I Exploded At My Aunt During A Wedding And The Family Wants Me To Apologise r/Relationships

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[00:01:40] Now, I love my family I do, but my aunts have always been the kind of parents who can never

[00:01:46] say no to scare her away. I work with kids so I know this is beyond not normal behaviour of kids and I know the lack of discipline is to blame. But I've never been in the position to call it out because in my family it's very much if you don't have kids your opinion

[00:03:00] for how to raise them doesn't count. But as the kids have gotten older it's gotten so much worse.

[00:04:02] to show off as there was over 400 people. Don't get me wrong, you could tell a lot of money was put into the event and it was

[00:04:07] lovely.

[00:04:08] I personally wouldn't have liked it for my day.

[00:04:10] A new husband had a niece and nephew so they did the flower girl and ring bearer roles.

[00:04:16] And yes, there were tantrums thrown when the news broke and that only took 5 minutes into

[00:04:20] the wedding for a tantrum to happen cause one of the kids wanted to sit in the front

[00:04:25] and not a few from people staring. While this was happening, my parents were confronted by my aunt, asking how was it that their kids were not invited. My parents just repeated the same thing as I had, and this also wasn't good enough. At this point, my grandfather and I were behind them with two of their screaming

[00:05:40] children. I honestly don't know what came over me, but I blur Girl 60 says, I'm dying laughing. I'm surprised everyone has let it go this long. As far as I'm concerned, you're the hero of the day. The only thing I will be doing now is contacting my aunt and telling them that I understand they're no longer coming to the wedding. But please consider their invitations rescinded, and that I appreciate the heads up early so that I can fill their

[00:07:01] spots with people if I wasn't able to invite functioning human adults when they turn 18. I think their only job is to placate them. Like, the kids will just magically learn how to be good

[00:08:21] people. Nope. Not how it works. Stand to say the Boxing Day celebrations were called off after a disastrous Christmas meal with a family, which at last minute included the aunts and the children. Apparently they decided that as the family had been going no contact in the week since the events at my cousin Kate's wedding, they were going to turn up to my great grandmother's

[00:09:41] house for Christmas and confront me about it to my face to make me apologise for calling

[00:09:46] out their kids behaviour. the family had thought to fill her in with what had gone down at Kate's wedding. It was one of those we all thought someone else had done, so she was a bit confused at first. She knew the wedding was child free, so she couldn't understand why they were making such a fuss about it and to just get over it. She said she'd like to enjoy the likely last wedding she'll ever attend in peace away from screaming children. My family has a very dark sense of humour.

[00:12:04] in one of those who did not want to disinvite them and keep the peace. He's financially contributing to the wedding, but when I got home yesterday he gave me full permission

[00:12:08] to rescind their invitations. I'd originally decided to not rescind my aunt's invitations,

[00:12:13] but give them a warning that if they turn up with their children or tried to cause a scene,

[00:12:17] he'll be escorted off the property immediately. But now, after emergency family meeting on

[00:12:23] Boxing Day, we ended up just rescinding not just comfortable and stylish, they're built to last. Plus every single burrow order ships free right to your door. Right now, get 15% off your first order at burrow.com slash ACAST.

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[00:13:45] Ready to pop the question? hired adopted our two dogs. We hadn't expected to get two, but they were inseparable, and we just fell in love with them immediately and took them both home. My job required me to work Saturday morning, so couldn't attend the church service for the communion, and there was no real way to get it off early on, so I made sure everyone knew I wouldn't be attending the church service, making sure to hand over a card with money in for the

[00:15:02] child the day before, with a small gift, was thanks to my partner's 4 year long notes. Kate's in-laws also share my family's dark humour, so later in the night we were betting which would be the worst once a teenage years and all those hormones hit. Was it the most adult way of dealing with it? Probably not, but was too drunk and annoyed to care about that.

[00:16:23] A couple of comments with OP replying to him, so the last mongo says glad things are working And whilst I would like to think that was concluded for OP, I think stories like that are never going to be truly concluded. I think the wedding will come round. There will be some extra drama from someone in that family. They just seemed unhinged. But what do you guys make of this situation? Let us know your thoughts down in the comments below.

[00:17:40] And let's move on to another story.

[00:17:44] And our next story comes from the MIVR Soul subreddit. often for drinks with my husband and by extension, me. He became a regular visitor to our house and began unloading his problems. This went on for about eight months until one evening Tom was quite tipsy and admitted he developed a crush on me. Understandably this meant he didn't come back to our house. He's profusely apologized for this and we're fine now

[00:19:01] but obviously I just prefer some distance.

[00:19:07] I guess that whole thing was a wake up call for him I agree, but it wasn't me who started it. My dad then demanded to know what the fight was about and wouldn't let up. Eventually, I just told him. He's furious. He called Ellen and yelled at her. He called my husband and yelled at him. He is seething that no one told him that he's been acting like things are fine with Tom this whole time.

[00:20:21] Ellen is furious with me for telling dad, saying I did this on purpose and have ruined

[00:20:25] things with Tom after she worked she chooses to process his emotional infidelity. You have no agency in the situation. Given that you just happen to exist as yourself, and Tom developed one directional feelings

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