I Purposefully Order Meat Items So I Don't Have To Share With My Vegetarian Friend r/Relationships

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[00:00:21] I purposely order meat items so I don't have to share it with my vegetarian friend. I have a friend who is a vegetarian and very entitled. She believes that her money is hers and my money is ours. I love sharing food with friends. I eat almost exclusively family style but I hate sharing food with this friend because she does not share food with me. To avoid confrontation, I've started exclusively ordering meat items whenever we eat together. Recently,

[00:00:51] we went out to eat and I ordered chili cheese fries and I added steak. My friend interjected and asked if we could get the steak on the side so we could share. The waiter was like sure and I kind of just stared blankly, silently fuming. But then when the fries came, I immediately dumped all the steak on the fries and started mixing. She was like wait! And I said oh, oops, sorry and continued eating. She said she would have ordered more food if we weren't sharing.

[00:01:21] I said well, then order it. But she didn't because she was trying to save money. She ate a sad salad. Sad salad. She ate a sad salad and kind of passive aggressively said, man, I wish I had some fries with this too. I ignored the tone and just responded cheerily. You should get some. They are good. Hopefully she gets the hint soon.

[00:01:45] Edit. Okay, I'm sick of saying this, but this person does not respond well to criticism. Friends have tried and failed to bring up issues about money with this person before. It does not end well. I'm prioritizing my own mental health over being mature and doing the right thing. Go watch an after school special. How do I add a flare? No more advice, please. This is a vent.

[00:02:10] So on the back of this, someone did ask Opie a question. JoJo's Universe says, genuine question.

[00:02:15] Has anyone ever expressed that it annoys them when she does this?

[00:02:18] Sometimes people don't realize they're being annoying.

[00:02:21] If you haven't already, I would try to set the boundary that you don't mind sharing food if she also shares food.

[00:02:27] Tell her that you understand she needs to save money, but that it doesn't mean that you can afford her to keep eating your food too.

[00:02:33] If she doesn't take it well, that's a sign to distance yourself. If she apologized and works on it, it could be genuine ignorance.

[00:02:42] Opie says, yes, there have been multiple attempts at boundary setting in the past, all the way from when we were little.

[00:02:49] That is when I learned that most people would rather keep the peace by placating the dramatic person rather than holding the dramatic person accountable.

[00:02:57] She is manipulative. There was a whole issue at prom where she didn't pay her share for the limo.

[00:03:03] The kid who did would not let her on. She cried. The kid's parents felt bad and covered for her.

[00:03:09] Made the kid apologize. She always has a sob story. She's always the victim.

[00:03:13] I have even offered her to apply for a job in the past where I work as a busser because I too thought she just needed help.

[00:03:21] Because again, she is manipulative.

[00:03:23] Before my eyes were opened, she said to my face, I could never bus tables. Is there a host position open?

[00:03:29] This isn't her only thing. She's manipulative and selfish in every single way.

[00:03:34] Some people see it. Some people don't. And until everyone sees it, I'm not going to be the hero that calls her out on it.

[00:03:42] And absolutely, that would pee me off as well.

[00:03:45] I enjoy sharing food as well, but if someone's just taking my food and not sharing at all, that would piss me right off.

[00:03:54] But Midday Glitter says you're going to have to call her out on this.

[00:03:58] Sharing is a staircase. It goes both ways.

[00:04:01] You could be nice if you want to.

[00:04:03] I don't like sharing with you because you don't share with me and it makes me feel used and taken advantage of.

[00:04:08] I share with my friends all the time and one of my friends eats like a vacuum and I'm a slow eater.

[00:04:14] I've stopped sharing mid-meal multiple times because she never realizes how hungry she is and will eat all my food if not stopped.

[00:04:21] It's not intentional on her part.

[00:04:24] More than one occasion before I start cutting her off, she'd eat all my food, feel bad and pay for my dinner.

[00:04:30] But it's all about setting a boundary and standing your ground.

[00:04:33] You're not a dick for wanting an equal treatment.

[00:04:36] Alternatively, call her out at the start.

[00:04:38] You want to share fries?

[00:04:40] Sure, but only if I can trade you for a few bites of salad or whatever else she is getting.

[00:04:45] Make it very clear that you'll share if she does without having to say those words directly.

[00:04:50] Make it clear that you'll share if she does without having to say those words directly.

[00:04:57] Glass Fern says I had a friend like this.

[00:05:00] I started eating off their plate and when they brought it up I was just like,

[00:05:03] what's the problem?

[00:05:04] You pick off my plate all the time.

[00:05:06] I thought we're eating family style.

[00:05:08] And hard stared at her and mentioned to the fry ends that she sat on her plate that she stole from my plate and slowly ate the dumpling she ordered.

[00:05:16] She went on to say, well, the dumplings are my meal.

[00:05:19] And I said, well, the burger and fries are my meal.

[00:05:22] And you've been eating my fries.

[00:05:24] They're part of my meal.

[00:05:25] It's my side.

[00:05:26] If you want fries, then order some fries.

[00:05:29] Since then it's been very clear when we go out to eat.

[00:05:31] You want an appetizer to split.

[00:05:34] I don't play games.

[00:05:35] I love heating family style like dim sum.

[00:05:38] But don't steal off my plate.

[00:05:40] So a couple of months later, OP comes back into the post and says,

[00:05:44] my post blew up and lots of people asked for an update.

[00:05:47] Nothing too interesting happened until last week.

[00:05:49] So here it goes.

[00:05:51] TLDR of last post.

[00:05:53] Mooch vegetarian friend who likes to steal food but doesn't like to share keeps stealing my food.

[00:05:58] So I purposely order meat items to not share.

[00:06:02] Update.

[00:06:03] Long story short, I'm no longer friends with Mooch.

[00:06:06] Another instance happened that was the catalyst for me.

[00:06:10] But I didn't make a dramatic show of anything.

[00:06:12] I just slowly stopped going on outings where Mooch was invited.

[00:06:16] All of my friends seemed to think that Mooch isn't that bad.

[00:06:19] So they weren't really wanting to ice her out for me, which is totally understandable.

[00:06:24] But unfortunately means I stopped hanging out with most of my friends.

[00:06:28] That is until last week.

[00:06:30] My friends had planned a short spring break trip to Mexico.

[00:06:34] I didn't go because Mooch was invited.

[00:06:36] I even warned them that Mooch was going to make it miserable.

[00:06:40] But no one listens to me.

[00:06:41] And shocker to everyone except for me, the trip was awful.

[00:06:46] She didn't pay for a single thing.

[00:06:48] She still owes people for a portion of the Airbnb and gas money for the drive.

[00:06:52] Additionally, she had a sour mood anytime plans didn't go her way.

[00:06:57] Example, Group wants to go to the markets.

[00:07:00] Mooch wants to go rent a boat.

[00:07:02] Majority rules they go to the market.

[00:07:04] Mooch has a giant frown and makes sure everyone is aware she's having a bad time.

[00:07:09] One night, everyone went clubbing.

[00:07:11] She got tired and wanted to go home.

[00:07:14] No one wanted to go with her.

[00:07:16] She was waiting around with a giant frown, clearly wanting someone to leave with her so she didn't have to pay for the Uber.

[00:07:22] She finally orders an Uber for herself.

[00:07:24] After the Uber arrives, two girls decide actually they are tired too.

[00:07:29] So they take the Uber with her.

[00:07:30] She had the audacity to Venmo request them for money for the Uber after having not paid for anything else the entire trip.

[00:07:38] And one of the girls she Venmo requests was the one that paid for the Airbnb that she still had not paid her back for.

[00:07:44] For the record, everyone else took turns paying for Ubers.

[00:07:47] No one Venmo requested each other for that.

[00:07:50] This was the first and only Uber Mooch ever paid for.

[00:07:54] That girl immediately starts a group chat with a couple of people on the trip.

[00:07:58] And me, with my favorite thing to hear.

[00:08:00] Oh my god OP, you were right.

[00:08:03] Then I got to sit back and just watch as everyone word vomits to me everything terrible that happened on the trip.

[00:08:09] So it sounds like these five people plus me is done with her.

[00:08:12] Not sure how the rest of the group feels, but at least I have five people I can hang out with regularly again.

[00:08:18] So the first commenter replies to what was a deleted comment and says,

[00:08:22] Clearly you've never had a long-term toxic friend or relationship before because you'd know how hard these habits are to break.

[00:08:29] They've known each other since childhood and it's hard to set boundaries with someone like this when they're repeatedly broken.

[00:08:34] Plus she never said that not going on that trip made her miserable.

[00:08:38] Quite the opposite actually.

[00:08:40] Also, did you ever consider that OP might be the one with money problems?

[00:08:44] Maybe, just maybe she doesn't want to hang out with someone who thinks OP's money is also hers.

[00:08:50] OP says,

[00:09:01] Okay, Maren Berry says,

[00:09:17] Ah, karma is a dish best served with meat if you ask me.

[00:09:21] I'm glad they all woke up.

[00:09:23] I hope she's lonely with her sad salads.

[00:09:27] When OP said sad salads, that did make me chuckle.

[00:09:30] I do wonder what it's like to live with that kind of level of audacity.

[00:09:35] I know it's totally normal for someone like that, but

[00:09:38] to expect things to go your way, especially when you don't seem to be paying for any of it as well.

[00:09:44] It's absolutely wild.

[00:09:45] Whenever I go on a trip with anyone, you know,

[00:09:47] if I'm paying equally, even if I'm paying for it, I say,

[00:09:50] Oh, what do you want to do?

[00:09:51] Let's do something that, you know, suits everyone.

[00:09:54] Because regardless of money or whatever,

[00:09:57] these are friendships.

[00:09:58] These are relationships that you cherish,

[00:10:00] that you want to spend time with and have a good time.

[00:10:02] But the attitude just comes across as me, me, me.

[00:10:05] It's all about me.

[00:10:06] So it makes me wonder what they think of,

[00:10:08] you know, the relationships around them.

[00:10:11] Do they actually enjoy them?

[00:10:12] Do they cherish them?

[00:10:13] Or are they just using them?

[00:10:15] It just seems like a weird way of thinking.

[00:10:17] But what do you guys make of this situation?

[00:10:21] Let us know your thoughts down in the comments below.

[00:10:24] And let's move on to another story.

[00:10:28] Now, our next story comes from affectionatebus6281.

[00:10:32] And says stepdad stole my identity,

[00:10:35] causing my credit score to drop over 200 points.

[00:10:38] When I brought it up, he spit on me.

[00:10:42] I never had a reason to check my credit score

[00:10:44] until a couple of months ago,

[00:10:46] other than when I got a credit card in 2021.

[00:10:49] At the time, I had a 745.

[00:10:51] When I went to purchase my first car on my own in April,

[00:10:54] the dealership told me my credit score was 541.

[00:10:58] I had no idea why,

[00:10:59] since I barely used my credit card

[00:11:01] and always paid it off in full every month on time.

[00:11:04] I put off buying the car while I looked into my credit

[00:11:07] and was mortified when I saw two other credit cards

[00:11:10] on my report,

[00:11:10] both of which were nearly maxed out,

[00:11:13] and with probably 15 late payments

[00:11:15] between the two of them.

[00:11:16] When I asked my mom and stepdad about it,

[00:11:19] my stepdad said he opened the cards

[00:11:20] when I went to college

[00:11:21] because I stopped paying rent at the house.

[00:11:23] When I lived there during my two years at CC,

[00:11:26] I paid them $500 a month rent.

[00:11:28] I stopped paying when I moved out.

[00:11:31] We ended up arguing about it

[00:11:32] and he said I owed it to him

[00:11:34] for the years I didn't pay rent,

[00:11:35] literally talking about 8th to 12th grade,

[00:11:38] and to just drop it.

[00:11:39] When I told him he can't do that without my permission,

[00:11:42] he said he doesn't need permission

[00:11:44] and spit in my face,

[00:11:46] like a full-on spit on my face.

[00:11:49] I left crying and my mom called to apologize.

[00:11:52] We talked a little bit

[00:11:53] and she told me he had something similar

[00:11:55] happen to him in the past.

[00:11:57] Obviously, that's no excuse

[00:11:58] and I told her I'd have to go to the police

[00:12:00] about the accounts.

[00:12:01] She said to slow down

[00:12:03] and really think about if that's what I want to do.

[00:12:06] I hung up the phone.

[00:12:07] I wish I'd known about the account sooner.

[00:12:09] I still think I'm going to call the police,

[00:12:11] but is there any other way of handling this?

[00:12:14] Responsible Pie says,

[00:12:15] the moment he spit in my face,

[00:12:16] I would have drove to the police station.

[00:12:18] She doesn't respect you at all.

[00:12:20] One, to open credit cards in your name.

[00:12:23] Two, to spit on you

[00:12:24] and your mom is okay with this.

[00:12:26] Seems she doesn't care too much either.

[00:12:28] If she's trying to sway you in a different direction.

[00:12:31] OP says,

[00:12:32] I don't think she's okay with the spitting.

[00:12:33] Probably not all right with the credit cards,

[00:12:35] but not against it

[00:12:36] that she wants me to go to the police.

[00:12:39] OP shared an experience they witnessed

[00:12:41] related to the spit part

[00:12:42] and how it might or might not be charged.

[00:12:44] They said,

[00:12:45] I saw this firsthand in college.

[00:12:47] My best friend was spit on by some random guy.

[00:12:50] The police were called and there was video.

[00:12:52] The guy denied everything

[00:12:53] and even though the spit was literally still on her face,

[00:12:56] to their credit,

[00:12:57] the police took a swab of it

[00:12:58] and identified the other guy.

[00:13:00] Video couldn't be accessed

[00:13:01] until the manager came in on Monday.

[00:13:03] The issue was the police couldn't prove

[00:13:05] that very second it was his spit.

[00:13:08] She was given the chance to follow up

[00:13:10] with the prosecutor's office.

[00:13:11] She did that Monday.

[00:13:12] Probably six weeks later,

[00:13:15] she gets a letter in the mail

[00:13:16] saying they were not going to prosecute

[00:13:18] for the reason other.

[00:13:19] She filed a FOIA for the report

[00:13:22] and we read through it.

[00:13:24] The police seemed to do a thorough job

[00:13:26] and obtain video when they could.

[00:13:27] According to the report,

[00:13:29] the video showed the guy lunging at her

[00:13:30] with his face

[00:13:31] and she reacted by jerking back

[00:13:33] and wiping her face.

[00:13:35] Someone who she knew works as an attorney

[00:13:37] said it was a battery.

[00:13:39] It would be a violent crime

[00:13:40] and they probably had a backlog

[00:13:41] of violent crime cases

[00:13:43] and decided not to prosecute

[00:13:44] a violent crime with no injury.

[00:13:47] 100% the prosecutor's office dropped the ball.

[00:13:49] I just have a feeling

[00:13:50] it would be the same in my case.

[00:13:53] And obviously,

[00:13:54] the majority of the people

[00:13:55] were just saying go to the police

[00:13:57] and you need to press charges

[00:13:58] because this kind of thing

[00:14:00] can have lasting repercussions

[00:14:01] for the rest of your life

[00:14:03] if you don't deal with it

[00:14:04] in the proper way.

[00:14:05] You know,

[00:14:06] he could,

[00:14:06] which he's not going to do,

[00:14:08] pay you back

[00:14:09] for what he's done

[00:14:09] or the credit cards

[00:14:10] but it's still going to have

[00:14:12] an effect on you

[00:14:13] on your credit score

[00:14:13] and all that other kind of stuff as well

[00:14:15] which will affect you

[00:14:16] in later life

[00:14:17] and possibly right now.

[00:14:19] And, you know,

[00:14:20] I just think be ignoring

[00:14:21] what your mum says.

[00:14:23] Part of me did wonder

[00:14:23] and this,

[00:14:24] as always,

[00:14:24] is never an excuse

[00:14:26] what mum is going through at home

[00:14:27] if this guy is willing

[00:14:29] to spit in your face

[00:14:30] in front of your mum.

[00:14:31] It really wouldn't surprise me

[00:14:33] if he's up to other stuff as well.

[00:14:36] He just sounds like

[00:14:37] overall a shitty person

[00:14:39] but a month later

[00:14:40] OP comes in and says,

[00:14:42] I made the police report

[00:14:43] for both identity theft

[00:14:44] and the spitting.

[00:14:45] They said it was

[00:14:46] two separate incidents,

[00:14:47] the identity theft,

[00:14:48] the felony

[00:14:49] and the spitting

[00:14:50] and misdemeanor.

[00:14:51] About a week afterwards,

[00:14:53] my dad comes storming

[00:14:54] into my workplace.

[00:14:55] He's always had anger issues

[00:14:56] but this is a new load for him.

[00:14:59] He starts screaming at me

[00:15:00] for calling the police

[00:15:01] and a security guard

[00:15:02] comes in

[00:15:02] and tells him to leave.

[00:15:03] The security guard

[00:15:04] meant well

[00:15:05] but she's probably

[00:15:06] 23 years old

[00:15:07] and small

[00:15:08] and my dad is 6 foot 2

[00:15:09] and has been in plenty

[00:15:10] of fights in his life.

[00:15:11] My manager told me

[00:15:12] to go in the back

[00:15:13] and he followed me back there.

[00:15:15] I locked myself

[00:15:16] in the bathroom

[00:15:16] and he just kept

[00:15:17] banging on the door

[00:15:18] for probably 3-4 minutes

[00:15:19] screaming at me.

[00:15:21] I called my mum

[00:15:22] and she tried calling him.

[00:15:23] Eventually,

[00:15:24] a police officer

[00:15:24] gets there

[00:15:25] and goes to handcuff my dad.

[00:15:27] He fought him

[00:15:27] and two other officers

[00:15:28] pile on him.

[00:15:29] He's arrested

[00:15:30] on aggravated battery

[00:15:32] and aggravated resisted charges.

[00:15:34] He was released

[00:15:35] from jail the next day.

[00:15:36] No idea why

[00:15:37] but the county decided

[00:15:38] not to prosecute him.

[00:15:40] I spoke with an officer

[00:15:41] a couple of days later

[00:15:42] about a possible order

[00:15:44] of protection

[00:15:44] and I was told

[00:15:45] the county usually

[00:15:46] doesn't prosecute people

[00:15:47] fighting cops

[00:15:48] unless an officer

[00:15:49] gets injured so badly

[00:15:50] they might have to

[00:15:51] medically retire.

[00:15:53] What?

[00:15:55] What the fuck?

[00:15:56] What reminded me

[00:15:57] about this post

[00:15:58] was that I checked

[00:15:58] my credit yesterday

[00:15:59] and one of the accounts

[00:16:01] has come off.

[00:16:02] Still waiting for the other one

[00:16:03] but I think it's just

[00:16:04] a matter of time.

[00:16:05] My dad hasn't said

[00:16:06] a word to me since

[00:16:07] and my mum refuses

[00:16:08] to talk about it.

[00:16:09] The nice thing is

[00:16:10] the rest of my family

[00:16:11] is completely on my side

[00:16:12] with this.

[00:16:13] My credit should recover

[00:16:14] pretty soon

[00:16:15] but I think my relationship

[00:16:16] with my dad

[00:16:16] is pretty much over.

[00:16:18] I'm fine with that.

[00:16:19] He's a toxic person

[00:16:20] and I'm just hoping

[00:16:21] nothing else happens.

[00:16:23] Havoc Programmer says

[00:16:25] Where do you live

[00:16:26] where someone doesn't

[00:16:26] get prosecuted

[00:16:27] for resisting arrest

[00:16:28] and assaulting police officers?

[00:16:30] Opie says

[00:16:31] Chicago suburbs.

[00:16:32] I was told

[00:16:33] one of the officers

[00:16:34] has a black eye.

[00:16:35] They just don't prosecute

[00:16:36] unless it's a major injury.

[00:16:39] Roadkill says

[00:16:40] The county usually

[00:16:41] doesn't prosecute

[00:16:42] people fighting cops

[00:16:43] and then that says

[00:16:43] That seems like

[00:16:44] self-sabotage.

[00:16:46] AJ says

[00:16:46] You've done everything right.

[00:16:48] You absolutely

[00:16:49] need a restraining order

[00:16:50] not because he resisted arrest

[00:16:52] but because

[00:16:52] he is a clear threat

[00:16:54] to your safety.

[00:16:54] He has already spit on you

[00:16:56] tracked you down at work

[00:16:57] and screamed

[00:16:58] and banged on the door.

[00:17:00] Clearly he is a threat

[00:17:01] to your safety.

[00:17:02] Two and a half months later

[00:17:03] Opie comes in

[00:17:05] with what they titled

[00:17:05] their final

[00:17:06] update

[00:17:07] and says

[00:17:08] What happened since?

[00:17:10] I forgot the password

[00:17:11] to the throwaway

[00:17:12] I used to make the Opie

[00:17:13] and update.

[00:17:14] My stepdad called me

[00:17:15] probably 20 times

[00:17:17] in the couple of weeks

[00:17:18] after my last update.

[00:17:19] I ended up filing

[00:17:20] for an emergency order

[00:17:21] of protection

[00:17:22] and it was granted.

[00:17:24] It got served

[00:17:24] maybe a week

[00:17:25] after it was granted.

[00:17:26] He didn't show up

[00:17:27] the next hearing

[00:17:27] so the judge granted

[00:17:29] me a two-year order

[00:17:30] of protection.

[00:17:31] I haven't heard

[00:17:32] from him since.

[00:17:33] My current credit score

[00:17:34] is 796.

[00:17:36] The other account

[00:17:37] has fallen off my credit

[00:17:38] and I got a very good rate

[00:17:39] on a reliable car.

[00:17:41] My next goal

[00:17:42] is to buy a house

[00:17:43] probably in the next year.

[00:17:45] My stepdad

[00:17:46] basically got away

[00:17:46] with everything 100%.

[00:17:48] I got my notice

[00:17:49] from the prosecutor's office

[00:17:50] that they weren't

[00:17:51] pursuing charges

[00:17:52] for identity theft

[00:17:53] or battery.

[00:17:54] The reason why

[00:17:55] I made this update

[00:17:56] is I heard

[00:17:56] he caught another

[00:17:57] aggravated battery charge

[00:17:59] and checked it

[00:18:00] in the public record.

[00:18:01] He was arrested on it

[00:18:02] and released the next day.

[00:18:03] No idea of the specifics

[00:18:05] but it looks like

[00:18:06] they're at least

[00:18:07] going forward with it.

[00:18:08] I don't know

[00:18:09] why they wouldn't

[00:18:09] prosecute on my charges

[00:18:11] against him

[00:18:11] and when I called

[00:18:12] their office

[00:18:13] they just said

[00:18:13] it was

[00:18:15] prosecutorial discretion.

[00:18:16] I plan on buying

[00:18:17] a house

[00:18:17] well away from him.

[00:18:19] He's obviously

[00:18:20] a very violent person

[00:18:21] who has some

[00:18:21] major anger issues.

[00:18:23] What I've learned

[00:18:24] watch your credit

[00:18:25] this could have been

[00:18:26] avoided if I had.

[00:18:28] Don't be afraid

[00:18:29] to call the police

[00:18:30] even if I had known

[00:18:31] how the charges

[00:18:32] would end up

[00:18:32] I'd do it all again.

[00:18:35] Find a friend

[00:18:35] to confide in

[00:18:36] when you need to.

[00:18:37] I have a few

[00:18:38] who have been

[00:18:38] amazing to me.

[00:18:40] Redditors

[00:18:40] are amazing people

[00:18:41] just reading

[00:18:42] through the old comments

[00:18:43] gave me hope.

[00:18:44] And the top

[00:18:45] commenter says

[00:18:45] good job.

[00:18:46] I'm not a lawyer

[00:18:47] but I wonder

[00:18:48] if they might be

[00:18:49] willing to have you

[00:18:49] testify against him

[00:18:50] in the other case

[00:18:51] as a poor

[00:18:52] character witness.

[00:18:54] This is screaming

[00:18:55] at me that

[00:18:56] that guy must

[00:18:57] know someone

[00:18:57] to keep getting

[00:18:58] away with this

[00:18:59] shit time

[00:19:00] and time again

[00:19:01] because it's wild

[00:19:02] that a cop

[00:19:03] got a black eye

[00:19:04] yet he's still

[00:19:05] allowed to just

[00:19:06] walk free.

[00:19:08] absolutely wild.

[00:19:10] And not quite

[00:19:11] the same situation

[00:19:12] but it reminded me

[00:19:13] when I was younger

[00:19:13] there was a couple

[00:19:14] of parents

[00:19:15] their kids

[00:19:16] one of which

[00:19:16] I knew

[00:19:17] had an argument

[00:19:19] a quarrel

[00:19:20] about something.

[00:19:21] One of the dads

[00:19:22] shouted at the kids

[00:19:23] which then got the

[00:19:24] other dad involved

[00:19:24] and they ended up

[00:19:25] having a scrap

[00:19:26] in the middle

[00:19:27] of the grass area

[00:19:28] where we all lived.

[00:19:29] Police were called

[00:19:30] they were there

[00:19:30] within minutes

[00:19:31] because police station

[00:19:33] was very very close

[00:19:34] to us.

[00:19:34] They both got

[00:19:35] carted off

[00:19:36] but later in the day

[00:19:38] they were released

[00:19:39] and guess what

[00:19:40] they were released

[00:19:40] at the same time

[00:19:41] and fought straight

[00:19:42] outside the police station

[00:19:43] and back in

[00:19:44] they went again

[00:19:45] and I think from there

[00:19:46] they were released

[00:19:47] the next day

[00:19:47] and they were basically

[00:19:48] told to keep away

[00:19:49] from each other

[00:19:50] or further charges

[00:19:51] will be put against them

[00:19:52] but it's just like

[00:19:54] why would you do it?

[00:19:55] I wonder what they

[00:19:55] said to each other

[00:19:56] as they came out

[00:19:58] you know

[00:19:58] they'd been arrested

[00:19:59] taken out

[00:20:00] put outside the police station

[00:20:02] and immediately

[00:20:02] started scrapping

[00:20:04] and you just think

[00:20:05] you couple of

[00:20:06] bloody burks

[00:20:08] anyway

[00:20:08] what do you guys

[00:20:10] make of this

[00:20:11] situation?

[00:20:12] Let us know

[00:20:12] your thoughts

[00:20:13] down in the comments

[00:20:14] below

[00:20:15] now just a huge

[00:20:16] thank you for being

[00:20:17] here today

[00:20:18] getting involved

[00:20:18] in the stories

[00:20:19] your love

[00:20:20] your support

[00:20:20] your time

[00:20:21] always means

[00:20:22] the absolute world

[00:20:23] to me

[00:20:23] so thank you

[00:20:24] so so much

[00:20:25] for being involved

[00:20:25] truly it's

[00:20:26] absolutely amazing

[00:20:27] really do appreciate

[00:20:28] you

[00:20:28] and I will see

[00:20:29] you in the next

[00:20:30] one

[00:20:30] take care

[00:20:31] and much love

[00:20:34] remember being

[00:20:34] so naive

[00:20:35] when life

[00:20:36] was good

[00:20:36] weather and palm trees

[00:20:37] back in the day

[00:20:38] you were everything

[00:20:39] I need

[00:20:40] but then along

[00:20:41] came a time

[00:20:42] when you crushed

[00:20:42] my dreams

[00:20:43] oh yeah

[00:20:43] you played me

[00:20:44] like a fool

[00:20:44] when you made

[00:20:45] me believe

[00:20:45] that the line

[00:20:46] between love

[00:20:47] was ridiculous

[00:20:48] oh yeah

[00:20:48] you see

[00:20:49] we can do

[00:20:49] spare

[00:20:50] you