I Tested My Husbands Female Best Friend To See If Something Is Going On r/Relationships

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[00:00:52] Now today's first story comes from Calm Palpitation from the Am I the Arsehole Here subreddit

[00:00:57] and says, Would I be the arsehole if I text my husband's best friend, who's female, to

[00:01:02] see her reaction?

[00:01:05] My husband has this best friend from college time.

[00:01:07] I never had issues with her until my wedding a month ago, when my maid of honor overheard

[00:01:12] her snapping another friend of theirs that she has him when she wants him and the friend

[00:01:17] teased her that she lost him and he was the one who got away.

[00:01:22] I told my husband about it a few days ago.

[00:01:24] Didn't want to ruin our honeymoon but it was still in my head.

[00:01:27] But he denied anything happened between them.

[00:01:30] He was very calm when he said it.

[00:01:32] Almost too calm.

[00:01:34] Anyway, I have no proof and I trust him.

[00:01:38] Until I used his phone when mine died.

[00:01:40] He was driving and I was making a playlist on his phone.

[00:01:43] Then I looked through his iMessages and he had no thread with her.

[00:01:47] I mean I know for a fact that they text.

[00:01:50] Nothing.

[00:01:51] I didn't say anything but last night I literally saw a name pop up amongst the texts.

[00:01:56] When he went to bed I looked and there were no texts.

[00:02:00] He is deleting them.

[00:02:02] Now my question is, if I ask why he will deny it.

[00:02:05] I need to know and I need proof.

[00:02:08] Would I be the asshole if I initiated a conversation with her acting like I'm my husband and see

[00:02:14] what's up.

[00:02:15] I need proof and peace of mind.

[00:02:17] Opie added their first little update within the same post so there were some comments

[00:02:22] responding to some not.

[00:02:24] So I'm going to cover the update first which says this is my update he is cheating.

[00:02:29] I went through his deleted messages but it was empty so he had been deleting the deleted

[00:02:33] messages as well.

[00:02:35] I don't know if there's further steps to find them.

[00:02:38] I don't know.

[00:02:39] I sent her out what you doing because this is how he texts when he is bored.

[00:02:43] She said she was in bed.

[00:02:45] I said I, he, was in bed too watching succession.

[00:02:50] She asked if I was sleeping.

[00:02:52] Then it didn't take long before she started sexting.

[00:02:55] In a way that made it obvious and they've done it multiple times.

[00:02:59] I ended it quickly because honestly I felt nauseous.

[00:03:02] I didn't want to sext her.

[00:03:04] I sent myself all the evidence.

[00:03:06] Tomorrow I'll be moving back to my parents place and start the divorce.

[00:03:10] I will not tell him why.

[00:03:12] Ostinatious Sock replies to Opie about that update and says I just want you to know that

[00:03:16] you're within the legal time for an annulment and it's much more desirable than divorce.

[00:03:22] Another commenter said on the back of this said thank you so much for your post.

[00:03:25] I've been married since 2017.

[00:03:28] Started dating my husband in 2011.

[00:03:30] While reading your post and the responses I saw someone say go with your gut.

[00:03:34] I went and checked my husbands deleted text messages and found about 2000 plus messages

[00:03:39] from a girl he works with telling each other that they love each other etc.

[00:03:43] Really bad.

[00:03:44] It's 3am and my world is shattered.

[00:03:47] Never in a million years would I have ever thought he would cheat and neither would any

[00:03:51] of his friends or family.

[00:03:53] Thank you for starting this thread.

[00:03:54] I would never have found out.

[00:03:56] Which Opie responds saying god I'm so sorry.

[00:04:00] I've been with him since 2018.

[00:04:03] Married for a month.

[00:04:04] Five weeks on Saturday.

[00:04:05] We haven't even had our honeymoon trip yet.

[00:04:08] It's booked for July.

[00:04:10] Al says can you change the name and passport number on his ticket and go with a friend.

[00:04:14] Opie says wow is that possible?

[00:04:16] It would be great.

[00:04:17] Finding out that like just after you got married must be absolutely devastating.

[00:04:23] And I know it's not the point of the story but I always think about what was their end

[00:04:28] game with this?

[00:04:29] You know this dude just got married yet they're still sexting each other and god knows what

[00:04:34] else they were doing.

[00:04:37] What is their end game?

[00:04:38] What do they think is going to happen in the future?

[00:04:40] This dude just literally got married.

[00:04:43] Were they just going to continue doing what they were doing forever?

[00:04:46] And again I know it's really not the point but it's like in my mind I think who's got

[00:04:54] time for this kind of shit.

[00:04:55] This mental gymnastics to be balancing two relationships trying to hide stuff as well.

[00:05:02] It just sounds exhausting.

[00:05:03] I need a nap by midday these days.

[00:05:06] Opie comes in with an update and says I left him and now writing this from the comfort

[00:05:10] of my mum's bed.

[00:05:12] We kicked out dad because I want all the attention now.

[00:05:15] They've been sharing me with food and candy.

[00:05:18] I left without saying why just that I wanted a divorce and I don't love him anymore.

[00:05:22] I ended the marriage with a text while he was out because he's not worth more than

[00:05:26] that.

[00:05:27] When he got home I was gone.

[00:05:28] I blocked him because I never want to see or hear from him again.

[00:05:32] The rumors started spreading pretty fast though because I told my family and friends the

[00:05:36] truth so now he is angry thinking that his affair partner did it on purpose so he is

[00:05:41] bashing her on social media and she is fighting him back and fighting other friends too.

[00:05:46] She texts me saying that I'm a hoe who ruined her reputation and friendships and that he

[00:05:51] never loved me anyway and he married me because I'm a dumb hoe.

[00:05:55] I blocked her.

[00:05:56] I will deactivate all my accounts for a while.

[00:05:58] After the holidays I'm getting an attorney.

[00:06:00] I don't want an annulment.

[00:06:02] I don't think it's possible either.

[00:06:04] I want half so no annulment.

[00:06:08] GDRom says good for you.

[00:06:09] I love the fact that he knows why you left without you having to tell him.

[00:06:13] I wish you the best.

[00:06:14] Opie says I really wished you would never know and die wondering but I can't have it

[00:06:18] all.

[00:06:19] It would not give me mum's bed and candy privileges if I just told him I wanted a divorce after

[00:06:23] 5 weeks.

[00:06:24] Beardman says gotta get those candy privileges to which Opie says yep.

[00:06:29] An actual offer says keep your socials and screenshot their arguing for evidence.

[00:06:34] Hopefully it will help in the divorce.

[00:06:36] An agile manufacturer says bruh so you're not gonna tell us what evidence you found.

[00:06:40] Opie says I wrote to her.

[00:06:42] She replied that she was in bed.

[00:06:44] I wrote that I, he was in bed too.

[00:06:47] She asked is she, me sleeping and I replied yes.

[00:06:50] She said it was early and asked if she, I at least gave him a BJ.

[00:06:55] I said not tonight.

[00:06:56] She said that she would have ridden all over it if she was there.

[00:06:59] I asked like last time.

[00:07:00] I shot in the dark.

[00:07:01] She said no.

[00:07:02] She wanted more time than last because she was very horny.

[00:07:05] I stopped answering and deleted the conversation.

[00:07:08] Diana says I wasn't expecting that.

[00:07:10] I was hoping it was a misunderstanding.

[00:07:13] Opie says no.

[00:07:14] It escalated very quickly to her riding him.

[00:07:15] I didn't need to do much.

[00:07:17] I wish it was a misunderstanding.

[00:07:18] I already miss him terribly.

[00:07:19] His smell.

[00:07:20] I can't believe I'll not be able to feel it again.

[00:07:25] It gave me comfort and pure happiness just smelling him.

[00:07:29] Now after that, the first bit of the update as I was reading through it I was a bit worried

[00:07:32] for Opie when they said they were just going to leave and not say anything at all.

[00:07:37] Just from the fact that we've read stories before where people have done this and then

[00:07:41] the narrative gets turned around on them and friends and family turn against the OP, the

[00:07:46] person who's been wronged in the situation and it's too late for them to try and turn

[00:07:50] it back round because they look like they're just retaliating or whatever.

[00:07:55] So I'm super glad that Opie did tell their friends exactly what was going on.

[00:08:00] But what an awful couple of people.

[00:08:03] The fact that she was texting you after and calling you a hoe and that ruined her reputation

[00:08:07] and friendships.

[00:08:08] It's like, no, you did that yourself.

[00:08:12] You Berc.

[00:08:14] But whatever happens going forward, I really do wish you the best.

[00:08:18] No one deserves what you've been through Opie.

[00:08:21] But now I'm going to turn this one to you guys.

[00:08:23] What do you guys make of this situation?

[00:08:27] Let me know your thoughts down in the comments below and let's move on to another story.

[00:08:33] Now our next story is one that we have covered in the past, but has a new update this month.

[00:08:38] It was from priority weekly 8676 from the marriage subreddit and said, should I be worried

[00:08:44] about how my husband talks about his female nemesis?

[00:08:50] It says, I have this itch in my brain that I need to scratch.

[00:08:54] I am 32 female and married to my husband 33 males for 5 years now.

[00:08:59] Recently about a year ago, my husband's office hired a new employee.

[00:09:03] Let's call her Jess, 25 female.

[00:09:05] My husband would often complain about how stupid she is.

[00:09:08] Here are some list of complaints.

[00:09:11] She always tries to act smart even though she is a kid.

[00:09:14] She always laughs at silly little things which he finds annoying.

[00:09:17] He sometimes criticized her carefree nature.

[00:09:20] He once told me she dressed like a clown.

[00:09:22] She just wore red lipstick.

[00:09:24] It feels like every time he comes from the office, it's always him complaining about

[00:09:27] her or what she did.

[00:09:29] And usually it's just some normal shit.

[00:09:32] He told me Jess teases him by calling him an old man.

[00:09:35] He really hates that.

[00:09:37] It feels like this girl Jess is always in his mind.

[00:09:40] The other day we went shopping.

[00:09:42] I really liked a red shoe and asked my husband how I look.

[00:09:46] He said it will look gorgeous on me.

[00:09:48] And out of nowhere he said, thank god you don't have stinky feet like Jess.

[00:09:52] She always wears shoes that look weird on her.

[00:09:55] And then proceeded to say how much he hates her and that she is his nemesis.

[00:10:00] This was clearly out of nowhere.

[00:10:01] The thing that confirmed my suspicion is that he follows Jess on Instagram.

[00:10:05] We were sitting on our couch and I was watching a movie and he was scrolling through Instagram.

[00:10:10] He was on Jess' page literally binge watching her content.

[00:10:14] I mean if he hates her and he hates everything she does, then why is he stalking her?

[00:10:19] I did bring it up and he said that I'm being ridiculous and that I should know that he

[00:10:23] hates Jess.

[00:10:25] So thinking that there is something going on is making me look insecure.

[00:10:29] I do not know what to believe.

[00:10:31] My instincts tell me something else but logically if he hates someone that much, he wouldn't

[00:10:35] bring them up in every conversation.

[00:10:38] Where do I go next?

[00:10:41] And I'll just give you a quick overview on the top comments of that before we go to the

[00:10:43] next update which says.

[00:10:45] Noticing loop says he's obsessed.

[00:10:47] He uses hate as a cover up to explain why he's thinking about her so often.

[00:10:51] It's also a handy tool to gaslight you by suggesting you're crazy for thinking anything

[00:10:55] is going on because he obviously hates her.

[00:10:58] Come on the guy brought up her feet unprompted lol.

[00:11:02] He's 33 years old.

[00:11:04] Call his ass out.

[00:11:06] Perfect Judge says before OP even mentioned Instagram, I suspected something else like

[00:11:10] this.

[00:11:11] It's bizarre and unhinged to just hate someone for no reason and mention their feet unprompted.

[00:11:17] Why would anyone do that?

[00:11:19] Something doesn't add up here.

[00:11:20] OP says I feel like there is something he's hiding from me.

[00:11:24] Ever since Jess came, he was more secretive.

[00:11:27] He always puts his phone down.

[00:11:29] So OP's first update comes in and says well I have answers now.

[00:11:33] They were having an emotional affair.

[00:11:35] I came to know of it when I checked my husband's phone.

[00:11:38] Don't give me all that crap about privacy.

[00:11:41] I pressed him hard on it and he admitted he has a thing for her.

[00:11:44] He had taken a day off from work so they can go hiking or just hang out.

[00:11:48] He swears he didn't sleep with her or kiss her.

[00:11:51] I'm not sure about that.

[00:11:53] Their chats looked more like banter.

[00:11:55] I asked him does he like her.

[00:11:56] He was hesitant but eventually admitted having a crush on her.

[00:12:00] I asked why.

[00:12:01] Why does he have a crush on her when she is not someone who he likes?

[00:12:05] His logic, she makes me feel alive.

[00:12:07] She makes me do crazy things and she has an energy that makes me feel special.

[00:12:12] I am hopeless.

[00:12:13] For months I have asked him to take a break and we will go to Italy like we always wanted.

[00:12:18] He made nothing but excuses.

[00:12:20] I want to tell him he is chasing a fantasy.

[00:12:23] He likes the version of her she presented herself as but who am I to convince a lovesick

[00:12:28] man who would cheat on his wife for 5 years just because she is not energetic?

[00:12:33] I left my house and I'm staying with a friend.

[00:12:36] I haven't decided on divorce yet.

[00:12:38] I'm scared to start over at 32.

[00:12:41] I want to become a mother but that means I would waste my good years searching for another

[00:12:45] man.

[00:12:46] I cannot believe he is falling for the obvious maniac pixie dream girl thing.

[00:12:50] If he really wanted energy and do crazy things why couldn't he just say that?

[00:12:54] I would love to go hiking.

[00:12:56] I would love to skip work and just be outside with him all day.

[00:13:00] Yet he chooses a girl he claims he hates but not really.

[00:13:02] He has been calling and texting me non-stop.

[00:13:05] He wants to work this out.

[00:13:07] Even offer to quit and change his job but that's not going to solve anything will it?

[00:14:07] Wolverine No says if the house is in both of your names move back home and ask him

[00:14:25] to leave.

[00:14:26] He cheated and he should be the one to move out.

[00:14:30] Speak to several divorce attorneys in your area and pick one.

[00:14:33] Start the divorce process.

[00:14:35] Has your husband tried to contact you?

[00:14:37] Has he cut his affair partner off?

[00:14:39] Opie says I don't know.

[00:14:41] I haven't talked to him in two days since I moved here and the house belonged to his

[00:14:45] grandma but I don't want the house.

[00:14:47] We've spent some good memories there and those are all tainted.

[00:14:50] His defense is that I shouldn't feel too bad because he never had a physical affair.

[00:14:56] Eight days after that post Opie updated again and says I do not have to start this update.

[00:15:01] Those of you who don't know yes I'm taking the divorce route.

[00:15:04] I do not think I can reconcile with him after what he confessed to.

[00:15:08] The day after I made my last post my husband asked to talk to me.

[00:15:12] He said he is ready to be truthful because he doesn't want this to ruin our marriage.

[00:15:15] He is willing to try therapy and counseling.

[00:15:18] He said he does have a crush on her and often times did fantasize about Jess but they are

[00:15:23] just fantasies nothing more.

[00:15:26] He confessed that though there hasn't been any physical touch or contact he did have

[00:15:30] a moment of weakness and they masturbated in front of each other.

[00:15:34] He swears he didn't touch her they just joked off in front of each other in his car.

[00:15:38] It was Jess' idea.

[00:15:40] She knew about his crush but she has morals so they found a weird loophole.

[00:15:45] I wish I was joking because this sounds unreal to me.

[00:15:49] He is still insisting that was the only sexual thing they did nothing more.

[00:15:53] He's been begging me to come back home.

[00:15:56] He goes from begging to blaming me and when I said I wanted a divorce he was cursing

[00:16:00] me.

[00:16:01] I have served him.

[00:16:02] I have yet to hear from him or his lawyer.

[00:16:05] I know some people will say I'm making a huge mistake and I'm throwing this out easily

[00:16:09] but I do not think I'll be able to trust him again.

[00:16:12] If there is no trust in a relationship then what is there?

[00:16:15] I'm surprised my parents were on my side.

[00:16:18] My mom told me I shouldn't have to beg someone to love me or respect me.

[00:16:22] Him lying to me was a huge disrespect.

[00:16:25] A relationship cannot survive if there is no respect.

[00:16:28] Also I think I offended a lot of people in my last post because they thought I was saying

[00:16:33] women over 30 are old.

[00:16:35] I do not think that but I grew up in a culture where women over 30 are considered left over.

[00:16:40] Though my parents and family members do not think that, there are people around me who

[00:16:44] do and it has been ingrained.

[00:16:46] I've tried hard to unlearn it but there are some remnants.

[00:16:50] I do not know what the future holds for me.

[00:16:52] I'm too depressed and angry to think that.

[00:16:54] P.S.

[00:16:55] Yes I'm in therapy.

[00:16:56] I've been in and out of therapy since 25.

[00:17:00] So around 4 months later OP comes in with another update and says hi everyone, it's

[00:17:05] been a long time.

[00:17:06] I was busy so I couldn't post much.

[00:17:08] The good news is I am officially divorced.

[00:17:11] As many of you suggested I didn't get a house in the divorce like many of you suggested.

[00:17:16] Honestly I didn't even want it.

[00:17:18] I'm living with my parents now for a while.

[00:17:20] I know it sucks because I'm in my 30s and have to start from zero.

[00:17:24] There were times I wanted to stop the divorce and reconcile but the disrespect towards me

[00:17:29] and my marriage is something I cannot get past.

[00:17:31] I know many people PMed me to consider it but sorry to disappoint you.

[00:17:36] As for my ex he is dating his nemesis.

[00:17:39] He insists nothing more happened.

[00:17:41] They didn't have sex.

[00:17:42] The biggest plot twist for me was when I came to know that he and his mistress are in an

[00:17:47] open relationship.

[00:17:49] It was funny to me but now I didn't have to hear from them.

[00:17:52] I'm not dating anyone now.

[00:17:54] Maybe taking a break from dating.

[00:17:55] Thank you all for supporting me.

[00:17:58] Reddit has been a great distraction for me during these tough times.

[00:18:02] And the top comment after that post was congrats on being free from the train wreck of your

[00:18:07] ex's life but I do wish you well in life.

[00:18:10] I was in my mid 30s after my divorce when I started again.

[00:18:14] I'm turning 40 this year and I'm a mom to a 9 month old baby.

[00:18:19] It just felt like the dude was trickle truthing all the way through that.

[00:18:24] Nothing happened.

[00:18:25] He hates her and then it got to the point where they were masturbating in front of

[00:18:29] each other but apparently nothing more happened than that.

[00:18:33] It took me back to the very first post when he suddenly reacted saying at least you don't

[00:18:37] have stinky feet like Jess.

[00:18:38] I mean how did he discover that?

[00:18:41] But it just feels like he's chasing something that's all going to explode in his face eventually

[00:18:46] and he's going to regret his life decisions.

[00:18:49] But I really hope whatever OP chooses to go forward that they find someone that makes

[00:18:53] them happy and they just live the life that they want to live.

[00:18:57] But now I'm going to turn this one to you guys.

[00:18:59] What do you guys make of this situation?

[00:19:02] Let me know your thoughts down in the comments below.

[00:19:05] Let's move on to another story.

[00:19:08] And our next story is from the Am I the Arsehole subreddit.

[00:19:11] It doesn't have an update as yet but it's easter based so I thought why not eh?

[00:19:15] Perfume in a bottle says am I the arsehole for calling my sister a jealous hag because

[00:19:20] she got judgy over my husband making me an easter basket.

[00:19:24] My husband and I do easter baskets for one another and this year he gave me mine early

[00:19:29] since I'll be gone.

[00:19:31] In the basket was the usual dark choco bunny, starburst jelly beans and then some swifty

[00:19:36] stuff from etsy, a fidget toy and really surprisingly he got me 3 full bottles of perfumes that

[00:19:42] were on my wishlist.

[00:19:43] 100 silent ways, bianco latte and oreana.

[00:19:48] I'm sorry about those pronunciations.

[00:19:51] I was shocked because that's a big spend.

[00:19:53] I was over the moon and took a pic and posted it to insta stories.

[00:19:57] The next day my sister came over.

[00:19:59] I'd left my basket on the table and she poked over it and took some jelly beans and

[00:20:03] then made a comment asking me if my husband had stepped out on me or something and was

[00:20:08] trying to make it up to me.

[00:20:09] I was like no of course not.

[00:20:11] Why would she say that?

[00:20:13] She asked why he'd go all out like this then and how it must be nice to have all this extra

[00:20:18] money to spend when everyone around us is struggling.

[00:20:21] Oh it must be nice to have such a picture perfect marriage.

[00:20:25] I was really taken aback and asked her what her issue is.

[00:20:28] She was like most women I know can't even get their husbands to fill a christmas stocking

[00:20:33] for them and you're out here bragging on yours and shove it in everyone's faces.

[00:20:38] She said she was lucky if she got a card for her birthday.

[00:20:41] I told her to stop blaming me because she chose to marry a thoughtless man.

[00:20:45] That she had the choice to marry someone who did nice things for her but she chose to marry

[00:20:49] a man who doesn't help around the house, buy her flowers etc and not be a pissy, jealous

[00:20:54] hag because she chose to settle for less.

[00:20:58] This set her off and she started arguing with me more.

[00:21:01] Telling me that I'm fucked up for calling her a jealous hag when there's nothing to

[00:21:04] be jealous of.

[00:21:06] More like embarrassed that it's 2024 and I'm acting like life is a romcom.

[00:21:10] That the fact that I even listen to Taylor Swift is proof that I need to grow up.

[00:21:14] I told her to just get out and double down on her being a pissy, jealous hag.

[00:21:18] That and I'm on the other side of the country for work.

[00:21:22] I feel like maybe I was over the top in calling her a jealous hag.

[00:21:25] You're just jealous is the most annoying comeback in the world and I used it on my own sister.

[00:21:30] She also typically texts me throughout her day and she hasn't sent me anything since

[00:21:34] then which means she is definitely still pissed.

[00:21:38] Am I the arsehole?

[00:21:41] Akoko says not the arsehole.

[00:21:42] I think the inability to express joy when something good happens to someone else is

[00:21:46] absolutely the worst personality trait in a person.

[00:21:49] Implying your husband is unfaithful because he made a nice gesture is incredibly immature.

[00:21:55] She's lucky you don't just cut her out of your life entirely if this is how she typically

[00:21:59] behaves.

[00:22:00] New comment says torn between, not the arsehole and everyone sucks here.

[00:22:04] Her jealousy is her issue.

[00:22:06] Her accusing your husband of cheating on you and trying to make it up to you is spectacularly

[00:22:10] shitty.

[00:22:11] She chose her husband and if he doesn't do nice things for her that is her problem

[00:22:15] to fix.

[00:22:16] You calling her a pissy, jealous hag wasn't the nicest thing to say but let's be honest

[00:22:20] she was being a pissy, jealous hag.

[00:22:22] Trying to fuck up someone else's good mood is being a jerk especially when you're not

[00:22:26] the source of her problems.

[00:22:28] Are all the good husbands in the world supposed to stop doing nice things for their wives

[00:22:31] because she married a jerk?

[00:22:34] Nothing to go with, not the arsehole.

[00:22:37] Next commenter says everyone sucks here, she was out of line, you weren't shoving your

[00:22:41] basket down her throat.

[00:22:43] Saying she was jealous was an obvious observation.

[00:22:46] Calling her a hag was kicking her while she's down and she's really down.

[00:22:51] Shot Artichoke says everyone sucks here, sure she was being a jerk but name calling is petty

[00:22:56] and immature.

[00:22:58] Also unless she is normally a jerk it sounds like she's going through something.

[00:23:02] If my normally non-jerk sister said something to me like, oh it must have been nice to have

[00:23:07] such a picture perfect marriage.

[00:23:09] I'd be asking her what's really going on, not hurling insults.

[00:23:14] And the comments were very much mixed between not the arsehole and everyone sucks here for

[00:23:19] the reasons we've just read out.

[00:23:21] But what do you guys make of this situation?

[00:23:24] I kind of agree with that last comment, there were some seriously bad things with the sister

[00:23:29] said especially insinuating that he was cheating or whatever.

[00:23:35] That's difficult to move past but that last comment did have me really thinking, I was

[00:23:40] trying to think if one of my brothers said something similar.

[00:23:43] My brothers who are always really good to me and then suddenly they came out with something

[00:23:47] that's a bit out of the blue which is not normal for them.

[00:23:51] It would definitely raise concerns in my mind like what is going on?

[00:23:55] But now I'm going to turn this one to you guys.

[00:23:57] What do you guys make of this situation?

[00:24:00] How would you deal with it?

[00:24:01] Do you think it's a not the arsehole?

[00:24:02] Do you think it's everyone sucks here?

[00:24:04] Maybe you think something completely different?

[00:24:06] Let us know your thoughts down in the comments below.

[00:24:09] Just a huge thank you from the bottom of my heart for getting involved in today's stories.

[00:24:13] Your love, your support, your time always means the absolute world to me so thank you

[00:24:18] so so much for being involved truly and I will see you in the next one.

[00:24:22] Take care and much love.

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