the situation

[00:09:05] [SPEAKER_00]: Or am I shooting myself in the foot?

[00:09:07] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm resigned to the fact that my relationship is over but his parents don't seem to be taken this seriously and they're rising me out

[00:09:14] [SPEAKER_00]: I believe this is a serious mental health issue which may put people namely me at risk

[00:09:20] [SPEAKER_00]: I do anything about this when all I have is the fact that I'm being accused of murder

[00:09:25] [SPEAKER_00]: I feel it needs to be detained and this should be investigated as a full-blown psychotic break

[00:09:31] [SPEAKER_00]: Sorry, this is all a bit mental

[00:09:32] [SPEAKER_00]: In addition what type of solicitor do I need?

[00:09:36] [SPEAKER_00]: By understanding is that a coroner decision can't be appealed

[00:09:39] [SPEAKER_00]: Is that correct? Are there accusations going to go anywhere?

[00:09:42] [SPEAKER_00]: Can I protect myself from this or stop him escalating to telling others?

[00:09:47] [SPEAKER_00]: We live in our hometown and everyone knows everyone

[00:09:49] [SPEAKER_00]: This could follow me forever

[00:09:51] [SPEAKER_00]: And it's either a lie or a collusion

[00:09:53] [SPEAKER_00]: Any advice will be greatly appreciated

[00:09:56] [SPEAKER_00]: In no firefighter says to OP you are jumping ahead of yourself and playing out situations that have not occurred

[00:10:02] [SPEAKER_00]: If your husband reports you to the police for accessing his data and you are subsequently arrested

[00:10:07] [SPEAKER_00]: It'll take you in for questioning obtain the services of a criminal solicitor for advice

[00:10:12] [SPEAKER_00]: With respect of changing locks or ending your marriage seek a solicitor that deals with family law or into force

[00:10:18] [SPEAKER_00]: If you feel that you're at risk from your husband

[00:10:20] [SPEAKER_00]: Thought to a domestic abuse helpline if you feel you're at an immediate risk of harm then call the police

[00:10:25] [SPEAKER_00]: If you think your husband is mentally ill and presents a risk to himself or others

[00:10:29] [SPEAKER_00]: All the police

[00:10:30] [SPEAKER_00]: If he says what else can I do?

[00:10:33] [SPEAKER_00]: Is blocked me everywhere

[00:10:34] [SPEAKER_00]: And we went from a normal couple dealing with a new normal six months after the death of his sister

[00:10:39] [SPEAKER_00]: To me being accused of murder over a family dinner because of messages which clearly don't exist

[00:10:44] [SPEAKER_00]: That's been nine days and I've had nothing since

[00:10:47] [SPEAKER_00]: Can I remind you that the inquest was held and concluded?

[00:10:51] [SPEAKER_00]: I dropped off some top aware grabbed an umbrella

[00:10:53] [SPEAKER_00]: I'd left behind the previous week went to a big test go

[00:10:57] [SPEAKER_00]: Your food supermarket then went home and called my mom

[00:11:01] [SPEAKER_00]: I was already home by the time she had died

[00:11:03] [SPEAKER_00]: And my worry about is for extremely easy to verify because my husband was home all day

[00:11:08] [SPEAKER_00]: This obvious lady's going through some serious issues coping with her death of his sister

[00:11:12] [SPEAKER_00]: That is the exact point of all of this

[00:11:15] [SPEAKER_00]: I don't think that's a fair assessment in accused of arguably the most serious crime to exist has most definitely occurred

[00:11:22] [SPEAKER_00]: Mind the standing of the law is that something is illegal whether you're reported to the police or not

[00:11:27] [SPEAKER_00]: Those messages are evidence as far as I'm concerned

[00:11:30] [SPEAKER_00]: This accusations are false

[00:11:32] [SPEAKER_00]: It will apparently the trigger to me literally murdering someone was extremely close to

[00:11:37] [SPEAKER_00]: I've illegally accessed them and I don't think it's unreasonable to inquire as to the potential impact of that

[00:11:44] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm fully aware that I need to solicit that but as you're probably aware today is Sunday

[00:11:48] [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know if I need to seek someone out based on divorce

[00:11:51] [SPEAKER_00]: Which honestly if this is a mental health issue is not going to be something I go for

[00:11:55] [SPEAKER_00]: Or a criminal solicitor or someone who deals with a mental health act

[00:11:59] [SPEAKER_00]: That's my absolute priority preference is getting him assessed

[00:12:03] [SPEAKER_00]: My only exposure to legal system in my entire life was through the inquest and that is obviously

[00:12:08] [SPEAKER_00]: Completely different than any of this. I'm not educated in this area

[00:12:12] [SPEAKER_00]: Law person says no firefighter is giving good advice here

[00:12:16] [SPEAKER_00]: Oper you need to separate things out in your mind

[00:12:19] [SPEAKER_00]: Do any possible crime is as accessing his backup. I'm going through a process if it's reported and follow it up on

[00:12:25] [SPEAKER_00]: In fact, your husband thinks you've committed murder is totally separate to this

[00:12:28] [SPEAKER_00]: Ultimately if your husband accuses you a murder then goes for a process

[00:12:32] [SPEAKER_00]: This is not started

[00:12:34] [SPEAKER_00]: The current question seems to be one about mental health of your husband and two about changing locks

[00:12:39] [SPEAKER_00]: Dry action says change your own locks on your own house is not a crime

[00:12:44] [SPEAKER_00]: But he could then just have them changed again

[00:12:47] [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, it may not be the most useful thing to do

[00:12:50] [SPEAKER_00]: It has an expensive back and forth but maybe due as you've been gone for a while so he may not come back

[00:12:55] [SPEAKER_00]: As for the eye-cloud issue yes, it's an offense under the computer miss use act

[00:13:00] [SPEAKER_00]: Given this circumstances, it sounds extremely unlikely you'd be prosecuted

[00:13:04] [SPEAKER_00]: You did it to determine the extent of a health issue with a loved one help you help them

[00:13:08] [SPEAKER_00]: The prosecution is unlikely to be in the public interest as you described it

[00:13:13] [SPEAKER_00]: Just don't take it any further near the voice-loak in advice whether it can be used in proceedings

[00:13:18] [SPEAKER_00]: You can't force a mental health check just because that's for being detained

[00:13:22] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm not too sure of the process this far as I know

[00:13:26] [SPEAKER_00]: The police would need to see a real risk of danger to himself or someone else

[00:13:30] [SPEAKER_00]: Not just taking your word for it

[00:13:32] [SPEAKER_00]: A mental health issue definitely doesn't require detention just because it's a mental health related

[00:13:36] [SPEAKER_00]: Just contact the police explain everything

[00:13:39] [SPEAKER_00]: Maybe leave out the eye-cloud stuff and now an expression concern for your safety and

[00:13:44] [SPEAKER_00]: Re-replice in I agree

[00:13:45] [SPEAKER_00]: Ultimately, I hear a very very few cases of partner related snooping that ever gets reported as a crime

[00:13:51] [SPEAKER_00]: An OP's husband also has no reason to know about this unless he reports OP for murder

[00:13:56] [SPEAKER_00]: An OP needs to use the evidence as a defense

[00:14:00] [SPEAKER_00]: So seven days later OP came in with an update and said firstly

[00:14:03] [SPEAKER_00]: Thank you to those who helped me to get my husband's eye-clouds back up for an old iPad

[00:14:07] [SPEAKER_00]: Wasn't expecting much from Reddit, but I got valuable practical advice before my post was locked and I appreciated

[00:14:13] [SPEAKER_00]: There were no crazy or even suspicious messages. I've searched for over a hundred terms and scrolled back over the years

[00:14:20] [SPEAKER_00]: I saw a side of them both I wasn't expecting but nothing that explains the claim I murdered lower over their chance

[00:14:27] [SPEAKER_00]: Nothing to suggest he was cheating absolutely nothing to suggest

[00:14:31] [SPEAKER_00]: Insist I repeat no

[00:14:33] [SPEAKER_00]: Insist no weird gaps where deleted conversations or a switch to another app would fit just siblings making plans sending means in gossiping

[00:14:42] [SPEAKER_00]: They said unexpectedly horrible stuff about a few people and not me

[00:14:46] [SPEAKER_00]: The sort of relief, but it raised more questions than it answered

[00:14:50] [SPEAKER_00]: I saw legal advice

[00:14:51] [SPEAKER_00]: Also from Reddit after posting here

[00:14:54] [SPEAKER_00]: Turns out my options are divorce him or sit down

[00:14:58] [SPEAKER_00]: I contacted my community health team who said that reach out but made it clear it wasn't urgent

[00:15:04] [SPEAKER_00]: I think all this mum and said if I didn't hear from him by this weekend

[00:15:07] [SPEAKER_00]: I'll get a solicitor and ask for a mental health assessment as part of the divorce

[00:15:12] [SPEAKER_00]: In response he made a ridiculous post of Facebook

[00:15:15] [SPEAKER_00]: Which neither of us have used in years and everything blew up

[00:15:19] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm going to try and keep this succinct on Friday night

[00:15:22] [SPEAKER_00]: He made a long accusation on Facebook with new information

[00:15:26] [SPEAKER_00]: He said he'd been planning to leave me for months with his sister support

[00:15:29] [SPEAKER_00]: And I found the messages and murdered her

[00:15:32] [SPEAKER_00]: The coroner has opened the case and the police are preparing to arrest me

[00:15:37] [SPEAKER_00]: And he needs to make sure people know before the trial stops in talking about it

[00:15:41] [SPEAKER_00]: It was well written and received vaguely plausible

[00:15:44] [SPEAKER_00]: He messageed people links so it got some attention

[00:15:47] [SPEAKER_00]: We live in our hometown and have a large circle of friends because we've been here all our lives

[00:15:53] [SPEAKER_00]: He plavent spoken to the school we're reaching out to me asking what the fuck was going on

[00:15:57] [SPEAKER_00]: Was madness in response I posted the export of his entire conversation history was Laura

[00:16:03] [SPEAKER_00]: Also to Facebook when I finally got back in

[00:16:06] [SPEAKER_00]: I linked to the chat with a post explaining my side and noting that I had changed my exes

[00:16:11] [SPEAKER_00]: I-clild and Apple password and if you wanted them back he should comment on my post in update zone

[00:16:17] [SPEAKER_00]: Admitting that he was lying

[00:16:19] [SPEAKER_00]: Eventually did

[00:16:20] [SPEAKER_00]: When I started getting messages about his post

[00:16:23] [SPEAKER_00]: Panicked and changing his password seemed important to preserve everything because it no had access

[00:16:29] [SPEAKER_00]: And I spoke to him the next morning. It's clear he's not having a mental episode at all

[00:16:34] [SPEAKER_00]: But claiming one because he's been caught in a big lie

[00:16:37] [SPEAKER_00]: As soon as he was outed he called me clearly drunk

[00:16:41] [SPEAKER_00]: Begging and promising to explain everything if I deleted my post

[00:16:45] [SPEAKER_00]: I hung up and told him to call back the next day

[00:16:48] [SPEAKER_00]: He did after many miscores and texts

[00:16:50] [SPEAKER_00]: He tried to bargain and guiltrate me with his mental health until it was clear the wrong people had seen his

[00:16:56] [SPEAKER_00]: Conversation

[00:16:57] [SPEAKER_00]: It's hard to describe but it seemed fake was too well rehearsed

[00:17:01] [SPEAKER_00]: Then this morning when it was clear he was getting nowhere

[00:17:04] [SPEAKER_00]: Blocked me

[00:17:05] [SPEAKER_00]: Eying for mercy and reciting facts about mental disorders don't align with someone in a crisis

[00:17:11] [SPEAKER_00]: With a sincere belief that someone murdered their sibling

[00:17:14] [SPEAKER_00]: The question of why he did all this remains unanswered and he will not be getting as

[00:17:18] [SPEAKER_00]: Until it is the legal advice subreddit said that this stuff is technically illegal

[00:17:23] [SPEAKER_00]: But it's beneath the court to take action and I'm going to count on that because I felt like I had no other choice at the time

[00:17:30] [SPEAKER_00]: And now I don't see any other way to get answers from him. I'm desperate and it's all I've got

[00:17:35] [SPEAKER_00]: So there we are the relationship I've believed is my destiny since I was a teenager

[00:17:40] [SPEAKER_00]: That boiled down to petty

[00:17:42] [SPEAKER_00]: convoluted and vindictive bullshit laid out on social media a reason still unknown

[00:17:48] [SPEAKER_00]: I hope for a brain tumour is fading and clearly tomorrow is going to be when I lawyer up and stop posting about this

[00:17:54] [SPEAKER_00]: And mortify I have no idea whether some people might believe him

[00:17:58] [SPEAKER_00]: I still don't know why this will happen in the first place

[00:18:01] [SPEAKER_00]: Sorry, I didn't have a happier update and thanks once again to everyone who offered advice

[00:18:07] [SPEAKER_00]: But even budget says to OPE says wow I'm so sorry

[00:18:11] [SPEAKER_00]: This is not the update I expected because it's even more bizarre

[00:18:15] [SPEAKER_00]: Can you provide more info on how people reacted and why he confessed to lying without explaining why

[00:18:21] [SPEAKER_00]: It was obvious his post was fake is that it if you wanted a divorce this is the dumbest way ever to go about it

[00:18:28] [SPEAKER_00]: I just can't understand his sting in the talk again. I'm so sorry

[00:18:32] [SPEAKER_00]: I want to nightmare for you

[00:18:34] [SPEAKER_00]: OPE says he didn't react at all

[00:18:36] [SPEAKER_00]: He called me tens of times at that point and we had five conversations on the phone about it

[00:18:40] [SPEAKER_00]: He was laser focused on me deleting the chat lock from the get go

[00:18:44] [SPEAKER_00]: But when I made it clear that posting that comment and editing his original Facebook post was the only way to progress the conversation at all

[00:18:51] [SPEAKER_00]: He finally did it

[00:18:52] [SPEAKER_00]: Any went silent publicly as far as I can see but continue begging me behind the scenes

[00:18:58] [SPEAKER_00]: Other comment just says what on earth is in those chats that he's so desperate to keep people from seeing

[00:19:03] [SPEAKER_00]: And that would conceivably lead you to kill someone

[00:19:06] [SPEAKER_00]: Is there any chance they were using some kind of code or something

[00:19:09] [SPEAKER_00]: OPE says I think it was the fact that it proved a story false alongside the way they spoke about some people

[00:19:16] [SPEAKER_00]: It was really damaging stuff and I can see why he panicked

[00:19:19] [SPEAKER_00]: I did to do it to him but I really couldn't think of anything else because so many people had questions

[00:19:25] [SPEAKER_00]: He knows says um maybe I just read too many murder mystery novels

[00:19:29] [SPEAKER_00]: But does he have a good alibi for assist his death?

[00:19:32] [SPEAKER_00]: Scrap he says this this cross my mind first why so adamant on blaming his wife like

[00:19:38] [SPEAKER_00]: He has to find a perpetrator to divert suspicion away from himself

[00:19:42] [SPEAKER_00]: Why like pigeon says the case had been ruled an accident by the medical examiner

[00:19:47] [SPEAKER_00]: If he did do it it would be dumb to just reopen the case

[00:19:50] [SPEAKER_00]: Although he doesn't sound like he's the sharpest

[00:19:54] [SPEAKER_00]: My word that's absolutely madness

[00:19:58] [SPEAKER_00]: Many people think in this one he was just trying to get out of his marriage

[00:20:02] [SPEAKER_00]: He was trying to divorce OPE

[00:20:05] [SPEAKER_00]: What a wild way to go about it and what information is there that that we don't know about

[00:20:11] [SPEAKER_00]: Well, I said in these messages OPE seems to think that it's all pretty relatively normal stuff apart from you know

[00:20:18] [SPEAKER_00]: Winging about a few people here and there although that was could be damaging. It says that's mad

[00:20:23] [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know what to say here. What's your thoughts in this really curious what your comments are going to be on this?

[00:20:28] [SPEAKER_00]: What I'm certainly could be scrolling through and reading a few here. Let us know your thoughts down in the comments below

[00:20:34] [SPEAKER_00]: Let just a huge thank you from the bottom of my heart for getting them rolled into days stories

[00:20:38] [SPEAKER_00]: You'll love your support your time always means the absolute world to me

[00:20:42] [SPEAKER_00]: So thank you so so much and hopefully I'll see you in the next one take care and much love