My Best Friend's Fiancee Made A Move On Me r/Relationships

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[00:00:20] [SPEAKER_00]: Now, today's first story is titled, my Best Friends wife tried to make a move on me.

[00:00:26] [SPEAKER_00]: I've been Best Friends with Alex, male 29 since college. We've always been there for each other through

[00:00:32] [SPEAKER_00]: second thin. About two years ago, he introduced me to his girlfriend, Olivia.

[00:00:38] [SPEAKER_00]: I got engaged last month and I was thrilled for them.

[00:00:42] [SPEAKER_00]: Last weekend, Alex and Olivia invited me over for dinner at their place. After the meal, Alex had

[00:00:48] [SPEAKER_00]: to step out to take an important work core. Olivia and I were alone in the living room,

[00:00:53] [SPEAKER_00]: chatting about that upcoming wedding plan. Suddenly she moved closer to me and confessed

[00:00:58] [SPEAKER_00]: that she had developed feelings for me over the past few months. I was shocked and didn't know

[00:01:04] [SPEAKER_00]: how to react. Before I could say anything, Olivia leaned in and tried to kiss me.

[00:01:09] [SPEAKER_00]: I quickly stood up and told her that this was not right. She looked hurt and started apologizing

[00:01:14] [SPEAKER_00]: profusely saying that she couldn't help how she felt and that she never meant to cause any trouble.

[00:01:20] [SPEAKER_00]: I told her that I valued my friendship with Alex and that I could never betray him like this.

[00:01:25] [SPEAKER_00]: I may next use to leave and left their apartment, feeling confused and guilty.

[00:01:30] [SPEAKER_00]: I knew I hadn't done anything wrong but I still felt like I had somehow betrayed my best friend.

[00:01:37] [SPEAKER_00]: To make matters worse, I had recently started seeing Olivia's cousin, Anna, email 24.

[00:01:43] [SPEAKER_00]: The admittedly family gathering a few weeks ago and really hit it off.

[00:01:47] [SPEAKER_00]: Anna is smart, funny and vicious and I could see myself falling for her.

[00:01:51] [SPEAKER_00]: However, after what happened with Olivia, I don't know if I can pursue a relationship with Anna.

[00:01:58] [SPEAKER_00]: I would feel wrong today my best friend's fiancee's cousin, especially after what Olivia confessed

[00:02:02] [SPEAKER_00]: to me. I decided to distance myself from Anna, even though it hurt to do so.

[00:02:10] [SPEAKER_00]: I confided in my brother about the situation and he thinks I should tell Alex what happened.

[00:02:15] [SPEAKER_00]: He says that if Olivia ever decides to come clean, it could look like I was the one who initiated

[00:02:19] [SPEAKER_00]: things. I do have some texts from Olivia apologizing for her behaviour, but she doesn't explicitly

[00:02:26] [SPEAKER_00]: mention the attempted kiss. I'm talking about what to do. On one hand, I don't want to ruin

[00:02:31] [SPEAKER_00]: Alex and Olivia's relationship, especially with her wedding coming up. On the other hand,

[00:02:36] [SPEAKER_00]: I don't want to lose my best friend's trust if the truth ever comes out. But now,

[00:02:42] [SPEAKER_00]: I've decided to distance myself from both Alex and Olivia. It hurts to lose my best friend,

[00:02:47] [SPEAKER_00]: but I don't see any other way to handle this situation. I'll also have to let go of the possibility

[00:02:53] [SPEAKER_00]: of a relationship with Anna as much as it pains me. I never thought I would find myself in a situation

[00:02:59] [SPEAKER_00]: like this. I wish Olivia had never confessed her feelings for me. It's caused me so much heart-taking

[00:03:05] [SPEAKER_00]: confusion, I just hope that at some time I can move past this and find happiness with someone else.

[00:03:12] [SPEAKER_00]: Now, I can imagine many people saying in myself as well that Alex deserves to know this.

[00:03:17] [SPEAKER_00]: Because I always feel like, and we've seen it in stories before, that the truth always comes out

[00:03:22] [SPEAKER_00]: in the end. And if Alex was to find out further down the line that you had lied and kept this from him,

[00:03:29] [SPEAKER_00]: you know, that's the relationship destroyed anyway. You've just been put in a really shitty situation,

[00:03:35] [SPEAKER_00]: but I think you need to do what's best by your best friend. So someone said to the OP,

[00:03:40] [SPEAKER_00]: you need to tell Alex about what happened. Even though it might destroy everything.

[00:03:44] [SPEAKER_00]: Olivia may try to turn this around on you and make it seem like you were the one initiating things,

[00:03:50] [SPEAKER_00]: but Alex deserves to know the truth. There's nothing good that can come from keeping this a secret.

[00:03:56] [SPEAKER_00]: If Olivia ever decides to come clean or if the truth comes out, some other way,

[00:04:00] [SPEAKER_00]: who will look like you've complicit in hiding it from your best friend. I could damage your

[00:04:04] [SPEAKER_00]: friendship beyond repair. It's a difficult situation and there's no guarantee that Alex will believe

[00:04:11] [SPEAKER_00]: you, or that their friendship will survive this. However, you have the opportunity to take the right

[00:04:16] [SPEAKER_00]: path here. Being honest with your best friend, even when it's hard, is the right thing to do.

[00:04:22] [SPEAKER_00]: Gather any evidence you have like the text from Olivia apologizes for her behavior.

[00:04:27] [SPEAKER_00]: Sit down with Alex privately and calmly explain what happened. Emphasize that you value your

[00:04:32] [SPEAKER_00]: friendship with him and that you would never betray his trust. They get clear that you've stopped

[00:04:37] [SPEAKER_00]: Olivia's advances in that, but you're telling him because he deserves to know the truth.

[00:04:41] [SPEAKER_00]: Prepare yourself for the possibility that Alex may be angry, hurt, or indenial.

[00:04:47] [SPEAKER_00]: Might need some time to process this information, decide what to do about his relationship with

[00:04:51] [SPEAKER_00]: Olivia. Be there to support him as a friend, but also give him space if he needed. As for Hannah,

[00:04:58] [SPEAKER_00]: it's understandable that you feel you can't pursue a relationship with her now. However,

[00:05:02] [SPEAKER_00]: don't let Olivia's actions rob you of a potential future with someone you care about.

[00:05:07] [SPEAKER_00]: Be honest with Hannah about what happened and why you've been distant. She might surprise you

[00:05:12] [SPEAKER_00]: without understanding and support. Remember, you didn't do anything wrong here. You'll

[00:05:17] [SPEAKER_00]: live victim of someone else's inappropriate behavior. I telling the truth and standing up for

[00:05:22] [SPEAKER_00]: what's right, you'll be in a true friend to Alex and a person of integrity. It won't be easy,

[00:05:28] [SPEAKER_00]: but it's the right thing to do. So, OP is update says. After reading the comments and giving it

[00:05:36] [SPEAKER_00]: a lot of thought, I decided to tell Alex about what happened with Olivia. I couldn't bring myself

[00:05:42] [SPEAKER_00]: to do it face-to-face as an just not that type of person. Call me a coward or whatever, but

[00:05:47] [SPEAKER_00]: I ended up sending him a text message detailing everything at transpired that evening.

[00:05:52] [SPEAKER_00]: There's been a few weeks since I sent the message in, I've only heard rumors about what happened

[00:05:56] [SPEAKER_00]: between Alex and Olivia. Apparently the engagement was called off. Some people are saying that

[00:06:02] [SPEAKER_00]: Olivia tried to claim that I was the one who came on to her, but it seems like Alex had suspicions

[00:06:07] [SPEAKER_00]: for a while that she wasn't fully invested in their future together, most potentially looking for

[00:06:12] [SPEAKER_00]: a way out. I did receive a text from Olivia that said, thanks for f***ing ruin in everything.

[00:06:18] [SPEAKER_00]: I couldn't bring myself to respond to her. I know I did the right thing by telling Alex a truth,

[00:06:23] [SPEAKER_00]: but it still hurts to be blamed for the fallout. A few days after I sent a message to Alex,

[00:06:28] [SPEAKER_00]: I received a text from him. I said thanks for letting me know. I understand it's not your fault,

[00:06:34] [SPEAKER_00]: but I just can't be around you currently. I replied with a simple apology, expressing my regret

[00:06:40] [SPEAKER_00]: for how things turned out. It's been a tough few weeks and I'm still processing everything that's

[00:06:45] [SPEAKER_00]: happened. Hope that one day, Alex and I will be able to reconnect and possibly salvage our friendship,

[00:06:51] [SPEAKER_00]: however I suspect that this part of our lives may be over and I have to come to terms with that.

[00:06:56] [SPEAKER_00]: As for Hannah, I did reach out to her and explain everything that happened. She was understanding

[00:07:01] [SPEAKER_00]: and supportive but we both agreed and is best not to pursue a relationship right now given the

[00:07:07] [SPEAKER_00]: circumstances. In conclusion, I'm glad I told the truth, even though it was difficult that

[00:07:12] [SPEAKER_00]: severe consequences. I lost my best friend and any potential future with Hannah. But I know

[00:07:18] [SPEAKER_00]: did the right thing. Integrity and honesty are important to me. I couldn't live with myself if

[00:07:24] [SPEAKER_00]: I had kept this secret from Alex. I'm going to focus on moving forward, potentially moving elsewhere

[00:07:29] [SPEAKER_00]: and start on the fresh but that and itself seems quite scary but who knows? Maybe hit the gym

[00:07:35] [SPEAKER_00]: like many people do after this sort of thing. Thanks. G-Wiz that text from Olivia that said thanks

[00:07:43] [SPEAKER_00]: for fucking ruining everything. You ruined everything. You fucked up their friendship at the

[00:07:49] [SPEAKER_00]: same time as well. Just destroyed a bunch of relationships with one action. But now I'm going to

[00:07:58] [SPEAKER_00]: turn this one to you guys. What do you guys make of this situation? Was OP right to tell Alex? I'm

[00:08:06] [SPEAKER_00]: sure you're going to say yes of course but maybe you got a different opinion on the matter.

[00:08:09] [SPEAKER_00]: Let us know your thoughts down in the comments below. Let's move on to another story.

[00:08:16] [SPEAKER_00]: Now, our next story comes from certain ear 3650 and says my mother 55 female and I 30 female

[00:08:23] [SPEAKER_00]: got into a fight about me not having kids. How do I reconcile with her?

[00:08:28] [SPEAKER_00]: Why has been an eye been married for around six years? We currently have no children because

[00:08:33] [SPEAKER_00]: we feel like now is not the right time. My parents are very eager for grandchildren to the point

[00:08:38] [SPEAKER_00]: where they ask me when we're going to have kids every few months. Over the years I've explained

[00:08:45] [SPEAKER_00]: to them we will have kids when it feels right for us but they aren't satisfied with this answer.

[00:08:51] [SPEAKER_00]: My mother especially asks very personal questions about my sex life which I don't answer

[00:08:55] [SPEAKER_00]: other than saying we use birth control. My mother and I got into an argument over a month ago.

[00:09:01] [SPEAKER_00]: Once again the question of kids came back up and I said that the decision for us to have kids

[00:09:05] [SPEAKER_00]: between my husband and I. She continued to push saying that maybe I should seek medical help.

[00:09:12] [SPEAKER_00]: Eventually fed up with this conversation I said that we either changed the topic or we hang

[00:09:17] [SPEAKER_00]: up. First she said she was just trying to help but I was already 30 and only had a few more

[00:09:22] [SPEAKER_00]: years of peak fertility and reduced risk of miscarriage. Having kids at a young age would mean

[00:09:28] [SPEAKER_00]: being able to keep up with them which I do agree with and she said it's better to talk to her

[00:09:33] [SPEAKER_00]: otherwise my father would call my husband and ask him which I said she doesn't need to be the

[00:09:38] [SPEAKER_00]: middle man. She just stopped hiding behind her and talked to us directly. I relatives are asking

[00:09:42] [SPEAKER_00]: her and again I said if they ever problem direct them to me. I tried to change the topic but

[00:09:48] [SPEAKER_00]: she brought it back up. I asked her to respect my boundaries and that was ignored. After more

[00:09:54] [SPEAKER_00]: back and forth I said that since we have nothing else to talk about I think we should hang up.

[00:09:58] [SPEAKER_00]: My mother got angry and said that she is my mother. I couldn't hang up on her.

[00:10:04] [SPEAKER_00]: I kept on repeating that we should change the topic but she wouldn't hear of it.

[00:10:08] [SPEAKER_00]: Finally I said that we're hanging up and told a goodbye three times as a warning who pin she

[00:10:13] [SPEAKER_00]: would understand that I was serious. I hung up. I made sure this entire interaction to speak in a

[00:10:18] [SPEAKER_00]: calm voice even though I wanted to yell. I'm an adult and I expect to be treated as one.

[00:10:23] [SPEAKER_00]: Maybe I could have handled the argument better. Was it wrong to hang up on her?

[00:10:29] [SPEAKER_00]: I didn't know how I could have ended the conversation any other way. I need her to understand that

[00:10:34] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm an adult and while I appreciate her worry, that is not a conversation I want to have with

[00:10:38] [SPEAKER_00]: her anymore. She's not responding to calls so I should probably leave her a text. Any advice?

[00:10:44] [SPEAKER_00]: Was there something else I should do? Now you've told a multiple times that this is a conversation

[00:10:52] [SPEAKER_00]: a decision that's between your husband and yourself. That's the boundary you set. She has nothing to

[00:10:59] [SPEAKER_00]: do with this and she is overstepping massively. She's put in herself in danger of being cut out

[00:11:05] [SPEAKER_00]: from any conversation going forward and just incredibly invasive. You'd remember that she's the

[00:11:11] [SPEAKER_00]: one who's making these decisions. She's the one who's choosing. It's just ignore your boundary

[00:11:18] [SPEAKER_00]: whatsoever. This is on her. You've given a plenty of chances and she refuses to ignore them.

[00:11:24] [SPEAKER_00]: So what you do next is up to you, you can either give a one last chance and say, look, you carry on

[00:11:28] [SPEAKER_00]: with this and I won't be calling you any more end of or you can just do so. But Saddle Bun says

[00:11:35] [SPEAKER_00]: you did nothing wrong. It's not your mum's choice or decision when you have kids and she's being

[00:11:40] [SPEAKER_00]: incredibly invasive. She's being disrespectful of you as a person. You've told her to stop and she

[00:11:48] [SPEAKER_00]: is unacceptable. She needs to back off because if I were you and she continued,

[00:11:53] [SPEAKER_00]: she would not be seeing any children I may have. I would let her know that by continuing this behavior

[00:11:58] [SPEAKER_00]: just ruining her relationship with you. That means potentially never seeing any future grandchildren.

[00:12:06] [SPEAKER_00]: And for Vox's sake replies that saying I'm afraid this is the only way she'll back off. Since

[00:12:10] [SPEAKER_00]: she's clearly demonstrated, you will not take clearly formulated requests to drop the subject.

[00:12:16] [SPEAKER_00]: I'd start by telling her, if you or anyone else that you're urging brings this up to either

[00:12:21] [SPEAKER_00]: me or my husband again or will immediately end the conversation without warning. This includes

[00:12:26] [SPEAKER_00]: any off-handed remarks or slides. The only does the conversation end but I will not speak to you

[00:12:32] [SPEAKER_00]: for a week after. The second time is two weeks, you get the picture. If this still doesn't work,

[00:12:39] [SPEAKER_00]: go nuclear and tell her you refuse to respect my decision as an adult. If I ever do decide

[00:12:44] [SPEAKER_00]: to have children, you will not be in their lives and that's final. If tried being gracious and calm,

[00:12:51] [SPEAKER_00]: it didn't work. Time to get more serious. I get that as difficult and hurtful to do this but

[00:12:56] [SPEAKER_00]: sadly sometimes people force you to be this way with them. I like drawing and stuff says you are

[00:13:02] [SPEAKER_00]: absolutely right to set an emotional boundaries. Your mum is being hellerued and entitled. She just

[00:13:08] [SPEAKER_00]: doesn't care about your boundaries perspective and feelings it seems. She just wants you to make

[00:13:13] [SPEAKER_00]: a baby for her yesterday. You know that's saying you teach people how to treat you. This is

[00:13:18] [SPEAKER_00]: a prime example if you ever want to reach a point where your family treats you as an adult. You

[00:13:23] [SPEAKER_00]: need to keep enforcing these boundaries and also when you have said no more than once and it

[00:13:28] [SPEAKER_00]: is being ignored. It is absolutely right to raise your voice a bit. Respect goes both ways and your

[00:13:34] [SPEAKER_00]: mother very clearly does not respect you one bit. Vegan Ving says she's punishing you for enforcing

[00:13:41] [SPEAKER_00]: your boundaries and you're falling into a trap by reaching out to her. She's mad and embarrassed

[00:13:46] [SPEAKER_00]: from you carrying out the consequences for her bad behavior. Wait for her to reach out to you

[00:13:51] [SPEAKER_00]: and when she does take that opportunity to remind her of your boundaries. You can say something

[00:13:56] [SPEAKER_00]: like, you didn't feel good to hang up on you like that and unfortunately that will continue

[00:14:00] [SPEAKER_00]: to happen if you keep disrespect in my boundaries like that. Stay strong OP. And one more

[00:14:11] [SPEAKER_00]: controlling and manipulative and hate boundaries. At the resort to a hang up on you if you want

[00:14:16] [SPEAKER_00]: to talk about this subject recently and she was so angry. She said we just shouldn't talk anymore.

[00:14:24] [SPEAKER_00]: It's driving your mom crazy that you won't do what she wants. Your arms are hasn't changed,

[00:14:29] [SPEAKER_00]: even though she keeps trying different ways of getting you to change your mind. My mom does this too.

[00:14:34] [SPEAKER_00]: It's like trying to find the right frequency on a radio to get to the station you like.

[00:14:38] [SPEAKER_00]: Angus, like yelling, guilt-trip, reason, threats. You're all enough to make your own decisions and

[00:14:43] [SPEAKER_00]: she's old enough to know better. Putting down boundaries is important when someone treats you poorly.

[00:14:50] [SPEAKER_00]: Good for you. And I always find the talk of boundaries pretty amazing. It's something that

[00:14:56] [SPEAKER_00]: I never really grew up with. At least the talk of it, you know. I'm getting boundaries

[00:15:00] [SPEAKER_00]: were in place they just weren't discussed as such but the open talk of it these days I find

[00:15:05] [SPEAKER_00]: pretty amazing. I quickly googled like when the talk of boundaries start and it says it

[00:15:10] [SPEAKER_00]: became especially popular in the 1990s but still I didn't hear about it then and I always

[00:15:16] [SPEAKER_00]: especially love it. I'm not saying this particular story but I've seen it before and

[00:15:19] [SPEAKER_00]: in comments especially that when they're listening in or they read a Reddit post that talks

[00:15:24] [SPEAKER_00]: of boundaries that they've learnt something new for themselves and that ends sort of like

[00:15:29] [SPEAKER_00]: helps them grow as a person. I always find that especially amazing but now we're going to move on

[00:15:34] [SPEAKER_00]: to OPE's update to find out what happened next and says this is not the update to a post I made

[00:15:38] [SPEAKER_00]: two months ago. To summarize in December my mother and I had a fight where she tried to bully

[00:15:44] [SPEAKER_00]: and manipulate me into having children. That hung up on her after she ignored multiple attempts to

[00:15:49] [SPEAKER_00]: change the conversation and respect my boundaries in up talking about it with her. I believe that

[00:15:54] [SPEAKER_00]: the decision on my half-kids or if I have kids is between myself and my husband which I clearly

[00:16:00] [SPEAKER_00]: and she had no right to demand such things from me nor did I want to have that conversation with her.

[00:16:07] [SPEAKER_00]: Anyway, I felt that after a month of not talking we had called off enough to talk to each other again.

[00:16:13] [SPEAKER_00]: A quarter a month after our fight and she didn't pick up or return my call.

[00:16:18] [SPEAKER_00]: I called her a week later and again she did not pick up or return my call.

[00:16:23] [SPEAKER_00]: Since she seemed like she was ignoring me I decided not to call her again for the third time.

[00:16:27] [SPEAKER_00]: I felt like she was in the wrong and after two attempts of reaching out, I was her turn to call

[00:16:32] [SPEAKER_00]: me. I was prepared to brush this under the rug and move on with my life but I don't think she

[00:16:37] [SPEAKER_00]: feels the same. Yesterday we had a big religious holiday. I think Christmas level.

[00:16:44] [SPEAKER_00]: I debated whether I should call my mom after the way she'd been treating me. But felt like it would

[00:16:48] [SPEAKER_00]: be rude and not help the situation to not at least wish her a happy holiday.

[00:16:52] [SPEAKER_00]: I call her she picks up says hello and before I even have a chance to say hello,

[00:16:58] [SPEAKER_00]: she is talking to someone else in the background. I figured that she was in the middle of

[00:17:02] [SPEAKER_00]: a conversation so I waited. After 30 seconds she switches the video chat.

[00:17:07] [SPEAKER_00]: I don't think she wants to see me and we can reconcile. Just the camera pointed away from her,

[00:17:13] [SPEAKER_00]: showing my little cousins having fun with their new toys and talking to my uncle and aunt.

[00:17:17] [SPEAKER_00]: She doesn't talk to me all at anyone know that I'm on the phone and after three minutes

[00:17:21] [SPEAKER_00]: she hangs up. I'm not sure what to do with this. Nothing is going to get fixed if we don't talk.

[00:17:28] [SPEAKER_00]: Heck, if she wants me to apologise which I will not, I can't do so without talking to her.

[00:17:34] [SPEAKER_00]: I don't feel angry. I feel hurt. She just respected my clearly stated boundaries and

[00:17:40] [SPEAKER_00]: now I feel like she's punishing me for standing out for myself. If she calls me in the future,

[00:17:45] [SPEAKER_00]: I don't think I will answer a call. I want to text her right now calling her a petty bitch.

[00:17:50] [SPEAKER_00]: Not letting things go at least for the holiday. I feel like that would show her how hurt and

[00:17:55] [SPEAKER_00]: frustrated I am at her actions. We'll continue to talk to my dad and my siblings who still live

[00:18:00] [SPEAKER_00]: at home, but there we no calls to her and no forgiveness. I will not forget this. I expect a full

[00:18:06] [SPEAKER_00]: apology from her for her actions. I'm going full no contact with her and June when another

[00:18:12] [SPEAKER_00]: big holiday comes up. I will not be calling her. Now my first thought after this that the video chat

[00:18:18] [SPEAKER_00]: was some sort of like petty-ass level move but Tom AF put it better than I could. He said this

[00:18:24] [SPEAKER_00]: video chat was a TUNT level move. Good plan going forward and I just wanted to read one more

[00:18:31] [SPEAKER_00]: comment from off-caro who says the problem with these situations is that in essence there's no

[00:18:36] [SPEAKER_00]: effective way to negotiate with terrorists or unreasonable assholes as the case may be. You've done

[00:18:42] [SPEAKER_00]: your part to men the rift she calls. She's decided she's fine with things as they are. That sucks

[00:18:48] [SPEAKER_00]: but it would require her to be an adult who's capable of apologizing and admitting her fault.

[00:18:54] [SPEAKER_00]: Clearly it ain't happening anytime soon. What say you don't necessarily need to go into contact?

[00:19:00] [SPEAKER_00]: You can just not reach out and you can choose to be polite for bland while she doesn't turn

[00:19:05] [SPEAKER_00]: around on her own. She's not allowed to hurt your feelings and she doesn't deserve to see how

[00:19:10] [SPEAKER_00]: hurt you nonetheless feel. You're going to have to steal yourself with her. The old wall she can't get

[00:19:16] [SPEAKER_00]: through, he'd ghost she can't touch. She can't be reasoned with and she doesn't care about you

[00:19:22] [SPEAKER_00]: and your feelings because it's about her. They play along. Mom says dumb shit to you,

[00:19:28] [SPEAKER_00]: ors to gather yourself. Okay mom and continue as you were. Turn them walk away if you must and

[00:19:34] [SPEAKER_00]: have an exit plan at all times. Good luck. And the mum in this situation is just so up her own

[00:19:43] [SPEAKER_00]: ass she can't see anything. What outcome is she expecting from this? OPs already laid out their

[00:19:51] [SPEAKER_00]: boundaries clear. Mother keeps trampling on them time and time again. It just feels like one of

[00:19:57] [SPEAKER_00]: those situations if he was just to back down to her, her behavior is only going to get worse and worse.

[00:20:04] [SPEAKER_00]: But what do you guys make of this situation? Let me know your thoughts down in the comments below.

[00:20:11] [SPEAKER_00]: I'd just a huge thank you from the bottom of my heart for getting involved and today's stories

[00:20:14] [SPEAKER_00]: you'll love, your support, your time always means the absolute world to me so thank you so so much

[00:20:19] [SPEAKER_00]: and hopefully I'll see you in the next one. Take care and much love.