I Found My Husband Hiding Himself Away Crying After Bumping Into His Ex r/Relationships

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[00:00:22] [SPEAKER_00]: 852 from the Am I the arsehole here subreddit and says I heard my husband cry in the bathroom after we bumped into his ex

[00:00:32] [SPEAKER_00]: My husband and I met two years ago. He proposed to me six months later and told me he knew I was the one when he met me

[00:00:39] [SPEAKER_00]: And that he didn't want to waste time or lose me

[00:00:42] [SPEAKER_00]: I was and still is it over heels and agreed

[00:00:46] [SPEAKER_00]: We've been married for six months and expecting our first baby last weekend. We bumped into his ex

[00:00:52] [SPEAKER_00]: They were together for nine years, but she ended the relationship when he didn't take the relationship to the next level

[00:00:58] [SPEAKER_00]: When we got engaged and married my husband texted her to tell her and to apologize and talked about fate and how some things aren't meant to be

[00:01:07] [SPEAKER_00]: Remember asking him why he said that he owed it to her so that she doesn't hear from other people and not be prepared

[00:01:14] [SPEAKER_00]: They broke up three years ago edit not for it was October December

[00:01:19] [SPEAKER_00]: 2021 bad math

[00:01:22] [SPEAKER_00]: She was pregnant and holding hands with a kid that could be seven or eight years old

[00:01:26] [SPEAKER_00]: And she was with a man who was obviously her partner and they were very affectionate towards each other

[00:01:31] [SPEAKER_00]: My husband said hi even though we could walk by unnoticed by them, but he insisted to talk

[00:01:37] [SPEAKER_00]: When we got home I heard him crying in the bathroom

[00:01:41] [SPEAKER_00]: Now he's been depressed and distant the whole week

[00:01:43] [SPEAKER_00]: I realized he must have written to her after we got home and he showed me his phone and yes

[00:01:49] [SPEAKER_00]: He has again

[00:01:50] [SPEAKER_00]: Apologize for what he did and told her that some things aren't meant to be

[00:01:54] [SPEAKER_00]: But I'd be the arsehole if I confronted him about what's going on. Why is he doing this?

[00:02:01] [SPEAKER_00]: Absolutely not the arsehole for wanting to confront this and find out what's going on because of course you're gonna be like what the fuck

[00:02:09] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm trying to put myself in your position opion. I was hearing him crying over his ex like that

[00:02:16] [SPEAKER_00]: Yes, that'd be absolutely upsetting

[00:02:18] [SPEAKER_00]: But okay perception says it sounds like he misses her I'd be heartbroken if my husband felt this way about another woman

[00:02:25] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm sorry. What interaction says right? This whole thing is a lose lose scenario

[00:02:32] [SPEAKER_00]: Uncle Ned is dead says not the arsehole, but it sounds like that cliche story

[00:02:37] [SPEAKER_00]: Guy is happy with status quo and keeping the girlfriend around for nine years

[00:02:41] [SPEAKER_00]: And while he says he's open to the idea of marriage to string her along

[00:02:45] [SPEAKER_00]: He believes it's unnecessary and doesn't actually make plans to get an engagement ring or pop the question

[00:02:51] [SPEAKER_00]: Just assumes if he runs the clock should be stuck with him for life

[00:02:55] [SPEAKER_00]: His ex decides that she's had enough of his

[00:02:58] [SPEAKER_00]: Plusating words and realizes if she wants to get married and start a family it can't or won't be with him

[00:03:05] [SPEAKER_00]: After she takes charge of her life and dumps him

[00:03:07] [SPEAKER_00]: He begs her to take him back and they will give her the ring and wedding that she wanted

[00:03:11] [SPEAKER_00]: But it's too little too late curtains close on this relationship

[00:03:16] [SPEAKER_00]: He takes a year or so to heal and then find you who checks off most of his boxes and instead of risking the same thing happening again

[00:03:24] [SPEAKER_00]: He proposes to in six months of dating and everything happens at warp speed because he has learned from his last serious relationship

[00:03:31] [SPEAKER_00]: Don't leave it up to chance. Don't string someone along

[00:03:35] [SPEAKER_00]: Him bumping into his ex made him realize he still had feelings for the one who got away

[00:03:40] [SPEAKER_00]: But if he hadn't been so stubborn and slow about getting a ring and making his ex happy that could have been him again

[00:03:47] [SPEAKER_00]: Apologize for what he did and told her that some things are not meant to be

[00:03:51] [SPEAKER_00]: He keeps telling himself that because it's easier to blame fate and absolve himself of being a ship boyfriend

[00:03:57] [SPEAKER_00]: It was wasting her time and ruin the relationship single-handedly

[00:04:01] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm glad his ex got a happy ending

[00:04:03] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm sorry your marriage is starting to show cracks because your husband may be incapable of love and had a hidden agenda when marrying you

[00:04:11] [SPEAKER_00]: He might have married you to prove to his ex he could commit like when he texted her about the engagement

[00:04:17] [SPEAKER_00]: Rather than because of his deep and lasting love for you

[00:04:22] [SPEAKER_00]: So op updates seven hours later and says hi again

[00:04:25] [SPEAKER_00]: I hope you read this referring to the comment by uncle Ned is dead

[00:04:29] [SPEAKER_00]: So I showed my husband this comment and I told him that this is basically how I feel things were but that someone else wrote it better

[00:04:37] [SPEAKER_00]: First he got upset and defensive and he started arguing and telling me to leave him alone

[00:04:42] [SPEAKER_00]: I have for a week in nothing but supportive and leaving him alone

[00:04:47] [SPEAKER_00]: Then he started crying and asked to read it again

[00:04:51] [SPEAKER_00]: He sat silent for like 15 minutes reading it

[00:04:54] [SPEAKER_00]: But not once did he deny or try denying or call me crazy or at least try to explain

[00:04:59] [SPEAKER_00]: If I know myself this is over. I didn't play second fiddle

[00:05:05] [SPEAKER_00]: I don't do consolation prize and I'm absolutely not going to have another woman being the main character in my own story

[00:05:11] [SPEAKER_00]: So I told him this was over and I need a break to sort out my feelings

[00:05:15] [SPEAKER_00]: But that this will eventually end in divorce because I know myself very well

[00:05:20] [SPEAKER_00]: He didn't say anything

[00:05:23] [SPEAKER_00]: Anything just that silent. I know his type

[00:05:26] [SPEAKER_00]: Anyway, he will realize my worth is when he has lost me just like he did his ex

[00:05:32] [SPEAKER_00]: People like him are frugal with their feelings

[00:05:34] [SPEAKER_00]: He strung her along because he didn't want to give her all of him

[00:05:38] [SPEAKER_00]: Then he turned around and gave me exactly what she wanted but deprived me from exactly what I wanted that he gave her

[00:05:45] [SPEAKER_00]: Men like him will never give all of themselves because he probably thinks he would lose control if he gave all of him to a woman

[00:05:52] [SPEAKER_00]: What a waste of a man

[00:05:54] [SPEAKER_00]: Now I'm gonna turn this one to you guys. What do you guys make of this situation?

[00:06:01] [SPEAKER_00]: That guy is messy

[00:06:02] [SPEAKER_00]: Let us know your thoughts down in the comments below and let's move on to another story

[00:06:08] [SPEAKER_00]: Which comes from dentist big 7041

[00:06:10] [SPEAKER_00]: From the true off my chest subreddit and says I got a text from my sister's bestie about her and my husband

[00:06:17] [SPEAKER_00]: Loving me too much do anything to hurt me

[00:06:22] [SPEAKER_00]: My sister's bestie told me that she feels guilty for being a snitch

[00:06:26] [SPEAKER_00]: But that she couldn't do this to me anymore because she thinks I am a kind person and don't deserve this

[00:06:33] [SPEAKER_00]: My sister and my husband never always got along very well

[00:06:36] [SPEAKER_00]: They're both brilliant both lecturers at the university and they have so much in common

[00:06:41] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm not stupid, but I never loved school. I have a high school education

[00:06:46] [SPEAKER_00]: They've become best friends throughout the years 14 years

[00:06:50] [SPEAKER_00]: But never once did I feel uncomfortable about it since my husband has shown me nothing but love and respect

[00:06:55] [SPEAKER_00]: The opposite until now I counted myself lucky that the two people that I love the most in this world

[00:07:01] [SPEAKER_00]: It'll long so well

[00:07:03] [SPEAKER_00]: But now I feel nauseated

[00:07:05] [SPEAKER_00]: The bestie sent me screenshots upon screenshots of her conversation with my sister

[00:07:11] [SPEAKER_00]: My sister has feelings for my husband and she appears to know that my husband feels the same way about her too

[00:07:17] [SPEAKER_00]: In one of the texts my sister wrote that she loved me too much to do anything to hurt me in another

[00:07:23] [SPEAKER_00]: She wrote I am too dear to both her and my husband to do anything that would hurt me

[00:07:27] [SPEAKER_00]: She seems to think that they are soulmates, which is odd because the talk about soulmates came up once between my husband and I

[00:07:33] [SPEAKER_00]: When I told him that I didn't want us to be soulmates

[00:07:36] [SPEAKER_00]: He was curious and asked me why I told him because soulmates meant that we are programmed or destined to fit together

[00:07:43] [SPEAKER_00]: There's no free will involved and I want my love to come from a free space

[00:07:48] [SPEAKER_00]: Not a predestined place. He laughed and said he loved that but apparently they are soulmates

[00:07:55] [SPEAKER_00]: I know that I need to talk to him but I'm dreading that I'm in so much despair right now

[00:08:00] [SPEAKER_00]: Edit hi and thanks for your help. I asked how I'd be sure before asking my husband

[00:08:05] [SPEAKER_00]: So he doesn't just blatantly lie and you suggested to look into his phone. Thanks for your suggestion

[00:08:10] [SPEAKER_00]: I did now. I told him about my sister's conversations with her best friend and showed him the screenshots

[00:08:17] [SPEAKER_00]: He was shocked at first and said he had no romantic feelings for her

[00:08:21] [SPEAKER_00]: They had no idea about her feelings. So I asked to see his phone

[00:08:24] [SPEAKER_00]: I read their texts and emails. I was shocked at their contact is way more intensive and intense than I thought

[00:08:30] [SPEAKER_00]: They talk on a daily basis. They have lunch multiple times a week

[00:08:35] [SPEAKER_00]: Nothing sexual in the text

[00:08:37] [SPEAKER_00]: But yeah, he's stupid if he doesn't know that she loves him

[00:08:40] [SPEAKER_00]: And he must think that I'm stupid if after reading I wouldn't get the feeling that he has some feelings too

[00:08:46] [SPEAKER_00]: In one of her texts, she wrote that she wished they had met first and under different circumstances

[00:08:50] [SPEAKER_00]: His answer wasn't totally dismissive. He wrote. Yeah, it would probably been different when I asked him about it

[00:08:57] [SPEAKER_00]: He wrote yeah, it would probably have been different when I asked him about it

[00:09:01] [SPEAKER_00]: He said well, yeah, if he didn't know and love me

[00:09:04] [SPEAKER_00]: He probably would have been interested in another my sister included that he loves me and she is a close friend of his

[00:09:11] [SPEAKER_00]: So there's no sexual relationship between them, but I'm not sure that is enough for me

[00:09:16] [SPEAKER_00]: I think they are both wrong and should have nipped it in the bud way earlier. I don't know what to do now

[00:09:22] [SPEAKER_00]: I think I need time for myself to process this

[00:09:25] [SPEAKER_00]: I don't feel well at all about this and I want to make decisions from a place of fear and hurt nor convenience

[00:09:31] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm sorry

[00:09:32] [SPEAKER_00]: I can't answer all the private messages because I don't use my phone that often our rages are my husband is 45

[00:09:38] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm 42 my sister is 38 my husband and I've been together for 16 years and married for 14

[00:09:45] [SPEAKER_00]: My sister is single. I'm not a stay-at-home mom. I have my own business

[00:09:49] [SPEAKER_00]: We don't have children my sister has to from a previous relationship

[00:09:54] [SPEAKER_00]: Opie edits the post again and says so now I've had some long talks and discussions with my husband

[00:09:59] [SPEAKER_00]: He seems to think that this is getting bigger than it is supposed to because I told him that I needed time alone to think and digest

[00:10:06] [SPEAKER_00]: This he said that he doesn't understand why I'm this hurt since he loves me and nobody else

[00:10:12] [SPEAKER_00]: I didn't relent however and he admitted that he knows my sister is in love with him because she has told him so

[00:10:18] [SPEAKER_00]: But she knows that nothing can happen between them if she is fine with just friendship

[00:10:22] [SPEAKER_00]: Marta

[00:10:23] [SPEAKER_00]: He loves her but not romantically and is happy to have a friend like her

[00:10:27] [SPEAKER_00]: Their friendship is important to him and he doesn't want it to end because I don't trust him and his love for me

[00:10:32] [SPEAKER_00]: He made a comparison to my best friend and asked what would I think if he asked me to cut my best friend from my life

[00:10:39] [SPEAKER_00]: He admitted that intellectually is more in common with her than with me

[00:10:43] [SPEAKER_00]: But the heart doesn't always choose who we are more compatible with and that he loves and is physically attracted to me

[00:10:49] [SPEAKER_00]: I think this whole situation is messed up. I'm repulsed by them both

[00:10:53] [SPEAKER_00]: I text my sister all the screenshots and she wrote that she was disappointed in her bestie and that your husband is all yours

[00:10:59] [SPEAKER_00]: Because I would never let anything happen that would hurt you because you were the most important person to me

[00:11:05] [SPEAKER_00]: In other words, they are both contradicting each other since both seem to believe that they are the one who is not letting a

[00:11:10] [SPEAKER_00]: relationship between them grow for my sake

[00:11:12] [SPEAKER_00]: In the comments art needs more floof says you need to have an honest conversation with your husband

[00:11:18] [SPEAKER_00]: Then if you have a hope of saving this relationship

[00:11:21] [SPEAKER_00]: He and you need to go low contact with your sister and you need couples therapy

[00:11:25] [SPEAKER_00]: In this case, your sister is suffering from limerence

[00:11:28] [SPEAKER_00]: Worst case that having an emotional or physical affair

[00:11:31] [SPEAKER_00]: Either way inappropriate behavior has been happening. That's been deliberately hidden from you

[00:11:36] [SPEAKER_00]: They say they don't want to hurt you behaving inappropriately hurts you lying about it and hiding it hurts you

[00:11:42] [SPEAKER_00]: Already hurting you and they have not stopped it. I know this conversation fills you with dread

[00:11:48] [SPEAKER_00]: But here is the thing

[00:11:49] [SPEAKER_00]: It's not going to go away and it's not going to get better until it is exposed to light aired out and addressed

[00:11:56] [SPEAKER_00]: Just tell yourself. It's like going to the ER

[00:11:58] [SPEAKER_00]: You can't start to heal until the injury is found and diagnosed

[00:12:02] [SPEAKER_00]: You've found the injury now you have to find what the injury consists of and start treating it

[00:12:08] [SPEAKER_00]: As terrible as the possibilities are

[00:12:10] [SPEAKER_00]: I always find that then knowing for sure is easier to deal with and having the unknown dangle in over my head

[00:12:16] [SPEAKER_00]: Like damocles sword

[00:12:18] [SPEAKER_00]: Opie says that's how I always felt

[00:12:20] [SPEAKER_00]: I'd rather know the truth until it happened to me and now I don't even know what to say

[00:12:27] [SPEAKER_00]: Marv says

[00:12:28] [SPEAKER_00]: If what the friends sent you is true

[00:12:30] [SPEAKER_00]: You need to take a moment and gather your thoughts before this talk you need to have with your husband

[00:12:35] [SPEAKER_00]: If possible check his phones. Go a first hand look at the communication

[00:12:39] [SPEAKER_00]: Not the friend's one if real the emotional affair is more than enough of a betrayal

[00:12:44] [SPEAKER_00]: Please be careful. Opie says for me even an emotional affair is a deal breaker unfortunately

[00:12:50] [SPEAKER_00]: Environmental art says don't bring it up with him until you're ready to see proof if it's there

[00:12:54] [SPEAKER_00]: Because as soon as it's brought up you need to see his phone so that nothing can be deleted and your sister can't be warned

[00:13:00] [SPEAKER_00]: He needs to hand over his phone straight away

[00:13:04] [SPEAKER_00]: Hyden short says to be honest it fully could be one-sided

[00:13:08] [SPEAKER_00]: I agreed to look for his phone

[00:13:09] [SPEAKER_00]: But I would ask what first shown the messages then see how he reacts if he confirms

[00:13:14] [SPEAKER_00]: You got to the bottom of it all immediately

[00:13:16] [SPEAKER_00]: And you have no need to hurt yourself further with whatever is on that phone

[00:13:20] [SPEAKER_00]: If he denies then I would check

[00:13:22] [SPEAKER_00]: Then if he says he's shocked too and he has no feelings for her

[00:13:25] [SPEAKER_00]: Then you say I hope you can understand my point of view when I ask if I can check your phone right now

[00:13:30] [SPEAKER_00]: It reassures me that you were shocked, but I need an extra layer of confirmation

[00:13:37] [SPEAKER_00]: Opie then added another post which was titled my soon-to-be ex-husband

[00:13:42] [SPEAKER_00]: And my sister's love for me was worth one week

[00:13:46] [SPEAKER_00]: This post came about a month later from the original

[00:13:48] [SPEAKER_00]: It says I've written here in a few comments about my soon-to-be ex-husband and my sister

[00:13:53] [SPEAKER_00]: I left him about a week after and he texted me day and night about how much he loved me and wanted me back

[00:14:00] [SPEAKER_00]: Then he just stopped

[00:14:02] [SPEAKER_00]: That's when I found out that my sister left her children at my parents house and moved in with my husband

[00:14:08] [SPEAKER_00]: This made everything come out to the rest of my family

[00:14:11] [SPEAKER_00]: My parents were shocked. My mother really looked like she was already showing PTSD symptoms

[00:14:16] [SPEAKER_00]: But how disgusting she felt this whole thing was

[00:14:20] [SPEAKER_00]: She kept calling it incest and asking if that's even legal

[00:14:23] [SPEAKER_00]: I guess that is how much my sister cared not to hurt me if you read my first post

[00:14:28] [SPEAKER_00]: Even though I have been well composed and calm that I surprised myself

[00:14:32] [SPEAKER_00]: I still tried my hardest to look back on my whole life

[00:14:34] [SPEAKER_00]: Childhood not bringing to understand when it all went so wrong

[00:14:39] [SPEAKER_00]: What my sister did felt like something that was a result of years of resentment

[00:14:42] [SPEAKER_00]: Or at least indifference towards me and our relationship as sisters

[00:14:47] [SPEAKER_00]: So how did I miss that? She never cared about me, did she? She didn't how could I have been so blind?

[00:14:54] [SPEAKER_00]: Then not even a week later. I heard that they have ended things

[00:14:58] [SPEAKER_00]: I found out in the oddest way possible. My sister texted me the first time she texted me since everything started

[00:15:05] [SPEAKER_00]: She just wrote you be I hope you burn in life and in hell

[00:15:09] [SPEAKER_00]: I was very confused because she spent that week sharing cheesy deep quotes about love and soulmates and

[00:15:16] [SPEAKER_00]: romantic insta stories with my soon-to-be ex husband

[00:15:19] [SPEAKER_00]: But apparently that was over

[00:15:21] [SPEAKER_00]: Soon-to-be ex husband has blocked her everywhere and she moved out

[00:15:24] [SPEAKER_00]: Because she came to my parents to get their children and had them melt down when they asked for an explanation

[00:15:30] [SPEAKER_00]: Soon-to-be ex husband started calling and texting me again asking me to meet because he wanted to explain

[00:15:36] [SPEAKER_00]: Because he loved me and wanted me to understand

[00:15:39] [SPEAKER_00]: He wanted to meet her at least once before we started to meet with the lawyers involved

[00:15:44] [SPEAKER_00]: So that is that this has left me even more confused than if they just ended up together

[00:15:49] [SPEAKER_00]: I understand falling out and in love breaking up and starting anew, but I can't explain this

[00:15:56] [SPEAKER_00]: My soon-to-be ex keeps calling me his only love and true friend and my sister until I left

[00:16:02] [SPEAKER_00]: Kept promising that she would never do anything to hurt me

[00:16:05] [SPEAKER_00]: She left her children at my parents doorstep and didn't answer their calls or texts for a week and all of this for a week

[00:16:11] [SPEAKER_00]: What were they thinking? Has anyone here heard of something like this happening people referring everything for not even a week?

[00:16:18] [SPEAKER_00]: Opie came in the same day and says after one week of being in love

[00:16:22] [SPEAKER_00]: And my sister leaving her children at my parents door to be living in my home

[00:16:26] [SPEAKER_00]: With my soon-to-be ex husband and flaunting everything on social media and sharing cheesy quotes

[00:16:31] [SPEAKER_00]: She moved back to her apartment and got her children from my parents

[00:16:35] [SPEAKER_00]: They aren't friends on facebook and he unfollowed her on instagram

[00:16:39] [SPEAKER_00]: Now she is saying that I have ruined her happiness and he started texting me again begging to talk to me in private

[00:16:44] [SPEAKER_00]: Because he needed to explain everything before we started getting our lawyers involved between us

[00:16:50] [SPEAKER_00]: I understand that people fall out of love and sometimes they can't control who they fall for

[00:16:54] [SPEAKER_00]: And they can hurt many people around them

[00:16:56] [SPEAKER_00]: But I never heard of two people throwing everything they pretended to care about for one week

[00:17:01] [SPEAKER_00]: First commenter says say speak to my attorney

[00:17:05] [SPEAKER_00]: I'd have that as my outgoing voice message

[00:17:07] [SPEAKER_00]: Opie says I haven't answered any calls from him his family or unknown numbers. I don't answer texts either

[00:17:15] [SPEAKER_00]: I didn't have a great relationship with this family, especially his mother

[00:17:19] [SPEAKER_00]: We lost our child and they blamed me for us not wanting more children afterwards when it was both's decision

[00:17:26] [SPEAKER_00]: Lost and dumb family says from your last post it seems like maybe your ex realized they had too much

[00:17:31] [SPEAKER_00]: In common or that the idea of them being together didn't match the reality and your ex decided to end it rather than forcing it

[00:17:39] [SPEAKER_00]: It's unhinged that your sister went from you're the most important person to me to rot in hell

[00:17:45] [SPEAKER_00]: You left and she had what she wanted your husband

[00:17:49] [SPEAKER_00]: In no longer wanting to be with her is nothing to do with you

[00:17:52] [SPEAKER_00]: Opie says not only in hell but in life too

[00:17:55] [SPEAKER_00]: I felt cold reading her text of her gaslighting me for so many weeks and years really

[00:18:01] [SPEAKER_00]: Opie then says no I left him after he insisted on meeting her for lunch to discuss my distress

[00:18:07] [SPEAKER_00]: I left him and gave him divorce papers

[00:18:10] [SPEAKER_00]: That was a week after my original post and a week after she dumped their children at my parents place and went to him

[00:18:16] [SPEAKER_00]: He doesn't want children and less than a week later. She moved back to her home

[00:18:20] [SPEAKER_00]: Sent me a message to say I ruined her and took her children back

[00:18:24] [SPEAKER_00]: My parents visit to take the children out for dinners and play dates

[00:18:28] [SPEAKER_00]: My sister hasn't talked to them yet and Georgia says that text from your sister as everything imploded around her is fascinating

[00:18:36] [SPEAKER_00]: Truly she takes zero

[00:18:38] [SPEAKER_00]: Responsibility for blowing up her own life. You'll soon to be ex's life or your life

[00:18:43] [SPEAKER_00]: Don't know how much responsibility you'll soon to be ex's feeling

[00:18:46] [SPEAKER_00]: She dumps the blame for her distress in its entirety on you

[00:18:50] [SPEAKER_00]: The total absence of any sense of personal responsibility is from a distance

[00:18:56] [SPEAKER_00]: Fascinating your sister wouldn't be the golden child in your family. Would she I'm sorry the two of them have done this to you

[00:19:02] [SPEAKER_00]: No one deserves this sort of betrayal

[00:19:04] [SPEAKER_00]: Opie says no according to her. I was the golden child

[00:19:08] [SPEAKER_00]: I guess she is right about that too

[00:19:11] [SPEAKER_00]: It just shows the bullshit that they was talking in the original parts of the post that no one wants to hurt

[00:19:16] [SPEAKER_00]: Opie but then a week later they're jumping in together and all I can really say is

[00:19:20] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm sorry that you've had to go through and you're still going through that op. I also feel sorry for her children

[00:19:27] [SPEAKER_00]: What was the end game with that situation? You know, she jumped into living with the ex in it

[00:19:33] [SPEAKER_00]: Was she never going to pick her kids up again? Was that it? It's really bizarre. I found

[00:19:38] [SPEAKER_00]: But now I'm gonna turn this one to you guys. What do you guys make of this

[00:19:44] [SPEAKER_00]: Situation? Let me know your thoughts down in the comments below

[00:19:47] [SPEAKER_00]: Just a huge thank you from the bottom of my heart for getting involved in today's stories

[00:19:52] [SPEAKER_00]: Your love your support your time always means the absolute world to me and don't forget at the very end of the video

[00:19:57] [SPEAKER_00]: There'll be a couple of playlists that you can click on and it will automatically scroll through

[00:20:01] [SPEAKER_00]: All the videos for you. So whatever you're up to maybe you're doing a bit of gardening in this lovely sunshine today

[00:20:08] [SPEAKER_00]: I know some of you are gonna go that's not bloody sunny here

[00:20:11] [SPEAKER_00]: We had people in the past out in their truck going cross country

[00:20:15] [SPEAKER_00]: I love to hear that. I find that wild

[00:20:18] [SPEAKER_00]: Loads of people doing art crochet or that good stuff

[00:20:21] [SPEAKER_00]: Don't forget to let me know what you're up to whilst listening at mark narrations over on twitter

[00:20:26] [SPEAKER_00]: I refuse to call it that other name because i'm spicy like that

[00:20:30] [SPEAKER_00]: Sassy so-and-so and I will see you in the next one. Take care

[00:20:35] [SPEAKER_00]: much love