I'm In Love With My Married Neighbor But After Babysitting His Kids I'm Conflicted r/Relationships

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[00:01:42] So I moved in with my best friend and her husband in a house.

[00:01:45] We are all renting together. before a school presentation. It was just so easy to imagine how lovely and attentive Kay would be with me because he is like that with everyone else. Kay has never said or done anything to imply that he has feelings for me yet, but we are genuinely friends by now because we talk on at night. Now is the issue that came in. These kids were an absolute nightmare. There were three girls and the oldest was your typical bratty preteen times 1000. She was rude and didn't respect my authority at all, arguing with me about everything from

[00:04:22] dinner to who had to clean up to what movie she was allowed to watch. do not behave like this. I just want to have a relationship with Kay, but I do not know if it's possible because his kids and I would not get along. And this is even before a potential divorce where their mother could easily get them to hate me. I really love Kay and I know that we can have a beautiful relationship if I pursued this. But this has really shaken me.

[00:05:40] I just wish I had someone to talk to about this, but everyone in my life would judge me.

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[00:07:04] of their own importance, yet need and seek too much attention and want people to admire his wife and run away with you. You justify his belief by saying his children are wild, so it must be an unhappy home. Meanwhile, you completely ignore the fact that his wife is pregnant, and he dropped everything to go to her. You say the kids do not respect your authority. It sounds like they barely know you, and suddenly you're in charge. You are not their mother,

[00:08:20] and will never be their mother. You think you will have a beautiful relationship with Kay if you I know this could be a messy situation if anything happened. I just want to know if his kids being difficult will make things worse if it does happen. I want to know if the potential proves that way the potential comes. The OP posted an update in the form of like a screenshot of a text. Exchange, it's okay the husband sent a message to OP and says, wife and the girls are okay.

[00:09:44] Thank you for of the story. Let's face it, it's not normal behavior. But what do you guys make of this situation? Let us know your thoughts down in the comments below.

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[00:12:25] are always a nice touch. But after I would clean it up and new ones would appear, I would ask him again. Eventually he told me that sometimes when he blows his nose, his nose bleeds and it could be from that. I partially accepted that answer, however I can't recall a single time where I've blown my nose and missed the tissue so much that my snot sprayed all around me. I also mentioned to him up blood and I'm also repulsed by the idea that he doesn't know how to blow his nose without spraying bloody mucus everywhere. I'm also very concerned for him if he really has new nose bleeds every day.

[00:15:00] As a friend from a high school had this happen and ignored it, it ended up being cancer in

[00:15:04] the sinus cavities.

[00:15:05] So here I am a light sleeper. And when he blows his nose, he doesn't see the blood since he's dark. He does have pretty bad allergies. He's had no behavioral changes since the started. Also adding a comment I made. All those suggesting drugs.

[00:16:20] I'm not dismissing you.

[00:16:22] I'm getting shamed for ignoring the comments suggesting it's drugs, but I'm still absorbing

[00:16:26] the possibility that it might YouTube purposes, of course. And as they came walking out the door, touched their nose, realized what was going on and quickly ran back in. But I think also, I can understand OP not wanting to confront this and accuse someone of taking drugs

[00:17:40] in the toilet like that, et cetera,

[00:17:42] because yeah, it's going to put,

[00:17:44] accusing someone like that is going to put a strain,

[00:17:46] but I'd be more aside from the one time he had a sinus infection and it wasn't bloody and it didn't spray everywhere.

[00:19:03] vigilante detective says could he be cheating on you? probably very few have been waiting for. We solved the case of the bloody bathroom. Now, I know there will inevitably be some users who truly believe that my husband is discreetly hiding a drug problem despite this update and harass me about it, so I will no longer be using this account after it is posted. Professor Sy received about 10 DMs that offered to send pictures of what their or loved ones

[00:20:22] blood evidence of shooting up or snorting found nothing. I sat him down for yet another conversation about the blood and he reassured me he was having night time nosebleeds and promised that he would turn the lights from then on to make sure he cleaned it up because I did not deserve the burden of doing so for him.

[00:21:44] He lived up to his promise and after that more blood, but also no more paranoia on my part. He can probably breathe out of his nose for the first time we moved here.

[00:23:00] He may be wondering why he didn't see a doctor when the nosebleeds started.

[00:23:04] It's because we are poor and he has medical anxiety.

[00:23:07] But yeah, case solved. next one, take care and much love.