I'm Planning To Skip My Sisters Wedding For Treating Our Sister Badly r/Relationships

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[00:00:26] Additional taxes, fees, and restrictions apply. siblings is easy to get lost in the crowd. Some of us have our position so to speak. Lydia is the oldest, Lexi is the baby, I have a kid, yes that's my descriptor, who he gave us a grandchild. Erin is the golden child. She was the last planned child, the one supposed to tie up our family. She was born premature so I understand that my parents

[00:01:42] coddled her to an extent but sister's wedding anniversary. Everything is about her. She confronted Erin about this and she said that Nadia's high school graduation didn't matter. She wanted to get married to the love of her life sooner and our family had been to plenty of high school graduations at this point anyway. She said something like, we still have Lexi, but here's what gets me the most.

[00:03:04] Nadia's been looking forward to dinner after the wedding. Nadia is currently staying with me because Mum won't stop cornering her. Am I? He asked so. The OP comes into the posting, gives some comments with some extra information. The first comment said, that's something I should have mentioned in the post, but the difference is a month. Nadia's graduation is next Friday and Erin was supposed to get married a month later.

[00:04:24] I'm not sure on the details, I think you had to know the comment about Erin being in the centre of attention and starts off by saying and those are just two examples. Here are some honourable mentions. I proposed to my partner two months after Erin got engaged. This proposal was something I'd been planning for months, something my family had been made

[00:05:42] aware of for months and fell on the day that it was intentional last week. They've otherwise been pretty good at attending and throwing events meant for each of us specifically. But unfortunately on more than one occasion the spotlight was always turned to Erin for some reason or another.

[00:07:01] Like as I mentioned in the post, we were celebrating Lydia's wedding anniversary and

[00:07:05] Erin thought it would be a good idea to announce that she was engaged without consulting Lydia They love Nadia and they love Lexi, and my mum did apologise about having to miss out on Nadia's graduation when Erin first told us about it. I think she mentioned that we could celebrate as a family after Erin came back from her honeymoon. Things changed when Leo and I sat Erin and our parents down to tell them that Nadia wanted to attend her graduation and we were going to be there for her.

[00:08:21] Too many big days have been monopolised by Erin, so I want Nadia to have a day that

[00:08:26] is hers. Boom. My trauma done, he says, not the arse, or please don't be petty. The following things would be petty, which I don't recommend doing. Pull your son last minute from the wedding. Jump at the reception with Nadia in a graduation robe. Make a speech congratulating Erin on the wedding and then shift to Nadia for being such a good sport. Nadia, thank you.

[00:09:40] Thank you for sacrificing your special day for the sake of Erin.

[00:09:43] I know we usually throw huge celebrations for graduation, but you know, er, or I guess

[00:09:48] we're told. that she deserves for always trying to overshadow someone else. The fact that your parents have thrown five celebrations for your grads and have now just blown over it with Nadia must be heartbreaking for come bearing an update. I've had to condense it quite a bit because a lot has happened. Before I start Nadia wanted me to thank everyone who congratulated her on her graduation. She was overwhelmed by the support you gave her, especially after she faced such opposition from our family.

[00:12:20] So let's start.

[00:12:23] Last Friday, Leo and I went to speak to our parents in Aeren.

[00:12:26] I wanted to tell them that I'di would likely follow in the future. Our dad started yelling, not at us, but at Aaron surprisingly. I've never seen him so angry before, and to see it directed at Aaron was shocking. A mum asked us to leave. We didn't hear from anyone on that side until Monday when

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