Boyfriend Claims It's WEIRD For My Family To Invite Him On A Trip r/Relationships

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[00:01:06] Und jetzt auf mit dem ersten Mal.

[00:01:09] Much love you cheeky so and so.

[00:01:12] Jetzt kommt von Anonymous3350 vom Relationship Advice subreddit und sagt

[00:01:18] My 20 female family invited my boyfriend 22 male on a small trip. Now he and his family think that we are weird. Is it weird that we invited him to come with us?

[00:01:30] I 20 female and my boyfriend 22 male have been in a relationship for just under two and a half years. I was under the impression that his family liked me a lot and that my family like him a lot as well.

[00:01:42] We got back from a family vacation just two days ago and I'm feeling conflicted about it now. To get to the story my family invited my boyfriend to come on a vacation with us for three days out of our home state.

[00:01:54] It wasn't anything extravagant just a small little trip where we went hiking and sightseeing etc.

[00:02:00] Me, my sister, my brother and my boyfriend drove separate from my mum, dad and grandparents.

[00:02:06] While we were driving my boyfriend asked my siblings if they would be uncomfortable if their SOs invited them on a trip like this.

[00:02:13] My brother said that if he had only been with them for a short time then yeah but given our circumstances no.

[00:02:21] Since I was the one driving I just stayed quiet. I'll be honest it hurt my feelings a lot but I didn't feel like it was a big of a deal.

[00:02:28] I'm quite an over thinker. When we got to the hotel we were staying at my boyfriend just looked like he didn't want to be there and so I asked him if he was having fun.

[00:02:38] To which he said no I really just don't want to be here.

[00:02:41] I was honestly taken aback because I didn't really know what to say.

[00:02:45] I started to tear up and just walked away.

[00:02:48] The rest of the trip was just silence between us and awkward conversations between him, my dad and my mum as they didn't realise anything was wrong.

[00:02:56] I didn't say anything to anyone because I didn't want to ruin the mood or cut the trip short.

[00:03:02] But when we got back home I tried talking to him about it.

[00:03:05] He said that he was just shocked he got invited to something like this and that his parents also thought that it was weird.

[00:03:11] I just kind of stared at him for a second because I literally didn't understand what was so weird about it.

[00:03:16] I said if he didn't want to go or felt uncomfortable with going he didn't have to.

[00:03:21] And he just kind of shrugged.

[00:03:23] I just asked him to leave my house and we would talk later because I was so shocked and hurt that he and his family would call me and my family weird all for inviting him on a small trip with my family.

[00:03:33] I'm super close with his family and it's not like he doesn't know any of mine.

[00:03:37] Is it really weird to invite my boyfriend of two and a half years to a small vacation?

[00:03:44] Absolutely I don't think that's weird at all.

[00:03:46] Two and a half years and you're just going on a vacation with that family.

[00:03:50] You sort of think that you'd be honoured to go and get involved with that family.

[00:03:54] I find it weird that they find it weird.

[00:03:56] So I am wondering where this one's going to go.

[00:03:59] But Tinky Bird says exactly.

[00:04:00] We invited our daughter's boyfriend on a family reunion trip with my immediate side of the family.

[00:04:05] They were 23 and we all had a great time.

[00:04:09] Four Kind of Pieces says.

[00:04:10] Yes when my first husband and I were dating.

[00:04:13] He passed away after 8 years of our being married.

[00:04:16] I went on every trip his family took.

[00:04:19] Beach trips 10 hours away etc.

[00:04:21] I went with his mum and him.

[00:04:23] I went with his sister and brother in law etc.

[00:04:25] We were madly in love and everybody knew we'd be married.

[00:04:29] There was no keeping us apart from the minute we met.

[00:04:31] Where one of us was the other was there.

[00:04:33] His family was my family and mine was his.

[00:04:37] I think the boyfriend and his family are strange here.

[00:04:39] I don't see the problem.

[00:04:41] And if boyfriend thought it was weird.

[00:04:42] Why did he go?

[00:04:44] Yeah that was kind of weird in itself as well.

[00:04:46] Like why didn't you just say no.

[00:04:48] I know some people like they feel like the pressure to accept things etc.

[00:04:52] But then to go and make things like really awkward at the same time.

[00:04:57] That's strange.

[00:04:58] But the first small update comes in and says hi all.

[00:05:01] I feel like it's kind of cliche to say that I didn't really expect for this to get as much attention as it did.

[00:05:07] I appreciate everyone taking the time to respond to me and let me know that I am in fact not crazy about this.

[00:05:13] For the update I'm going to try and answer as many questions as possible.

[00:05:16] I have not fully gone to sit down and talk with my boyfriend yet.

[00:05:20] We spoke briefly later last night after I had made my post about how he severely hurt my feelings with what he had said.

[00:05:26] And he apologized but it honestly just felt forced.

[00:05:30] We haven't spoken any more about it yet.

[00:05:32] Some questions like what culture are we from.

[00:05:35] We don't have any kind of ethnic background and neither of our families are religious at all.

[00:05:40] We spent the night at each other's houses and to my knowledge he wasn't opposed to that at all.

[00:05:45] For those of you asking if he was uncomfortable about the low cost vacation.

[00:05:49] I have no idea.

[00:05:51] His family doesn't often take vacations but not because they can't afford it.

[00:05:55] I just don't think they want to.

[00:05:57] For those of you asking about our communication skills.

[00:06:00] This has been an outstanding problem for the majority of our relationship.

[00:06:03] I try explaining to him we can solve problems sooner if he's open and honest.

[00:06:07] But sometimes he just doesn't speak his mind before it's too late.

[00:06:11] And last he is very close with his family.

[00:06:13] But he was always worried that my family didn't like him.

[00:06:16] It just truly felt like a slap in the face when he didn't want to be there.

[00:06:20] As I felt this was a surefire way to say we like you from my family.

[00:06:25] For those wondering I do want to save this relationship if possible.

[00:06:29] I love my boyfriend and we've been through a lot together and I don't want to let go of him.

[00:06:33] Before this mess everything was fine.

[00:06:36] I don't know what happened here.

[00:06:37] I'll give another update whenever me and him actually sit down and talk.

[00:06:41] But I figured I'd answer some questions while I'm here.

[00:06:44] Once again thank you everyone.

[00:06:47] PJ's a comfy says to the OP.

[00:06:49] This may seem an odd question but does he call you his girlfriend and introduce you that way to others?

[00:06:54] Have you discussed what your relationship looks like down the road and next steps?

[00:06:58] His response is so odd.

[00:07:00] I'm just wondering if it's possible you two are viewing the relationship differently.

[00:07:05] So OP comes in with another update and says hey everyone.

[00:07:08] I just got done talking with my boyfriend and I have a lot to say.

[00:07:12] This will most likely be my last update.

[00:07:15] It's not.

[00:07:16] Unless something huge happens.

[00:07:17] Mostly because I've already come to the conclusion that this has completely opened my eyes.

[00:07:22] To start I've seen many comments addressing a post I made a year ago.

[00:07:26] I'm not going to go too far into it as that post was a lot more dramatic and quite frankly embarrassing to me.

[00:07:33] But yes it was about the same boyfriend and it was about the same communication errors.

[00:07:37] I'll admit that I have attachment issues which doesn't help my situation.

[00:07:42] While I'm close with my family I don't really talk to them about relationship issues because they usually don't take it very seriously.

[00:07:48] This is just their way of lightening the mood I guess.

[00:07:51] Other than my family I don't have a very good support system.

[00:07:54] Especially when it comes to my relationships.

[00:07:57] For those who told me to have a little more self-respect.

[00:08:00] Thank you for that but also be kind.

[00:08:02] You never know what people are going through.

[00:08:05] Quite frankly I don't have a lot of self-respect but my own issues which I'm not going to talk anymore about.

[00:08:11] The update.

[00:08:12] I spoke to my boyfriend and it weren't anything other than good.

[00:08:15] I told him once again that it hurt my feelings with what he had said during the trip and to my brother.

[00:08:20] And he said it isn't as serious as I think it is.

[00:08:23] He also said that I was dragging this out when I didn't need to.

[00:08:27] Which really was an eye opener.

[00:08:29] Considering we didn't talk about it for more than maybe 30 minutes last night and 5 minutes the day we got home.

[00:08:35] I don't think I'm dragging it out but okay.

[00:08:37] I told him that he made me feel small.

[00:08:40] He said he was shocked that he would get invited to something like that and felt like a part of the family.

[00:08:44] I asked him why he said he didn't want to be there and why he asked my siblings a question like that if he was feeling happy and a part of the family.

[00:08:52] And he just said he fucked up and said dumb shit.

[00:08:55] He also told me that he's not worried about it and hopes I get over it soon.

[00:08:59] Which I will but not with him by my side.

[00:09:03] A lot of people told me that coming onto Reddit was a bad idea.

[00:09:06] Simply because all people would tell me is that I needed to leave him.

[00:09:10] And I should have just communicated with him.

[00:09:13] However I feel like if I had just had this conversation without the hundreds of people telling me I wasn't crazy or reading the situation wrong.

[00:09:20] I wouldn't have decided to end things.

[00:09:23] I'm grateful to all of you who took the time to post.

[00:09:26] And you are welcome to call me dumb for not nipping this when I first knew I was unhappy.

[00:09:31] It's now my time to start healing and moving on because 500 strangers on the internet told me I deserve better.

[00:09:37] So I'm going to listen this time.

[00:09:38] And we have another update in a moment but new mum says a piece of advice to everyone out there in the ether.

[00:09:45] Someone who casually disregards your feelings and blows you off when you try to bring up something important to you.

[00:09:51] Even if they don't think it's a big deal.

[00:09:53] Is not a good partner.

[00:09:54] I'm not saying you need to break up with this person immediately.

[00:09:57] But you should understand that they're a bad partner who cares minimally about you and proceed accordingly.

[00:10:03] The sugar plum fairy says he also told me that he's not worried about it.

[00:10:07] And hopes I get over it soon.

[00:10:09] That's how you know how little he cares about your feelings.

[00:10:13] What a weird guy.

[00:10:14] Opie says oh I don't know how I forgot to add this in the update.

[00:10:18] But one of the shining quotes after he told me I'm dragging this out.

[00:10:22] You're acting like I fucked your mum or something.

[00:10:25] When I sleep says what a keeper.

[00:10:27] Slash sarcasm.

[00:10:29] Dad you try talking about with him so that you know it isn't your fault.

[00:10:32] It's just him being a weirdo and you can let go of him without any guilt.

[00:10:36] You try to talk about it and save the relationship.

[00:10:39] It's always good to know if it won't work out ASAP so you can move on with your life.

[00:10:44] And then Opie comes in with another update and says hi all.

[00:10:47] I know I said my last post would be my last update unless something big happens.

[00:10:51] But I feel like after reading and responding to the comments I found myself becoming bitter and emotional over the situation.

[00:10:57] This is more of a just true off my chest sort of deal or maybe me asking how I can repair the relationship I have with myself.

[00:11:04] When I look at your comments my heart aches with how stupid I was for spending over two years with someone who didn't value me.

[00:11:11] And I'm struggling with the fact that I actually miss him or at least miss who I thought he was.

[00:11:16] I will not go back but I just can't help but feel like I could have saved it if I tried more.

[00:11:21] I know that's ignorant and naive but the breakup just happened yesterday.

[00:11:25] And now I'm feeling the aftermath.

[00:11:27] I'm not sure why these feelings are coming to me now.

[00:11:30] As I'm not sure that I'm really much lonelier outside of the relationship than I was inside of it.

[00:11:35] I just wish I had more things or more people to surround myself with.

[00:11:39] I've thought about starting to go to the gym to hopefully meet new people and get myself into a schedule to fill up my time.

[00:11:45] Maybe go experience some shopping therapy.

[00:11:47] I feel like it's just going to be a couple of weeks of pampering myself before I feel okay enough to move on with my life.

[00:11:53] I feel like everybody needs at least a week to be disappointed and upset about how their life is going right now.

[00:11:59] Lol.

[00:12:00] Anyway, thanks for listening to my rant.

[00:12:03] This is seriously my last post and I'm going to start focusing on myself now rather than living in this disgusting situation.

[00:12:10] Thanks again.

[00:12:11] P.S.

[00:12:12] For those wondering how my boyfriend responded to the breakup.

[00:12:15] I actually thought he would last two days without trying to guilt trip me with pictures and memories of us.

[00:12:19] But just five minutes ago, he called me and tried to get me to realize my mistake.

[00:12:25] I don't know.

[00:12:25] Hopefully he gets over it soon because he's kind of dragging it out.

[00:12:30] And to those who are going to tell me to block him, I still have a lot of his things and need to return them first.

[00:12:35] After that, I'll block him.

[00:12:40] Jetzt ist Herbst und bald stehen schon wieder die Feiertage vor der Tür.

[00:12:45] Das kann auch für Hunde ganz schön stressig sein.

[00:12:47] Viele Vierbeine reagieren unter anderem mit einer gestörten Verdauung.

[00:12:51] Und das ist wiederum Stress für ihre Besitzer.

[00:12:54] Aber es gibt schnelle und einfache Hilfe.

[00:12:56] Das Probiotikum Purina Proplan Forti Flora.

[00:13:00] Streu einfach einen Beutel über das tägliche Futter.

[00:13:02] Die außergewöhnliche Zusammensetzung mit lebenden guten Darmbakterien stellt das Gleichgewicht im Darm wieder her.

[00:13:08] Natürlich kannst du Proplan Forti Flora auch präventiv oder bei alltäglichen Verdauungsbeschwerden einsetzen.

[00:13:15] Es unterstützt auch bei Ernährungsumstellungen oder Antibiotika-Einnahme.

[00:13:19] Purina Proplan Forti Flora.

[00:13:21] Jetzt auf shop.purina.de

[00:13:43] If he refuses to get his things, he will qualify as abandonment of his property.

[00:13:49] Complete Entry says,

[00:13:50] Port or front lawn drops can get you in trouble.

[00:13:53] Having a friend run buffer is smart.

[00:13:55] Specifically stack his shit by the front door, but inside so he can't go picking and choosing what he wants to take.

[00:14:01] Black garbage bags are a little insulting, but fuck buying moving boxes for an ex.

[00:14:06] Another commenter says you're mourning the loss of who you thought he was and who he could have been with you guys together in the future.

[00:14:11] That's okay.

[00:14:12] Very normal.

[00:14:13] But don't beat yourself up for giving it all for two years.

[00:14:16] That wasn't a waste.

[00:14:18] You've just proven how loving and dedicated a partner you can be.

[00:14:21] You now know what you bring to the table and how valuable it is.

[00:14:25] Happy healing and put yourself first right now.

[00:14:27] As hard as it is in the beginning, you've made the best choice here.

[00:14:31] And that last comment is exactly it.

[00:14:34] It's okay to mourn the loss of a relationship.

[00:14:38] You know, two and a half years isn't a small amount of time.

[00:14:41] And it sounds like you put a lot into that relationship.

[00:14:44] So absolutely don't beat yourself up about those two years.

[00:14:48] I think you probably learned a lot about relationships and about yourself at the same time.

[00:14:53] So I also like that comment said,

[00:14:55] Happy healing and pamper yourself like you said and enjoy that free time.

[00:15:00] It will get better for you.

[00:15:02] But now I'm going to turn this one to you guys.

[00:15:05] What do you guys make of this situation?

[00:15:08] Let us know your thoughts down in the comments below.

[00:15:11] And let's move on to another story.

[00:15:15] Now, our next story comes from Kiana Kisses from the Am I the Arsehole here subreddit.

[00:15:20] And says,

[00:15:21] Am I the arsehole?

[00:15:22] Because I told my brother he couldn't afford to have kids.

[00:15:26] Hi, I just wanted to share what my experience is recently.

[00:15:29] I, 25 female, have always been financially independent.

[00:15:33] Working hard to build my career.

[00:15:35] My brother, 30 male, has two kids.

[00:15:38] Two male and two female.

[00:15:40] And he and his wife have been struggling financially for years.

[00:15:43] Probably because of their spending habits and lifestyle.

[00:15:46] They constantly ask our family for help.

[00:15:48] And while my parents enable this behavior, I've always kept my distance.

[00:15:52] A few weeks ago, my brother asked me for $3,000 to cover some bills.

[00:15:57] Claiming it was for the kids.

[00:15:58] He did not bother to elaborate on what expenses.

[00:16:01] So I told him that he and his wife should have thought about their financial situation before having children.

[00:16:07] He exploded.

[00:16:09] Calling me selfish, heartless.

[00:16:10] And saying, I don't understand because I don't have kids.

[00:16:13] This caused a huge fight in the family.

[00:16:16] My parents are upset with me for not supporting family.

[00:16:20] But I think it's ridiculous that I'm expected to bail out my brother every time he makes poor decisions.

[00:16:26] He chose to have kids knowing full well they couldn't afford it.

[00:16:29] My mom says I should help for the sake of my niece and nephew.

[00:16:33] But I think it's not my responsibility to clean up their mess.

[00:16:36] Now the family is divided.

[00:16:39] And I'm being painted as the bad guy for refusing to help innocent kids.

[00:16:43] Am I the asshole?

[00:16:46] No, you're absolutely right in this.

[00:16:49] You said I'm expected to bail my brother out every time he makes poor decisions.

[00:16:53] And you mentioned some other stuff that was going on at the same time.

[00:16:56] If you carry on doing this, if the family carries on doing this, it's just enabling it.

[00:17:01] I would understand if you did it like once for a family member in an emergency.

[00:17:05] Like if my brothers came up to me, who's responsible for themselves.

[00:17:09] They never asked for money at all.

[00:17:10] And they came up to me.

[00:17:11] I would know it was an emergency and I would help them out in a heartbeat.

[00:17:14] But this just sounds like taking advantage.

[00:17:17] The parents enabling the behavior.

[00:17:19] And that's going to continue to happen.

[00:17:21] Coming up to you and asking to borrow $3,000.

[00:17:25] And not really saying what it was for.

[00:17:27] Apart from it was for the kids.

[00:17:30] Come on now.

[00:17:31] What do the kids need for three grand?

[00:17:33] Holy moly.

[00:17:34] Daisy says, nah, not the asshole.

[00:17:37] You're not a personal ATM for your bro's bad choices.

[00:17:40] Helping the kids is one thing, but bailing them out every time?

[00:17:43] That's just enabling.

[00:17:45] He needs to fix his habits.

[00:17:46] Not keep asking you for cash.

[00:17:49] Complete Tell says, that's a lot of cash.

[00:17:52] If he was asking for $100 to buy the kids school shoes.

[00:17:55] Okay, that I can see.

[00:17:56] But $3,000?

[00:17:58] Tell him the last time you checked your name wasn't Rockefeller.

[00:18:01] Unhappy Goat says, what is the thing with siblings and parents shaming their child with the most rational behavior?

[00:18:08] Stand your ground and don't enable this parasitic and victim behavior.

[00:18:13] You're not the asshole at all.

[00:18:14] The dude didn't even elaborate on the expenses.

[00:18:17] And I would like to know which kid costs $3,000 in a month.

[00:18:20] He probably wants the new PS5.

[00:18:23] Lol.

[00:18:23] And one more comment from Petit who says, not the asshole.

[00:18:27] It's not your responsibility to support your brother's poor financial choices.

[00:18:31] Inna's wife chose to have children and they should have been prepared for the financial responsibilities that come with it.

[00:18:36] It's not fair for them to constantly ask for help from family members.

[00:18:40] You have every right to set boundaries and focus on your own financial stability.

[00:18:44] Don't let your parents guilt you into enabling their behavior.

[00:18:47] You are not the bad guy for standing up for yourself.

[00:18:50] Your brother needs to learn to take responsibility for his own actions.

[00:18:55] So Opie comes back into the post with an update and says,

[00:18:58] I wasn't expecting my last post to blow up like it did.

[00:19:01] Thanks to everyone who shared their thoughts, even the tough love.

[00:19:04] I thought things couldn't get any worse with my family.

[00:19:07] But boy, was I wrong.

[00:19:09] After I refused to give my brother $3,000, my parents stepped in without telling me and took out a personal loan to help him get back on his feet.

[00:19:18] When I found out, I was furious.

[00:19:21] I know this would only enable him, but what really pissed me off was how he spent the money.

[00:19:26] Turns out only half of it went to bills.

[00:19:29] The rest?

[00:19:30] He bought a brand new TV, a sofa, and sorts of appliance upgrades.

[00:19:34] All because the kids deserve something good growing up at home.

[00:19:38] When I confronted him, he had the audacity to say I didn't understand because I don't have kids.

[00:19:43] And that his kids deserve to feel normal, despite their financial struggles.

[00:19:48] He even called me bitter and jealous because I'm child free, which is just ridiculous.

[00:19:53] What really blew my mind was that my mom backed him up saying,

[00:19:57] Everyone needs a little luxury sometimes, and told me I was being too harsh.

[00:20:02] At this point, I was livid.

[00:20:05] I laid it out for them.

[00:20:06] This isn't about luxury.

[00:20:08] This is about basic responsibility.

[00:20:10] If you can't afford to pay rental utilities, maybe a new furniture or appliances shouldn't be your priority.

[00:20:17] My brother stormed out of the room, but then my dad stepped in saying,

[00:20:21] We're family.

[00:20:22] Oh no.

[00:20:23] Family.

[00:20:24] We're family.

[00:20:25] We take care of each other.

[00:20:27] I replied,

[00:20:28] Family doesn't mean I have to bankroll his bad decisions.

[00:20:31] It didn't stop there.

[00:20:33] The next day, I started getting passive aggressive texts from my brother's wife.

[00:20:37] She said I was a horrible aunt for refusing to help and accused me of turning my back on.

[00:20:43] Can I do it again?

[00:20:44] Turning my back on.

[00:20:46] Family.

[00:20:46] Family.

[00:20:47] She even brought my job into it, saying I'm privileged because I have a stable high income.

[00:20:52] I owe it to my niece and nephew to help, since they don't get to live the same lifestyle I do.

[00:20:57] She ended the message with,

[00:20:59] How can you sleep at night knowing my kids are suffering?

[00:21:02] Suffering.

[00:21:03] They have more new gadgets than I do.

[00:21:06] Opie added a post below that and said just some retrospecting.

[00:21:09] He was the supposed golden child.

[00:21:11] High academic grades, extroverted, likable, and a child foreseeably successful.

[00:21:16] He had a lot of expectations to meet and naturally, he was coddled mostly growing up.

[00:21:21] When he graduated, he got a job, but career never took off and stagnated.

[00:21:25] He chose a partner who was never good for him, as some would say.

[00:21:29] This situation is just so frustrating.

[00:21:32] The commenter says to Opie,

[00:21:48] Another commenter says this sounds like a classic case of,

[00:21:52] Blame the responsible one.

[00:21:57] Definitely not your job to fund his luxury purchases.

[00:22:00] Your brother and his wife need a reality check.

[00:22:03] Keep standing your ground and don't let them guilt trip you into enabling their irresponsible behavior.

[00:22:08] And yes, I can sleep just fine knowing I'm not footing the bill for their frivolous spending.

[00:22:13] It just sounds like a lot of the other family members are sick of, you know, enabling the behavior.

[00:22:19] They're just sick of like giving him the money.

[00:22:21] So they just want Opie to contribute in some way.

[00:22:24] But absolutely put your foot down on this.

[00:22:26] Don't wind me up as well with a brand new sofa and luxuries and all that sort of stuff.

[00:22:32] That's why he didn't tell you to begin with how he's going to spend that money.

[00:22:36] But now I'm going to turn this one to you guys.

[00:22:39] What do you guys make of this situation?

[00:22:42] Let us know your thoughts down in the comments below.

[00:22:45] And just a huge thank you from the bottom of my heart for getting involved in today's stories.

[00:22:49] Your love, your support, your time always means the absolute world to me.

[00:22:52] So thank you so, so much.

[00:22:53] And hopefully I'll see you in the next one.

[00:22:56] Take care and much love.

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