My Cousin Has Been Involving Me In Her "Habit" So I Removed Her Birthday Invite r/Relationships

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[00:01:03] Now today's first story comes from Neeth and says am I the asshole here?

[00:01:07] I tell her my mother I will not invite my cousin to my birthday because of her.

[00:01:12] Habit.

[00:01:13] My 23 female mother, 51 female, is berating me for not wanting to invite my cousin.

[00:01:21] 24 female to my birthday party. The thing is, my cousin and her boyfriend have this habit, kink really, and they do not stop

[00:01:30] sneaking off to have sex.

[00:01:32] Sometimes semi publicly, sometimes in public.

[00:01:35] I was invited to a birthday six months ago.

[00:01:38] It was at a restaurant, and when they bought the cake, they were nowhere to be found.

[00:01:43] My uncle, Mum's brother, and her father sent me to look for her, and I found them having

[00:01:48] sex in his car.

[00:01:50] In the middle of the parking lot, and she saw me and smiled and waved, laughing with

[00:01:55] her boyfriend.

[00:01:57] This was not the first time something like this happened.

[00:02:00] As I later found out, my uncle sent me because he didn't want to catch his daughter in the

[00:02:04] act again.

[00:02:06] And her friends already knew of this habit, so they refused to engage in their fantasies

[00:02:10] of being caught.

[00:02:12] I took my things and left, and my mother scolded me because she said her cousin was upset and

[00:02:17] embarrassed that I just left with a disgusted face, and that her friends backed me up.

[00:02:22] Some left too.

[00:02:23] I told my mum what happened and she told me

[00:02:26] I should have endured to not cause a scene, but I told her that I am a grown woman and

[00:02:31] I could have left even without a reason. Now, my birthday is in a week and I may plan for

[00:02:37] a weekend out within my grandmother's beach house and she has given me permission to use

[00:02:41] it and bring my friends. I sent out the invitations and when my cousin found out,

[00:02:46] because my uncle told her,

[00:02:47] haven't heard it from my mum,

[00:02:49] she was confused as to why she didn't receive one.

[00:02:51] I told her I love her, but I didn't want her there

[00:02:54] because my friends are bringing her boyfriends too,

[00:02:57] as am I, and I don't want them to have to endure her

[00:03:00] and her boyfriends kink because it will make us uncomfortable.

[00:03:03] I told her it's one thing to have sex and it's another to engage other people in their

[00:03:08] sex life without their consent.

[00:03:10] She was furious, saying that I was excluding her and that she wouldn't do it on my birthday,

[00:03:15] but I laughed and told her she did it on her own birthday so I didn't believe it and I

[00:03:20] would rather not risk her ruining my party.

[00:03:22] So she went complaining to my mum about it and she tried to force me.

[00:03:28] And since I live on my own and pay my own bills, she couldn't.

[00:03:31] So she went to my grandmother to try and convince her to not let me use the health, but I'd

[00:03:36] already told my nana everything and she dismissed her.

[00:03:39] So now my mum, my aunt and my cousin are all bothering me about it.

[00:03:44] I think I have a right to invite whoever I want, but maybe I was too harsh.

[00:03:49] Me and my cousin were really close friends, but these past months I've been pulling

[00:03:52] away from her and I feel a little bad.

[00:03:55] So I'm I the arsele here.

[00:03:58] English is not my first language so I may have explained some things a little weirdly.

[00:04:03] Messy Posten says not the asshole in quotes.

[00:04:06] My mother scolded me because she said my cousin was upset and embarrassed that I just left

[00:04:10] with a disgusting face.

[00:04:12] And then says, what the hell did she expect you to do?

[00:04:15] Grinn and give them a thumbs up?

[00:04:17] Start masturbating at the site?

[00:04:19] Try to join in.

[00:04:20] Leaving with a disgusted face is the normal reaction to walking in on a family member having

[00:04:24] sex. Avoiding that family member is the normal reaction to walking in on a family member having sex.

[00:04:25] Avoiding that family member is the normal reaction to finding out that family member

[00:04:29] has been attempting to expose you and others to their sexual activities unwillingly.

[00:04:34] Your cousin is gross, immoral and out of line.

[00:04:37] Having a kink is fine.

[00:04:39] Engaging in the kink with a wear and willing third parties is fine.

[00:04:42] Forcing the kink on non-consenting third parties is unacceptable.

[00:04:46] Forcing the king on your own family members is just disgusting.

[00:04:51] What?

[00:04:52] What exactly does she get off on being seen in the act by her own relatives?

[00:04:56] Cersei needs to grow up and learn to kink responsibly.

[00:05:02] And your mum just needs to grow up.

[00:05:04] Period. needs to grow up and learn to kink responsibly and your mum just needs to grow up, period.

[00:05:05] Definitely keep this weird girl and her boyfriend away from your party.

[00:05:09] Hope he says not Cersei.

[00:05:12] I have to say, not to defend her.

[00:05:14] That involving relatives was a miscalculation when it was her father and me.

[00:05:19] Well, she admitted that she thought it wasn't such a big deal since we're really close

[00:05:23] up to that point, but yeah, it's pretty gross, so I don't want to expose my friends

[00:05:27] to it.

[00:05:28] But get regret one day says ooh.

[00:05:30] Not more for a healthy sex life, but the minute you need to shock other people with

[00:05:34] it, I draw the line.

[00:05:35] It's beyond inappropriate to have sex in the middle of a party in such a way that you

[00:05:40] want other people to catch you.

[00:05:42] I kind of can't infringe on other people's rights, and I think you had other people to catch you. That kind of king infringes on other people's rights and I think you had every reason to

[00:05:46] leave her off your guest list and tell her why.

[00:05:49] Maybe suggest your mum host your cousin and boyfriend that weekend so she can play this

[00:05:53] weird game.

[00:05:54] I'm just astonished that everyone is trying to pressure you to invite these people knowing

[00:05:59] their history, not the Arso.

[00:06:02] Opie says she's telling me that she has promised to not do it.

[00:06:06] Or just not bring her boyfriend.

[00:06:07] But I know my cousin.

[00:06:09] She's very bold and impulsive and her relationship is relatively new.

[00:06:13] So she might try to flirt or hook up with one of my friends' boyfriends because she

[00:06:17] has cheated before.

[00:06:19] On her long-term boyfriend, which I know is unfair and she might not do it but I do not

[00:06:23] want any drama on my

[00:06:25] birthday. And it makes me feel a little selfish.

[00:06:30] Awesome kids mom says not the asshole. Look, even your uncle knows this is her normal behavior,

[00:06:35] and I applaud you for setting a boundary with your family. It's a difficult thing to do.

[00:06:39] Don't cave, but tell your mom. Make it up to your cousin, you're going to arrange

[00:06:44] for her, and the boyfriend can stay with her. Then she can have the pleasure of her having sex around the

[00:06:48] house in hopes of getting caught. One more comment from a person 1852 says,

[00:06:53] If someone's kink involves non-consensual actions of other people, then the kink is sexual assault.

[00:07:00] Doing it in public and getting off on people catching you, in the act is no different than a guy in

[00:07:04] a coat flashing someone walking by. If they get off on it then there are actual

[00:07:08] groups where you can set up a bunch of scenarios to fill your kink. If cousin really needs it,

[00:07:13] so the other person that clueless, that kink is messed up and disgusting. Even more so that

[00:07:18] she likes doing it to family members. The OP does come back into the post to give an update and says, okay, so first of all I

[00:07:25] want to thank everyone who wished me a happy early birthday.

[00:07:29] I really appreciated it.

[00:07:31] And there's some things I want to clarify.

[00:07:32] For some reason some of the people who commented seem to believe my mother is invited to the

[00:07:36] party.

[00:07:37] She's not.

[00:07:38] We will have our own mother door today after.

[00:07:41] Some people also had a problem with my Nana having a beach house,

[00:07:45] like weird thing to focus on, but okay. Some people were really rude about the way I handled

[00:07:50] everything or to my mother, which I didn't really appreciate. I've been told that has

[00:07:55] read it for you, so I guess I shouldn't know when posting here. It's a little bit of a

[00:07:59] disappointing update, but well, I showed my mother my post and she was appalled at the

[00:08:05] translate everything for her. She wasn't all too happy that I had decided to share a family matter

[00:08:10] with internet strangers, but when I told her that my cousin was sharing something much more

[00:08:14] private to the public, she dropped the issue. She apologized for trying to pressure me into

[00:08:18] inviting her. Like I said in the comments, she only knew that I called her one time,

[00:08:23] but there was some miscommunication because she thought I'd just caught her in the bathroom

[00:08:27] at the restaurant, not the parking lot, but just still bad but like at least there's

[00:08:32] doors.

[00:08:33] I told her over the phone and she's a little hard of hearing so I believe her.

[00:08:37] She called my uncle, her brother, cousin's father and tore him a new one after she learned

[00:08:41] that he sent me to find cousin knowing what I would find.

[00:08:44] I'm not saying anything when she and his wife were bothering me, knowing the reason

[00:08:49] why his daughter is not invited.

[00:08:51] My cousin has blocked me on everything and I don't really care but it's weird because

[00:08:56] fuck did I do.

[00:08:58] Oh and it turns out that my aunt did know what her daughter was up to.

[00:09:02] She just thinks that it's her private issues, which is kind of ironic because, well, me and my mother have decided to leave it for now as it is,

[00:09:10] and we've gone low contact with them. She's really weirded out.

[00:09:14] That's all for now. Thank you for all that kind and helpful comments.

[00:09:18] Can't help but think that the cousin's going to end up in a lot of trouble one day with what

[00:09:23] she does. I'm for OP in this, I think her going no contact and blocking you isn't a bad thing in this

[00:09:30] situation, she pretty much solved your issue for you.

[00:09:34] Family member doing that to you is all sorts of crazy.

[00:09:37] But now I'm going to turn this one to you guys, what would you do if you found yourself

[00:09:42] in that situation?

[00:09:43] Let us know your

[00:09:45] thoughts down in the comments below. And let's move on to another story.

[00:09:50] And our next story does come with an update as well from a throwaway account that says

[00:09:55] I am IVR soul for abandoning my mother-in-law in a parking lot full of watching people.

[00:10:01] I female 26 and must stay at home mum. I pick up my daughter after school.

[00:10:06] My husband, male 35, takes her two school in the mornings

[00:10:09] on the way to his work.

[00:10:11] Mother-in-law got divorced a couple of months ago

[00:10:13] and not so subtly complained to my husband

[00:10:15] that she was lonely.

[00:10:16] So my husband insisted that we have her over every weekend.

[00:10:21] Mother-in-law and I don't get along.

[00:10:23] For example, mother-in-law has always made

[00:10:25] snide remarks about me being a teenage mum, but I learned to ignore it since my husband

[00:10:29] asked me to keep the peace. When she began coming over, she would make comments about

[00:10:34] how dusty the floor was, how much laundry was in the basket, etc., hinting that I should

[00:10:40] be doing more housework as a stay-at- home mum. The final straw was when she commented about her daughter's academic abilities, saying stuff about how she's below-standing

[00:10:49] academic level and blaming me for not putting in the effort to teach her.

[00:10:54] After a big argument, my husband finally agreed that only he would visit Mother-in-law at

[00:10:58] her home. Mother-in-law and I haven't spoken to each other since. Mother-in-law's catalytic

[00:11:04] converter got stolen yesterday, hasn't got them fixed yet. My husband drove her to work this morning

[00:11:10] and asked me to pick her up. I said no. Mother-in-law works fairly close to our daughter's school,

[00:11:16] about a 15-minute walk. In the middle of the day, my husband sends me a text saying that he

[00:11:21] convinced Mother-in-law to walk to our daughter's school, I can pick up both of them. I arrive at my daughter's school and see Mother-in-law with daughter.

[00:11:28] I walk up to them and tell Mother-in-law she can find a way home. I'm not going to give her a lift.

[00:11:34] She started to create a scene and other parents and children were starting to stare.

[00:11:38] So I took my daughter by the hand and drove away.

[00:11:41] I was been yelled at me when he got home, saying that I embarrassed mother-in-law in

[00:11:45] front of the other parents and left her stranded when I could have easily driven her home.

[00:11:49] It really wouldn't have been much work to drive her home one time and I'm regretting

[00:11:53] causing a scene at my daughter's school because her classmates and their parents might have

[00:11:57] seen it.

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[00:13:00] When we start in the comments,

[00:13:01] we'll ignore you who says, everyone sucks here.

[00:13:03] You should have had an out conversation with your mother-in-law about your boundaries

[00:13:07] and how you won't tolerate her demeaning you with her comments.

[00:13:10] The state of your home when your child's education is not her business and she can

[00:13:14] leave those subjects alone.

[00:13:15] But instead you make your point by leaving her at your kid's school without any way

[00:13:19] of getting home.

[00:13:20] But get it, she's a pain in the ass but acting like a child doesn't help the situation.

[00:13:25] Your husband knows how you feel.

[00:13:28] He knows how his mother feels and still put you in a position of having to drive her home.

[00:13:32] You all suck.

[00:13:34] Response will judge, replies that saying, hmm, I don't get your judgement.

[00:13:37] In quotes that last comment saying you should have had an adult conversation with your mother

[00:13:41] in law and says true, maybe she tried to have it with her, but we don't know because her husband

[00:13:46] enabled mother-in-law's behavior and told,

[00:13:49] well asked his wife to keep the peace.

[00:13:51] Meaning don't say anything so there won't be a fight.

[00:13:54] Quotes the comment again and says,

[00:13:55] the state of your home and child's education

[00:13:57] is not a business and says true,

[00:13:59] but the past showed OP that her husband

[00:14:01] asked her to keep the peace with mother-in-law

[00:14:03] by enabling her behavior towards his wife. Quotes again saying,

[00:14:07] You make your point by leaving her at your kid's school and says OP never agreed or

[00:14:10] communicated with mother-in-law about that. Just a husband and she said no.

[00:14:14] No discussion or stuff. No was the answer. Quotes saying,

[00:14:18] Without anywhere getting home. And says, I call this BS. You know,

[00:14:22] bus, taxi, slash cap, Uber and stuff.

[00:14:26] Mother-in-law is an adult, not a little abandoned child.

[00:14:28] And of course again saying by acting like a child doesn't help the situation.

[00:14:32] And it says which situation, what childish act.

[00:14:35] I think OP made her boundaries clear to her husband.

[00:14:38] He was playing a foul game, not OP.

[00:14:42] Just saying.

[00:14:44] Next commenter says not the asshole, I was going to go everyone sucks here, but then I realized

[00:14:48] your husband was an adult who knocked up a teen and that led his mother treat his wife

[00:14:52] horribly for years. You said no, he heard no, he manipulated you anyway. Your mother

[00:14:58] and Laura spent years trying to humiliate you. I'm not going to call you an asshole

[00:15:01] when you finally were able to draw boundaries. She knows full well what she was doing all those years. Your husband knows too. He just

[00:15:08] doesn't care. This has always been a husband problem. He doesn't stand up for you and

[00:15:12] he doesn't care that you said no. He still thinks that you're a teen and he's an adult

[00:15:16] and therefore he can manipulate you. He would rather keep mummy happy than respect you.

[00:15:21] There's a reason older guys are with younger women, and you feel the

[00:15:25] repercussions years later. You have matured and are better able to stand up for yourself

[00:15:30] and he just doesn't respect that.

[00:15:34] Solid Bookkeeper says everyone sucks here but your husband more so than anyone else.

[00:15:38] Your husband shouldn't have put you in that position. Edit to add, he tried to trap, major

[00:15:43] strike against him. Your mother and all needs to butt out of your marriage.

[00:15:47] Another strike, your husband because he should have shut that down immediately.

[00:15:51] It really wouldn't have been the end of the world if you drove her home.

[00:15:54] And yet another strike against your husband because, again, he shouldn't have put you

[00:15:58] in a position let alone be mad at you.

[00:16:00] As I pointed, a no-eatle frustrated, yes, but not mad.

[00:16:04] He should have just shook his head at you and then probably turned to his mother and told

[00:16:07] her, her words and actions have consequences.

[00:16:10] Head it to add, he's also allowed his mother to bully you for being a teenage mum when

[00:16:15] he was the one who got you pregnant.

[00:16:18] Another user says everyone sucks here, her husband put you in a rough situation and it

[00:16:22] sounds like he keeps putting you second to his mother. especially knowing that you and your mother in all don't get

[00:16:27] along that she's actively insulting his wife. That said, it was probably rough for your

[00:16:32] kid to be in that situation at school in front of her peers. As it wasn't her fault either.

[00:16:37] You might have been the smartest to just take them both home and then have that conversation

[00:16:41] there so your kid could be kept out of it. But it's probably hard to think of what to do in that moment. You shouldn't have been

[00:16:46] put in that situation in the first place, so I'm sorry you had to deal with that.

[00:16:51] And I wasn't only everyone sucks here so I was more definitely not the asshole, I feel like

[00:16:57] she's the one who's been treating you badly all the way through this and then expect them

[00:17:02] favours from you. I know for a fact I wouldn't give someone that I dislike favours, even to keep the piece

[00:17:08] as they say.

[00:17:10] But I hope he did come into the post with an update and says, I read it.

[00:17:14] I started this update took so long, but I just signed the last out of divorce papers

[00:17:18] and wanted to share with the sub.

[00:17:20] I took the top comments advice and tried to have a conversation with my ex-husband and

[00:17:24] his mother.

[00:17:25] But they both just yelled at me, would not listen to anything I said.

[00:17:28] My ex-husband even went back on his agreement to not invite her over.

[00:17:33] Apparently this was my punishment for disobeying him and embarrassing his mother.

[00:17:37] I should also mention that this post came like a year later.

[00:17:41] For a few months I stayed with my best friend on the weekends and she convinced me to divorce him. But because I was a stay at home mum, I needed a steady source of income.

[00:17:50] Early 2023 we started a candle making business on Etsy. It was really rough the first few

[00:17:56] months but began to gain traction and I finally told my ex that I wanted a divorce after I

[00:18:00] finally felt stable. He said no, but I had already worked everything out

[00:18:05] with my lawyer. After I sent him the papers, he and his mother began harassing me. He said

[00:18:10] that he would agree to divorce, only if I gave up full custody of my daughter. Long

[00:18:14] story short, I ended up an Earth's going to court, and now I have full custody.

[00:18:20] My best friend is the real hero of this entire story. She hit me stay over for free, throughout

[00:18:25] the proceedings, and helped me care for my daughter. With the alimony and the money I made from the

[00:18:30] candle making business, I officially moved in with my best friend and began paying her rent too.

[00:18:35] I'm currently saving up to buy a place of my own. My daughter and I are really happy right now.

[00:18:40] I can't believe that I didn't see how toxic my ex and his mother were for the seven years

[00:18:44] we were married. I hope this is enough drama for the rest how toxic my ex and his mother were for the 7 years we were married.

[00:18:45] I hope this is enough drama for the rest of my life and thanks to all the people in my

[00:18:49] DMs who showed me how toxic my relationship was.

[00:18:53] Dude just saying no to a divorce, I mean what the fuck.

[00:18:57] I'm glad that best friend did help OP out of this situation, it sounds like it was awful

[00:19:03] to live with.

[00:19:04] But what do you guys make of this one?

[00:19:05] Let us know your thoughts down in the comments below.

[00:19:10] And let's have another story.

[00:19:14] And someone sent me this one from over on Twitter from the entitled People subreddit

[00:19:18] from Orster's fan who says, entitled friend doesn't understand the concept of a white

[00:19:24] elephant exchange. As a fan who says, entitled friend doesn't understand the concept of a white elephant

[00:19:25] exchange.

[00:19:26] This all happened almost 10 years ago, but after spending all morning reading stories

[00:19:31] on this sub, I found like sharing my own experience.

[00:19:34] For years, I, male, early 30s at the time was close friends with Brittany, female same-age

[00:19:40] as me.

[00:19:41] Brittany and I had gone to college together, got on trips together and were pretty much inseparable. She had always a bit of an entitled streak to her, but it

[00:19:49] was never anything drastic. She usually kept it restrained to the things like being the

[00:19:53] only one to pick which restaurant our group of friends went to, or having her seat in

[00:19:58] each friend's home. Annoying years, but pretty mild overall.

[00:20:03] Then Christmas hit. The mutual friend of ours decided to hold a Christmas get together for our large extended

[00:20:09] friend group which included both me and Brittany.

[00:20:13] This friend, Mary, had recently got married and bought a new house with her husband, Matt.

[00:20:19] Mary's wedding had been a small, private family only affair.

[00:20:23] To celebrate with friends as well as celebrate their new house

[00:20:26] in the holiday, Mary invited about 30 people from her extended friend groups to a big Christmas

[00:20:30] party. It was wonderful. Mary has always been one hell of a cook and she insisted on providing

[00:20:36] everything for the guests. She did all of the cooking, bought tons of drinks, alcoholic and

[00:20:41] non-alcoholic and made sure none of her guests were without a drink or a plate of amazing food all night. Mary had only one request for her guests.

[00:20:50] Each person bring a gift to contribute to a white elephant gift exchange. Happily,

[00:20:55] especially given how much Mary and Matt shall allow to feed us all, we all brought a gift.

[00:21:00] For those not familiar, white elephant exchanges, called Yankee swap or Dirty Santa in some

[00:21:05] places involve everyone bringing a wrapped gift, and one by one, each person chooses

[00:21:11] a gift from the pile.

[00:21:12] First person opens his or her chosen gift, and the second person can either open a new

[00:21:18] gift or steal the first person's gift.

[00:21:20] Third, can steal second or first gift or pick a new one. On and on until everyone has had a chance

[00:21:27] and the first person gets the last chance to steal. One rule put in place in a lot of these

[00:21:32] exchanges is that a gift can only be stolen twice. So if you are the 3rd person to get

[00:21:38] your hands on a gift, it is yours for good and no one can take it from you. This was

[00:21:43] a downfall of Mary's gift exchange,

[00:21:46] at least when it came to Brittany. The gift exchange started and people were having fun

[00:21:51] stealing blankets, candles, gift cards and alike from other friends. No one was upset if

[00:21:56] their gift was stolen. Hell, it's all for fun and we're all friends right? Well, Matt, Mary's new

[00:22:02] husband and party co-host was really good at making his

[00:22:05] own beer. As a gift in the exchange, he wrapped up a full case of this amazing dark

[00:22:10] stoutie made. Bob opened that and was excited. We all knew how amazing the beer was as we'd

[00:22:16] been drinking it all night at the party. Then Tim stole the beer from Bob. We laughed. Bob

[00:22:22] was disappointed but he gave it over to Tim in the spirit of the

[00:22:25] game. Then it was my turn. I stole the beer from Tim. Like Bob, Tim was disappointed but willingly

[00:22:32] gave me the beer and laughed along with his disappointment. Notice that I was the third

[00:22:37] owner of the case of beer. That means that, per the rules of Mary's game, I was safe from having

[00:22:42] the beer stolen from me.

[00:22:45] Brittany was the next to go.

[00:22:47] She tried to steal the beer but was reminded by several people that the beer had been stolen

[00:22:51] twice so was now officially mine.

[00:22:55] Instead of just picking a new gift or stealing someone else's, Brittany threw a fit.

[00:23:00] All the other gifts suck, that's not fair, the beer is the only thing I want.

[00:23:03] I wouldn't have played if I knew this stupid rule.

[00:23:06] On and on she went. She was making everyone uncomfortable. Especially Mary.

[00:23:12] Matt intervened and politely asked Brittany to just play her long.

[00:23:16] He reminded her that there were still a few bottles of stout in the kitchen if she wanted one.

[00:23:21] But no, Brittany couldn't handle not having the full case to take home with her. She pouted and refused to pick another gift or play the game. So,

[00:23:30] we skipped her. The game continued on and everyone other than Brittany had a gift.

[00:23:34] With only one gift left, Brittany was forced to take that or nothing. She chose nothing

[00:23:40] and on top continued to bitch in moan about how unfair the rules were.

[00:23:45] The person who brought the unclaimed gift took it back and gave it to Mary and Matt

[00:23:49] of the House warming gift.

[00:23:50] Seeing that, Brittany stormed out and left.

[00:23:54] I thought that was the end of it, but I was wrong.

[00:23:57] Over the next few days I was barrage with tech messages from Brittany demanding to give

[00:24:01] her the case of Matt's beer.

[00:24:03] She didn't ask if I would share it,

[00:24:05] which I probably would have done. She demanded that I give it to her outright, saying,

[00:24:09] you know the rules were bullshit and it should have been mine anyway.

[00:24:13] When I told her no, she started with guilt trips. You make more money than me so you can buy expensive

[00:24:18] beer and I can't. We've been friends for so long, it's only right. You're just being selfish.

[00:24:23] The final message from

[00:24:25] her words, I hope you choke on an asshole. She whizzed. I blocked the number and removed

[00:24:30] her from my Facebook friends list and haven't spoken to her since.

[00:24:36] Nor will for that matter have Mary and Matt nor about a third of the party guests. She's

[00:24:40] lost a lot of friends all over a case of beer. It was damn good beer though.

[00:24:45] I thought of Brittany every time I drank a bottle. My word, the majority of your friendships

[00:24:51] and the party over a case of beer. That is just insane entitlement. What do you guys make of this

[00:25:00] situation? How would you have dealt with that if it was you in that position? Let us know your thoughts down in the comments below.

[00:25:07] Now just a huge thank you from the bottom of my heart for getting involved in today's

[00:25:10] stories. Your love, your support, your time always means the absolute world to me so thank