Husband Demanded A Paternity Test And I Laughed In His Face With The Results r/Relationships

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[00:00:45] Now, today's first story comes from either economy seven nine three

[00:00:48] and says I'm the asshole for telling my husband.

[00:00:52] I told you so.

[00:00:53] And laughing when we got the paternity test results.

[00:00:56] I, 27 female, have been married to my husband, 28 male for two years

[00:01:01] and gave birth to our daughter five weeks ago.

[00:01:04] I tried to keep this short so I don't waste your time with any irrelevant details.

[00:01:08] What happened was that our daughter came out with blonde hair and pale blue eyes,

[00:01:13] while my husband and I have brown hair and brown eyes.

[00:01:17] My husband freaked out at this and refused to listen to my explanation

[00:01:20] that sometimes babies are born with lighter hair and eyes

[00:01:23] that get darker over time.

[00:01:25] He demanded a paternity test and threatened to divorce me

[00:01:29] if I didn't comply. So I did.

[00:01:31] After my daughter and I got home from the hospital,

[00:01:34] my husband went to stay at his parents' house for the first three weeks

[00:01:37] to get some space from me while I recovered.

[00:01:40] And he told them what was happening.

[00:01:42] My mother-in-law called and informed me that if the paternity test

[00:01:45] revealed that the child wasn't his, she would do anything within her power

[00:01:49] to make sure that I was taken to the cleaners during the divorce.

[00:01:54] Had my sister to lean on and help me take care of the baby during this.

[00:01:59] We got the results back yesterday and my husband came home

[00:02:02] to view them with me.

[00:02:04] I was on the couch in the living room, so he sat next to me

[00:02:07] and we started to read the results.

[00:02:10] They showed that he was the father and my husband had this shocked,

[00:02:14] kind of mortified look on his face with eyes wide as he stared at it.

[00:02:18] I couldn't help but say, I told you so,

[00:02:21] and started laughing at the way he looked.

[00:02:24] My husband snapped out of his shock and got mad at me for laughing at him.

[00:02:28] We argued for a bit, which was mainly him yelling at me

[00:02:31] before my sister came downstairs and my husband shut up.

[00:02:36] After that, my husband went back to his parents house to clear his head.

[00:02:40] And two to three hours later, my mother-in-law called to scold me

[00:02:44] about laughing in my husband's face because apparently

[00:02:48] it was kicking him while he was down.

[00:02:50] She's also left a couple of nasty texts,

[00:02:52] essentially saying the same thing this morning.

[00:02:55] I don't think I'm an asshole, but I would like an outsider perspective on this.

[00:02:59] Opi had an edit that says, since someone asked in the comments,

[00:03:01] but I can't find it anymore.

[00:03:03] I have zero history of cheating.

[00:03:06] So dude clearly doesn't understand genetics and just had this massive

[00:03:11] meltdown and ran off to his parents house, got his mum to start calling you,

[00:03:15] saying that they're going to take you to the cleaners.

[00:03:18] That would have been it in itself.

[00:03:19] But yet for them to come round to check out the results,

[00:03:22] I would have pissed myself laughing at the same time

[00:03:25] and wasn't apologetic in any way.

[00:03:27] Not that's going to fix things, but didn't apologize after the results came in.

[00:03:32] He ran off again to clear his head and mummy calls up

[00:03:36] to tell you off about laughing because you was kicking him

[00:03:39] while he was down because of his own thought process.

[00:03:42] So, yeah, the husband's a piece of work,

[00:03:44] but I'm also side eyeing the rest of the family

[00:03:47] that they didn't take your side in this as well and question the behavior of him.

[00:03:51] They automatically took his side and started scolding you

[00:03:54] harassing you about it, but pneumatically says,

[00:03:58] my husband and I both have dark brown hair and dark eyes.

[00:04:02] Our child equals blonde and blue eyes,

[00:04:04] as OP's husband never heard of recessive genes.

[00:04:08] Crystal Queen says not the asshole.

[00:04:09] Fuck that guy.

[00:04:11] Not only doesn't he have a basic grasp of genetics,

[00:04:14] he threw a tantrum and left you immediately after having the baby

[00:04:17] to struggle alone for almost a month.

[00:04:19] He's lucky all you did was laugh in his face.

[00:04:22] Heedle Piggy says also, in my opinion,

[00:04:24] he's projecting his own infidelity.

[00:04:27] Sorry, you're going through the OP.

[00:04:29] And there are some other people suggesting this as well.

[00:04:31] And we have seen that kind of behavior in the past.

[00:04:33] So it wouldn't be that surprising.

[00:04:36] Alice Mum says, so are we laughing while serving him divorce papers?

[00:04:39] What's the move, girl?

[00:04:41] Buffalo says, I'm a married man and I want to divorce this guy.

[00:04:46] Character figure says, this is insane.

[00:04:49] He abandoned you postpartum and forced you to take care

[00:04:52] of a newborn baby by yourself while healing.

[00:04:55] My husband and I have a baby that looks nothing like either of us.

[00:04:59] She came out with strawberry blonde hair and blue eyes.

[00:05:02] Well, we both have brown hair and brown eyes.

[00:05:05] Both just said, wow, genetics are crazy and moved on.

[00:05:09] I'm sorry for what you're going through while being freshly postpartum

[00:05:12] with a newborn.

[00:05:14] And one more comment who says, for real,

[00:05:16] our group message to your mother-in-law and husband and say that

[00:05:19] your son abandoned me for three weeks postpartum,

[00:05:23] leaving me alone to care for, edit our newborn

[00:05:27] while still healing because apparently none of you ever learn how biology works.

[00:05:31] And now that it's been proven how very wrong you both were,

[00:05:34] both in your assumptions and treatment of me,

[00:05:36] you have the audacity to get upset with me for laughing.

[00:05:40] That's the real joke.

[00:05:41] The appropriate response at the bear, and I mean, bare minimum,

[00:05:45] bare minimum would be a groveling apology.

[00:05:48] And instead, you are doubling down.

[00:05:50] Enjoy not being involved in my daughter's life.

[00:05:53] Keep your son.

[00:05:54] We will see who's going to the cleaners now.

[00:05:57] So around two months later, Opie comes in with an update

[00:06:00] and says, I start this post off by saying thank you

[00:06:02] for all the advice and support I was given.

[00:06:05] You're all giving me the firm kick in the ass to divorce my ex.

[00:06:08] Also, sorry for leaving you in the lurch for the past two months.

[00:06:12] All right. Here's the update.

[00:06:14] After making my post, I decided to search for divorce lawyers in my area.

[00:06:18] With my sister, it took a while, but I managed to find and meet with one

[00:06:22] who was willing to do virtual consultations during this.

[00:06:26] My ex was not contacting me at all, but I did reach out to see if he was OK.

[00:06:30] Eventually, once he actually got served,

[00:06:33] my ex came back to our house and tried pleading with me

[00:06:36] not to go through with a divorce.

[00:06:37] He said he loved me more than anyone and that we could go to couples therapy.

[00:06:42] During this, my ex stepped up and admitted to cheating on me

[00:06:45] when he first left me.

[00:06:47] He said that he got caught up with his co-worker

[00:06:49] when trying to explain his week's long absence.

[00:06:52] At first, I didn't realize who he was talking about

[00:06:55] because he referred to her by nickname.

[00:06:57] Think Viv over Vivian.

[00:06:59] But my brain kicked back into gear and asked if that

[00:07:02] getting caught up with her was code for that he fucked her.

[00:07:06] Mike stumbled over his words and tried to dodge the question,

[00:07:09] but he seemed to realize that I wasn't going to let up on this

[00:07:12] pretty quickly.

[00:07:13] He admitted to going to her for emotional support before our baby was born,

[00:07:18] since he was nervous about being a dad and eventually

[00:07:21] fucking her during the time he left.

[00:07:23] So you guys were right about him cheating.

[00:07:26] I'd heard enough at that point and told my ex point blank

[00:07:28] we were going to divorce, no ifs, ands or buts about it

[00:07:32] and that I wanted 50-50 custody.

[00:07:35] Would only be speaking about the divorce,

[00:07:37] custody arrangements and our daughter herself after this.

[00:07:41] My ex just nodded to what I was saying

[00:07:43] and asked if he could see our daughter.

[00:07:45] I was a bit hesitant, but said yes

[00:07:47] and called my sister to have her bring our daughter down to the living room.

[00:07:51] My ex held our daughter and talked to the baby for a bit before leaving.

[00:07:55] My sister asked me if I was all right after he was gone,

[00:07:58] and I told her I was OK.

[00:08:00] My mother-in-law did try to harass me over the phone

[00:08:03] about divorcing my ex, but by then I'd already blocked her.

[00:08:06] So she went to my sister instead.

[00:08:08] I guess my mother-in-law was never told that I own the house.

[00:08:12] My ex and I previously shared, since she'd text my sister,

[00:08:15] saying that I was going to be on the streets.

[00:08:17] Well, my mother-in-law most certainly knows that now,

[00:08:21] as my ex is now living with her and moved out.

[00:08:24] My ex has seen our daughter a few times.

[00:08:26] Those visits were awkward to say the least, but I managed.

[00:08:30] Hopefully I won't have to give you guys any more updates about this.

[00:08:34] And just a couple of the top comments after this, Fire or Water Kai says

[00:08:38] I wonder if her being willing to make a child homeless plays any role

[00:08:41] in OP just stuck.

[00:08:43] OP says I think she assumed that if I got kicked out,

[00:08:46] my daughter would be stuck with my ex rather than me taking my daughter

[00:08:49] with me and staying at my parents house.

[00:08:52] User says so he wrongly accused you of cheating

[00:08:55] and turns around and cheats on you.

[00:08:57] Thank goodness you're divorcing him and leaving him and his mother behind.

[00:09:01] Best of luck to you and your daughter.

[00:09:03] Echno No says writer first refusal or assuring priority of parental care.

[00:09:08] This refers to situations where a parent is unable

[00:09:10] to meet an obligation for the care of the child during their scheduled time.

[00:09:14] They must then contact the other parent to offer them to have the child

[00:09:18] before they use another family member or babysitter over the other parent.

[00:09:22] But if your ex has the baby, but just drops her off

[00:09:25] at his mother's house and takes off, you can take your child back home

[00:09:28] with you or eventually get more custody time

[00:09:30] if he is not using his custody time to be with his child.

[00:09:34] And one more comment from Space Commuter who says

[00:09:37] I don't think 50-50 custody is the right thing here.

[00:09:40] He has no parental instincts for his child at all, even denying he was the father.

[00:09:45] Up to this point, it sounds like he hasn't even fed her or changed the diaper.

[00:09:49] You shouldn't turn her over to him half the time.

[00:09:51] You probably just hand her off to the mother-in-law to raise.

[00:09:54] You should be going for full custody based on him

[00:09:56] abandoning you and your daughter after the birth.

[00:09:59] As well as refusing to believe he was the father.

[00:10:01] You should pay child support and not corrupt his daughter further.

[00:10:06] But now I'm going to turn this one to you guys.

[00:10:09] What do you guys make of this situation?

[00:10:12] Let me know your thoughts down in the comments below.

[00:10:14] And let's move on to another story.

[00:11:12] And our next story does have an update as well from fake name

[00:11:18] from the Am I The Arsehole subreddit and says, would I be the arsehole

[00:11:21] if I rescinded my offer to pay for a friend's birthday dinner

[00:11:25] after they pick somewhere I can't eat.

[00:11:28] My friend Luke is turning 40 and I offered to pay for him

[00:11:32] and a group of our friends to have dinner anywhere Luke wanted.

[00:11:36] Luke knows I've been vegan since my 20s.

[00:11:39] It's never been an issue before.

[00:11:41] When I asked where he made reservations,

[00:11:43] he said a local barbecue place that is famous here for having

[00:11:46] a menu that mocks people who don't eat meat.

[00:11:49] Like literally has a section that says vegetarian options.

[00:11:53] Don't let the door hit you on the way out.

[00:11:55] I asked what he expected me to eat and he got huffy and said,

[00:11:59] well, it's his birthday, so it shouldn't matter.

[00:12:02] I should eat before getting there and just order drinks

[00:12:04] while everyone else eats dinner and still enjoy everyone's company, etc.

[00:12:09] This sounds miserable to me.

[00:12:11] Had zero expectations of Luke picking somewhere vegan friendly.

[00:12:14] Hell, I expected him to pick a steakhouse and would have been fine

[00:12:17] with a salad and some sides.

[00:12:19] I didn't expect them to choose somewhere that prides themselves

[00:12:21] on being on meat, being in every single dish on the menu.

[00:12:26] I want to tell him never mind and buy him a traditional birthday

[00:12:29] gift instead, but feel like a massive arsehole for taking back my offer.

[00:12:34] I don't know what to do, to be honest.

[00:12:36] Edited to add, this is a group of nine, so I'm also feeling

[00:12:40] miffed about spending three hundred plus dollars on a meal I can't eat.

[00:12:44] Second edit, exact text I sent.

[00:12:46] Hey, hey, I want to take you and the friend fam out to dinner for your birthday.

[00:12:50] Make a reservation somewhere and let me know.

[00:12:53] Now, I'm trying to find some excuse that he didn't know or something,

[00:12:59] you know, because this is just this is meant to be your friend

[00:13:02] and this guy is just taking the piss.

[00:13:05] You were massively generous to offer to take a group of friends

[00:13:09] and you were willing to take a group of nine people out, pay for their meals.

[00:13:14] If I was that person who had that offer, I'm not sure I'd be able

[00:13:17] to accept it anyway, but I'd also be saying, I know Opie offered me,

[00:13:22] but let's work together to find a place that we both enjoy.

[00:13:25] So, you know, you're paying for all of it.

[00:13:27] But instead, he has this attitude where he gets huffy

[00:13:30] and says, it's my birthday, so it shouldn't matter.

[00:13:33] Just eat before you get there and order drinks, which it would have been

[00:13:36] some way he forgot and he went, oh, my God.

[00:13:39] Yeah, I'm so sorry.

[00:13:40] Let's find somewhere that can accommodate you at the same time.

[00:13:43] Not just now go eat before you come and get drinks

[00:13:47] after you said that you're going to pay for it.

[00:13:49] What a bizarre attitude and seriously got me side eyeing.

[00:13:53] Is that really a friend?

[00:13:55] But head of harlot says not the asshole.

[00:13:57] I get that you offered and said he could pick anywhere he wanted.

[00:14:01] This is extremely generous of you, so generous, in fact,

[00:14:04] that you should have at least been considered when picking the venue.

[00:14:08] Even on people's birthdays, my friend group makes sure to pick restaurants

[00:14:11] that cater to everyone's dietary restrictions and allergies.

[00:14:15] That's what you do when you care about your friends.

[00:14:17] The choice he made feels very intentional on his part and not in a good way.

[00:14:22] Honestly, it seems he thought it would be funny to humiliate you.

[00:14:25] He's using the fact that it's his birthday to get away with it.

[00:14:29] Luke doesn't sound like a great friend.

[00:14:31] How you handle this is up to you.

[00:14:33] I personally would tell him that choosing the one restaurant

[00:14:36] that intentionally excludes people like you is very telling

[00:14:39] and you would not be participating.

[00:14:41] If any rain says make a joke out of it by saying something like,

[00:14:44] come on, man, you know, I'm vegan.

[00:14:46] Quit fucking with me and pick a place where I can eat as well.

[00:14:49] Or you're on your own.

[00:14:50] Which intro replies in I agree with this lighthearted way

[00:14:53] of letting them know that you can't believe you'd pick a place

[00:14:56] where you can't eat, then have you pick up the bill.

[00:14:59] You should either have chosen a different place

[00:15:01] or politely declined your offer since the venue was already decided.

[00:15:05] Old Smokey says, clear not the asshole.

[00:15:08] A lot of people saying that gifts don't have strings attached,

[00:15:11] which I would say they sure can.

[00:15:13] You made that up.

[00:15:14] Many of gifts have implicit or explicit conditions.

[00:15:18] Further, you didn't offer to just give them a few hundred bucks for dinner.

[00:15:21] You offered to buy dinner for a group of which you are a member.

[00:15:25] If you can't participate in the dinner, then it isn't a dinner for the group

[00:15:28] and does not meet the qualifications of your offer.

[00:15:30] So three days later,

[00:15:32] Opie comes in with an update and says, Hey, folks, this may not be

[00:15:35] the dramatic update you all wanted.

[00:15:37] But here we go.

[00:15:38] First, clear some things up.

[00:15:40] Many of the comments assumed I was a man and Luke

[00:15:42] was trying to emasculate me somehow.

[00:15:45] I'm a 41 year old woman and our friend group that was invited

[00:15:49] are four women and six men.

[00:15:51] All those people are spouses.

[00:15:52] And the other six of us have known each other since college

[00:15:55] after living in the same academic focus house senior year

[00:15:59] an off campus housing option where people who share a concentration

[00:16:02] can apply for and live in standalone houses off campus

[00:16:05] that a university owned.

[00:16:07] That's a story for another time.

[00:16:09] Just trying to give context after deciding to just cancel

[00:16:12] and take a break from my friendship with Luke.

[00:16:14] I got a text from our friend Susan letting me know that

[00:16:17] Luke had told everyone where we were going to eat without prompting.

[00:16:21] Got several text backs along the lines of hilarious.

[00:16:24] But where are we really eating?

[00:16:26] Without any drama, I guess Luke realized he had made a mistake.

[00:16:29] And I got a text later in the day from him saying he was sorry

[00:16:32] and had decided on a different spot.

[00:16:35] Luke has always been a bit oblivious and bad with social cues.

[00:16:39] And I'm bad at confrontation, which was a bad mix.

[00:16:43] Dinner was last night and it went great.

[00:16:45] Everyone was making fun of Luke for the initial choice,

[00:16:47] but he took it in stride and we all had a great time

[00:16:50] catching up and being away from our respective kids for a night.

[00:16:53] Sorry for the boring update.

[00:16:56] Now, if I'm going to be completely honest and, you know,

[00:16:58] it may be a bad take, but I'm willing to accept it.

[00:17:01] I'm not sure how I feel about that update.

[00:17:04] Luke, in the first part of the story,

[00:17:06] Luke told Opie, you know, just have some food before you come out

[00:17:11] and you can just sit and have drinks and basically watch us eat our food.

[00:17:16] So whatever happened in this update, it just feels like Luke

[00:17:19] was trying to save face.

[00:17:20] He was going to be doing this barbecue restaurant.

[00:17:22] It was just that several people in this friend group bit back

[00:17:26] and he thought to himself, oh, shit, I best change it really quick here.

[00:17:29] So like I said, I'm not sure how I feel about that one.

[00:17:33] Let me know how you guys and people in the update

[00:17:36] were saying, you know, this is a good update.

[00:17:38] Let us know your thoughts down in the comments below.

[00:17:42] And, you know, let's have one more cheeky story.

[00:17:46] And this story comes from the Am I the Arsehole subreddit?

[00:17:49] It doesn't have an update as yet.

[00:17:50] It is from Glazer54 who says, am I the arsehole for telling a doctor

[00:17:54] to shut up on a turbulent flight?

[00:17:57] I30Mail was on a flight from Atlanta to LAX last night.

[00:18:01] Packed flight.

[00:18:02] Everyone just trying to get some sleep.

[00:18:05] About two hours in, the lights come on and an announcement

[00:18:08] crackles through the intercom.

[00:18:09] Turbulence ahead, fasten seat belts, pretty standard stuff.

[00:18:14] Then all hell breaks loose.

[00:18:16] This woman, maybe late 40s, impeccably dressed,

[00:18:20] starts freaking out, screaming about air pockets,

[00:18:23] demanding to speak to the pilot a whole nine yards.

[00:18:26] Flight attendant Superpatient Lady Blesser tries to calm her down,

[00:18:30] explains it's standard procedure.

[00:18:33] Turbulence is normal.

[00:18:35] Nope, not having it.

[00:18:36] This lady who will name Jane throws a fit.

[00:18:40] Not the screeching nails on a chalkboard kind, but a cold, steely fury.

[00:18:45] She accuses the flight attendant of lying, of putting everyone in danger

[00:18:49] and demands to be de-planned immediately.

[00:18:52] Flight attendant says that it's not possible mid-flight.

[00:18:55] And Jane launches into this whole spiel about how she's a doctor,

[00:18:59] pulls out an ID to prove it.

[00:19:01] And if something happens, it's on the airline.

[00:19:04] Now the rest of the plane is awake.

[00:19:06] People are grumbling, some looking scared.

[00:19:09] A baby starts crying.

[00:19:11] Flight attendant is trying to reason with Jane,

[00:19:13] but it's like talking to a brick wall.

[00:19:16] Finally, I just lose it.

[00:19:18] I yell out, probably a little too loudly.

[00:19:21] Look, lady, we all get turbulence.

[00:19:23] It's not a five star resort, but it's safe.

[00:19:25] Sit down and shut up before you get yourself arrested.

[00:19:28] And everyone stares at me.

[00:19:30] Jane spins around, eyes blazing and starts in on me

[00:19:34] about disrespecting a medical professional.

[00:19:37] I fire back that a real doctor wouldn't be causing a scene

[00:19:40] and freaking everyone out.

[00:19:41] The flight attendant dives in trying to mediate, but the damage is done.

[00:19:46] We hit some turbulence, not terrible, but enough to jostle the plane.

[00:19:50] Jane freaks again and some people start getting panicky.

[00:19:54] I feel awful.

[00:19:55] Maybe I made things worse.

[00:19:57] The flight attendant gives me a look at a curdle milk

[00:20:00] but then steers Jane away to talk to her privately.

[00:20:03] By the time we land, things are calmer, but the tension is thick.

[00:20:08] Jane gives me a withering look as she disembarks

[00:20:10] and a few people mutter thanks under their breath.

[00:20:13] So am I the asshole?

[00:20:15] Did I just escalate a bad situation or was I right to shut down

[00:20:19] a meltdown that was putting other passengers on edge?

[00:20:23] I'm honestly not sure.

[00:20:25] And we start in the comments with Chalk in Boots

[00:20:27] who says you're the asshole, but unknowingly.

[00:20:30] The crew were trained to handle these sorts of situations

[00:20:33] and you and your frustration escalated it.

[00:20:36] I fly a lot.

[00:20:37] I'm also a very big guy who looks like he can handle himself.

[00:20:41] It's kind of an unwritten rule that if there's an aggressive passenger,

[00:20:45] I sit the fuck down, but pay attention.

[00:20:46] Don't jump in.

[00:20:47] Don't risk making things worse in an attempt to fix the issue.

[00:20:51] Sit down, shut up.

[00:20:52] And if the crew need help, they'll ask.

[00:20:55] You ever watch or play netball?

[00:20:57] Unlike a lot of sports where players will call for the ball,

[00:21:00] open players in netball say here if you need or imagine

[00:21:03] going to the supermarket and you see someone with a pallet stocking shelves.

[00:21:07] You don't just start grabbing stuff

[00:21:09] and putting on the shelf saying, I'm just trying to help.

[00:21:11] Let the professional handle it.

[00:21:14] Nope, says you're the asshole.

[00:21:15] It doesn't matter that you're being rude to a fake doctor.

[00:21:18] It matters that you're disrespectful to the flight attendant

[00:21:21] and the other passengers.

[00:21:22] You're not Batman performing some distasteful but necessary vigilanteism.

[00:21:27] But just a second loud asshole yelling at the first asshole.

[00:21:31] OK, perception says I don't know a single doctor who would behave that way.

[00:21:35] The only scenario that would make sense

[00:21:37] if she's an alcoholic with a fear of flying.

[00:21:39] You're the asshole for escalating a bad situation.

[00:21:42] Let the flight attendants deal with it.

[00:21:44] They're trained to do so.

[00:21:46] Yelling at someone who is angry or in the middle of a panic attack

[00:21:48] isn't helpful.

[00:21:50] That's being yelled at when you're angry or afraid ever helped you.

[00:21:54] And one more comment from Small Trees Dreams, who says,

[00:21:56] You're the asshole.

[00:21:58] If the flight attendants were being physically overwhelmed

[00:22:00] by a violent passenger or something I could see getting involved,

[00:22:04] or perhaps if you're a therapist or somehow trained in mental health support

[00:22:07] or conflict resolution, you could identify yourself

[00:22:10] to the flight attendants and offer your help and expertise.

[00:22:13] As it is, all you did is yell at an anxious person

[00:22:16] and escalated the situation.

[00:22:18] But now I'm going to turn this one to you guys.

[00:22:21] Put yourself in OP's position.

[00:22:23] Would you ever shout out like that or not?

[00:22:26] You think OP made it worse?

[00:22:27] Or would you be happy if someone did that in that situation?

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