I REFUSE To Buy My Daughter A Car After She Publicly Disrespected Me r/Relationships

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[00:00:20] Today's first story comes from outrageous pen 692 0 from the Am I wrong subreddit that says,

[00:00:26] I the R solve, I'm not getting my daughter a car after she publicly respected me.

[00:00:33] So last week, me, my wife and two kids went out to the zoo for my daughter's 23rd birthday.

[00:00:38] We were having a great time, while leaving an enclosure some woman sort of cut us off and

[00:00:44] pushed in front of us to get out first.

[00:00:46] She didn't actually touch us and it wasn't that big of a deal but it was a little obnoxious.

[00:00:52] And I said there's no need to push ahead love.

[00:00:55] She responded with something like, how did I push ahead?

[00:00:58] It's not like there's a queue.

[00:00:59] I just tutted and thought whatever, not worth it.

[00:01:03] But then some giant guy who was apparently her son, I didn't realize this because they

[00:01:08] looked very different.

[00:01:09] I.e. she was white and he was mixed.

[00:01:12] Not that it matters.

[00:01:13] Said to her, what does someone have a problem mum?

[00:01:16] And she pointed me out.

[00:01:18] A son turned around and started aggressively antagonising me for no reason.

[00:01:22] Telling me to keep my comments to myself, called me a bitch, a caron and kept calling

[00:01:27] me tiny saying I had little man syndrome.

[00:01:31] Just really off the wall stuff for what I thought was a benign comment.

[00:01:35] Then for some reason my daughter, 22 female, helped the need take up for this guy and started

[00:01:40] saying stuff like, why you like this?

[00:01:42] Why'd you feel the need to say something?

[00:01:44] Then started apologising to the guy and agreed with him that I'm a caron and I was really

[00:01:50] taken aback by this.

[00:01:52] Then the guy asked how old she is and she tells him and asks for a number and she gives

[00:01:56] it to him.

[00:01:57] He hands his phone over to her and she types in a number.

[00:02:01] All time this guy staring at me with a shit eating grin on his face.

[00:02:05] When my daughter comes back over to us, ask her what the hell was that and she just says

[00:02:09] what?

[00:02:10] He's cute and you need to be put in your place every once in a while.

[00:02:14] I said since that's what she thinks, she can buy her own car for a birthday.

[00:02:18] She clearly thought I wasn't serious because when she asked if we can look at cars and

[00:02:22] I told her she can look herself because I'm not paying for it.

[00:02:26] This is divided my house with my son taking my side saying she was out of line and my wife

[00:02:31] saying it's not worth ruining my relationship with her over.

[00:02:34] I feel like if not getting a car as punishment is enough to ruin her relationship with me

[00:02:40] and I probably spoiled her too much anyway.

[00:02:42] She really has a car that I bought her two years ago which works fine.

[00:02:45] That's not like I'm exactly depriving her.

[00:02:48] I'm I, the Yassal.

[00:02:49] I'm at work on my lunch break right now so can't really reply.

[00:02:53] I've skimmed the comments and will address a few things I feel relevant.

[00:02:57] The car I bought her two years ago was a run around Fiat 500 second hand.

[00:03:02] It's in fine shape but not exactly the nicest car.

[00:03:05] I promised my daughter in Audi as my son is going travelling for his 21st birthday

[00:03:10] which I am paying for.

[00:03:12] The car she wanted was roughly the same cost.

[00:03:15] She doesn't live at home, she hasn't since she moved out for uni at 18.

[00:03:19] I don't feel like I am a caron but I'm not shy to speak up and complain if I feel

[00:03:24] I must.

[00:03:25] If people are rude or something is not up to my standard or happily say something.

[00:03:30] I realistically couldn't beat up the 6 foot 4 or whatever 27 year old mouthing off

[00:03:35] to me.

[00:03:36] I'm 47 years old and I've worked in office job for the last 20 to 30 years and have

[00:03:41] a bad back.

[00:03:42] I'm starting the comments with Van Gogh 1853 who says not the assholes, she's not a kid.

[00:03:48] She can buy her own damn car and when she comes crying to you when this relationship she

[00:03:52] pursued over respect in new crumbles she won't be getting sympathy from you.

[00:03:57] If she was so concerned she could have said something to you in private.

[00:04:00] She sounds very immature.

[00:04:03] Ms Bobby doll says nope she risks our relationship with you because this guy was cute.

[00:04:07] If she had a good sense she'd know that the guy only cared to get back at you.

[00:04:11] Thus she thinks she's going to bring him to your house now, she's old enough to know

[00:04:16] better.

[00:04:17] Tell the money says not the asshole and frankly your wife is being an ass as well.

[00:04:21] You didn't ruin your relationship with her, she ruined hers with you.

[00:04:25] As your wife even though what really happened or just whatever twisted version of events

[00:04:29] you'll do to actually dain't tell her.

[00:04:31] Either way good luck OP.

[00:04:34] A few hours later OP comes back in to update the post and says so I got home about an

[00:04:38] hour ago.

[00:04:39] My wife called me into the room to talk.

[00:04:42] She gave me an ultimatum, she said I can either swallow my pride and buy my daughter

[00:04:46] the car or she will buy the car out of her own money.

[00:04:49] My wife doesn't earn as much as me but who has a well paying job and can afford it.

[00:04:54] She said that everyone is sick of my attitude in public, that every time we go out I get

[00:04:58] in some sort of altercation or disagreement with someone over some petty shit.

[00:05:03] I think this is a gross over exaggeration but my wife showed me text for my daughter asking

[00:05:08] if she can go out with just my wife because I always do something to embarrass everyone.

[00:05:13] My wife refused and defended me saying that's not true and that's why when I got into

[00:05:18] an argument my wife said nothing about my daughter's actions.

[00:05:21] She said she isn't going to punish my daughter because I can never keep my mouth shut.

[00:05:26] She when my daughter said she didn't want me there because something like this would happen

[00:05:30] and she defended me only to be made to look like a fool.

[00:05:34] She says that my daughter barely likes me as it is, if I do this I shouldn't be shocked

[00:05:39] when she stops talking to me completely.

[00:05:41] I asked my wife if all I am to my daughter is a piggy bank and she told me to stop playing

[00:05:47] the victim.

[00:05:48] She said it's up to me what I do with my money but my daughter will be getting the car one

[00:05:52] way or another so I can either make her hate me for no reason or I can swallow my pride

[00:05:56] and get her the car myself.

[00:05:57] I don't really know where to go from here.

[00:06:01] So I'll give you the top three comments after that low update so someone says info how often

[00:06:06] do you get into altercations with strangers?

[00:06:09] Another one says dude can't keep his mouth shut, family hates him for it except when the

[00:06:12] wife and daughter are financially dominating him then it's okay.

[00:06:16] That's when he tends to keep his mouth shut.

[00:06:18] One more that says no one in this family sounds likeable maybe the son but that's because

[00:06:23] he's talked about the least.

[00:06:25] Opie sounds like he gets into enough issues and public they are fed up.

[00:06:29] Wife isn't on the same page with him marriage wise and is making ultimatums and most important

[00:06:33] of all the daughter is 23 living at home and openly asking out guys to mess with their

[00:06:37] dad and want a new car after getting one two years ago.

[00:06:40] He always sound like a kind of spoiled rich family but everyone was born with a silver

[00:06:45] spoon in their mouth and they still managed to find petty reasons to hate each other.

[00:06:49] Opie then comes in with another out dance that's sorry I didn't respond a lot has happened

[00:06:53] yesterday.

[00:06:54] After everything I got my daughter over because I wanted to talk about everything.

[00:06:59] My wife said to just let it go but clearly everyone had a problem with me that I didn't

[00:07:04] know about so wanted to get to the bottom of it so I waited for my son to get home.

[00:07:10] My daughter drove around a little later.

[00:07:12] We all sat down and decided to talk.

[00:07:15] I started by doing what many of you suggested and asked for actual examples rather than

[00:07:19] just accepting their word for it.

[00:07:21] And honestly a lot of it sounded ridiculous.

[00:07:24] The fact that I sent back a stake twice because both times it was undercooked as if it's

[00:07:29] a crime to want 180 pounds stake cooked correctly.

[00:07:32] The fact that I argued with someone who sat in our assigned seats at a cinema even though

[00:07:37] it was nearly empty again as if it's a crime to want a Sydney C.I. paid for where there

[00:07:42] is dozens of other places for these people to sit.

[00:07:45] And other equally silly things which I can't be bothered to get into and don't even really

[00:07:49] remember as a result of the insignificance of it.

[00:07:52] Despite me thinking that it was all ridiculous.

[00:07:54] I said I would do my best to be a meek pushover in public if that was the only way to get

[00:07:59] them to like me and that I would get a car on one condition.

[00:08:03] And my daughter hadn't actually text the guy who abused me.

[00:08:06] I asked to look at her messages and she said not to even bother because she had text

[00:08:10] him and I didn't have the right to control who she talks to.

[00:08:14] I said that is true but I do have the right to spend my money on whatever I want and

[00:08:19] I'm not getting my daughter a car.

[00:08:21] She has one that works fine and even if I am an ass in a situation where a family is

[00:08:26] getting threatened she's sided with the aggressor and then doubled down on that and that

[00:08:31] is unforgivable.

[00:08:32] My daughter blew up at me and said that I am a petty little pig-headed man within Napoleon

[00:08:37] complex and that all the money in the world hasn't stopped me from being a fucking loser.

[00:08:42] I said oh yeah because the guy who screams at old men is such a winner and she screamed

[00:08:48] at me that I'm not a victim and then something about how cathartic it was to watch someone stand

[00:08:53] up to me and that how the second he did she watched me shrink back into a little bit

[00:08:58] should have always been growing up.

[00:09:00] That was the last straw.

[00:09:01] It told her to get out but she doubled down and told me that my wife had told him about

[00:09:06] me being bullied growing up and that's why I am the way I am.

[00:09:11] I saw my wife turn pale as a ghost at this comment.

[00:09:14] This is something I confided in her in private.

[00:09:16] Clearly, this is why my daughter stopped respecting me.

[00:09:20] Obviously I wasn't cool enough for her or whatever.

[00:09:22] I was speechless but my daughter carried on.

[00:09:26] She said make a genuine promise to Jake that he can go to Cambodia and ask him what he

[00:09:31] really thinks.

[00:09:32] I just nodded.

[00:09:33] The brother begged not to be put in the middle of this but I insisted it.

[00:09:37] All he said was sometimes you can be a bit much dad.

[00:09:41] My daughter called him a pussy and just walked out.

[00:09:44] My son ran off to his room and my wife drove off after my daughter.

[00:09:47] She didn't come back last night.

[00:09:49] I've not heard from my wife or daughter since.

[00:09:51] I've called out of work.

[00:09:53] My son left for university without saying a word to me.

[00:09:56] I barely slept a wink.

[00:09:58] Can't believe it.

[00:09:59] I'm a cliché.

[00:10:00] A rich old man whose family hates him.

[00:10:03] If I was lost before, now I'm genuinely clueless about what I'm supposed to do.

[00:10:07] And we do have another update to this post in a moment but the comments on that one says

[00:10:12] your self perception isn't in line with reality and I think the way you're viewing these interactions

[00:10:17] is very different from what they look like from the outside.

[00:10:20] The fact that you consider choosing your battles to be acting as a meek pushover is very revealing.

[00:10:25] You don't have to react to every little thing and it sounds like you do.

[00:10:29] I hate you like that is immensely stressful for the people around you.

[00:10:33] Another commenter says especially if you have three or saying you have a problem, you

[00:10:37] probably do.

[00:10:39] Another says see a therapist.

[00:10:40] You may have some underlying issues here but your family isn't innocent.

[00:10:45] Get a therapist away and illness.

[00:10:47] Clearly your wife betrayed your trust and your daughter is a 23 year old entitled child

[00:10:51] that you are responsible for.

[00:10:53] Go to therapy, make it a family therapist and get at your help.

[00:10:58] Opie says I didn't believe in therapy.

[00:11:00] I didn't need it then and I don't need it now.

[00:11:02] I don't need to pay some random person 200 pounds an hour to tell me it's wrong to stand

[00:11:06] up for myself.

[00:11:07] And she says everyone sucks here.

[00:11:10] The daughter is too spoiled.

[00:11:12] She doesn't know the value of money and acts so entitled it hurts my brain.

[00:11:16] You raised a chaff and when she met another one got so happy and got his number.

[00:11:20] With a fuck gets a stranger's number after they be little bit parent.

[00:11:24] Chaff.

[00:11:25] You also have some issues and recommended therapy.

[00:11:29] There are situations when you need to make a fuss and some that you need to ignore

[00:11:32] and let go.

[00:11:33] And barris because you return twice a stake 180 pounds steak.

[00:11:37] I want to see the cow CV for that money.

[00:11:40] Opie says if I go to a flat earth convention and say the world is round, does that magically

[00:11:45] make me wrong?

[00:11:46] Or am I just in a room full of idiots?

[00:11:49] Hey everyone.

[00:11:53] I'm Craig Robinson co-host of the Ways to Win Podcast alongside my good friend John

[00:11:59] Calapari.

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[00:12:20] Your home might be worth more than you think.

[00:12:22] Find out how much at Airbnb dot com slash post.

[00:12:50] I'm still refusing because I feel it is a waste of time.

[00:12:57] I know myself and I know my mind.

[00:12:59] To my heart complains sometimes that doesn't make me mentally ill.

[00:13:03] My son and I are probably the biggest update I guess.

[00:13:05] We are falling out hard.

[00:13:07] He's blaming me for tearing the family apart by being stubborn.

[00:13:11] He says I drove my daughter away and I drove my wife away and I'm going to drive him away

[00:13:15] too unless I try to make it right with everyone.

[00:13:19] He's mainly mad at me for refusing my wife's demands for therapy.

[00:13:22] He's still living at home as it is close to his university but he says that if I'm not

[00:13:27] at least trying to make it right by the time he finishes, he will leave and not look back.

[00:13:32] It turns out the reason a sister called him a pussy is that he actually agrees with

[00:13:36] her more than he let on.

[00:13:37] He says that I'm a bully but I bully and get condescending and rude to people in public

[00:13:43] and then play the victim if anyone calls me out on it.

[00:13:46] He says I'm rude to everyone, everywhere I go and that I'm rude to everyone at home too.

[00:13:51] He says that I laud my money over people and if anyone disagrees with anything I do,

[00:13:56] I take it away.

[00:13:58] He said my daughter hasn't liked me since she was 16 and that she always talked about

[00:14:02] escaping me.

[00:14:03] He said she never expected me to actually go through with getting the car because she

[00:14:07] knew how to snatch it away the first time she did something I didn't like.

[00:14:12] Apparently the whole thing was a test.

[00:14:15] She had made it clear to everyone that if I didn't fact snatch the car away, at the

[00:14:18] last second she planned to never speak to me again.

[00:14:22] My son knew this, my wife knew this.

[00:14:24] That's why my wife was so adamant on me getting the car from my daughter.

[00:14:28] That's why my daughter was so upset about me not getting it because in her mind that

[00:14:32] was me finally killing the relationship.

[00:14:35] He also told me that my wife has defended me for years and years and that she didn't

[00:14:40] betray my trust but she told the story of my upbringing to try and stop him and my sister

[00:14:44] from hating me.

[00:14:45] He said my daughter has openly said she should leave me for years and that my wife always

[00:14:50] told her off for that but now I finally pushed her away too.

[00:14:54] He admitted he never thought she would ever actually leave me but said that he's proud

[00:14:58] of her standing up to me finally.

[00:15:01] He also said that he doesn't care if I take away his birthday trip and that he wants

[00:15:05] me to fix the family and that is more important than some holiday.

[00:15:09] I've decided I'm not going to take away his holiday.

[00:15:12] As that would probably just give them even more ammo against me but I'm also not doing

[00:15:17] therapy.

[00:15:18] They may need therapy, I don't.

[00:15:20] I'm fine with who I am.

[00:15:22] I like myself even if they don't.

[00:15:25] That's basically it.

[00:15:26] I don't understand how you can be so stubborn in this story like the whole therapy thing

[00:15:31] your whole family is telling you you know you need to go to therapy if you want any sort

[00:15:34] of connection with us and still like nope I like myself.

[00:15:38] They might need it but I don't.

[00:15:41] And choosing this hilted ion like just having no family, no one wanting you around and seemingly

[00:15:48] seems to be happy with it.

[00:15:50] But what do you guys make of this situation?

[00:15:54] Let us know your thoughts down in the comments below.

[00:15:57] Let's move on to another story.

[00:16:00] Now our next story is from Sweet Trade Pies from the Amideus All subreddit.

[00:16:03] It does have like a kind of update with edits as such and it says Amideus All for not

[00:16:08] telling my boyfriend I won money 15 years ago.

[00:16:12] I don't know what I did wrong or what I did is wrong and I need some advice.

[00:16:16] I didn't want to post this on my real account because I'd like to be as anonymous as possible.

[00:16:22] My boyfriend 35 male and I 35 female were discussing finances as we wanted to be on the

[00:16:28] same page.

[00:16:29] My boyfriend moved in with me unexpectedly three months ago as his landlord decided to

[00:16:34] move into the property with his family.

[00:16:36] We would discuss him finances on the topic of how I own my place came up.

[00:16:41] I explained I won some money, not a lot but enough to be able to put myself through

[00:16:46] nursing school, purchase my home and have some savings.

[00:16:50] Back in 2009 and bought my place out right and then rented it out until I moved back

[00:16:55] into it in late 2018.

[00:16:57] Obviously I had some luck on my side as this was right in the middle of the recession

[00:17:01] so I got my place for real cheap.

[00:17:04] He says I deceived him, I given him the impression that I was financially well off and

[00:17:09] that I led him to believe I was more business savvy than I was.

[00:17:12] I don't know how I did that because I literally workers a nurse make decent money fully

[00:17:17] own my home, fully own my car, have decent retirement plans and decent savings.

[00:17:22] I'm fairly certain that I'm financially better off than most people I know.

[00:17:27] He says that he can't trust me anymore, that he was stupid to have listened to my financial

[00:17:31] advice but the thing is,

[00:17:33] I never gave him any financial advice except for telling him not to buy a car that was

[00:17:37] in my opinion unreliable much too expensive.

[00:17:40] Did I deceive him by not telling him how I got myself financially stable?

[00:17:46] Pre-information we've been dating for almost a year and a half.

[00:17:50] Not the asshole to me, I just feel like you've done absolutely nothing wrong in this situation.

[00:17:55] You've taken that money and you've invested it wisely into property and you spent it wisely

[00:18:01] on your home, your car and your retirement plans and savings.

[00:18:06] And it's given me major red flags that he's upset about this.

[00:18:10] And the fact that he said that he can't trust you anymore and was stupid to listen to

[00:18:14] your financial advice when it sounds like it was good financial advice to be fair is a huge

[00:18:19] concern for me.

[00:18:20] And the fact is I would switch that around.

[00:18:23] If someone said this to me, I'd be looking the other way that I can't trust them after

[00:18:27] what they said that it feels like he's after some kind of free ride and expect me to be

[00:18:33] richer than you was and was relying on that in some form.

[00:18:37] But Aramua says not the asshole, this feels like jealousy on his part so he's lashing out.

[00:18:42] I have interest how long have you two been together because this kind of information

[00:18:46] can take a while to disclose.

[00:18:47] If you were together when you won the money and hit it from him, that might be a different

[00:18:52] argument.

[00:18:53] Also, you are financially savvy because you got a win fall and didn't waste it.

[00:18:58] Well done you.

[00:18:59] Opie says we've been together almost every year and a half.

[00:19:02] I didn't even know him when I won my money.

[00:19:05] Thank you.

[00:19:06] Extra says not the asshole and I see a lot of red flags here.

[00:19:09] It sounds like you were very responsible about how you spent your win fall, securing

[00:19:13] yourself a hung, paying for your education and putting the rest aside in savings.

[00:19:18] I'm not sure what about that he's questioning.

[00:19:21] My concern is that he might have thought you were very wealthy and was hoping you would

[00:19:24] be a sugar mama.

[00:19:26] Is he only in this for the money?

[00:19:29] Archetyping says not the asshole, thank god you found this out right now.

[00:19:33] I'd make him an ex-boyfriend and kick him out.

[00:19:35] I want him to start laying claims to your home's equity after he lives there too long,

[00:19:40] depending on state and provincial laws on common law partners.

[00:19:43] He's jealous.

[00:19:44] He also likely thinks that you are his meal ticket.

[00:19:47] He's angry with nothing reasonable.

[00:19:49] One and a half years isn't very long and you don't owe someone the whole I bought

[00:19:52] this house because I got money from ex blah blah blah.

[00:19:56] And one final comment from game dev who says not the asshole sounds like he isn't secure

[00:20:00] because you make more and have more success than him.

[00:20:03] He's putting you down to make himself feel better.

[00:20:06] Nurses make bank, they work hard hours and are compensated accordingly.

[00:20:11] Simply ask him, knowing how you probably earn 100k per year and another 30-40k in over

[00:20:16] time.

[00:20:17] He believes you could own your home without your prior luck because unless it's some

[00:20:21] mansion, like anything in the recession was cheap and as I stated, you likely make bank.

[00:20:26] If he feels like you don't deserve your home because of some chance and luck and couldn't

[00:20:30] afford it, offer to move into his comparable home he purchases.

[00:20:34] Honestly, I don't think he recognizes your success and I think you need a long chat about

[00:20:38] it over a bottle of wine or three.

[00:20:39] You can either be proud of you and drop it or he can be single.

[00:20:43] Opie says, I earn a bit over 200k and with over time I earn more.

[00:20:48] I also know I could buy a fairly decent place now if I wanted.

[00:20:51] I base it on my colleagues who purchased their homes in the past few years.

[00:20:54] But you're right, I'm definitely going to ask him this.

[00:20:57] I was just taking a bank by his response to me sharing things with him that I was genuinely

[00:21:01] perplexed on what I did to cause such an argument.

[00:21:04] Opie came into edit the post and says, I just had another very weird conversation with him

[00:21:09] and I honestly can't wrap my head around it.

[00:21:12] Yeah, so he's definitely a gold digger.

[00:21:14] He asked me how much I have in savings and seemed impressed with how much and then said

[00:21:19] maybe he reacted to aggressively and asked him to tell me that he still wants the car

[00:21:23] I advised him not to get.

[00:21:25] He hinted at me getting it for him as a birthday present since this is birthday in early

[00:21:29] March.

[00:21:30] I'm definitely dumping him.

[00:21:32] Going to wait till my two sisters and my two brother-in-law can come over before I break

[00:21:36] up with him in case he reacts crazy.

[00:21:39] He's jealous and also resentful.

[00:21:42] He's ranting about how would have tripled the money if he had won it.

[00:21:46] Edit 3

[00:21:47] He's saying that the money is wasted on me because I don't make it make money.

[00:21:51] Apparently, I should've been invested in my savings in high-yielding stocks and other

[00:21:56] shit.

[00:21:57] For your information, I do get financial advice from a financial advisor I trust but I'm

[00:22:01] a risk averse person so I would never invest in the manner this idiot is telling me.

[00:22:05] Sure, the chance to get a lot of money is there but so was the chance to lose.

[00:22:10] Edit 4

[00:22:11] He's now on a crazy ramp because I suggested we take a break from this argument because

[00:22:15] I don't want to ruin my few days off.

[00:22:18] My God, I can't believe how he's behaving.

[00:22:20] He thinks he's so clever but I am thoroughly disgusted.

[00:22:23] Oh, it's absolutely over between us.

[00:22:26] Edit 5

[00:22:27] Ok so I understand him better now.

[00:22:30] In my house, the property it's on is what led him to believe I was much richer than

[00:22:34] I am.

[00:22:35] This summed I was loaded so telling him I actually got lucky pissed him off.

[00:22:40] Then when he found out how much in savings and assets I have, he perked up and had a change

[00:22:44] of mind.

[00:22:45] He's now telling me that with just the quarter of my money you can show me how to invest

[00:22:49] on the stock market and make real money.

[00:22:52] Oh, he is genuinely eluded.

[00:22:56] Get that guy out of there ASAP.

[00:23:00] But now I'm going to turn this one to you guys.

[00:23:02] What do you guys make of this situation?

[00:23:05] Let us know your thoughts in the comments below.

[00:23:08] I just a huge thank you from the bottom of my heart for getting involved in today's

[00:23:11] stories, your love, your support, your time always means the absolute world to me so

[00:23:15] thank you so much for being involved and hopefully I'll see you in the next one.

[00:23:21] Take care and much love.