AITA For Leaving My Sisters Wedding When Maid Of Honor HUMILIATED Me In Her Speech r/Relationships

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[00:01:05] [SPEAKER_02]: After a Maid Of Honor humiliated me in her speech,

[00:01:11] [SPEAKER_02]: I27female was a bridesmaid at my older sister's wedding last week.

[00:01:15] [SPEAKER_02]: The wedding was beautiful and everything seemed perfect until the reception.

[00:01:20] [SPEAKER_02]: During the reception, the Maid Of Honor who has been my sister's best friend since childhood

[00:01:23] [SPEAKER_02]: gave her speech.

[00:01:25] [SPEAKER_02]: It was emotional and all but then she made a joke about how I was the family screw-up

[00:01:30] [SPEAKER_02]: who finally managed to do something right by not messing up my bridesmaid's duties.

[00:01:33] [SPEAKER_02]: Everyone laughed but I didn't find it funny.

[00:01:37] [SPEAKER_02]: For context, I've had a rough few years.

[00:01:40] [SPEAKER_02]: I struggled with my mental health and dropped out of college for a while.

[00:01:43] [SPEAKER_02]: I've since got in my life back on track but it's still a sensitive topic for me.

[00:01:48] [SPEAKER_02]: Hearing that joke in front of all of our family and friends wasn't funny at all.

[00:01:53] [SPEAKER_02]: My sister's best friend and I never really got along but still,

[00:01:56] [SPEAKER_02]: I never expected something like this from her.

[00:01:59] [SPEAKER_02]: Especially the day wasn't about me at all and why bring me up in the speech?

[00:02:03] [SPEAKER_02]: I tried to stay composed but I felt the tears coming so I quietly left the reception

[00:02:08] [SPEAKER_02]: and went outside to collect myself.

[00:02:10] [SPEAKER_02]: My sister followed me out and asked what was wrong.

[00:02:12] [SPEAKER_02]: When I told her she said it was a joke and she meant nothing bad.

[00:02:16] [SPEAKER_02]: I tried to go back inside but I just couldn't and I ended up leaving the wedding early.

[00:02:20] [SPEAKER_02]: My parents understand why I was upset but my sister is angry with me.

[00:02:25] [SPEAKER_02]: I do feel terrible for leaving but I also feel like I had the right to feel hurt and humiliated.

[00:02:30] [SPEAKER_02]: Edit

[00:02:31] [SPEAKER_02]: I said nothing at the moment because I didn't want to cause a scene on my sister's special day

[00:02:36] [SPEAKER_02]: and I can't reason with her right now because she will just ask me if I haven't been taking my meds lately

[00:02:41] [SPEAKER_02]: because that's what she does when she's angry with me.

[00:02:44] [SPEAKER_02]: So I'm giving her some time to maybe realize how our best friend's joke was out of line.

[00:02:49] [SPEAKER_02]: Edit 2

[00:02:50] [SPEAKER_02]: Someone asked me if my sister's best friend and I argued before,

[00:02:54] [SPEAKER_02]: did I give her a reason to do this?

[00:02:56] [SPEAKER_02]: My sister's best friend and I never went past high.

[00:02:58] [SPEAKER_02]: She told me before, a few years ago that she in general doesn't feel comfortable around someone struggling mentally

[00:03:05] [SPEAKER_02]: because in her head, God only knows what they're capable of.

[00:03:09] [SPEAKER_02]: Then she said this, slashed to this day I just try to avoid her.

[00:03:13] [SPEAKER_02]: Not the asshole to me in this, what else was you meant to do?

[00:03:17] [SPEAKER_02]: That comment was a dig at you and upset you.

[00:03:20] [SPEAKER_02]: Was you to sit there and cry in front of everybody?

[00:03:22] [SPEAKER_02]: Absolutely not. You got yourself out of that situation.

[00:03:25] [SPEAKER_02]: You didn't make a scene. Your sister is the one that followed you out

[00:03:29] [SPEAKER_02]: and then to me, still felt like she was belittling your feelings.

[00:03:32] [SPEAKER_02]: And the meds comment as well just, you know, it just shows how much the sister is very much like the maid of honor in this situation as well.

[00:03:41] [SPEAKER_02]: I kind of have to ask myself.

[00:03:43] [SPEAKER_02]: I know it's family and I know it's easy for me to say as always,

[00:03:46] [SPEAKER_02]: but what are you getting from sister in this relationship?

[00:03:50] [SPEAKER_02]: But ungrateful dead says not the asshole from the way you describe your sister's reaction.

[00:03:54] [SPEAKER_02]: No BFF feels free to belittle you because your sister always goes along with it.

[00:03:59] [SPEAKER_02]: I wouldn't be surprised if her maid of honor ran that joke by your sister for approval beforehand.

[00:04:04] [SPEAKER_02]: If your sister considers insulting you in a public setting like that to be a joke,

[00:04:08] [SPEAKER_02]: you can bet money that they shared similar jokes between them before.

[00:04:12] [SPEAKER_02]: The shots about taking your meds show sister doesn't have a lot of empathy for your situation or respect for you as a person.

[00:04:18] [SPEAKER_02]: I didn't see her apologizing if that's the case.

[00:04:20] [SPEAKER_02]: I could be wrong in my suspicions, but everything you describes tells me I'm not.

[00:04:27] [SPEAKER_02]: Zekal74 says not the asshole and I'm sorry you had to go through that.

[00:04:31] [SPEAKER_02]: Mocking someone's mental health is bullshit in any circumstance,

[00:04:34] [SPEAKER_02]: but in front of that whole group of family and friends just fucking despicable.

[00:04:39] [SPEAKER_02]: She would just ask me if I've been skipping on my meds.

[00:04:42] [SPEAKER_02]: Your sister sounds like she isn't a whole lot better than her asshole friend.

[00:04:46] [SPEAKER_02]: Tuesday Patient says not the asshole, eff her and everyone who laughed.

[00:04:51] [SPEAKER_02]: Your sister should have stood up and said something then and there.

[00:04:54] [SPEAKER_02]: I think I'm tired like that.

[00:04:55] [SPEAKER_02]: People sometimes laugh out of nervousness or peer pressure or social discomfort,

[00:05:00] [SPEAKER_02]: but your family needs to shut the shit down immediately.

[00:05:03] [SPEAKER_02]: ETA is just a joke and oh you can't take a joke and oh you're just a bad sport,

[00:05:08] [SPEAKER_02]: yada yada yada have been used forever by cruel people to convince the butt of their jokes

[00:05:12] [SPEAKER_02]: that the victim is the problem.

[00:05:15] [SPEAKER_02]: My dad did that for most of my life.

[00:05:17] [SPEAKER_02]: I finally started just giving it back to him and he stopped.

[00:05:20] [SPEAKER_02]: If your sister thought your mental health struggles were appropriate to joke about,

[00:05:24] [SPEAKER_02]: then she doesn't deserve to be in your life.

[00:05:26] [SPEAKER_02]: I hate that crap.

[00:05:28] [SPEAKER_02]: It's abuse disguised as harmless fun.

[00:05:30] [SPEAKER_02]: Happy Canva says not the asshole, made of honor was being a mean girl.

[00:05:34] [SPEAKER_02]: Her point was to be a bitch and she was.

[00:05:37] [SPEAKER_02]: Her speech should have been about the couple who just got married.

[00:05:39] [SPEAKER_02]: There was no reason to bring you into a speech at all, except to be mean.

[00:05:44] [SPEAKER_02]: Made of honor should be ashamed of herself as she is the asshole here.

[00:05:48] [SPEAKER_02]: Your sister not seeing this in her words to you also make her an asshole.

[00:05:52] [SPEAKER_02]: I'm sorry your sister was crappy to you.

[00:05:54] [SPEAKER_02]: Maybe show her this thread.

[00:05:56] [SPEAKER_02]: Medical Gate says say this.

[00:05:58] [SPEAKER_02]: Hey, I don't forgive you for all the comments about not taking my meds.

[00:06:02] [SPEAKER_02]: I don't forgive you for talking shit to your friends so much that she felt comfortable

[00:06:06] [SPEAKER_02]: talking shit about me as part of your wedding speech.

[00:06:08] [SPEAKER_02]: I'm done making excuses for you.

[00:06:11] [SPEAKER_02]: You're not a good person and I have no interest in being around you.

[00:06:14] [SPEAKER_02]: Block.

[00:06:15] [SPEAKER_02]: Wait two years and then notice how every aspect of your life has improved.

[00:06:20] [SPEAKER_02]: So, OP came in with her update and says hi.

[00:06:23] [SPEAKER_02]: Thanks to everyone who took the time to comment on my post and gave their opinion and advice without being too harsh.

[00:06:29] [SPEAKER_02]: I apologize if my update is messy or confusing.

[00:06:32] [SPEAKER_02]: I tried to cover everything but I don't know when to add context for clarification.

[00:06:36] [SPEAKER_02]: If you think there's any missing info, some parts are confusing let me know.

[00:06:40] [SPEAKER_02]: The same day I posted my dad call to check up on me and see if my sister and I had talked things out.

[00:06:46] [SPEAKER_02]: When I told him no he said it's better if we talk about it now.

[00:06:49] [SPEAKER_02]: That showed me that I have nothing to apologize for.

[00:06:52] [SPEAKER_02]: If my sister thinks she has nothing to apologize for then the least she can do is make her best friend apologize

[00:06:57] [SPEAKER_02]: or fully realize that the joke was out of line.

[00:07:00] [SPEAKER_02]: By the way my brother and I met four days ago.

[00:07:03] [SPEAKER_02]: He told me that brother-in-law, my sister's husband, didn't like the way that the maid of honor called me a screw up in front of everyone

[00:07:09] [SPEAKER_02]: and some of those laughed voice later that they did so out of nervousness.

[00:07:14] [SPEAKER_02]: On Monday my sister called me to talk.

[00:07:17] [SPEAKER_02]: When I made it to her place her best friend was on the phone and didn't put it down for a second.

[00:07:21] [SPEAKER_02]: My sister started by saying that just a few years ago I would have laughed hard and not taken the joke as an insult.

[00:07:27] [SPEAKER_02]: I told her maybe some laughed because they don't know the reason she called me a screw up.

[00:07:32] [SPEAKER_02]: In the context when I was 16 something happened and that's why I struggled mentally really badly between 16 and 18.

[00:07:40] [SPEAKER_02]: When I was 17 I was diagnosed with PTSD and later with depression and anxiety.

[00:07:45] [SPEAKER_02]: Since then I don't like it when someone touches my head, especially my hair and the back of my head slash neck.

[00:07:51] [SPEAKER_02]: My sister knows everything.

[00:07:53] [SPEAKER_02]: During our conversation my sister did most of the talking.

[00:07:56] [SPEAKER_02]: At some point I felt like my sister had called me just to blame me again without trying to understand my perspective.

[00:08:03] [SPEAKER_02]: When I tried to talk she put her hand on the back of my neck and pulled me towards a bleached sentence as to say

[00:08:08] [SPEAKER_02]: Do you understand or okay?

[00:08:11] [SPEAKER_02]: I hated it, I felt irritated.

[00:08:14] [SPEAKER_02]: I honestly kept thinking I push her away would I be in the wrong?

[00:08:18] [SPEAKER_02]: Would they just call me mental and tell my family I got physical?

[00:08:21] [SPEAKER_02]: I tried to leave but she insisted that no one was leaving until we sort this out.

[00:08:25] [SPEAKER_02]: She told her best friend to just apologize.

[00:08:28] [SPEAKER_02]: She refused and reminded my sister that I was the reason her husband got angry at her on their wedding day

[00:08:34] [SPEAKER_02]: because I couldn't take a joke when I tried to explain why.

[00:08:38] [SPEAKER_02]: I told her if she focused her speech on the bride and groom then maybe he wouldn't have had a reason to be angry.

[00:08:44] [SPEAKER_02]: She refused to listen and brushed off my words.

[00:08:47] [SPEAKER_02]: She said yeah whatever sorry.

[00:08:49] [SPEAKER_02]: I was glad it was finally over and I was about to leave.

[00:08:52] [SPEAKER_02]: I heard her say can't take a joke that everyone knows it's true.

[00:08:56] [SPEAKER_02]: Both of them laughed but my sister stopped mid laugh and apologized.

[00:09:00] [SPEAKER_02]: I didn't say anything and left.

[00:09:03] [SPEAKER_02]: I think I've had enough.

[00:09:05] [SPEAKER_02]: I mean I know I've had a few rough years.

[00:09:07] [SPEAKER_02]: I dropped out of college for a while fine but I've since gotten my life back on track.

[00:09:12] [SPEAKER_02]: My parents helped me through it all and never made me feel like a burden.

[00:09:15] [SPEAKER_02]: At first I was on some strong meds that made me feel tired and sleepy most of the time.

[00:09:19] [SPEAKER_02]: After a while I started to feel a little better with therapy and my family support.

[00:09:24] [SPEAKER_02]: During that period it was me, my parents and my brother.

[00:09:27] [SPEAKER_02]: My sister was three hours away for a job and used to visit sometimes but often bring her best friend along with her.

[00:09:34] [SPEAKER_02]: Looking back I don't want to say she hates me but I know she felt ashamed of a family member struggling with mental health issues.

[00:09:41] [SPEAKER_02]: I don't know how to explain this.

[00:09:43] [SPEAKER_02]: I made up my mind and decided to go no contact for now.

[00:09:46] [SPEAKER_02]: If my parents and my brother who were there when I was going through it all never made me feel that they're ashamed of me and why would she?

[00:09:53] [SPEAKER_02]: I'm still on meds but feels much better than before.

[00:09:56] [SPEAKER_02]: I have a stable job, my own place and friends who love me for who I am.

[00:10:01] [SPEAKER_02]: I can say I'm proud of myself a little.

[00:10:03] [SPEAKER_02]: I love my family to death and try to maintain a relationship with my sister all these years

[00:10:07] [SPEAKER_02]: but I'm trying to improve myself not constantly be reminded of what I was a few years ago.

[00:10:13] [SPEAKER_02]: Oh man my blood was absolutely boiling when she put her hands on the back of your neck where you said yourself you don't like to be touched.

[00:10:22] [SPEAKER_02]: That sister and that maid of honor are absolutely scummy people.

[00:10:27] [SPEAKER_02]: They haven't changed a little giggle after you started walking away just said it all.

[00:10:31] [SPEAKER_02]: They're putting their hands on you, said it all and some people with like the absolute ignorance or stupidity whatever you want to call it

[00:10:39] [SPEAKER_02]: around mental health and taking medication is just wild.

[00:10:43] [SPEAKER_02]: I remember when I first started taking Cetraline some years back

[00:10:47] [SPEAKER_02]: and I'm a pretty open person about you know taking that sort of stuff.

[00:10:50] [SPEAKER_02]: Many of us go through issues in our life and you know it's something that should be normalized to be talking about etc etc

[00:10:57] [SPEAKER_02]: talking to each other then talking to professionals to get the help that you need where you need it

[00:11:02] [SPEAKER_02]: and I remember talking to someone and just telling them that you know I'm taking meds for depression at the time

[00:11:09] [SPEAKER_02]: and I can remember them physically almost like stepping back like whoa like a huge thing.

[00:11:14] [SPEAKER_02]: It led into a conversation of how it's gonna totally change your personality in a negative way

[00:11:20] [SPEAKER_02]: almost like you're gonna become zombified.

[00:11:23] [SPEAKER_02]: I can just remember staring at this person thinking fucking planet are you from?

[00:11:27] [SPEAKER_02]: Have you ever been on any antidepressants?

[00:11:29] [SPEAKER_02]: Of course they hadn't been.

[00:11:31] [SPEAKER_02]: So you try to use it as an educational moment but you know you can see it's not sinking in.

[00:11:35] [SPEAKER_02]: I just find some of the opinions on it absolutely wild

[00:11:39] [SPEAKER_02]: but I'm glad that you're proud of yourself OP that you have your stable job your own place

[00:11:43] [SPEAKER_02]: and friends for love you who you are that is what you deserve

[00:11:46] [SPEAKER_02]: and you know you don't need people bringing you down in any way so fair play to you

[00:11:51] [SPEAKER_02]: but now I'm gonna turn this one to you guys what do you guys make of this situation

[00:11:56] [SPEAKER_02]: let me know your thoughts down in the comments below and let's move on to another story

[00:12:36] [SPEAKER_02]: From the Am I the Arsoul subreddit does have an update as well

[00:12:43] [SPEAKER_02]: from Am I the Arsoul Roblox Hacker and says Am I the Arsoul for threatening to kick out my niece

[00:12:49] [SPEAKER_02]: after she hacked my daughter's Roblox account

[00:12:52] [SPEAKER_02]: and I'm sure many of you know what Roblox is because if you have nieces, nephews, young children

[00:12:59] [SPEAKER_02]: but basically it's an online virtual world with like games that can be created and you join them and do all sorts

[00:13:06] [SPEAKER_02]: so the story starts my 38 female daughter 13 female has been playing this game called Roblox

[00:13:13] [SPEAKER_02]: since lockdown first started as a way of playing with her friends virtually

[00:13:17] [SPEAKER_02]: as well as curing her boredom she was obsessed with this Roblox game

[00:13:21] [SPEAKER_02]: that's set in the school because she missed her friend so much

[00:13:24] [SPEAKER_02]: and allowed her to stay connected with them

[00:13:26] [SPEAKER_02]: her interest in video games has developed into technology

[00:13:30] [SPEAKER_02]: she's by far at the top of her IT class

[00:13:33] [SPEAKER_02]: and she's even started learning how to code in order to make her own game

[00:13:36] [SPEAKER_02]: my sister 34 female and niece 10 female have recently had to move in with us after my sister discovered that her husband was having an affair

[00:13:45] [SPEAKER_02]: they're staying at my house for the time being what she saves up money for a place of their own

[00:13:50] [SPEAKER_02]: my niece and daughter usually get along and they both bond over their interest in Roblox

[00:13:55] [SPEAKER_02]: last week my daughter was completely distraught and crying non-stop

[00:14:00] [SPEAKER_02]: she said that she saw a cousin playing on a Roblox game and realized her cousin's avatar had a lot more items than usual

[00:14:06] [SPEAKER_02]: she decided to join her only to realize that her account had been hacked

[00:14:11] [SPEAKER_02]: and she had lost nearly every item she had on her favorite Roblox game

[00:14:14] [SPEAKER_02]: she had lost 800k of the in-game currency and nearly her entire inventory

[00:14:20] [SPEAKER_02]: which she claimed was worth over 5 million of the in-game currency

[00:14:24] [SPEAKER_02]: she had spent the last 4 years saving up for those items and everything was gone just like that

[00:14:30] [SPEAKER_02]: my daughter began accusing my niece of hacking her account

[00:14:34] [SPEAKER_02]: my niece denied it at first but quickly broke under pressure and admitted everything

[00:14:39] [SPEAKER_02]: the previous day they had been playing the game together and I called them down to dinner

[00:14:44] [SPEAKER_02]: my niece has only been playing for a few months and I suppose she would be considered a newbie

[00:14:49] [SPEAKER_02]: she begged my daughter to give her some of her items and my daughter refused

[00:14:53] [SPEAKER_02]: saying that she should earn the items by herself

[00:14:56] [SPEAKER_02]: when my daughter came down my niece decided to stay behind for a minute to transfer all of my daughter's items into her account

[00:15:03] [SPEAKER_02]: I tried to mediate the situation but my sister is refusing to cooperate

[00:15:07] [SPEAKER_02]: she told me that it's only a game, it's not like my daughter spent real money on it

[00:15:11] [SPEAKER_02]: I attempted to explain just how much this game means to my daughter

[00:15:15] [SPEAKER_02]: which my sister said that my daughter should counter self-lucky that her biggest problem is a bunch of pixels on a screen

[00:15:21] [SPEAKER_02]: she said my daughter was a teenager now and was too old to be acting this immature over a game

[00:15:26] [SPEAKER_02]: my niece refuses to give my niece her stuff back and says it's unfair that my daughter gets to have everything she wants both in real life and online

[00:15:35] [SPEAKER_02]: I told my sister and niece that both of them were acting like ungrateful brats

[00:15:40] [SPEAKER_02]: considering how us letting them stay in my home rent free

[00:15:43] [SPEAKER_02]: today I gave her an ultimatum

[00:15:46] [SPEAKER_02]: if my niece doesn't return everything she hacked from my daughter

[00:15:49] [SPEAKER_02]: then both would have one week to leave

[00:15:51] [SPEAKER_02]: I told her that I refuse to let anyone disrespect my daughter under my roof

[00:15:56] [SPEAKER_02]: and I, the arsehole

[00:15:59] [SPEAKER_02]: damn it, what's with the shitty sisters in this video

[00:16:02] [SPEAKER_02]: and it's another one of those where you're too old for that or whatever

[00:16:06] [SPEAKER_02]: sod that

[00:16:08] [SPEAKER_02]: if I had been working on a currency in any of the games that I played in the past

[00:16:12] [SPEAKER_02]: any of the MMOs and someone stole it I would be pissed off

[00:16:15] [SPEAKER_02]: and quite frankly as always it doesn't matter what it is

[00:16:19] [SPEAKER_02]: these people that you welcomed into your home have stolen from your daughter

[00:16:23] [SPEAKER_02]: it's as simple as that

[00:16:25] [SPEAKER_02]: and even when she does give the currency back

[00:16:27] [SPEAKER_02]: get her out of there ASAP

[00:16:29] [SPEAKER_02]: just the entitled attitude in itself is bullshit

[00:16:33] [SPEAKER_02]: but Banff says not the arsehole and getting so tired of people telling other people

[00:16:37] [SPEAKER_02]: that they're too old to love the things they love

[00:16:39] [SPEAKER_02]: that people enjoy the things they want to and enjoy life

[00:16:42] [SPEAKER_02]: it doesn't matter if your daughter is too old for the game

[00:16:45] [SPEAKER_02]: or if she didn't want to spend any real money on the items

[00:16:48] [SPEAKER_02]: what matters is that your niece stole from your daughter

[00:16:50] [SPEAKER_02]: and your sister wants to give her no repercussions for this action

[00:16:54] [SPEAKER_02]: how much longer until your niece decides that it's not fair that your daughter has something else

[00:16:58] [SPEAKER_02]: that she doesn't have and takes it from you

[00:17:00] [SPEAKER_02]: or that you have something that she doesn't and takes that

[00:17:03] [SPEAKER_02]: theft is theft and if your daughter doesn't put a stop to it now

[00:17:07] [SPEAKER_02]: it can start a slippery slope

[00:17:09] [SPEAKER_02]: especially since that your niece has seen that she has her mother's approval

[00:17:12] [SPEAKER_02]: yes your niece has been given a royal deal but that has no excuse to steal

[00:17:16] [SPEAKER_02]: especially from someone who not only had nothing to do with why she has this bad situation

[00:17:22] [SPEAKER_02]: but who was sharing her home to try and help her out

[00:17:24] [SPEAKER_02]: but if your niece and your sister has taken your hospitality

[00:17:28] [SPEAKER_02]: and broken your trust

[00:17:30] [SPEAKER_02]: Anna says not the asshole I'm so so glad that you understand the value of time and effort

[00:17:35] [SPEAKER_02]: your daughter has put into this collection

[00:17:37] [SPEAKER_02]: and the value of that to her

[00:17:39] [SPEAKER_02]: compare it to stealing a collection of crafted items someone had made off line

[00:17:43] [SPEAKER_02]: they felt was precious to them

[00:17:45] [SPEAKER_02]: but they spent time and effort putting together

[00:17:47] [SPEAKER_02]: if your sister can't respect your daughter's time and effort

[00:17:50] [SPEAKER_02]: then she can leave your home

[00:17:53] [SPEAKER_02]: just popped into my head as well

[00:17:54] [SPEAKER_02]: I remember when one of my younger family members who plays Roblox and they played a game

[00:17:59] [SPEAKER_02]: I think it's called adopt me

[00:18:01] [SPEAKER_02]: you have to correct me if I'm wrong there

[00:18:03] [SPEAKER_02]: but you collect pets on it and there's rare pets and such and such

[00:18:07] [SPEAKER_02]: and my young family member got scammed out of one of their favourite pets

[00:18:11] [SPEAKER_02]: apparently they quickly switched something around or did something

[00:18:14] [SPEAKER_02]: and stole their pet

[00:18:16] [SPEAKER_02]: and they was absolutely devastated

[00:18:19] [SPEAKER_02]: tried getting in touch with Roblox but they were just like

[00:18:21] [SPEAKER_02]: anyway listen to learn says your sister's child stole

[00:18:25] [SPEAKER_02]: she stole from her cousin who treats her with grace and shares her game

[00:18:29] [SPEAKER_02]: she lies about it and her mother tried to minimise her bad behaviour

[00:18:32] [SPEAKER_02]: and blame your daughter for having more

[00:18:34] [SPEAKER_02]: and being too old for the game

[00:18:35] [SPEAKER_02]: isn't lying and cheating why she's in your house with her child

[00:18:39] [SPEAKER_02]: why she teach her daughter to behave like the father she left for lying and cheating

[00:18:43] [SPEAKER_02]: she needs to go back to her house and deal with her daughter and husband

[00:18:46] [SPEAKER_02]: you would not be the arsehole

[00:18:49] [SPEAKER_02]: 12 days later, Oat becomes in with an update and says thank you all for your advice

[00:18:53] [SPEAKER_02]: my sister and niece moved out last week

[00:18:56] [SPEAKER_02]: she's in the process of getting an apartment and the temporary staying with a friend of my sister's for the time being

[00:19:01] [SPEAKER_02]: I've warned her that if I contacted the developers they would get her daughter banned

[00:19:06] [SPEAKER_02]: so either way my niece wasn't keeping the stuff she stole

[00:19:09] [SPEAKER_02]: so she should try to minimise her losses

[00:19:11] [SPEAKER_02]: she claimed that no proof her daughter hacked the account and refused to compromise

[00:19:15] [SPEAKER_02]: she said I was petty and childish for making them homeless over a kid's video game

[00:19:20] [SPEAKER_02]: don't get me wrong, I feel bad, I really do

[00:19:24] [SPEAKER_02]: my sister and I never really got along as kids

[00:19:26] [SPEAKER_02]: so I was hoping that at least our kids could have a good relationship with each other

[00:19:30] [SPEAKER_02]: but still, they were inevitably going to leave at some point

[00:19:34] [SPEAKER_02]: so I suppose I only sped up the process

[00:19:37] [SPEAKER_02]: now that my niece is gone, my daughter seems a lot happier now

[00:19:40] [SPEAKER_02]: she told me she was perfectly fine

[00:19:42] [SPEAKER_02]: but I knew her well enough to know she wasn't

[00:19:44] [SPEAKER_02]: some very kind and generous people here have offered a gift to some of their items to rebuild her account

[00:19:49] [SPEAKER_02]: which I am extremely grateful

[00:19:52] [SPEAKER_02]: but my daughter said that she felt bad about taking stuff from other people

[00:19:55] [SPEAKER_02]: I already reported my niece's account, which seemed to have no effect

[00:19:59] [SPEAKER_02]: I'm not very tech savvy but I considered contacting the Roblox developers to see if they could reverse the transaction

[00:20:05] [SPEAKER_02]: however my daughter informed that doing so would only ban the account

[00:20:09] [SPEAKER_02]: losing all of my daughter's items in the process

[00:20:11] [SPEAKER_02]: I would like to extend all my thanks to the commenters that suggested I try and log into my niece's account

[00:20:16] [SPEAKER_02]: believe it or not, it only took 5 attempts

[00:20:19] [SPEAKER_02]: turns out that 10 year olds don't have the best comprehension of internet security

[00:20:23] [SPEAKER_02]: surprisingly getting into the account was the easy part

[00:20:25] [SPEAKER_02]: I spent an embarrassingly long amount of time looking up how to trade everything back

[00:20:30] [SPEAKER_02]: I swear I'm getting old

[00:20:31] [SPEAKER_02]: I couldn't tell which items were my daughters and which were actually my niece's

[00:20:35] [SPEAKER_02]: so I simply transferred everything my niece had just to be safe

[00:20:39] [SPEAKER_02]: when she came home from school today

[00:20:41] [SPEAKER_02]: I told my daughter I had a fun surprise for her waiting on Roblox

[00:20:44] [SPEAKER_02]: words can't describe how proud of myself I felt when I saw the joy rush back into her face

[00:20:49] [SPEAKER_02]: the ironic part is that my niece had previously won this very rare halo item

[00:20:54] [SPEAKER_02]: from this sort of lottery system

[00:20:56] [SPEAKER_02]: which my daughter claims is one of the most expensive items in that game

[00:21:00] [SPEAKER_02]: I think I know what game it is, I'll tell you in a sec

[00:21:03] [SPEAKER_02]: I've got a chuff from myself

[00:21:04] [SPEAKER_02]: now it was transferred to my daughter's account

[00:21:07] [SPEAKER_02]: meaning that my daughter walked out of the situation richer than she was to start with

[00:21:11] [SPEAKER_02]: my sister just messaged me in all camps yelling at me

[00:21:14] [SPEAKER_02]: that my niece has been through so much

[00:21:16] [SPEAKER_02]: and I was just kicking her when she was down

[00:21:18] [SPEAKER_02]: she accused me of stealing from a little girl

[00:21:20] [SPEAKER_02]: I simply told her that, in her own words

[00:21:23] [SPEAKER_02]: just a bunch of pixels on a screen

[00:21:26] [SPEAKER_02]: thanks everyone for your support

[00:21:28] [SPEAKER_02]: now I'm gonna take a guess

[00:21:30] [SPEAKER_02]: I've been on Roblox a couple of times with the youngsters

[00:21:32] [SPEAKER_02]: I haven't been on it in a long time

[00:21:34] [SPEAKER_02]: but I know one of the youngsters, the one that was scanned actually

[00:21:36] [SPEAKER_02]: played a game called Royal High and that to get a halo

[00:21:39] [SPEAKER_02]: which was like a super rare drop

[00:21:40] [SPEAKER_02]: they was always telling me that they're just trying to get it from some sort of fountain or something

[00:21:45] [SPEAKER_02]: and all's well that ends well I think

[00:21:47] [SPEAKER_02]: my only slight concern is if like sister tries to report

[00:21:52] [SPEAKER_02]: OP's daughter's account for some reason

[00:21:55] [SPEAKER_02]: hacked or whatever, I don't know

[00:21:56] [SPEAKER_02]: hopefully not though

[00:21:58] [SPEAKER_02]: but what do you guys make of this situation

[00:22:01] [SPEAKER_02]: as always it doesn't matter what the item is

[00:22:03] [SPEAKER_02]: they've literally stole from you

[00:22:05] [SPEAKER_02]: I can't believe the entitlement of these people

[00:22:07] [SPEAKER_02]: I can I mean

[00:22:08] [SPEAKER_02]: I've covered enough of them but

[00:22:10] [SPEAKER_02]: what do you guys make of this situation

[00:22:12] [SPEAKER_02]: let me know your thoughts down in the comments below

[00:22:15] [SPEAKER_02]: just a huge thank you from the bottom of my heart

[00:22:17] [SPEAKER_02]: for getting involved in today's stories

[00:22:19] [SPEAKER_02]: your love, your support, your time

[00:22:21] [SPEAKER_02]: always means the absolute world to me

[00:22:23] [SPEAKER_02]: so thank you so so much for being involved

[00:22:25] [SPEAKER_02]: and hopefully I'll see you in the next one

[00:22:28] [SPEAKER_02]: take care

[00:22:29] [SPEAKER_02]: and much love