Boyfriend Is FURIOUS My Ex Is On My Life Insurance But Not Him r/Relationships

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[00:00:23] [SPEAKER_01]: 3553 and the am I the asshole here subreddit and says I'm I the asshole here because I

[00:00:29] [SPEAKER_01]: 32 female refused to put my boyfriend

[00:00:32] [SPEAKER_01]: 33 male on my life insurance and left my ex

[00:00:36] [SPEAKER_01]: 33 male on it

[00:00:38] [SPEAKER_01]: My 32 female have an ex 33 male and we have two children and female and nine male

[00:00:44] [SPEAKER_01]: My ex and I had a difficult start in life. I felt pregnant pretty quickly after we started dating

[00:00:50] [SPEAKER_01]: Our daughter was born with leukemia. We spent the first few years of our relationship in hospital

[00:00:57] [SPEAKER_01]: She is now in remission. Thankfully, we also had another child during this time

[00:01:02] [SPEAKER_01]: Also, our son is autistic

[00:01:05] [SPEAKER_01]: After being together for six years we split up indefinitely when our children were six and five

[00:01:11] [SPEAKER_01]: Which was very hard for me and him

[00:01:14] [SPEAKER_01]: After healing for about one and a half years. I began dating my now boyfriend. Let's call him Jake not real name

[00:01:21] [SPEAKER_01]: Jake was really lovely and kind and took it slow with me after a year

[00:01:26] [SPEAKER_01]: I introduced him to my kids at first my daughter was not very happy with the situation

[00:01:32] [SPEAKER_01]: But eventually she grew to tolerate him Jake even has a civil relationship with my ex

[00:01:38] [SPEAKER_01]: Eventually Jake moved in with my children and I and has been living with us for about two months now

[00:01:44] [SPEAKER_01]: When my daughter was born with leukemia

[00:01:46] [SPEAKER_01]: My ex and I decided to both get separate life insurance just in case anything happened to us when we originally got them

[00:01:53] [SPEAKER_01]: We decided that we'd be each other's trustee and also received 30% of the insurance and the rest on our child

[00:02:00] [SPEAKER_01]: Flash children after we had our son. We updated our life insurances with his name also on it

[00:02:05] [SPEAKER_01]: We have both still honored that our reasoning for this is that if one of us was to go

[00:02:11] [SPEAKER_01]: Well, our children were still young and the other would be left as a single parent and may need some support and stability

[00:02:17] [SPEAKER_01]: I still feel very strongly about this now on to the issue

[00:02:21] [SPEAKER_01]: Jake was cleaning up files in my office when I was at work and I come across my life insurance agreement

[00:02:27] [SPEAKER_01]: While I was at work. He'd sent me a message saying we need to discuss something important when you get home

[00:02:33] [SPEAKER_01]: Obviously, I was freaking out and tried calling him

[00:02:36] [SPEAKER_01]: But he would not answer me and said he was too angry to talk to me

[00:02:40] [SPEAKER_01]: I run my own business so I took off early and drove home

[00:02:44] [SPEAKER_01]: Before I left I messaged Jake to say I'm on my way home when I arrived

[00:02:48] [SPEAKER_01]: I've seen Jake on the sofa glaring at me when I arrived

[00:02:51] [SPEAKER_01]: He threw the life insurance papers at me and demanded to explain myself

[00:02:56] [SPEAKER_01]: I picked them up and asked what the problem was. He began to scream at me and said why is your ex on your insurance?

[00:03:03] [SPEAKER_01]: And I'm not

[00:03:04] [SPEAKER_01]: Explained to him my reasons above and he scoffed and said well you both make so much money now

[00:03:09] [SPEAKER_01]: You don't need to support one another was extremely angry at this and told him that this was not his business

[00:03:15] [SPEAKER_01]: I put on my life insurance

[00:03:17] [SPEAKER_01]: The money is mainly for my children and ex and it will stay that way

[00:03:21] [SPEAKER_01]: Jake replied well, I put so much work into this relationship

[00:03:25] [SPEAKER_01]: And I'm not going to get anything from it no normal man would want a woman with two children who has issues

[00:03:31] [SPEAKER_01]: I saw red I kicked him out and told him we were done

[00:03:36] [SPEAKER_01]: My children will always come first and I will never let anyone get in the way of that

[00:03:40] [SPEAKER_01]: Jake packed his bags and left while he was packing

[00:03:44] [SPEAKER_01]: He shouted at me that I never really got over my ex and we still love each other blah blah blah

[00:03:49] [SPEAKER_01]: You knew it from the start and I'm such an asshole for not putting him on my life insurance

[00:03:54] [SPEAKER_01]: So read it. I have to ask

[00:03:56] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm I the asshole

[00:03:59] [SPEAKER_01]: Edit I should have added this also happened a few weeks ago

[00:04:02] [SPEAKER_01]: I haven't seen him since then but constantly receiving messages from him and calls

[00:04:07] [SPEAKER_01]: So I did write a mini update in the comments

[00:04:09] [SPEAKER_01]: But I guess I should have wrote it here and op posted on the same post

[00:04:14] [SPEAKER_01]: So we're gonna get straight into the update first and then we'll cover a couple of the comments afterwards

[00:04:19] [SPEAKER_01]: So op updates and says so before I start with a little update. I want to say thank you for all the comments

[00:04:24] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm going to go through them all and try to reply even though it's a lot

[00:04:28] [SPEAKER_01]: I just want to address a few things this did happen a few weeks ago

[00:04:31] [SPEAKER_01]: I did post in another group, but unfortunately got no advice on that subreddit

[00:04:37] [SPEAKER_01]: I'd left it a few weeks before my ex suggested this one because his words are

[00:04:41] [SPEAKER_01]: Maybe these internet strangers would make you see sense and stop thinking you're an asshole

[00:04:46] [SPEAKER_01]: Also could help you to not see you shouldn't get back with Jake. Just wanted to clear that bit up

[00:04:52] [SPEAKER_01]: Firstly, I should have probably added this in the post my ex and I are definitely not getting back together

[00:04:57] [SPEAKER_01]: We are very good friends as I am with his husband

[00:05:01] [SPEAKER_01]: My ex always thought he was gay, but he's not from the UK and his parents were disapproved

[00:05:06] [SPEAKER_01]: Which they have done so and cut ties with him. I was upset to start with but love them both dearly

[00:05:13] [SPEAKER_01]: I was even best woman at their wedding. So yes, I'm definitely over my ex

[00:05:17] [SPEAKER_01]: My ex his husband and I are currently having a lovely glass of wine and discussing the issues around Jake

[00:05:24] [SPEAKER_01]: The people saying it's not right that I have my ex for my life insurance

[00:05:27] [SPEAKER_01]: Let me just explain my point of view

[00:05:29] [SPEAKER_01]: Our son is autistic. There's a lot of issues around his autism

[00:05:33] [SPEAKER_01]: Our daughter due to chemotherapy is deaf in one ear and is currently in a wheelchair and has multiple appointments

[00:05:40] [SPEAKER_01]: I am very wealthy and my ex partner is not

[00:05:43] [SPEAKER_01]: We opted to do private care to get the best for our children

[00:05:47] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm leaving him some money for our children and to help him and his husband financially if anything was to happen to me

[00:05:54] [SPEAKER_01]: I 10,000% trust my ex with our kids money

[00:05:57] [SPEAKER_01]: My children will inherit all my properties and money

[00:06:01] [SPEAKER_01]: I do have a will so everything in that sense is sorted

[00:06:04] [SPEAKER_01]: Have trust funds and never need to worry about their future. My life insurance is all the money my ex gets

[00:06:10] [SPEAKER_01]: A few thousand from my own personal money as does his husband now on to Jake

[00:06:14] [SPEAKER_01]: Currently my ex currently my ex his husband and I are packing up Jake's things

[00:06:19] [SPEAKER_01]: And they're going to take it to his parents house

[00:06:22] [SPEAKER_01]: I informed his parents that Jake and I are no longer together and that we will drop off his stuff at their house

[00:06:27] [SPEAKER_01]: He was sad and wished me well as did I to them Jake continually called me and text me which I have ignored these past few weeks

[00:06:34] [SPEAKER_01]: And I ignored him

[00:06:36] [SPEAKER_01]: He's been pleading to me about taking him back and how much he loves me and the kids

[00:06:40] [SPEAKER_01]: However, just an hour ago. He sent the most vile messages I've ever seen in my life

[00:06:46] [SPEAKER_01]: Calling my daughter a spoiled dramatic little bee who uses their illness to get away

[00:06:51] [SPEAKER_01]: He called my sons. I'm discussed in things which I won't even repeat

[00:06:54] [SPEAKER_01]: At this point I was done

[00:06:57] [SPEAKER_01]: I messaged him one final message saying that if he continued trying to reach out to me

[00:07:01] [SPEAKER_01]: I'd be filing protection order against him and blocked him on all platforms

[00:07:05] [SPEAKER_01]: Also, I screenshotted the last message he sent and forwarded it to his ex and his family

[00:07:11] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm very aware that it is petty, but I do not care. No one gets away with saying that about my children

[00:07:17] [SPEAKER_01]: I really think I will take a break from dating for a while and concentrate on me and my little family

[00:07:22] [SPEAKER_01]: Which includes the father of my kids and his husband

[00:07:24] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm also upset that there were red flags there that I chose to ignore was really oblivious to

[00:07:30] [SPEAKER_01]: Little edit. I know I said I wouldn't post what he said, but screw it

[00:07:34] [SPEAKER_01]: He's a horrible human and I've had a few glasses of wine

[00:07:38] [SPEAKER_01]: He called my daughter

[00:07:39] [SPEAKER_01]: I can't even say that and my son yet. I'm not saying that either so he can fuck himself. Yeah, fuck that guy

[00:07:46] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm probably just gonna leave this post now time to heal and focus on my beautiful kids

[00:07:51] [SPEAKER_01]: Thank you so much for all the comments and advice. Hope you are all blessed and I appreciate everyone's opinions advice and support

[00:07:58] [SPEAKER_01]: I would definitely be taking a lot of points into my heart. Thank you

[00:08:02] [SPEAKER_01]: I've read one too many reddit stories and whenever people start talking about life insurance and insisting being on your life insurance

[00:08:09] [SPEAKER_01]: That always gives like major red flags in my head. I know that might be going too far in this situation

[00:08:15] [SPEAKER_01]: But holy moly it it worries me

[00:08:17] [SPEAKER_01]: I couldn't imagine insisting being on someone else's life insurance. I just find that absolutely crazy

[00:08:24] [SPEAKER_01]: And if op say I was like a partner in this situation

[00:08:28] [SPEAKER_01]: No, he came up to me and explained what was going on why he was on life

[00:08:31] [SPEAKER_01]: Of course, it makes total sense

[00:08:35] [SPEAKER_01]: You of course you want to look after your children and you want the other person

[00:08:38] [SPEAKER_01]: Who's caring for your children at the same time to be provided for it makes sense to me

[00:08:45] [SPEAKER_01]: You want your kids to have the best possible life that they can have

[00:08:49] [SPEAKER_01]: Especially with the other issues that were going on

[00:08:52] [SPEAKER_01]: But charming pen says Jake is not only an ass. He's an idiot

[00:08:56] [SPEAKER_01]: Sounds like op is reasonable and is planning for a special needs kids to be okay for life

[00:09:01] [SPEAKER_01]: Rex husband is going to need the extra money from our life insurance to supplement the time

[00:09:05] [SPEAKER_01]: He will need to be there for the kids

[00:09:08] [SPEAKER_01]: Me and my soon-to-be ex are pretty much each other support system with our high needs daughter

[00:09:13] [SPEAKER_01]: He does not make much money. I do have to work longer hours to pay for her needs

[00:09:17] [SPEAKER_01]: He takes her to appointments and I pay the medical bills

[00:09:20] [SPEAKER_01]: This something happens to one of us

[00:09:22] [SPEAKER_01]: That is a lot that will get thrown on one person and it is immediate

[00:09:26] [SPEAKER_01]: We both have life insurance that has each other as the beneficiary and trusts it up for our daughter

[00:09:31] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm more than happy to give him some financial security as he helps our girl

[00:09:35] [SPEAKER_01]: Not only grieve losing her mom

[00:09:37] [SPEAKER_01]: But also to give him time to get used to doing stuff by himself and he feels the same for me

[00:09:42] [SPEAKER_01]: It does sound like he was looking for a payday, but I mean come on. Did he really think as a boyfriend? He gets a cut

[00:09:49] [SPEAKER_01]: That's ridiculous

[00:09:51] [SPEAKER_01]: Many of the commenters felt the same in this situation, but now I'm going to turn this one to you guys

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[00:10:36] [SPEAKER_01]: And our next story comes from a throwaway account from the true of my chess subreddit

[00:10:40] [SPEAKER_01]: Double updates and it's titled my sister slept with my boyfriend

[00:10:44] [SPEAKER_01]: And I sent her a really cruel message that I don't regret at all

[00:10:51] [SPEAKER_01]: Sorry, but this post will have a lot of bad energy and I'm terrible at writing in English

[00:11:00] [SPEAKER_01]: So if anyone is going to read the post I'm sorry for all the grammatical errors that are likely to be in the post

[00:11:05] [SPEAKER_01]: So a few days ago I female 25 found out that my sister 24 female has been sleeping with my boyfriend now X 25 male

[00:11:15] [SPEAKER_01]: We dated for three years for one year or probably more

[00:11:19] [SPEAKER_01]: He always had a close relationship, but I obviously took it as something innocent

[00:11:24] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't like video games, but my sister does so they talked a lot by text

[00:11:28] [SPEAKER_01]: And I thought it was about games they liked until I found out that no

[00:11:31] [SPEAKER_01]: They talked a lot about their secret dates while I was working and in college

[00:11:36] [SPEAKER_01]: I found pictures videos and a lot of other disgusting things in the chat between my ex and my sister

[00:11:42] [SPEAKER_01]: My pathetic sister found pleasure in asking my pathetic ex all the time if she's smarter or prettier than me

[00:11:49] [SPEAKER_01]: She even compared our private parts

[00:11:52] [SPEAKER_01]: What the hell?

[00:11:53] [SPEAKER_01]: We're both pretty

[00:11:54] [SPEAKER_01]: She's actually thinner and prettier than me and even if she's an introvert

[00:11:58] [SPEAKER_01]: She has a group of friends

[00:11:59] [SPEAKER_01]: So I really didn't understand where she got so much venom towards me

[00:12:03] [SPEAKER_01]: Our parents never compared us or anything like that and she was always the one asking my ex to compare both of us in the chance

[00:12:10] [SPEAKER_01]: The thing is I could throw all my ex-boyfriends things out of the apartment

[00:12:14] [SPEAKER_01]: I insulted him a thousand ways and I kept the pc that I gave him for Christmas

[00:12:19] [SPEAKER_01]: I didn't speak a single word to my sister for over a week and she didn't contact me like the couch she is until yesterday

[00:12:26] [SPEAKER_01]: When she sent me a message trying to justify herself by saying that it was a mistake

[00:12:31] [SPEAKER_01]: Yes, a mistake that lasted more than a year and that I should forgive her because we're sisters and blah blah blah

[00:12:38] [SPEAKER_01]: At one point I thought should I be the mature person in the situation who doesn't let resentment speak for her

[00:12:44] [SPEAKER_01]: But then I realized that I've never been that kind of person

[00:12:47] [SPEAKER_01]: I took my phone and wrote a long message to my sister that I would love to write here

[00:12:51] [SPEAKER_01]: But I'm sure it would break the rules since I called her out in every possible way

[00:12:55] [SPEAKER_01]: I wrote a lot of personal things too. I told her how much of a failure she is now. She has always envied me

[00:13:01] [SPEAKER_01]: That's why she needed to feel what it's like to be me for a second of a sad life

[00:13:06] [SPEAKER_01]: She sent me a voice message crying and saying that she's in a very weak moment mentally

[00:13:11] [SPEAKER_01]: But she's still with him lol and I shouldn't make her feel worse and that she regrets it

[00:13:17] [SPEAKER_01]: I just reacted to a message with this emoji, which is the cry laugh emoji and didn't even hear the long voice message until the end

[00:13:25] [SPEAKER_01]: Was it a low thing to attack her with all her flaws?

[00:13:28] [SPEAKER_01]: Yes, but it's lower to portray your sister and believe that she's going to forgive you just because you share blood with her

[00:13:34] [SPEAKER_01]: Honestly, I feel really good after sending her that message and feel that it was therapeutic to take out everything

[00:13:40] [SPEAKER_01]: I feel to give closure to that

[00:13:42] [SPEAKER_01]: By the way, I've never used a pc for gaming

[00:13:44] [SPEAKER_01]: But I'm looking for tutorials on youtube about how to download the sims

[00:13:49] [SPEAKER_01]: I helped my sister in every moment of her life

[00:13:53] [SPEAKER_01]: I literally fought for her when she was being bullied during high school

[00:13:57] [SPEAKER_01]: I helped her thousands of times to make friends. I even accompanied her everywhere she wanted

[00:14:01] [SPEAKER_01]: It is a betrayal that really hurts and I will never forgive never

[00:14:06] [SPEAKER_01]: It hurts me that she slept with someone I loved

[00:14:08] [SPEAKER_01]: But it hurts me a lot all the things I read in those chats how she enjoyed watching and compare me to her

[00:14:14] [SPEAKER_01]: Or how she asked him about personal things about our relationship just to laugh at it

[00:14:19] [SPEAKER_01]: She's dead to me and my parents know it

[00:14:21] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't even care if i'm a bad person like them. This is something I can't forgive

[00:14:26] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't even feel bad for my reaction

[00:14:29] [SPEAKER_01]: Nah, I don't blame you at all ap

[00:14:31] [SPEAKER_01]: I wouldn't forgive it either if something like that happened in my family. It's just not forgivable, is it?

[00:14:38] [SPEAKER_01]: I like how she said that she regrets it yet is still with him. What the fuck

[00:14:42] [SPEAKER_01]: Mary Ann says what do your parents have to say about this mess?

[00:14:46] [SPEAKER_01]: How is she justifying a year of cheating with her sister's boyfriend and keeping him?

[00:14:50] [SPEAKER_01]: Whoopi says my mother was disgusted and my father was angry, but they only comforted me until I left their house

[00:14:56] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know what they talked to my sister about afterwards and I don't want to ask but they probably cut contact with her

[00:15:02] [SPEAKER_01]: She just said that it was a mistake and in the voice message

[00:15:05] [SPEAKER_01]: She only asked about how weak she feels mentally and that she has been having anxiety attacks

[00:15:10] [SPEAKER_01]: Even though I didn't hear the full audio because it lasts plus four minutes

[00:15:14] [SPEAKER_01]: And I was getting even more pissed off with her just wanting to be the victim

[00:15:18] [SPEAKER_01]: So I stopped the audio almost in the end

[00:15:21] [SPEAKER_01]: She never explained why she said all those ugly things about me because everything was about her an anxiety attacks

[00:15:28] [SPEAKER_01]: The op adds an update which is called the message and says thank you for all the nice comments

[00:15:31] [SPEAKER_01]: You left me many wrote to me with tips for the sims and i'm really grateful

[00:15:36] [SPEAKER_01]: Thanks for the game recommendations even though i'm really bad at playing action games

[00:15:39] [SPEAKER_01]: The last action game I played was Resident Evil 4 on the ps2 a long time ago

[00:15:44] [SPEAKER_01]: And it's because I had a crush with Leon Kennedy. I would never cheat on me by the way

[00:15:48] [SPEAKER_01]: I had a token of appreciation and because I also like it when the op uploads the whole gossip

[00:15:55] [SPEAKER_01]: I'll put here half of the message I sent to my sister

[00:15:58] [SPEAKER_01]: The message I sent to her was really long and I cut out parts where I talk about very private things or when I insulted her

[00:16:04] [SPEAKER_01]: Not make the post too uncomfortable because I was really hurt and angry at that moment

[00:16:09] [SPEAKER_01]: I talked about many personal things in the text

[00:16:11] [SPEAKER_01]: I put the copy of the message in the end if someone talks Spanish

[00:16:15] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm sorry if it sounds weird in English. I did my best to translate it. I had to remove a lot of parts

[00:16:22] [SPEAKER_01]: And before we get into it some of the comments below this were saying, you know

[00:16:25] [SPEAKER_01]: There's a lot more brutal in the Spanish version, but obviously I can't speak Spanish

[00:16:30] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm not as talented as the op. I always love these stories when like the op's come and said, you know

[00:16:35] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm bad at English or whatever and then they write these posts and that you know, I'm embarrassed to say it's him

[00:16:40] [SPEAKER_01]: It's much better than mine

[00:16:42] [SPEAKER_01]: But in the English version op's text says I'm not interested in hearing any of your excuses

[00:16:48] [SPEAKER_01]: I believed you when a problem she had with her ex-friend group

[00:16:51] [SPEAKER_01]: Happened because I really trusted that you would never do something like that

[00:16:55] [SPEAKER_01]: But now I understand why everyone leaves you alone and you deserve it

[00:16:58] [SPEAKER_01]: What you did to me is shit and you know it

[00:17:01] [SPEAKER_01]: You didn't care because you spent a year being the whore of

[00:17:04] [SPEAKER_01]: ex-name without any shame

[00:17:07] [SPEAKER_01]: And now that I found out everything you went days without talking to me because you're a coward

[00:17:11] [SPEAKER_01]: And on top of that, you still don't care about what you did to me

[00:17:14] [SPEAKER_01]: You're only talking to me because dad probably stopped talking to you and you're running out of money

[00:17:19] [SPEAKER_01]: So you want to fix this shit so he gives you money again

[00:17:21] [SPEAKER_01]: You were always an asshole, but don't you think is a lot to be my boyfriend's second woman

[00:17:26] [SPEAKER_01]: How little respect you have for yourself?

[00:17:29] [SPEAKER_01]: With sisters

[00:17:30] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't even know what's going on in your head because I don't understand what's wrong with you

[00:17:34] [SPEAKER_01]: Girl, I read all the messages between you and you even started comparing our bodies. You're sick

[00:17:41] [SPEAKER_01]: No, I never did anything for you to do this to me and I loved you

[00:17:44] [SPEAKER_01]: Everything turned out really well for you because he's with you

[00:17:47] [SPEAKER_01]: So enjoy that feeling and I love you to have for each other for now

[00:17:51] [SPEAKER_01]: Because you're going to be really lonely later and you're going to go back to your cave

[00:17:55] [SPEAKER_01]: But this time I'm not going to be there to pity you like every time I did before

[00:17:59] [SPEAKER_01]: Stay with him. There's nothing that interests me less than fighting for an idiot

[00:18:04] [SPEAKER_01]: Is surely going to leave you but let me make it clear to you that you're not going to hear about me again

[00:18:08] [SPEAKER_01]: This dies here

[00:18:10] [SPEAKER_01]: We're not sisters anymore

[00:18:12] [SPEAKER_01]: If I see you on the street, I'm going to cross to the opposite sidewalk to not see you

[00:18:16] [SPEAKER_01]: And I will show the Spanish version of that on the screen as well briefly

[00:18:21] [SPEAKER_01]: You have to pause it to read it because obviously I can't do it and op added that they're from Argentina

[00:18:26] [SPEAKER_01]: The op added another update and says they broke up

[00:18:30] [SPEAKER_01]: Nobody surprised

[00:18:32] [SPEAKER_01]: When all of this happened my parents scolded my sister and she got offended and didn't speak to our parents

[00:18:37] [SPEAKER_01]: Except to ask them for money

[00:18:39] [SPEAKER_01]: She asked them for money to buy things for a career

[00:18:41] [SPEAKER_01]: But then my aunt told my parents that my sister actually used that money to buy my ex some sneakers

[00:18:47] [SPEAKER_01]: My parents never gave her money from that day on. She's an idiot to be honest

[00:18:51] [SPEAKER_01]: My parents started to pay for us to go to private college

[00:18:54] [SPEAKER_01]: And the only thing we have to do is literally study

[00:18:57] [SPEAKER_01]: The only thing she had to do was take her study seriously, but she didn't

[00:19:01] [SPEAKER_01]: Then my father got tired and hasn't sent her money for months

[00:19:05] [SPEAKER_01]: Mike's discovered the post because he said it went viral in facebook and obviously he recognized the story

[00:19:10] [SPEAKER_01]: He contacted me to apologize and says he knows he did wrong by hurting me like that

[00:19:14] [SPEAKER_01]: But my sister manipulated him and it was a total mistake

[00:19:19] [SPEAKER_01]: I told him he can shove his apologies in his ass

[00:19:22] [SPEAKER_01]: Meanwhile

[00:19:24] [SPEAKER_01]: Meanwhile, my sister and I have only crossed paths a few times

[00:19:28] [SPEAKER_01]: She always avoids me because she thinks i'm going to hit her

[00:19:32] [SPEAKER_01]: I won't

[00:19:32] [SPEAKER_01]: We're not going to the same career. So luckily we don't see each other too much

[00:19:36] [SPEAKER_01]: Anyway, a few days ago. She went to our parents house saying that she broke up with my ex

[00:19:41] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know why unless she felt really sad and had an anxiety attack

[00:19:46] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know exactly what they talked about since I wasn't there

[00:19:49] [SPEAKER_01]: But my mother told me that she told my sister that she knew what was going to happen when she slept with him

[00:19:54] [SPEAKER_01]: My sister justified herself by saying that they're in love

[00:19:58] [SPEAKER_01]: So my mother and her just argued again and my sister left

[00:20:01] [SPEAKER_01]: Now she doesn't talk to anyone in the family except our grandmother to ask for money

[00:20:06] [SPEAKER_01]: I know my sister is not going to change her habits and she didn't learn anything from this

[00:20:11] [SPEAKER_01]: I even think she will get together with my ex again because they're just toxic with each other

[00:20:15] [SPEAKER_01]: But it's her life to ruin not mine. I don't care anymore the bright side

[00:20:20] [SPEAKER_01]: I sold the pc to a guy from reddit that saw my post and that literally saved me from having to keep paying the juice

[00:20:26] [SPEAKER_01]: Unfortunately, I didn't get to play the sims much, but I prefer the extra money

[00:20:31] [SPEAKER_01]: Mike's told me that he wanted the pc back and I told him that then he should pay the remaining juice and he said no

[00:20:37] [SPEAKER_01]: So the idiot wanted the pc for free even though he slept with my sister

[00:20:41] [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, and sister just seems to be one of those people that just

[00:20:45] [SPEAKER_01]: Everywhere they turn they destroy relationships. There's such a weird mindset. It's like

[00:20:51] [SPEAKER_01]: Just want to study their brain what goes on in there

[00:20:55] [SPEAKER_01]: I mean from the initial post. What did they think was going to happen?

[00:21:00] [SPEAKER_01]: At some point this was going to come out at some point this information was going to come out and it's going to destroy

[00:21:05] [SPEAKER_01]: Multiple relationships around you your parents your sister, of course

[00:21:10] [SPEAKER_01]: op that is

[00:21:13] [SPEAKER_01]: And then the cheeky bastard at the very end comes back asking for the pc

[00:21:17] [SPEAKER_01]: I remember a comment from a while back about audacity and it said the lion the witch and the audacity of that bitch

[00:21:26] [SPEAKER_01]: But now I'm gonna turn this one to you guys. What do you guys make of this situation?

[00:21:32] [SPEAKER_01]: Let me know your thoughts down in the comments below

[00:21:35] [SPEAKER_01]: Just a huge thank you for joining me today getting involved in the stories your love your support your time

[00:21:41] [SPEAKER_01]: Always means the absolute world to me. So thank you so so much for being involved and hopefully I'll see you in the next one

[00:21:48] [SPEAKER_01]: Take care and much love