My Ex Fiancee Attempted To Get My Wife To Cheat On Me r/Relationships

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[00:00:23] [SPEAKER_00]: Now today's first story comes from a throwaway account and asks, am I the asshole here?

[00:00:28] [SPEAKER_00]: My Ex Fiancee Tried To Get My Wife To Cheat On Me

[00:00:33] [SPEAKER_00]: I think my ex-fiancee, Jess, 31 female, might have tried to get my wife Olivia, 30 female,

[00:00:39] [SPEAKER_00]: drunk and cheat on me. My wife thinks I'm overreacting and overthinking the whole

[00:00:44] [SPEAKER_00]: situation. Can someone tell me if I would be the asshole to ask Olivia to stop being

[00:00:49] [SPEAKER_00]: friends with Jess immediately?

[00:00:52] [SPEAKER_00]: For context, Jess and I started dating during the sophomore year of our college.

[00:00:56] [SPEAKER_00]: We met through mutual friends and connected instantly. She was charming and outgoing and

[00:01:02] [SPEAKER_00]: made friends instantly everywhere she went. I am more shy and nerdy but I enjoyed going

[00:01:07] [SPEAKER_00]: out to parties with her. We got engaged on our graduation day as both our families

[00:01:12] [SPEAKER_00]: were attending. I got a job in a big tech company right after college and Jess moved

[00:01:16] [SPEAKER_00]: in with me while looking for jobs. This is when the relationship started going downhill.

[00:01:22] [SPEAKER_00]: Jess was an art major and had trouble finding a stable job. She did a bunch of freelance

[00:01:27] [SPEAKER_00]: work and mostly worked from home. I was overwhelmed with work. She always wanted

[00:01:32] [SPEAKER_00]: to go out to bars and clubs and I wanted to rest in the evening after 10-12 hours

[00:01:37] [SPEAKER_00]: of work. I was okay with her going out with friends alone and I would sometimes

[00:01:41] [SPEAKER_00]: tag along on the weekend. It bothered me that she was still in a party girl phase.

[00:01:47] [SPEAKER_00]: She complained that I was becoming boring and she'd enjoy my early 20s before

[00:01:51] [SPEAKER_00]: we settled down. I was also not happy with a friend she hung out with as there was a

[00:01:56] [SPEAKER_00]: lot of drinking and drug use. Even when I went out with her friends, she would be extremely

[00:02:01] [SPEAKER_00]: flirty with guys in her friends group. Her excuse was always that she gets flirty

[00:02:05] [SPEAKER_00]: when she is drunk or she was just joking. I had enough and decided to call off the

[00:02:10] [SPEAKER_00]: engagement after two years as we were just different people at that point. The

[00:02:14] [SPEAKER_00]: break up was messy and she kept trying to get back with me for almost a year.

[00:02:18] [SPEAKER_00]: There were some incidences where Jess may not have acted in her best judgment and I

[00:02:23] [SPEAKER_00]: blocked her from all my social media. I did not want to deal with the drama and

[00:02:27] [SPEAKER_00]: wanted to move on. I also got a transfer to another town around that

[00:02:30] [SPEAKER_00]: time and never heard from Jess again. As when I started dating my wife,

[00:02:36] [SPEAKER_00]: Olivia. My wife was the exact opposite of Jess. She was very soft-spoken and a

[00:02:42] [SPEAKER_00]: homebody like me. She knew I was engaged before. We dated for three

[00:02:46] [SPEAKER_00]: years and happily married for two years now. However, one of the sticking points

[00:02:50] [SPEAKER_00]: we always had was my Thursday nights. Three of my closest college friends are

[00:02:55] [SPEAKER_00]: now scattered all across the country and we generally play a video game

[00:02:59] [SPEAKER_00]: together on Thursday evenings since our college days. Olivia complained that she

[00:03:03] [SPEAKER_00]: does get bored during that time. About six months ago Olivia told me

[00:03:07] [SPEAKER_00]: she got a Facebook invite for a group where they had painting and wine nights

[00:03:11] [SPEAKER_00]: on Thursdays. It was mostly eight to ten women who got together at

[00:03:15] [SPEAKER_00]: spent the evening painting, drinking, wine and gossiping. According to Olivia it was

[00:03:20] [SPEAKER_00]: just a few housewives and divorcees and they welcomed her. One of the women's

[00:03:24] [SPEAKER_00]: names was Jess but I did not think much of it. Two weeks ago Olivia told me

[00:03:30] [SPEAKER_00]: it was Jess's birthday and they wanted to do a ladies night at a club.

[00:03:34] [SPEAKER_00]: Olivia hates loud music but Jess convinced her to come for dinner and

[00:03:38] [SPEAKER_00]: some drinks. On that night I got a call from Olivia at 10 p.m. asking if

[00:03:43] [SPEAKER_00]: I could come pick her up. I could tell something was wrong and immediately left

[00:03:47] [SPEAKER_00]: to pick her up. I went to the bar and went to pick up Olivia. I was shocked when

[00:03:52] [SPEAKER_00]: I realized that her friend Jess was my ex-fiance. She also looked surprised

[00:03:57] [SPEAKER_00]: to see me there. I was polite and said hello to everyone but Olivia wanted

[00:04:01] [SPEAKER_00]: to get out of there as soon as possible. After we went in the car I

[00:04:06] [SPEAKER_00]: told Olivia that Jess was my ex-fiance whom I had not seen for

[00:04:10] [SPEAKER_00]: almost seven years. Olivia was shocked to hear it as she did not know about it.

[00:04:15] [SPEAKER_00]: It was crazy since I did not even know she lived in the same city as us.

[00:04:19] [SPEAKER_00]: Olivia told me Jess was the one who had started the painting group. She

[00:04:23] [SPEAKER_00]: divorced her husband two years ago and moved to our city for a fresh

[00:04:26] [SPEAKER_00]: start. The reason why she called me was because she was getting

[00:04:30] [SPEAKER_00]: uncomfortable with the situation at the bar. Since Jess and one of the

[00:04:34] [SPEAKER_00]: other women were single they kept on encouraging guys hitting on them

[00:04:37] [SPEAKER_00]: and inviting them over to their table. Jess was trying to get everyone drunk

[00:04:41] [SPEAKER_00]: and was asking Olivia to open up and have fun. She was constantly hyping up

[00:04:46] [SPEAKER_00]: Olivia to two of the guys who bought them a round of drinks. At this point

[00:04:50] [SPEAKER_00]: Olivia excused herself to go to the restroom and called me to pick her

[00:04:54] [SPEAKER_00]: up. I'm not happy with the situation. I am also not mad at Olivia. I'm

[00:05:00] [SPEAKER_00]: just uncomfortable with Olivia hanging out with Jess. I told Olivia

[00:05:04] [SPEAKER_00]: about the same. Olivia told me that she was never going to put herself

[00:05:08] [SPEAKER_00]: in the same situation again with Jess or anyone else. Also this

[00:05:12] [SPEAKER_00]: friend group is the only real social life she has since we both are in

[00:05:16] [SPEAKER_00]: a completely new city. She does not want to stop going to her

[00:05:19] [SPEAKER_00]: painting nights with her friends. I brought up the thought that Jess

[00:05:22] [SPEAKER_00]: could be acting in malice but Olivia told me she did not think

[00:05:26] [SPEAKER_00]: Jess would know I was her husband as Olivia never showed my picture

[00:05:30] [SPEAKER_00]: to anyone in the group. She also said that it's been seven years

[00:05:33] [SPEAKER_00]: since we broke up. Jess is a kind person. I should not judge her

[00:05:37] [SPEAKER_00]: based on one night when she was drunk. She still wants to stay

[00:05:41] [SPEAKER_00]: friends with Jess. On one hand, I do not want to separate Olivia

[00:05:45] [SPEAKER_00]: from her friends but my gut feeling is telling me something is off

[00:05:48] [SPEAKER_00]: in this situation. Besides it feels weird to have my ex be

[00:05:52] [SPEAKER_00]: friends with my wife. Am I the asshole to want Olivia to stop

[00:05:56] [SPEAKER_00]: being friends with Jess because of my gut feeling or should I just

[00:05:59] [SPEAKER_00]: let it go as it's Olivia's call to make?

[00:06:03] [SPEAKER_00]: Now before I get started in my comment, there was one paragraph

[00:06:06] [SPEAKER_00]: that jumped out to me and I mean it's not part of the main story

[00:06:09] [SPEAKER_00]: really but about the Thursday night where he plays video games

[00:06:13] [SPEAKER_00]: with his friends and you know she's complaining that she gets

[00:06:17] [SPEAKER_00]: bored during that time. She can't entertain herself for a

[00:06:19] [SPEAKER_00]: few hours during one night of the week. Is that just me? Did

[00:06:23] [SPEAKER_00]: anyone else find that really weird? He wouldn't last two

[00:06:26] [SPEAKER_00]: minutes with me. I'm hobbying or gaming or something every

[00:06:29] [SPEAKER_00]: single night. I'm thinking multiple ways on this story. My

[00:06:32] [SPEAKER_00]: initial thoughts is that you know, where you just explain the

[00:06:35] [SPEAKER_00]: first part of the story Olivia's given you no reason not to

[00:06:39] [SPEAKER_00]: trust her. That she phoned you immediately when all this was

[00:06:42] [SPEAKER_00]: going down and wanted to remove herself from that

[00:06:44] [SPEAKER_00]: situation so just letting her deal with this in her own

[00:06:48] [SPEAKER_00]: way. I understand why you're uncomfortable with the

[00:06:50] [SPEAKER_00]: situation at the same time. As I always say I've seen one

[00:06:53] [SPEAKER_00]: too many Reddit stories and I got a bad feeling about Jess

[00:06:57] [SPEAKER_00]: in this situation. I'm wondering if Jess is friends

[00:07:00] [SPEAKER_00]: with Olivia on social media and has maybe seen this

[00:07:03] [SPEAKER_00]: relationship in the background. I mean Jess certainly

[00:07:06] [SPEAKER_00]: could be the type right? They look at their profiles and

[00:07:10] [SPEAKER_00]: put two and two together and then maybe stir up some

[00:07:13] [SPEAKER_00]: drama. I mean, I might be just going wild here with

[00:07:16] [SPEAKER_00]: the usual Reddit stuff but OP is saying themselves that

[00:07:20] [SPEAKER_00]: their gut feeling is telling them something is off. But

[00:07:23] [SPEAKER_00]: KatMD says to OP info, did Olivia tell this group that

[00:07:27] [SPEAKER_00]: she was married because if Jess knew she was married and

[00:07:30] [SPEAKER_00]: was trying to get her to cheat on you, even if she

[00:07:32] [SPEAKER_00]: didn't know it was specifically you, then that is

[00:07:35] [SPEAKER_00]: really really scummy. She should not be hanging out

[00:07:38] [SPEAKER_00]: with friends who encourage her to cheat on her spouse.

[00:07:41] [SPEAKER_00]: OP responds saying yes I know this because one of

[00:07:44] [SPEAKER_00]: the ladies in the painting group lives in our

[00:07:46] [SPEAKER_00]: neighborhood and she knows me as Olivia's husband.

[00:07:49] [SPEAKER_00]: Plus her Instagram and Facebook has all of our

[00:07:52] [SPEAKER_00]: pictures together. I also felt the same about Jess's

[00:07:55] [SPEAKER_00]: behavior. She made her uncomfortable to a point where

[00:07:57] [SPEAKER_00]: She had to call me to pick her up. She who nits says

[00:08:01] [SPEAKER_00]: not the asshole but you need to remain low key and

[00:08:04] [SPEAKER_00]: I'll let Olivia process this information. The painting

[00:08:07] [SPEAKER_00]: wine nights are harmless and the birthday bar night

[00:08:09] [SPEAKER_00]: could just be a one off and Olivia may choose to

[00:08:12] [SPEAKER_00]: not participate in one ever again. She also knew

[00:08:15] [SPEAKER_00]: how to handle the situation on her own. But she's

[00:08:17] [SPEAKER_00]: not a vulnerable naive wife fresh off the turnip

[00:08:20] [SPEAKER_00]: truck. Trust your wife. If she gets any mean

[00:08:23] [SPEAKER_00]: girl vibes off of Jess, she'll know how to

[00:08:26] [SPEAKER_00]: OP says that is the approach I am taking for now. I

[00:08:30] [SPEAKER_00]: do not really have any reason not to trust

[00:08:32] [SPEAKER_00]: Olivia. It's Jess who I don't trust. However, I

[00:08:35] [SPEAKER_00]: do not want to come out as an asshole and

[00:08:37] [SPEAKER_00]: insecure and asking her to stop seeing Jess. And

[00:08:40] [SPEAKER_00]: as a consequence of her friends group she does

[00:08:42] [SPEAKER_00]: not have a lot of friends and seems to enjoy

[00:08:44] [SPEAKER_00]: being with others. Plus the other women in her

[00:08:47] [SPEAKER_00]: group seem to be nice. Olivia told me it was a

[00:08:49] [SPEAKER_00]: lesson learned for her and would not put

[00:08:51] [SPEAKER_00]: herself in situations anymore where she goes to

[00:08:54] [SPEAKER_00]: She felt Jess did not act inappropriately since

[00:08:57] [SPEAKER_00]: she is single and allowed to flirt with guys.

[00:09:00] [SPEAKER_00]: Olivia just felt uncomfortable and removed

[00:09:02] [SPEAKER_00]: herself from the situation. But then around

[00:09:05] [SPEAKER_00]: three months later, OP comes in with an update

[00:09:09] [SPEAKER_00]: and says

[00:09:14] [SPEAKER_00]: Things were good since then but last week has

[00:09:16] [SPEAKER_00]: been crazy and I wish my wife were not as

[00:09:19] [SPEAKER_00]: naive to let Jess back into our lives. I

[00:09:21] [SPEAKER_00]: really need help on what I can do at this

[00:09:24] [SPEAKER_00]: For reference, I broke up with my ex-fiance Jess

[00:09:27] [SPEAKER_00]: seven years ago and have been together with

[00:09:28] [SPEAKER_00]: my wife for five years, married for two. After

[00:09:32] [SPEAKER_00]: the night of Jess's birthday where she tried

[00:09:34] [SPEAKER_00]: to get my wife drunk and flirt with

[00:09:35] [SPEAKER_00]: strangers had a long conversation with my

[00:09:38] [SPEAKER_00]: wife. I laid down why I was uncomfortable

[00:09:40] [SPEAKER_00]: with her hanging out with Jess. My wife

[00:09:43] [SPEAKER_00]: agreed with most of what I said but she

[00:09:45] [SPEAKER_00]: feels that enough time has passed now where

[00:09:47] [SPEAKER_00]: we can let things go. She also talked to

[00:09:50] [SPEAKER_00]: Jess and she told her she had no idea about

[00:09:52] [SPEAKER_00]: me and it's just one happy coincidence. Jess

[00:09:55] [SPEAKER_00]: also insisted to my wife that she moved on

[00:09:58] [SPEAKER_00]: with her life after our breakup, found love

[00:10:00] [SPEAKER_00]: and unfortunately the marriage did not last.

[00:10:03] [SPEAKER_00]: She told Olivia that maybe we could all go

[00:10:05] [SPEAKER_00]: out for dinner together and clear out the

[00:10:08] [SPEAKER_00]: issues. Jess also insisted that she was

[00:10:10] [SPEAKER_00]: just having fun at the bar and apologized

[00:10:13] [SPEAKER_00]: to my wife if her drunk behavior made her

[00:10:15] [SPEAKER_00]: uncomfortable. My wife asked me if I would

[00:10:18] [SPEAKER_00]: be okay with their friendship as she has

[00:10:20] [SPEAKER_00]: not found a social group in the new town

[00:10:21] [SPEAKER_00]: for a long time and Jess seems like a

[00:10:24] [SPEAKER_00]: changed person. She also told me that she

[00:10:26] [SPEAKER_00]: would only meet these women during her

[00:10:28] [SPEAKER_00]: out night and not go out on girls nights

[00:10:30] [SPEAKER_00]: or trips. I felt that as long as Olivia

[00:10:33] [SPEAKER_00]: was comfortable, I should not have any

[00:10:35] [SPEAKER_00]: reason to be worried. We also had dinner

[00:10:37] [SPEAKER_00]: with Jess once and Jess was very

[00:10:39] [SPEAKER_00]: friendly. She told me about what happened

[00:10:41] [SPEAKER_00]: in her marriage and how she is on a

[00:10:43] [SPEAKER_00]: healing journey right now. She also

[00:10:45] [SPEAKER_00]: apologized to me for her behavior during

[00:10:47] [SPEAKER_00]: our last few months together. Jess also

[00:10:49] [SPEAKER_00]: now owns a business and works as a

[00:10:51] [SPEAKER_00]: freelance artist and graphic designer.

[00:10:54] [SPEAKER_00]: Wuzzle So Gracious says we were just 23

[00:10:56] [SPEAKER_00]: and I harbor no ill feelings. My wife

[00:10:59] [SPEAKER_00]: also started hosting out nights at our

[00:11:01] [SPEAKER_00]: place once a month or so and I had to

[00:11:03] [SPEAKER_00]: move to my office for my game nights.

[00:11:05] [SPEAKER_00]: Last week after the out night, Jess

[00:11:08] [SPEAKER_00]: and one other lady hung back and we

[00:11:10] [SPEAKER_00]: were all drinking wine and chatting.

[00:11:12] [SPEAKER_00]: The other lady was asking questions

[00:11:14] [SPEAKER_00]: about Jess and I. Jess told her it

[00:11:16] [SPEAKER_00]: was old history and I went no contact

[00:11:19] [SPEAKER_00]: with Jess for four years. That was

[00:11:20] [SPEAKER_00]: the reason why she had no idea about

[00:11:22] [SPEAKER_00]: Olivia. Olivia looked at me and asked

[00:11:25] [SPEAKER_00]: Jess, you mean seven years ago right?

[00:11:27] [SPEAKER_00]: Jess said no. That was when we broke

[00:11:30] [SPEAKER_00]: up. However, we met every time I came

[00:11:32] [SPEAKER_00]: back to my hometown. I thought she

[00:11:35] [SPEAKER_00]: was drunk so I corrected her again

[00:11:37] [SPEAKER_00]: that it was seven years ago and she

[00:11:38] [SPEAKER_00]: was misremembering things. Jess said

[00:11:41] [SPEAKER_00]: maybe and we moved on. The next day

[00:11:44] [SPEAKER_00]: Jess sent a bunch of photos to my

[00:11:46] [SPEAKER_00]: wife of me and Jess hanging out. They

[00:11:49] [SPEAKER_00]: were just innocent photos like us

[00:11:50] [SPEAKER_00]: having dinner at a music festival,

[00:11:52] [SPEAKER_00]: working out together etc. The weirdest

[00:11:55] [SPEAKER_00]: part was I had a few tattoos on my

[00:11:56] [SPEAKER_00]: body that I got after I broke up

[00:11:58] [SPEAKER_00]: with Jess. I also never owned the

[00:12:01] [SPEAKER_00]: clothes the person in the photo was

[00:12:02] [SPEAKER_00]: wearing. Even the photos were

[00:12:04] [SPEAKER_00]: time stamped to four years ago.

[00:12:06] [SPEAKER_00]: Christmas 2019. Olivia freaked out

[00:12:10] [SPEAKER_00]: because we started dating in summer

[00:12:13] [SPEAKER_00]: 2019. I did make a trip alone to my

[00:12:16] [SPEAKER_00]: hometown in Christmas 2019. However,

[00:12:19] [SPEAKER_00]: I never met Jess. She started asking

[00:12:21] [SPEAKER_00]: me why I did not tell her about

[00:12:22] [SPEAKER_00]: meeting Jess. I tried to tell her

[00:12:24] [SPEAKER_00]: that these things never happened,

[00:12:26] [SPEAKER_00]: but she does not believe me. She

[00:12:29] [SPEAKER_00]: also called Jess and Jess told

[00:12:30] [SPEAKER_00]: her that we met because I was back

[00:12:32] [SPEAKER_00]: in town. However, we were just

[00:12:34] [SPEAKER_00]: platonic at that point and it's

[00:12:36] [SPEAKER_00]: not what my wife was thinking. I

[00:12:38] [SPEAKER_00]: confronted Jess and she told me

[00:12:39] [SPEAKER_00]: that I'm stupid to not tell Olivia

[00:12:41] [SPEAKER_00]: about meeting her and also not

[00:12:43] [SPEAKER_00]: telling her about Olivia. She says

[00:12:45] [SPEAKER_00]: that I told her I am still single.

[00:12:48] [SPEAKER_00]: Olivia is very angry at me. She's

[00:12:50] [SPEAKER_00]: not believing a word I am saying.

[00:12:52] [SPEAKER_00]: I kept on telling her that I've

[00:12:54] [SPEAKER_00]: not seen her for seven years.

[00:12:56] [SPEAKER_00]: Olivia says she does not mind me

[00:12:57] [SPEAKER_00]: meeting her, but I should have

[00:12:59] [SPEAKER_00]: told her as we were together. I

[00:13:01] [SPEAKER_00]: volunteered to show her all my

[00:13:03] [SPEAKER_00]: phone records during that time,

[00:13:04] [SPEAKER_00]: but they only go back to three

[00:13:06] [SPEAKER_00]: years on my carrier. I'm confused

[00:13:08] [SPEAKER_00]: how those photos can even exist

[00:13:10] [SPEAKER_00]: when I never met her. They are

[00:13:12] [SPEAKER_00]: definitely photos from when I was

[00:13:13] [SPEAKER_00]: with Olivia, as I look more

[00:13:15] [SPEAKER_00]: muscular in these pictures and

[00:13:16] [SPEAKER_00]: also have tattoos that I did not

[00:13:18] [SPEAKER_00]: have back then. I even told her

[00:13:20] [SPEAKER_00]: that she can call my friends and

[00:13:21] [SPEAKER_00]: family and ask them about the

[00:13:22] [SPEAKER_00]: trip, but she says that she has

[00:13:24] [SPEAKER_00]: all the photos of my trip and

[00:13:26] [SPEAKER_00]: my friends and family will cover

[00:13:27] [SPEAKER_00]: for me. Can someone please

[00:13:29] [SPEAKER_00]: help me on what I can do in

[00:13:30] [SPEAKER_00]: this case? I need to convince

[00:13:32] [SPEAKER_00]: Olivia that this is all false,

[00:13:34] [SPEAKER_00]: but she's just angry at me

[00:13:35] [SPEAKER_00]: and giving me the silent

[00:13:37] [SPEAKER_00]: treatment. I swear that I did

[00:13:39] [SPEAKER_00]: not meet Jess during that

[00:13:40] [SPEAKER_00]: trip and I'm caught up in this

[00:13:42] [SPEAKER_00]: mess without my fault.

[00:13:44] [SPEAKER_00]: Now, Opie focusing on the photos

[00:13:47] [SPEAKER_00]: and is adamant that he's not

[00:13:49] [SPEAKER_00]: on the photos, which brings me

[00:13:50] [SPEAKER_00]: back to Jess's job title.

[00:13:52] [SPEAKER_00]: And the top comment on that

[00:13:53] [SPEAKER_00]: one says the same.

[00:13:55] [SPEAKER_00]: So I'm just going to read their

[00:13:56] [SPEAKER_00]: comment, which is from

[00:13:58] [SPEAKER_00]: Forwardmost1933 and says

[00:13:59] [SPEAKER_00]: What in the Twilight Zone

[00:14:01] [SPEAKER_00]: is going on here?

[00:14:02] [SPEAKER_00]: Jess is a freelance artist

[00:14:04] [SPEAKER_00]: and graphic designer.

[00:14:06] [SPEAKER_00]: Has your wife not heard of

[00:14:07] [SPEAKER_00]: Photoshop?

[00:14:08] [SPEAKER_00]: Olivia is really naïve to

[00:14:10] [SPEAKER_00]: believe Jess has good

[00:14:11] [SPEAKER_00]: intentions here.

[00:14:12] [SPEAKER_00]: I suggest you remove Jess from

[00:14:14] [SPEAKER_00]: your lives immediately.

[00:14:15] [SPEAKER_00]: You and your wife need to

[00:14:16] [SPEAKER_00]: focus on your relationship.

[00:14:18] [SPEAKER_00]: Jess knows exactly how to

[00:14:20] [SPEAKER_00]: drive the wedge between you

[00:14:21] [SPEAKER_00]: two, using your wife's

[00:14:23] [SPEAKER_00]: longing for friends,

[00:14:24] [SPEAKER_00]: naivety and kindness

[00:14:25] [SPEAKER_00]: against her.

[00:14:26] [SPEAKER_00]: This is only going to spiral

[00:14:28] [SPEAKER_00]: more if Jess continues to

[00:14:29] [SPEAKER_00]: be in your lives.

[00:14:30] [SPEAKER_00]: I'd also be more upset at

[00:14:31] [SPEAKER_00]: Olivia for believing her

[00:14:33] [SPEAKER_00]: friend slash your ex over

[00:14:35] [SPEAKER_00]: her husband.

[00:14:36] [SPEAKER_00]: Opie responded saying,

[00:14:38] [SPEAKER_00]: I tried to convince my wife

[00:14:39] [SPEAKER_00]: it might be Photoshopped.

[00:14:40] [SPEAKER_00]: My wife wants to believe me,

[00:14:42] [SPEAKER_00]: but after watching the photos

[00:14:43] [SPEAKER_00]: and checking every possible

[00:14:45] [SPEAKER_00]: thing, she does not trust

[00:14:46] [SPEAKER_00]: me anymore.

[00:14:47] [SPEAKER_00]: I also tried to find any

[00:14:49] [SPEAKER_00]: inconsistencies in the

[00:14:50] [SPEAKER_00]: photos that might make it

[00:14:51] [SPEAKER_00]: seem that way.

[00:14:52] [SPEAKER_00]: However, everything just

[00:14:53] [SPEAKER_00]: looked right.

[00:14:54] [SPEAKER_00]: Even the letters in my

[00:14:55] [SPEAKER_00]: tattooed on my arm look

[00:14:56] [SPEAKER_00]: correct in one of the

[00:14:57] [SPEAKER_00]: pictures from gym where

[00:14:58] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm in workout clothes.

[00:15:00] [SPEAKER_00]: Opie was also told about

[00:15:02] [SPEAKER_00]: a website that looks for

[00:15:04] [SPEAKER_00]: Photoshopped artifacts

[00:15:06] [SPEAKER_00]: within photos and directed

[00:15:07] [SPEAKER_00]: there.

[00:15:09] [SPEAKER_00]: Tanya says your ex's

[00:15:11] [SPEAKER_00]: deceit is unsettling,

[00:15:12] [SPEAKER_00]: but your priority should

[00:15:13] [SPEAKER_00]: be regaining your

[00:15:14] [SPEAKER_00]: wife's trust.

[00:15:15] [SPEAKER_00]: Open up, provide evidence

[00:15:17] [SPEAKER_00]: and emphasize your honesty.

[00:15:19] [SPEAKER_00]: Clear communication is

[00:15:20] [SPEAKER_00]: your best tool in this

[00:15:21] [SPEAKER_00]: situation.

[00:15:22] [SPEAKER_00]: Opie says I am trying to

[00:15:24] [SPEAKER_00]: looking for any

[00:15:25] [SPEAKER_00]: contradicting evidence.

[00:15:26] [SPEAKER_00]: My wife is open to

[00:15:27] [SPEAKER_00]: listening to me,

[00:15:28] [SPEAKER_00]: but she also has pictures

[00:15:29] [SPEAKER_00]: in front of her that

[00:15:30] [SPEAKER_00]: show otherwise.

[00:15:32] [SPEAKER_00]: If I were in her shoes,

[00:15:33] [SPEAKER_00]: it would be hard not

[00:15:34] [SPEAKER_00]: to believe them.

[00:15:35] [SPEAKER_00]: Mary says also the

[00:15:37] [SPEAKER_00]: metadata from the

[00:15:38] [SPEAKER_00]: digital photo should

[00:15:39] [SPEAKER_00]: provide proof enough.

[00:15:41] [SPEAKER_00]: Your ex is a graphic

[00:15:42] [SPEAKER_00]: artist.

[00:15:43] [SPEAKER_00]: She likely knows a way

[00:15:44] [SPEAKER_00]: around photo editing

[00:15:45] [SPEAKER_00]: software.

[00:15:46] [SPEAKER_00]: Let's also not forget

[00:15:47] [SPEAKER_00]: AI images and how

[00:15:49] [SPEAKER_00]: convincing they can be.

[00:15:51] [SPEAKER_00]: Opie says I check for

[00:15:52] [SPEAKER_00]: metadata,

[00:15:52] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm also in tech

[00:15:53] [SPEAKER_00]: and checked everything

[00:15:54] [SPEAKER_00]: I could.

[00:15:55] [SPEAKER_00]: Everything, including

[00:15:56] [SPEAKER_00]: pixels around my face

[00:15:57] [SPEAKER_00]: look correct.

[00:15:58] [SPEAKER_00]: Nova Prime says look,

[00:16:00] [SPEAKER_00]: if your wife is

[00:16:01] [SPEAKER_00]: willing to believe Jess

[00:16:02] [SPEAKER_00]: after everything she has

[00:16:03] [SPEAKER_00]: done, then you're

[00:16:04] [SPEAKER_00]: honestly better off

[00:16:05] [SPEAKER_00]: without her.

[00:16:06] [SPEAKER_00]: Olivia's desperate need

[00:16:07] [SPEAKER_00]: for friendship is

[00:16:08] [SPEAKER_00]: blinding her to

[00:16:08] [SPEAKER_00]: what's going on.

[00:16:10] [SPEAKER_00]: This would honestly be

[00:16:11] [SPEAKER_00]: a deal breaker for me.

[00:16:12] [SPEAKER_00]: What's Jess going

[00:16:13] [SPEAKER_00]: to accuse you of next?

[00:16:15] [SPEAKER_00]: Pulse abuse accusations?

[00:16:17] [SPEAKER_00]: Olivia is not going

[00:16:18] [SPEAKER_00]: to have your back.

[00:16:19] [SPEAKER_00]: This isn't something

[00:16:19] [SPEAKER_00]: therapy is going to fix.

[00:16:21] [SPEAKER_00]: Your wife trusts

[00:16:22] [SPEAKER_00]: your psycho ex over you.

[00:16:24] [SPEAKER_00]: The relationship is

[00:16:25] [SPEAKER_00]: already done.

[00:16:26] [SPEAKER_00]: Protect yourself and

[00:16:27] [SPEAKER_00]: move on from both of them.

[00:16:29] [SPEAKER_00]: I would also consider

[00:16:30] [SPEAKER_00]: speaking to the police

[00:16:31] [SPEAKER_00]: about the harassment

[00:16:32] [SPEAKER_00]: from Jess because

[00:16:33] [SPEAKER_00]: I think this might get

[00:16:34] [SPEAKER_00]: worse before it gets better.

[00:16:35] [SPEAKER_00]: Possibly even hire

[00:16:36] [SPEAKER_00]: someone to confirm

[00:16:37] [SPEAKER_00]: edited photos,

[00:16:39] [SPEAKER_00]: not be arsehole.

[00:16:41] [SPEAKER_00]: OP responds saying

[00:16:42] [SPEAKER_00]: I understand my wife

[00:16:43] [SPEAKER_00]: and those photos look real.

[00:16:45] [SPEAKER_00]: Also what I do not get

[00:16:46] [SPEAKER_00]: is she is accusing me

[00:16:47] [SPEAKER_00]: of just platonically

[00:16:48] [SPEAKER_00]: hanging out with her

[00:16:49] [SPEAKER_00]: and nothing more.

[00:16:50] [SPEAKER_00]: She told my wife

[00:16:51] [SPEAKER_00]: that it was nothing

[00:16:52] [SPEAKER_00]: and we just hang out

[00:16:52] [SPEAKER_00]: a few times when I met her.

[00:16:54] [SPEAKER_00]: I do not know

[00:16:55] [SPEAKER_00]: what her end game is here.

[00:16:57] [SPEAKER_00]: Also in no circumstances

[00:16:58] [SPEAKER_00]: am I ready to lose Olivia?

[00:17:00] [SPEAKER_00]: She's my better half

[00:17:01] [SPEAKER_00]: and I love her.

[00:17:02] [SPEAKER_00]: I wish she trusted me

[00:17:03] [SPEAKER_00]: a bit more and not believe

[00:17:04] [SPEAKER_00]: that I hung out with Jess

[00:17:05] [SPEAKER_00]: four years ago when we met.

[00:17:06] [SPEAKER_00]: It is all just giving me

[00:17:08] [SPEAKER_00]: a weird vibe.

[00:17:10] [SPEAKER_00]: Aggravating tack says

[00:17:11] [SPEAKER_00]: because she's planting a seed,

[00:17:13] [SPEAKER_00]: your wife will assume

[00:17:14] [SPEAKER_00]: the worst without her

[00:17:15] [SPEAKER_00]: verbalizing it over time.

[00:17:17] [SPEAKER_00]: Or maybe she will reveal

[00:17:18] [SPEAKER_00]: that you both did sleep

[00:17:19] [SPEAKER_00]: and she didn't say it before

[00:17:21] [SPEAKER_00]: to not tear you both apart.

[00:17:22] [SPEAKER_00]: You need to tell

[00:17:23] [SPEAKER_00]: her she's bad news.

[00:17:24] [SPEAKER_00]: She's a digital artist.

[00:17:26] [SPEAKER_00]: Believe me,

[00:17:27] [SPEAKER_00]: it's easy as hell

[00:17:28] [SPEAKER_00]: to edit photos to look real.

[00:17:29] [SPEAKER_00]: Add in AI so that

[00:17:30] [SPEAKER_00]: you cannot tell them apart

[00:17:31] [SPEAKER_00]: without the trained eye.

[00:17:33] [SPEAKER_00]: And even that fails sometimes.

[00:17:35] [SPEAKER_00]: If your wife doesn't believe

[00:17:36] [SPEAKER_00]: you after that explanation,

[00:17:37] [SPEAKER_00]: she never will.

[00:17:39] [SPEAKER_00]: If someone doesn't want

[00:17:40] [SPEAKER_00]: to believe you,

[00:17:41] [SPEAKER_00]: it will make up reasons

[00:17:42] [SPEAKER_00]: to not believe you.

[00:17:44] [SPEAKER_00]: And clearly this story

[00:17:46] [SPEAKER_00]: is far from over.

[00:17:49] [SPEAKER_00]: And it could go multiple ways.

[00:17:52] [SPEAKER_00]: If Olivia keeps Jess

[00:17:53] [SPEAKER_00]: in their friendship group,

[00:17:55] [SPEAKER_00]: I can't see

[00:17:56] [SPEAKER_00]: this relationship lasting.

[00:17:57] [SPEAKER_00]: Jess is up to no good.

[00:17:59] [SPEAKER_00]: It's trying to ruin

[00:18:00] [SPEAKER_00]: their marriage.

[00:18:01] [SPEAKER_00]: And Olivia,

[00:18:02] [SPEAKER_00]: because of whatever insecurities

[00:18:04] [SPEAKER_00]: that she's got going

[00:18:05] [SPEAKER_00]: in her life,

[00:18:05] [SPEAKER_00]: like one of the comments said,

[00:18:07] [SPEAKER_00]: her longing for friendship

[00:18:08] [SPEAKER_00]: is believing her

[00:18:09] [SPEAKER_00]: is believing her

[00:18:11] [SPEAKER_00]: over her own husband.

[00:18:13] [SPEAKER_00]: And like many of the comments says,

[00:18:15] [SPEAKER_00]: the tools that

[00:18:16] [SPEAKER_00]: programs like Photoshop

[00:18:17] [SPEAKER_00]: provide make it easy

[00:18:19] [SPEAKER_00]: to do this kind of stuff

[00:18:20] [SPEAKER_00]: these days.

[00:18:22] [SPEAKER_00]: In my previous job,

[00:18:23] [SPEAKER_00]: it was part of my

[00:18:24] [SPEAKER_00]: it was part of my job to,

[00:18:26] [SPEAKER_00]: you know, touch up photos

[00:18:27] [SPEAKER_00]: or whatever of products.

[00:18:29] [SPEAKER_00]: And you get these photos

[00:18:30] [SPEAKER_00]: where of these products

[00:18:31] [SPEAKER_00]: that look like absolute shit.

[00:18:33] [SPEAKER_00]: But then after a bit

[00:18:34] [SPEAKER_00]: of Photoshop touching up,

[00:18:35] [SPEAKER_00]: filters, etc.

[00:18:37] [SPEAKER_00]: They look decent.

[00:18:38] [SPEAKER_00]: They say that you can't

[00:18:39] [SPEAKER_00]: polish a turd,

[00:18:40] [SPEAKER_00]: but you can on Photoshop

[00:18:41] [SPEAKER_00]: and the photos may

[00:18:43] [SPEAKER_00]: look legit

[00:18:44] [SPEAKER_00]: and it may have

[00:18:46] [SPEAKER_00]: a questioning things,

[00:18:47] [SPEAKER_00]: but to instantly believe Jess

[00:18:48] [SPEAKER_00]: after I hope he already raised

[00:18:50] [SPEAKER_00]: his concerns about Jess

[00:18:51] [SPEAKER_00]: to Olivia to begin with,

[00:18:53] [SPEAKER_00]: not listening to him

[00:18:54] [SPEAKER_00]: or seeing that, you know,

[00:18:55] [SPEAKER_00]: she's a freelance graphic designer.

[00:18:57] [SPEAKER_00]: She's got the skills to do this.

[00:19:00] [SPEAKER_00]: And just believing her over him

[00:19:01] [SPEAKER_00]: would piss me off

[00:19:03] [SPEAKER_00]: to be quite frank.

[00:19:04] [SPEAKER_00]: But the question is as well,

[00:19:05] [SPEAKER_00]: what is Jess's end game in this?

[00:19:08] [SPEAKER_00]: Is she trying to get OP back?

[00:19:10] [SPEAKER_00]: It doesn't make sense

[00:19:11] [SPEAKER_00]: with the way she's going about it

[00:19:13] [SPEAKER_00]: because she's destroying a marriage.

[00:19:15] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, she needs to do that

[00:19:16] [SPEAKER_00]: to get with him, sure.

[00:19:17] [SPEAKER_00]: But he's also just

[00:19:18] [SPEAKER_00]: going to piss him off.

[00:19:20] [SPEAKER_00]: Or is it one of those situations

[00:19:22] [SPEAKER_00]: where some some people

[00:19:23] [SPEAKER_00]: just want to see the world burn?

[00:19:26] [SPEAKER_00]: What do you guys make

[00:19:27] [SPEAKER_00]: of this situation?

[00:19:29] [SPEAKER_00]: Let me know your thoughts

[00:19:30] [SPEAKER_00]: down in the comments below

[00:19:32] [SPEAKER_00]: and let's have one more story.

[00:19:35] [SPEAKER_00]: Our next story comes from

[00:19:36] [SPEAKER_00]: a throwaway account,

[00:19:38] [SPEAKER_00]: which is titled I 30 female

[00:19:40] [SPEAKER_00]: just heard a phone notification

[00:19:42] [SPEAKER_00]: in the bathroom while sharing alone.

[00:19:44] [SPEAKER_00]: Should I ask my fiance

[00:19:45] [SPEAKER_00]: 33 male about it?

[00:19:48] [SPEAKER_00]: So my fiance and I

[00:19:49] [SPEAKER_00]: have been together for four years,

[00:19:51] [SPEAKER_00]: engaged for one.

[00:19:53] [SPEAKER_00]: I was taking a relaxing bath

[00:19:54] [SPEAKER_00]: this evening to enjoy the silence

[00:19:56] [SPEAKER_00]: and let the bathroom fan

[00:19:58] [SPEAKER_00]: drown out all the outside noise.

[00:20:00] [SPEAKER_00]: My phone was on silent

[00:20:01] [SPEAKER_00]: and I wasn't wearing earbuds.

[00:20:03] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm deep in a meditative

[00:20:05] [SPEAKER_00]: state in the bath when I'm jarred

[00:20:07] [SPEAKER_00]: by a phone text or email

[00:20:08] [SPEAKER_00]: notification sound clear as day

[00:20:10] [SPEAKER_00]: coming from inside the bathroom.

[00:20:12] [SPEAKER_00]: I got up immediately like what the fuck?

[00:20:15] [SPEAKER_00]: I checked my phone,

[00:20:16] [SPEAKER_00]: even though I knew it was silent

[00:20:17] [SPEAKER_00]: and there was no notifications.

[00:20:19] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm kind of worried at this point

[00:20:21] [SPEAKER_00]: and just feel a sinking in my stomach.

[00:20:23] [SPEAKER_00]: I get dressed and look through

[00:20:25] [SPEAKER_00]: every crevice box, cabinet,

[00:20:27] [SPEAKER_00]: drawer and plumbing fixture

[00:20:29] [SPEAKER_00]: in the bathroom to find nothing.

[00:20:31] [SPEAKER_00]: I know for a fact

[00:20:32] [SPEAKER_00]: I did not just hear it in my brain.

[00:20:34] [SPEAKER_00]: It was a distinct Android

[00:20:35] [SPEAKER_00]: boop boop boop boop

[00:20:38] [SPEAKER_00]: which we don't have any androids.

[00:20:41] [SPEAKER_00]: Before anyone asks,

[00:20:42] [SPEAKER_00]: yes, I check my carbon monoxide levels.

[00:20:45] [SPEAKER_00]: Lol, they are fine.

[00:20:46] [SPEAKER_00]: I have no mental illnesses.

[00:20:48] [SPEAKER_00]: My question is what do I do?

[00:20:50] [SPEAKER_00]: Do I even bring this up to my fiance?

[00:20:52] [SPEAKER_00]: I sound crazy.

[00:20:53] [SPEAKER_00]: I don't want to be accusatory,

[00:20:54] [SPEAKER_00]: but my first thought was a second

[00:20:57] [SPEAKER_00]: phone hidden by him in the bathroom.

[00:20:59] [SPEAKER_00]: I couldn't imagine he could ever cheat,

[00:21:01] [SPEAKER_00]: but you can never be too vigilant

[00:21:02] [SPEAKER_00]: when something random

[00:21:04] [SPEAKER_00]: and unexpected like this happens.

[00:21:06] [SPEAKER_00]: Should I just wait

[00:21:07] [SPEAKER_00]: and see if it happens again?

[00:21:08] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm not going to lie.

[00:21:10] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm a little paranoid

[00:21:11] [SPEAKER_00]: and have been convinced of myself

[00:21:12] [SPEAKER_00]: I manifested the noise,

[00:21:14] [SPEAKER_00]: but I know in my gut it was real.

[00:21:16] [SPEAKER_00]: Where else would I even look though?

[00:21:18] [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, there was just a string of comments

[00:21:20] [SPEAKER_00]: between someone and OP.

[00:21:22] [SPEAKER_00]: KzA says, I don't get it.

[00:21:24] [SPEAKER_00]: OP says OK, imagine you're alone

[00:21:26] [SPEAKER_00]: in the bath

[00:21:26] [SPEAKER_00]: and hear a notification very close

[00:21:28] [SPEAKER_00]: by in the room

[00:21:29] [SPEAKER_00]: when nobody has left their phone there.

[00:21:31] [SPEAKER_00]: And it's not your phone making the noise

[00:21:33] [SPEAKER_00]: and you look to see

[00:21:34] [SPEAKER_00]: where the noise came from

[00:21:35] [SPEAKER_00]: and don't find anything.

[00:21:37] [SPEAKER_00]: What do you do next?

[00:21:38] [SPEAKER_00]: KzA replies saying I'd assume

[00:21:40] [SPEAKER_00]: I imagined it,

[00:21:41] [SPEAKER_00]: just like when I feel a phantom

[00:21:43] [SPEAKER_00]: vibration in my pocket.

[00:21:45] [SPEAKER_00]: OP says that's what I'm trying

[00:21:46] [SPEAKER_00]: to play it off as,

[00:21:47] [SPEAKER_00]: as it was just very distinct

[00:21:49] [SPEAKER_00]: and not quiet.

[00:21:50] [SPEAKER_00]: Also, not a notification sound

[00:21:51] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm familiar with.

[00:21:53] [SPEAKER_00]: I truly feel like I didn't

[00:21:54] [SPEAKER_00]: randomly hear a notification

[00:21:55] [SPEAKER_00]: I've heard like two other times

[00:21:57] [SPEAKER_00]: in my life.

[00:21:58] [SPEAKER_00]: KzEd says did he hear it?

[00:22:01] [SPEAKER_00]: OP says no, he wasn't home at the time.

[00:22:04] [SPEAKER_00]: I just checked the vents

[00:22:04] [SPEAKER_00]: and see nothing.

[00:22:06] [SPEAKER_00]: I've never heard any neighbours

[00:22:07] [SPEAKER_00]: through my bathroom before.

[00:22:09] [SPEAKER_00]: KzA says probably nothing

[00:22:11] [SPEAKER_00]: and OP says I guess.

[00:22:14] [SPEAKER_00]: But of course it was something.

[00:22:17] [SPEAKER_00]: OP came in with an update

[00:22:18] [SPEAKER_00]: sometime later

[00:22:19] [SPEAKER_00]: and says my first post

[00:22:20] [SPEAKER_00]: didn't get a ton of activity,

[00:22:22] [SPEAKER_00]: but I was made to feel

[00:22:23] [SPEAKER_00]: like a crazy person by most people.

[00:22:25] [SPEAKER_00]: And for some reason,

[00:22:26] [SPEAKER_00]: some of my comments

[00:22:27] [SPEAKER_00]: were either deleted

[00:22:28] [SPEAKER_00]: or just didn't appear on the post.

[00:22:30] [SPEAKER_00]: Anyways, I did not talk

[00:22:32] [SPEAKER_00]: to my fiance about it

[00:22:33] [SPEAKER_00]: because I found the phone

[00:22:34] [SPEAKER_00]: before your home.

[00:22:35] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I tore the bathroom apart

[00:22:37] [SPEAKER_00]: again like a madman.

[00:22:38] [SPEAKER_00]: But this time I checked

[00:22:39] [SPEAKER_00]: behind the toilet tank

[00:22:40] [SPEAKER_00]: between the wall.

[00:22:42] [SPEAKER_00]: We have about a two inch gap

[00:22:44] [SPEAKER_00]: and mounted on the back of the tank

[00:22:45] [SPEAKER_00]: was one of those

[00:22:46] [SPEAKER_00]: one dollar Timu holder things

[00:22:48] [SPEAKER_00]: that you peel off

[00:22:49] [SPEAKER_00]: and stick onto something

[00:22:50] [SPEAKER_00]: to hold items.

[00:22:51] [SPEAKER_00]: The phone was placed inside

[00:22:53] [SPEAKER_00]: of that sticky mounted thing.

[00:22:55] [SPEAKER_00]: Definitely not my phone

[00:22:56] [SPEAKER_00]: and obviously it was meticulously

[00:22:58] [SPEAKER_00]: placed there.

[00:22:58] [SPEAKER_00]: Well, my fiance and I broke up.

[00:23:01] [SPEAKER_00]: The password was the same

[00:23:02] [SPEAKER_00]: as his computer that we shared,

[00:23:04] [SPEAKER_00]: so I unlocked it

[00:23:05] [SPEAKER_00]: while trying to stifle

[00:23:06] [SPEAKER_00]: an anxiety attack

[00:23:07] [SPEAKER_00]: and found Snapchat conversations

[00:23:09] [SPEAKER_00]: with at least three

[00:23:10] [SPEAKER_00]: different women.

[00:23:11] [SPEAKER_00]: The notification sound

[00:23:12] [SPEAKER_00]: I heard lined up

[00:23:13] [SPEAKER_00]: with a most recent snap

[00:23:14] [SPEAKER_00]: sent to him of a woman's

[00:23:16] [SPEAKER_00]: bare privates asking

[00:23:17] [SPEAKER_00]: when he can come stuff it again.

[00:23:19] [SPEAKER_00]: In a rage,

[00:23:20] [SPEAKER_00]: I smashed the phone

[00:23:21] [SPEAKER_00]: and text my fiance

[00:23:22] [SPEAKER_00]: to come home immediately.

[00:23:24] [SPEAKER_00]: He came home

[00:23:24] [SPEAKER_00]: and already looked pale

[00:23:25] [SPEAKER_00]: like he knew.

[00:23:26] [SPEAKER_00]: I asked him,

[00:23:27] [SPEAKER_00]: how fucking long has this been going on?

[00:23:29] [SPEAKER_00]: And he refused to answer anything.

[00:23:31] [SPEAKER_00]: I told him to pack his crap and leave.

[00:23:33] [SPEAKER_00]: As he walks out with his backpack,

[00:23:35] [SPEAKER_00]: I hear him mutter,

[00:23:36] [SPEAKER_00]: I knew I forgot to silence it.

[00:23:38] [SPEAKER_00]: So yeah, I wasn't crazy.

[00:23:40] [SPEAKER_00]: I actually heard a notification

[00:23:41] [SPEAKER_00]: and he was fucking cheating.

[00:23:43] [SPEAKER_00]: Now my whole world is upside down

[00:23:45] [SPEAKER_00]: and I don't know

[00:23:46] [SPEAKER_00]: where to go from here.

[00:23:47] [SPEAKER_00]: I just can't believe this.

[00:23:49] [SPEAKER_00]: I fell asleep crying

[00:23:50] [SPEAKER_00]: and woke up in a daze

[00:23:51] [SPEAKER_00]: feeling like everything was normal

[00:23:52] [SPEAKER_00]: until I remembered.

[00:23:54] [SPEAKER_00]: So not a very fun update.

[00:23:56] [SPEAKER_00]: Sorry.

[00:23:57] [SPEAKER_00]: Single Vacation says to OP,

[00:23:59] [SPEAKER_00]: so he probably keeps it in there

[00:24:00] [SPEAKER_00]: because he used it

[00:24:01] [SPEAKER_00]: when he was in the bathroom.

[00:24:03] [SPEAKER_00]: Otherwise,

[00:24:03] [SPEAKER_00]: there'd be much better places

[00:24:05] [SPEAKER_00]: to keep it hidden.

[00:24:06] [SPEAKER_00]: OP says that's exactly

[00:24:07] [SPEAKER_00]: what I think happened.

[00:24:09] [SPEAKER_00]: He did take really long showers,

[00:24:10] [SPEAKER_00]: sometimes two to three times a day.

[00:24:13] [SPEAKER_00]: Single Vacation says,

[00:24:15] [SPEAKER_00]: OK,

[00:24:15] [SPEAKER_00]: that was already very weird.

[00:24:17] [SPEAKER_00]: So he wasted a lot of water

[00:24:18] [SPEAKER_00]: that was just running

[00:24:19] [SPEAKER_00]: while he texted chicks on Snap.

[00:24:21] [SPEAKER_00]: OP says, well, apparently

[00:24:22] [SPEAKER_00]: it was the perfect spot to hide a phone

[00:24:23] [SPEAKER_00]: because stuff dated back almost a year.

[00:24:26] [SPEAKER_00]: Fucking wish it was fake seriously.

[00:24:30] [SPEAKER_00]: And now I'm going to turn this one

[00:24:32] [SPEAKER_00]: to you guys.

[00:24:33] [SPEAKER_00]: What do you guys make of this situation?

[00:24:36] [SPEAKER_00]: Let us know your thoughts

[00:24:37] [SPEAKER_00]: in today's stories

[00:24:38] [SPEAKER_00]: and just a huge thank you

[00:24:40] [SPEAKER_00]: for being here today,

[00:24:41] [SPEAKER_00]: getting involved in the stories

[00:24:42] [SPEAKER_00]: or love your support your time

[00:24:44] [SPEAKER_00]: always means the absolute world to me.

[00:24:46] [SPEAKER_00]: And thank you for being here

[00:24:47] [SPEAKER_00]: and hopefully I'll see you

[00:24:49] [SPEAKER_00]: in the next one.

[00:24:50] [SPEAKER_00]: Take care and much love.