Brother Invited My Ex Who Cheated On Me As His Guest Of Honor At His Wedding r/Relationships

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[00:00:21] Now our first story is from the Am I the Arsehole here subreddit. It says, Am I the Arsehole for refusing to pay for my brother's wedding after he invited my ex?

[00:00:29] So, here's the situation. My 28 male, younger brother, 25 male, is getting married soon. And I was excited for him. Until I found out he decided to invite my ex-girlfriend, 27 female, to the wedding.

[00:00:45] Now, let me give you some background. We broke up over a year ago and it was pretty rough. She cheated on me with his best friend and it took me months to get over that betrayal.

[00:00:54] When I found out she was invited, I was furious and reached out to my brother to express my feelings. I told him that I would not attend if she was there. Instead of being understanding, he got defensive and accused me of ruining his big day.

[00:01:09] He insisted that he wanted her there because they've become friends since the breakup and that she's changed. I told him that if I'm not welcome, then I won't be attending and therefore I won't be covering my share of the wedding expenses, which I had already agreed to pay before the invitation fiasco.

[00:01:27] Now, my family is pulling me in every direction, saying I'm being petty and ruining my brother's wedding for no reason. They're calling me an arsehole for not supporting my brother and for potentially putting financial strain on his wedding plans. Some even suggested I should just suck it up and attend for the sake of family.

[00:01:47] I've now decided that I'm not paying for a single thing and that if he wants to have a wedding with my ex as the guest of honor, it's on him to cover the costs.

[00:01:56] Am I the arsehole for standing my ground and refusing to fund my brother's wedding under these circumstances?

[00:02:03] I never understand how this has become a thing. We've seen it in several posts now, but unless it's a cultural thing or something I'm missing along those lines, I don't understand why siblings are expected to pay for other siblings' weddings.

[00:02:17] They're like adults now. If you're getting married, surely you can pay for your own wedding or you save up to pay for your own wedding.

[00:02:24] Not expect your sibling to pay it for you. There's only three years between them.

[00:02:28] And as always, if people are going to complain about it, if family's gonna complain about it, they can put their hands in their pockets and pull some money out. It's up to them.

[00:02:37] But in terms of the question itself, not the arsehole as well. You was cheated on by this person. Why would you want to be around that person and, you know, putting myself in your brother's shoes?

[00:02:47] If I heard that someone done that to one of my brothers, I wouldn't want them there either.

[00:02:51] But external medicine says not the arsehole. This woman betrayed and hurt you and now your brother is friends with her and she's changed.

[00:03:00] Don't pay. Don't go. Hold strong and give your brother a I told you so.

[00:03:05] When she cheats on his best friend, your brother is showing you how important you are to him.

[00:03:10] Believe him. Hope he replied saying thank you for your input.

[00:03:14] This I told you so will be the most satisfying one so far in my life.

[00:03:19] Medicine replies that saying what your brother is doing is outrageous.

[00:03:22] I may be a little biased as I was cheated on by my ex-fiance February last year.

[00:03:27] When my siblings found out, my three sisters dropped her as a friend and said they will not physically hurt her but to never contact them again.

[00:03:34] My brother was my rock and would never have made me be in the same room as her.

[00:03:39] Your brother is not a very good brother.

[00:03:41] Opie added a clarifying comment within the same post and said just to clarify, I'm not upset about the wedding itself but about the fact that he invited someone who hurt me deeply.

[00:03:51] I feel like my feelings don't matter to him and frankly I'm tired of being the one expected to just roll over.

[00:03:57] Swiss Miss says not the arsehole.

[00:03:59] Your brother is one for being insensitive but ultimately the biggest arsehole is your family.

[00:04:04] Are you even having, and quotes my share of the wedding expenses and says you aren't getting married.

[00:04:10] You do not have wedding expenses.

[00:04:14] Someone asked the Opie saying did your brother also get a term with her?

[00:04:18] Opie said yes unfortunately.

[00:04:21] The other commenter says tell him to pay for his own wedding.

[00:04:24] Opie says he's unable to pay for his wedding because he is unemployed so he'll have to find another source of funding.

[00:04:30] And a final comment from Tall Negotiation who says not the arsehole.

[00:04:34] Inviting your ex was a shitty move especially due to how it ended between you guys.

[00:04:38] He isn't uninviting her for the sake of family.

[00:04:41] So you shouldn't have to do anything because of family.

[00:04:44] Of course you shouldn't have to go to the wedding and you are almost very much entitled to not want to pay for it.

[00:04:50] Since your brother has made it clear that your ex means more to him than you.

[00:04:54] Since she's such a great friend to him.

[00:04:56] Then maybe she can pay for the stuff instead of you.

[00:04:59] And if he can't afford the wedding without your money.

[00:05:01] Then maybe he should have treated you better.

[00:05:04] Don't bite the hand that feeds you.

[00:05:07] So Opie comes back into the post with their update and says okay.

[00:05:11] So I wanted to update everyone because things have escalated.

[00:05:14] And it's even crazier than I expected.

[00:05:17] After my last post I thought maybe my family would come around to my way of thinking.

[00:05:22] Instead they absolutely lost it.

[00:05:24] My brother called me crying saying I'm ruining his happiness and my parents have taken his side 100%.

[00:05:30] In a fit of rage I ended up posting screenshots of our conversation in our family group chat.

[00:05:36] You know the ones where he called me selfish and petty.

[00:05:40] Yeah I regret that decision but it felt like let's air this dirty laundry moment.

[00:05:45] My extended family saw the text and now half of them think I'm justified.

[00:05:48] While the other half is calling me the family villain.

[00:05:52] To add fuel to the fire my ex-girlfriend reached out to me directly.

[00:05:56] She said it's unfair that I'm acting like she's a monster when I should just be mature about the situation.

[00:06:02] I told her she would always be a reminder of my brother's betrayal and that I wouldn't ever see her in a positive light.

[00:06:08] She then had the audacity to say my brother might reconsider his whole wedding if I'm not there.

[00:06:14] Now my parents want us to have a family meeting to discuss this drama like we're some sort of reality TV show.

[00:06:21] I told him I'm not showing up if it's just going to be him whining while my ex is basking in it all.

[00:06:27] Called me dramatic but this whole mess has made me feel like I'm in an episode of a soap opera.

[00:06:32] So now I'm considering throwing some cash into the mix for an epic weekend getaway instead of funding his wedding.

[00:06:38] His wedding is becoming about my ex and not about him and honestly I feel justified in saying no.

[00:06:44] I'm still standing my ground but part of me is genuinely worried this might tear my family apart.

[00:06:49] Edit, I'm overwhelmed by all the replies and I appreciate them all.

[00:06:53] I'm sorry if I'm unable to reply to them all but I've read every single one.

[00:06:58] Opie adds in a comment just to clarify I'm not trying to ruin my brother's happiness.

[00:07:03] It feels like everyone is more concerned about my ex's feelings than mine.

[00:07:06] I'm genuinely confused about why my life choices are being judged when his choices directly impact me.

[00:07:12] I made reservations for a cruise and will be away during all the drama.

[00:07:17] Honestly, I think it's the best way to escape this mess.

[00:07:20] And there was a comment that replied to that that was hugely upvoted from XMalX who says

[00:07:25] This is not even about your life choices.

[00:07:28] This is about basic integrity and decency.

[00:07:31] One, your ex cheated on you with your brother's best friend.

[00:07:34] There is no excuse for this nor should there be forgiveness for your ex or your brother's best friend.

[00:07:39] A good brother would have cut off your ex and his best friend for what they did to you.

[00:07:43] The fact that he didn't is disgusting.

[00:07:46] Two, you dumped their cheating ass.

[00:07:48] Which any reasonably intelligent person would have done.

[00:07:51] Three, your brother decided to invite your ex to his wedding without even considering that you may not be comfortable with it

[00:07:57] or asking you if that would be okay.

[00:07:59] You don't matter here.

[00:08:00] It's his day.

[00:08:01] He made it clear.

[00:08:03] Four, since you don't matter I don't see any reason for you to participate or contribute to the wedding.

[00:08:08] It's your brother's day and he has the right to invite whoever he wants.

[00:08:11] Just like you have the right to choose whether you want to attend the wedding or not.

[00:08:15] Five, your family is blaming you for putting a financial strain on his wedding.

[00:08:20] What the fuck is this?

[00:08:21] Since when is he entitled to your money?

[00:08:24] If your brother can't afford to get married without you sponsoring it

[00:08:27] then maybe he is not financially competent yet to start a family.

[00:08:30] This is not your problem.

[00:08:32] Six, your brother accused you of ruining his happiness.

[00:08:35] What?

[00:08:36] This is some level 80 manipulation BS.

[00:08:39] He made a decision to invite your ex who cheated on you

[00:08:42] then brushed you off when you expressed that you were not comfortable with that.

[00:08:46] And now that you decided not to go

[00:08:48] he makes a shocked Pikachu face and blames you.

[00:08:50] How old is he?

[00:08:52] 12?

[00:08:52] If your family keeps bothering you for contribution to his wedding

[00:08:56] tell them that he's not entitled to your money

[00:08:58] nor your presence at his wedding.

[00:09:00] If your ex contacts you

[00:09:01] tell her to go fuck herself and block her.

[00:09:04] Hope you have a nice trip

[00:09:06] and enjoy your vacation.

[00:09:07] Hopefully with your phone turned off.

[00:09:11] And I think that comment pretty much summed it up 100%.

[00:09:15] But what do you guys make of this situation?

[00:09:19] Have you ever been expected to contribute to a sibling's wedding?

[00:09:23] What was the reason behind it?

[00:09:25] Let us know.

[00:09:26] And I'm genuinely curious about that.

[00:09:27] Let us know your thoughts down in the comments below

[00:09:30] and let's move on to another story.

[00:09:33] And our next story comes from ctreacle7062

[00:09:37] and says am I the arsehole here for not wanting to lower my daughter's standard of living

[00:09:42] for a stepsister.

[00:09:44] Me and my ex-wife divorced around five years ago

[00:09:47] when she came out as lesbian.

[00:09:49] We are still really good friends

[00:09:51] and we are both confused about what to do here.

[00:09:54] Around two years ago she got married to Linda

[00:09:56] and her daughter Mia had 12 female.

[00:09:58] My daughter Anne is currently 17 years old.

[00:10:01] I've worked hard for the career and income I have

[00:10:04] and I'm not ashamed to want Anne to enjoy it.

[00:10:07] As such I give her a relatively large allowance.

[00:10:10] Anne grew up volunteering at our local shelter with me

[00:10:13] and her mum weekly

[00:10:14] so she isn't spoiled at all.

[00:10:17] Anne and Mia were really close at first

[00:10:19] but recently Mia has been acting out

[00:10:22] about the lifestyle disparities

[00:10:23] between Anne and the rest of my ex-wife's household.

[00:10:27] Like how unfair it is that Anne gets to order food for delivery

[00:10:30] whenever she wants

[00:10:31] and how she has fancier electronics and clothes

[00:10:34] than what my ex and Linda can afford for her.

[00:10:36] Her biological father has passed.

[00:10:39] It had gotten to the point

[00:10:40] that it has started to affect her relationship with Anne.

[00:10:43] Last week was the last straw

[00:10:45] when she said

[00:10:46] I wish my dad was alive

[00:10:48] so I would have the same stuff Anne has.

[00:10:51] My ex-wife scheduled a meeting with me

[00:10:53] to talk about things.

[00:10:54] We pretty much seem to be on the same page

[00:10:56] since we both have no idea what to do.

[00:10:59] We are not comfortable with lowering Anne's allowance

[00:11:02] since we're both worried

[00:11:03] it would make her resent Mia.

[00:11:05] Nor are we comfortable with prohibiting her

[00:11:08] from using her allowance at her mother's place

[00:11:10] since it might alienate her from her mother's household

[00:11:13] and make her not want to be there.

[00:11:15] My understanding is that Anne offers to share things she buys

[00:11:18] makeup, food, clothes with Mia sometimes

[00:11:21] but not all the time.

[00:11:22] But I don't feel comfortable enforcing a sharing rule either

[00:11:26] since my therapist advised me

[00:11:28] that it usually breeds resentment.

[00:11:30] However, Linda has been very upset

[00:11:32] with both me and my ex-wife

[00:11:34] since it's causing a lot of disturbance with Mia

[00:11:37] and a lot of big feelings

[00:11:38] and if my dad was alive kind of stuff

[00:11:41] and it's genuinely harming her mental health.

[00:11:44] Linda acknowledges that it is an unfair ask

[00:11:46] but she asked me if I could have a talk with Anne

[00:11:49] about maybe saving more of allowance

[00:11:51] to not spend so much in front of Mia

[00:11:53] for the sake of creating a healthier

[00:11:55] and more harmonious household.

[00:11:57] I told her I understand where she is coming from

[00:11:59] but I don't feel comfortable controlling

[00:12:01] how my daughter spends money

[00:12:03] that I give her to spend as she pleases.

[00:12:05] Am I, the Yasel here.

[00:12:07] So someone asked the OP on this one

[00:12:09] is there any possibilities if Anne could move in

[00:12:12] with the OP

[00:12:13] and OP says we did think about this option

[00:12:15] but one, having her just move in with me

[00:12:17] is basically running away from conflict

[00:12:19] rather than teaching compromise

[00:12:21] and conflict resolution.

[00:12:23] Would I have her move in with me

[00:12:24] whenever she had any sort of friction

[00:12:26] with anyone she was living with?

[00:12:28] Two, that is basically distancing her

[00:12:30] from a loving, amazing mother.

[00:12:32] A commenter says to OP,

[00:12:34] not the arsehole,

[00:12:35] five years is a big age difference between the girls.

[00:12:38] Mama, the 12-year-old,

[00:12:39] needs to have a conversation with her.

[00:12:41] It's not fair that the 17-year-old

[00:12:43] has to hold back for a 12-year-old.

[00:12:45] She's older and has more privileges.

[00:12:48] Another commenter replies that and says,

[00:12:50] and if it's affecting the 12-year-old's mental health

[00:12:52] then maybe she's regressing in her grieving for her dad

[00:12:54] then she needs to be in therapy.

[00:12:56] The 17-year-old isn't responsible for her mental health

[00:12:59] and shouldn't be made to feel she is.

[00:13:02] OP says, yeah.

[00:13:03] See, this is the hard part.

[00:13:05] I want to strike a balance between

[00:13:06] you're not responsible for the feelings of others

[00:13:08] while simultaneously communicating that

[00:13:10] you should still care about the feelings of those close to you

[00:13:13] as kindness, mindfulness and consideration

[00:13:16] are good qualities to have.

[00:13:18] Another commenter says to OP,

[00:13:19] not the arsehole,

[00:13:20] the allowance you give to your daughter

[00:13:21] is none of Linda's business.

[00:13:23] Your daughter is five years older than her daughter

[00:13:25] so there should be nothing to be surprised

[00:13:27] about the fact that she gets more pocket money.

[00:13:30] So sometime later,

[00:13:31] OP did update the post and says,

[00:13:33] after thinking about it for a while,

[00:13:35] I still don't think it's effective to enforce anything.

[00:13:38] Making Anne share everything with Mia

[00:13:40] or banning her from using her allowance

[00:13:42] at her mother's place

[00:13:43] will just create resentment towards Mia.

[00:13:46] Having her spend more time here

[00:13:47] is also alienating her from her mom.

[00:13:49] However, I am of the opinion

[00:13:51] that there is more to parenting

[00:13:53] than just enforcing rules

[00:13:54] and encouraging good qualities,

[00:13:56] even without a consequence attached,

[00:13:58] is also important for older kids.

[00:14:00] I will not force Anne to do anything

[00:14:02] to pacify Mia or punish her for it.

[00:14:05] But I decided it is perfectly fine

[00:14:07] and dare I say necessary

[00:14:08] for me to have a heart-to-heart with her

[00:14:10] about the hurt she is unintentionally causing to Mia

[00:14:13] and the potential future ramifications of that.

[00:14:16] I'm going to talk to her when she comes over tomorrow

[00:14:18] and I'm going to bring up the following points.

[00:14:21] The allowance I give her

[00:14:22] is hers to spend as she pleases.

[00:14:25] This has been and will remain her right.

[00:14:27] However, spending money on Uber Eats and clothes

[00:14:30] and other things in front of Mia

[00:14:31] is upsetting her.

[00:14:33] Given both the fact that she's a child

[00:14:35] who doesn't understand financial matters just yet

[00:14:37] and that she only has one parent to provide for her.

[00:14:41] Mia might eventually grow up to understand

[00:14:43] or she might not.

[00:14:44] Even if she does understand later,

[00:14:46] the upset cause in the meantime

[00:14:48] will be damaging to their relationship

[00:14:49] and possibly to her relationship with Linda.

[00:14:53] Sometimes we do things we don't want to do

[00:14:55] and not necessarily fair or just

[00:14:58] in the traditional sense

[00:14:59] to protect relationships we value.

[00:15:01] It's sometimes better to be happy than right.

[00:15:04] Doing this does not necessarily mean you're a doormat

[00:15:07] and it is an important part of living in a society.

[00:15:10] Granted, this is only okay if done sometimes,

[00:15:13] not over every single issue in a relationship

[00:15:16] and ultimately it is up to her and her alone

[00:15:18] to determine if that particular relationship is worth it.

[00:15:22] I feel like what I'm doing is a good balance

[00:15:25] between not encroaching on Anne's rights

[00:15:27] but also encouraging kindness and consideration

[00:15:30] and letting her know about the potential consequences

[00:15:32] of what she's doing as an older adult.

[00:15:35] Please feel free to give some more advice

[00:15:37] what I should include in the talk.

[00:15:40] Commenter replies to OP saying,

[00:15:42] they're a 17 year old and a 12 year old.

[00:15:44] They're not in the same place in life.

[00:15:46] What if Anne had a part-time job

[00:15:48] and this was how she was making money?

[00:15:50] Would she still have to control her spending around Mia

[00:15:53] so that her feelings aren't hurt?

[00:15:54] Having a talk with Anne but not outright forbidding her

[00:15:58] is a distinction without difference.

[00:16:00] It's still punishing Anne and coddling Mia.

[00:16:03] OP replies saying, I'm not punishing her.

[00:16:06] We live in a society.

[00:16:07] Sometimes sacrifices are necessary

[00:16:09] to avoid upsetting those you love and care about.

[00:16:12] If and only if Anne cares enough.

[00:16:15] She deserves to be told about the ramifications of her actions

[00:16:18] so there are no surprises she gets to regret later.

[00:16:21] If she doesn't care enough, that's her own choice

[00:16:23] and her right.

[00:16:25] The absolutism here is insane.

[00:16:27] Don't be a Sith.

[00:16:29] Commenter replies and says,

[00:16:30] has nobody else said the root of the issue

[00:16:33] has less to do with money

[00:16:34] and more to do with the jealousy

[00:16:36] Mia has because Anne's father, OP,

[00:16:39] is alive and able to be active in Anne's life?

[00:16:41] I think the money is the vague top issue

[00:16:44] but if you dig deeper,

[00:16:46] it's the unresolved grief of knowing Mia

[00:16:47] will never have her dad's support

[00:16:49] because he isn't alive to give it.

[00:16:51] Mia needs therapy.

[00:16:52] Both individual and possibly family with your ex-wife

[00:16:56] and possibly even Anne

[00:16:57] so the girls can speak with a professional

[00:16:59] from their different points of view.

[00:17:00] I understand OP isn't expected to provide this therapy

[00:17:03] but pass this info on to Anne's mum

[00:17:06] and I think Linda's resentment is misplaced

[00:17:08] because she's only seeing the money issue

[00:17:10] and not addressing the grief issue here.

[00:17:12] If Mia's parent refuses therapy for a child,

[00:17:15] Anne may be better off staying with OP

[00:17:17] as her mum has bigger issues with her spouse

[00:17:19] than she may be willing to admit.

[00:17:21] I just want to read this comment from Offkira who says,

[00:17:24] yeah, I'm with the last commenter.

[00:17:26] Clearly the 12-year-old has unresolved issues

[00:17:29] about losing her father

[00:17:30] and no one wants to help her.

[00:17:32] They just go for the allowance thing

[00:17:33] because it has in their eyes an easy solution.

[00:17:36] Except the older girl is 17.

[00:17:38] She may well be out of the house soon enough

[00:17:40] and then what?

[00:17:42] Mia will still miss her father

[00:17:43] and the adults around her will still be pretending

[00:17:45] it's about Anne and money.

[00:17:47] And maybe it is a little about money.

[00:17:49] Some issues are multi-layered

[00:17:51] but Mia lost her father.

[00:17:53] She apparently keeps bringing it up

[00:17:54] and no one wants to deal with it.

[00:17:56] I'm fascinated by the OP talking about consequences to Anne.

[00:18:00] What consequences?

[00:18:02] But it does expose a further problem.

[00:18:04] So much yapping about sitting Anne down

[00:18:07] and berating her into not using her allowance

[00:18:09] but how about talking to Mia about it?

[00:18:11] OP even said something about

[00:18:13] how she'll grow out of it or she won't.

[00:18:15] Which to me implies she'll have to figure it out alone.

[00:18:19] Maybe like her grief for her father.

[00:18:21] I feel bad for this girl.

[00:18:23] The allowance thing is a smokescreen.

[00:18:25] Easy to focus on.

[00:18:27] There doesn't seem to be a single adult supporting her

[00:18:29] and ensuring she's working through her feelings.

[00:18:31] Great job all around.

[00:18:34] Another commenter says

[00:18:35] if they were biological siblings

[00:18:37] with both parents available

[00:18:38] they still wouldn't be getting the same amount of allowance.

[00:18:41] Or shouldn't be anyway.

[00:18:43] This bollocks of not talking to Anne about the issue is ridiculous.

[00:18:47] It's not going to kill her to know the way someone is feeling.

[00:18:50] So many people here go on about communication.

[00:18:52] But heaven forbid

[00:18:54] you tell a teen something that might make her think.

[00:18:57] Another commenter says

[00:18:58] it's also it sounds bizarre to me

[00:18:59] that the older girl is allowed to just order food to their home

[00:19:02] whenever she likes

[00:19:02] and not be expected to share.

[00:19:04] How would she like it if anyone else in the house did that

[00:19:06] and did not ask her if she wants something too?

[00:19:09] I just immediately get this

[00:19:11] admittedly probably unfairly exaggerated

[00:19:13] mental image of a spoiled brat

[00:19:15] flaunting all the stuff she's bought with daddy's money

[00:19:17] in front of the younger girl.

[00:19:19] I really hope she listens to her dad

[00:19:21] when dad tells her that she needs to spend that money discreetly

[00:19:24] or she will come across as a giant arsehole.

[00:19:27] And a final comment that says

[00:19:29] it's so depressing to see people on Reddit

[00:19:31] lose their minds at the principle

[00:19:33] most people are taught as infants.

[00:19:35] Sometimes you have to compromise in order to be nice.

[00:19:38] How do these people maintain relationships

[00:19:40] in their day-to-day lives

[00:19:41] if they can't handle a bit of discomfort

[00:19:43] for the sake of the relationship?

[00:19:46] And the comments continue to be

[00:19:48] all over the place in this one

[00:19:49] it's got to be said

[00:19:50] but what do you guys make of this situation?

[00:19:55] Let us know your thoughts down in the comments below.

[00:19:58] Now just a huge thank you from the bottom of my heart

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