My Girlfriends Vampire Roleplay Is Getting Out Of Control r/Relationships

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[00:00:51] I was sent this one on Twitter. It's all the title and was like hold on, wait a minute

[00:00:57] And it's from throwaway vampy and there is a couple of warnings on the story

[00:01:01] So if you don't want to skip it, please feel free to do so

[00:01:04] It says it contains emotional abuse and manipulation and also sexual abuse as well

[00:01:09] And it says I've been living with my girlfriend 26 female for almost a month

[00:01:14] 18 for one and a half years

[00:01:16] She's revealing an increasing interest in vampire role playing which was fun at first but now I'm 24 male worrying it's going too far

[00:01:27] Okay

[00:01:28] So basically we've been seeing each other for a while and have talked a lot about moving in together

[00:01:33] We spent a lot of time at each other's places anyway

[00:01:36] And so once this COVID thing was getting more serious

[00:01:39] We figured now is a good time to just bite the bullet and do it

[00:01:43] I was nervous obviously due to the fact we'd been spending most of the day together

[00:01:48] I was nervous obviously due to the fact that we've been spending most of the day together

[00:01:52] Every day since we don't leave except to go for food shopping

[00:01:56] But I think it's a good test to see if we're okay with this

[00:01:59] Then getting married is definitely a realistic option

[00:02:02] Obviously spending a lot of time alone

[00:02:05] There's only so much Netflix I can watch

[00:02:07] Although the massive amount of weed we bought has helped a lot

[00:02:10] Haven't smoked much since uni but figured with this downtime

[00:02:14] And we've been having a lot of sex

[00:02:17] We used to be pretty active before this and have role played in the past

[00:02:21] And have done a vampire one before

[00:02:23] However now since moving in it's been popping back up very frequently

[00:02:27] And while it was a bit of a laugh for first few times

[00:02:30] She's now focusing a lot more on the authenticity

[00:02:33] Did not realize there was so much knowledge available about vampires

[00:02:37] I'm not going to go into too much detail but while she's in character

[00:02:41] She is apparently a sanguane

[00:02:44] Oh, S-A-M-E-W-E-I-N

[00:02:48] Which is not L-Vish or Welsh apparently

[00:02:50] I am almost always a powerless regular human

[00:02:53] Which I'm cool with but I don't really want to do homework to prep for role play accuracy

[00:02:58] At the start it was just some light bondage and biting which was cool

[00:03:02] But now more recently is turning into heavier duty restraints

[00:03:05] And there is more biting

[00:03:07] Which I was okay with but after the third time of her drawing blood

[00:03:11] Have asked her to reduce the bites

[00:03:13] They were dangerous it was mainly around the upper shoulder

[00:03:16] Which she was annoyed and called me boring

[00:03:20] I now see her practice and these fancy ass knots all day

[00:03:23] And while I can't see what she's doing on a computer

[00:03:25] My gut is that she is researching more vampire stuff

[00:03:29] And I should add that she started doing more vampire stuff in her everyday life

[00:03:34] Which I thought was her doing a bit at first

[00:03:37] Now I'm less sure

[00:03:39] I am non-religious but a family is Christian I think

[00:03:42] She was never really actively practicing

[00:03:44] But she did have a few Jesusy things about like a cross necklace she wore

[00:03:49] Which I found all bundled together in her bag stuffed in the back of the wardrobe

[00:03:53] She's still fine with garlic

[00:03:56] What the hell

[00:03:58] I have spoken to her several times about all this before I decided to post

[00:04:02] But it always involves a lot of deflection

[00:04:04] And her telling me not to worry that I'm overthinking

[00:04:07] And to just have another joint or drink

[00:04:10] I'm just worrying that this is an escalating situation

[00:04:13] To maybe cope with a quarantine or moving in

[00:04:16] Is there anything I should be worried about

[00:04:18] As anyone had a similar situation with their partner

[00:04:21] We are entering unknown territory here folks

[00:04:24] A holy moly

[00:04:25] But yeah, there's definitely a problem if

[00:04:28] You know you're expressing your concerns

[00:04:30] And your boundaries if you like

[00:04:32] And she's saying no just go and smoke a joint or whatever

[00:04:36] And that you're overthinking the situation

[00:04:38] No, you got a boundary and that should be respected

[00:04:42] But salt working comes in with some information

[00:04:44] They said okay

[00:04:45] I'm going to unwrap some freaky stuff for you to digest

[00:04:48] Sanguine

[00:04:49] About S-A-N-G-U-I-N-E

[00:04:52] Referster people who actually believe they are vampires

[00:04:56] And get life-sustaining nutrients from ingesting blood

[00:04:59] Most of these people believe

[00:05:00] They need a few drops to last them a while

[00:05:03] Though this depends on the person

[00:05:05] Other people feed off

[00:05:06] Pranic energy

[00:05:07] Most vital is sexual in nature

[00:05:09] Like biting someone or taking their energy during sex

[00:05:12] After reading your story

[00:05:13] I have a reason to believe

[00:05:14] Your girlfriend thinks she's an actual vampire

[00:05:17] And it's just telling you it's a character

[00:05:18] To not be criticized

[00:05:20] There are groups out there who believe this as well

[00:05:22] They get donors

[00:05:24] Regular non-vampires

[00:05:25] To donate energy or drops of blood for them

[00:05:28] However, these groups have ethical guidelines

[00:05:31] I do not believe you can take this from people without their full consent of what's going on

[00:05:35] You can look for resources online about this type of thing

[00:05:38] But your girlfriend is not being open and honest

[00:05:40] She's manipulating the situation

[00:05:42] And I would say while she may not be physically dangerous

[00:05:46] She is mentally

[00:05:47] My advice break up with her

[00:05:49] If you like vampire chicks

[00:05:50] Make sure they are open and honest

[00:05:52] And they get your consent first

[00:05:54] She ain't the one

[00:05:56] Edit

[00:05:56] Also she's fine with garlic

[00:05:58] Make believe characters have a problem with it

[00:06:01] People who believe they are vampires

[00:06:03] Don't

[00:06:04] At best, she believes she's a vampire

[00:06:06] And is manipulating you while draining you without your consent

[00:06:09] At worst, she's mentally unstable, sadistic

[00:06:12] And doesn't care about your consent

[00:06:14] How well do you know her?

[00:06:16] Don't sleep with your eyes closed

[00:06:18] Holy shit, you learn new stuff

[00:06:21] And scare yourself at the same time on reddit sometimes wholly

[00:06:24] Moli

[00:06:24] Melindael 19 says

[00:06:26] Plenty of good advice in here

[00:06:27] But I just want to add one important note

[00:06:30] Human mouths are filthy

[00:06:32] And a human bite can become a serious infection

[00:06:35] Make sure your tetanus vaccine is up to date

[00:06:37] Seriously

[00:06:38] People who play and believe they are vampires

[00:06:40] Don't bite each other for that reason

[00:06:42] They cut

[00:06:43] They're very careful about sanitation

[00:06:46] Panty Panda says listen

[00:06:48] I think it's important to point out

[00:06:49] That her being into vampire stuff isn't really the problem

[00:06:53] People can be into vampire stuff and that's fine

[00:06:56] The most important thing here is that your partner is going against your wishes

[00:06:59] During sex without your consent

[00:07:01] And then shaming you for it

[00:07:03] She's also doing things that are upsetting or concerning you

[00:07:06] And instead of actually talking about it

[00:07:08] She's telling you to smoke weed or drink to forget about it

[00:07:12] That's incredibly fucked up

[00:07:14] Never told possible

[00:07:15] Whatever serious conversation about it

[00:07:17] And if it can't happen or she doesn't want to cooperate

[00:07:21] I would leave her

[00:07:23] So

[00:07:23] OP did come in with her update

[00:07:25] And says so

[00:07:26] I'm aware this is kind of a delayed update

[00:07:28] But in all honesty after making the poster was fully prepared to leave it

[00:07:32] Move on and deal with it myself

[00:07:34] As well as some personal issues

[00:07:36] I just didn't really see this as a priority for me

[00:07:39] I just want to say I read lots of the comments

[00:07:42] Even a few of the Twitter ones

[00:07:44] And the first thing I want to get off my chest is that

[00:07:46] Allie fuck is sanguine

[00:07:48] Not sanguine

[00:07:49] OP originally thought it was like a name

[00:07:52] I feel like such a fucking idiot

[00:07:54] It made research so much easier

[00:07:56] I watched all of the Lord of the Rings

[00:07:58] But didn't learn anything about them

[00:08:00] My friend is part Welsh

[00:08:01] But he didn't know what I meant

[00:08:03] And how to drop it quickly to avoid embarrassment

[00:08:06] There was so many results on it online

[00:08:08] And it seemed pretty daunting

[00:08:10] So I didn't read much into it yet

[00:08:12] I'm waiting for when I'm in a good reading mood

[00:08:15] I'll just get straight to the point and say

[00:08:17] I don't know exactly what I would call the current status on my relationship with her

[00:08:21] But it's definitely ending

[00:08:23] I'm thankful people recognise my situation as potentially abusive

[00:08:27] It sounds weird but until it was pointed out

[00:08:30] It hadn't really clicked with me

[00:08:31] She has always been somewhat assertive before

[00:08:33] And she works in a demanding field

[00:08:35] And those what she wants

[00:08:37] Now I've been all too willing to go along with anything

[00:08:39] Because she always knew better

[00:08:42] For the first week after my post

[00:08:43] I skirted around the idea of saying anything to her

[00:08:46] Because she gets very upset easily

[00:08:48] And I didn't want to have a confrontation

[00:08:51] Most arguments we had seemed one sided

[00:08:53] And I would always compromise in the end

[00:08:56] Even doing stuff I wasn't comfortable with

[00:08:58] The vampire stuff isn't the first weird horror roleplay we've had

[00:09:02] I was happy to go along with the vamp stuff

[00:09:04] Because it required literally hoursless preparation

[00:09:06] Than some of the other stuff we did

[00:09:08] The silver lining was that I never had to do much

[00:09:12] She would do 95% of the prep

[00:09:14] She spent hours one time doing makeup

[00:09:16] And all I had to do was get a red balloon

[00:09:19] I think that level of dedication is something I really admire about her

[00:09:23] Things had calmed down for the first and second week

[00:09:26] Probably because my girlfriend's work had picked up

[00:09:28] And she mentioned some developments into memorising me

[00:09:32] I think to draw

[00:09:33] She's a really nifty artist

[00:09:34] And truth be told

[00:09:35] A nice distraction from the world of events

[00:09:38] I have even begun cooking recently as a hobby

[00:09:40] And so lent more into that

[00:09:42] Although I struggle with cooking with meat

[00:09:44] It makes me feel sick

[00:09:46] I've only really started eating it in the last few months

[00:09:48] As it made making dishes for both of us a lot easier

[00:09:52] I also reduced my smoking quite a bit

[00:09:54] As I feel like it was harming my judgement

[00:09:57] And I only really have a couple of beers a day at most now

[00:10:00] And I feel a lot more healthy

[00:10:02] After the ethos feeling myself in a much healthier mindset

[00:10:06] And so a couple of weeks ago at dinner

[00:10:07] I brought up the vampire stuff

[00:10:09] Although she took that to mean I wanted to progress it further

[00:10:13] I wish I could say I was able to summarise my feelings succinctly

[00:10:16] But as some reason

[00:10:17] As soon as I started saying

[00:10:19] I wasn't comfortable with the direction this was all taking

[00:10:22] I started hyperventilating

[00:10:24] And had what I think was a panic attack

[00:10:26] My girlfriend started crying

[00:10:28] She thought I was having a heart attack or something

[00:10:30] And her inhaler did fuck all as well

[00:10:33] After I'd calmed down

[00:10:34] I was able to get across to her what I was trying to say

[00:10:38] Her tit turn heated quite quickly

[00:10:40] She said I was trying to shame her

[00:10:42] All I was trying to say was that I didn't want to bleed

[00:10:45] It's not normal to go through this many plastic

[00:10:48] I'd aim that as a joke which is the go-to method to diffuse the situation

[00:10:52] But she did not consider it funny at all

[00:10:55] Which is stupid because I'm the one who was being bled

[00:10:58] We didn't really talk for a couple of days and tensions were high

[00:11:01] But we had a rational discussion a few days ago

[00:11:04] Where we came to the conclusion the relationship wasn't working

[00:11:07] Obviously we can't just up and leave right now

[00:11:09] So we're still together for the time being

[00:11:12] But once we can freely move about

[00:11:14] We can split up and move away from each other

[00:11:17] I think this is quite a healthy resolution

[00:11:19] I'm sorry if some of you expected something more horrifying in this update

[00:11:23] And I won't lie

[00:11:24] Some of the comments I read had me seriously worried for my life

[00:11:27] But I know her better than you would based on a single internet post

[00:11:31] And she is a good person

[00:11:33] And that was OP's last post on the matter

[00:11:36] And I hope that they did split up

[00:11:38] Because regardless of what OP says

[00:11:40] At the very end there saying that they know her better

[00:11:42] And she's a good person

[00:11:44] It certainly didn't feel like that

[00:11:46] At the very end of this post for me

[00:11:48] She saw that you was struggling with that conversation

[00:11:50] Was worried for you etc

[00:11:52] And when you did calm down

[00:11:53] And you was trying to express what you were saying

[00:11:56] It turned heated quite quickly

[00:11:58] And she said that you're trying to shame her

[00:12:00] So she was trying to switch the situation back around

[00:12:02] You rather than accept that

[00:12:04] You had boundaries like you did in the first post

[00:12:06] And she played down your concerns in that one as well

[00:12:09] The simple fact of the matter is

[00:12:11] Consent needs to go both ways with these things

[00:12:14] You're not shaming her

[00:12:15] Not wanting to take part in it

[00:12:17] You're not shaming her for saying that you don't want to bleed

[00:12:20] And I'm not trying to make light of this situation

[00:12:22] Because obviously what OP is going through

[00:12:24] It's pretty serious for them right

[00:12:26] I had to pause on the red balloon thing

[00:12:28] And it was thinking oh my word

[00:12:29] What she up to now

[00:12:30] And I have to admit

[00:12:32] It instantly made me think of Pennywise

[00:12:35] It made me think of the film It

[00:12:37] Single red balloon

[00:12:38] I think that would pop up in most people's heads

[00:12:40] Maybe that's just me

[00:12:41] Let me know your thoughts down in the comments below

[00:12:44] And what you think of this story

[00:12:45] Holy moly

[00:12:46] Wasn't expecting that one first thing in the morning

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[00:13:54] From minute ship 433-0

[00:13:56] From the Am I wrong subreddit?

[00:13:57] You says

[00:13:58] I didn't invite one of my best friends

[00:14:00] To my girlfriend's birthday

[00:14:01] And he's upset

[00:14:03] I'm 26 male

[00:14:05] My girlfriend 22 female is turned in 23 in March

[00:14:08] And I'm organising a surprise birthday dinner for her

[00:14:11] At a large restaurant with some of mine

[00:14:13] And her friends

[00:14:15] We've been dating since December 2020

[00:14:17] And I plan on proposing to her this year

[00:14:20] She likes most of my friends except for one of them

[00:14:24] One of my best friends 26 male

[00:14:26] Who I've known since 2009

[00:14:28] When we were 12 years old

[00:14:29] Spies as him

[00:14:31] She says he's rude and insufferable to be around

[00:14:34] Her friends also don't like him

[00:14:36] I don't know why but whenever we're all together

[00:14:39] Those two don't get along

[00:14:40] He's also more critical of her

[00:14:42] To me than any of my other friends

[00:14:45] To be fair

[00:14:46] He's like that towards everyone's girlfriend

[00:14:48] He prides himself on being a shit talker

[00:14:51] But the rest of us have learned to ignore him

[00:14:53] It's to the point where my girl explicitly tells me

[00:14:56] Do you want to go out with my friends and I if he's there

[00:14:59] I hate hate hate

[00:15:01] To use an office reference

[00:15:02] But it's almost comparable to how much Pam and Ryan

[00:15:05] Didn't like each other in the later seasons

[00:15:07] Except slightly worse

[00:15:09] So of course

[00:15:10] I'd be stupid to invite him to her birthday party right

[00:15:14] I thought that was a pretty reasonable decision

[00:15:16] I told her earlier this month

[00:15:18] I'd take her to a fancy and expensive

[00:15:20] Mediterranean restaurant

[00:15:21] She's always been wanting to go to for a birthday as a date

[00:15:24] What she doesn't know is I made their reservation for 20 people

[00:15:28] Six of my friends who she likes, 13 of hers and a sister

[00:15:32] They all know

[00:15:33] We have a group chat and we're keeping it a secret

[00:15:37] Today at work he messages me asking where his invite was

[00:15:41] Not even sure how he found out

[00:15:43] But obviously one of my friends must have let it slip

[00:15:46] Which doesn't make sense since we agreed he shouldn't be there

[00:15:50] I explained that she doesn't really like him

[00:15:52] And inviting him to her birthday would be disrespectful

[00:15:55] Adding in that if it were mine it'd be one of the first I'd invite

[00:15:59] He tells me how betrayed he felt

[00:16:01] That I left him out like that on such a big occasion

[00:16:04] And a few more blocks of text venting to me

[00:16:07] Never seen him that serious

[00:16:09] He's usually a goofball in our text combos

[00:16:12] I mean, I feel bad leaving him out

[00:16:14] But why would I invite someone my girlfriend actively dislikes to her birthday

[00:16:19] Am I wrong?

[00:16:21] Now the first line that popped into my head after I read this is you know

[00:16:25] That's just how I am

[00:16:27] You know you've got to excuse his shit

[00:16:28] Because that's just how he is excuse

[00:16:31] We've seen it time and time again

[00:16:32] And you know the girlfriend knows this

[00:16:35] All her friends don't want to be around him either

[00:16:37] And even yourself know this

[00:16:38] Because he prides himself on being a shit talker

[00:16:41] But it's all excuse because that's just how he is

[00:16:44] You know

[00:16:45] shove that noise

[00:16:47] In fact there's he needs to be told that he's making

[00:16:50] Whole bunch of people

[00:16:52] Uncomfortable

[00:16:53] And that's why he's not being invited to places

[00:16:56] And the fact that when he was told about this

[00:16:58] Instead of taking a step back

[00:17:00] Of course yeah you're gonna be shocked to be told

[00:17:02] That someone doesn't like you

[00:17:04] Of course but

[00:17:05] But to label yourself as a shit talker

[00:17:08] And then find out when someone doesn't like you

[00:17:09] That you shit

[00:17:10] That should seriously make you take a step back and think

[00:17:12] Shit

[00:17:13] Yeah I'm really messed up here

[00:17:15] Can I have the chance to apologize

[00:17:17] A bit of self-reflection of some sort

[00:17:19] But it wasn't

[00:17:20] He continued to

[00:17:22] Complain at how he feels betrayed

[00:17:24] And send you blocks of text venting to you

[00:17:27] Kind of says it all to me

[00:17:29] But relevant comments

[00:17:30] Crocodile Zebra Milk says

[00:17:31] So

[00:17:32] Your girlfriend sees your friend's behaviour as an issue

[00:17:34] And refuses to be around him

[00:17:36] Her friends see your friend's behaviour as an issue

[00:17:38] And refuse to be around him

[00:17:40] You and your friends admit

[00:17:41] You all see an issue

[00:17:42] And choose to ignore it

[00:17:44] It sounds like your best friend is the asshole wherever he goes

[00:17:47] And you and your friend group just enable his behaviour to the point

[00:17:50] Where he thinks it's okay to continue to act this way

[00:17:53] Hope he says

[00:17:54] When I say we ignore it

[00:17:55] I just mean we just stop taking a lot of what he says

[00:17:57] With more than a grain of salt

[00:17:59] We tend to shut the fuck up a lot at the time

[00:18:02] But if he doesn't listen then hey

[00:18:04] What can you do?

[00:18:05] He wasn't always like this

[00:18:06] Just happened in the past two years

[00:18:08] Not a bad person but can be annoying as fuck sometimes

[00:18:11] Which we also tell him to his face

[00:18:15] Local gazelle 538 says

[00:18:17] Tell him if he stops being an asshole and shit talking

[00:18:20] And he might get invited to things

[00:18:22] Tell him

[00:18:23] Oil friend group is over it

[00:18:24] And he needs to cut it out

[00:18:26] If something happened two years ago to change his personality

[00:18:28] Then suggests therapy

[00:18:30] Hope he says

[00:18:31] I think it was literally just spending time online 24-7

[00:18:34] During 2020

[00:18:36] And 2021

[00:18:37] And someone suggests to OP

[00:18:38] That his girlfriend is controlling him

[00:18:40] And not letting him have friends

[00:18:42] And hope he says she's not controlling at all

[00:18:44] Never told me I can't be friends with him

[00:18:46] But she hates his guts

[00:18:48] And personally

[00:18:48] Doesn't want to see his face

[00:18:51] So OP does come back in to update the post

[00:18:54] And says

[00:18:54] I work remote once a week

[00:18:55] And decided that today

[00:18:57] Because I didn't get much sleep last night

[00:18:59] And I'm

[00:19:00] Was dealing with this stressful situation

[00:19:03] I gave my friend the time and space that he needed

[00:19:05] Before giving him a call at 9am

[00:19:08] I spent about a full minute apologising for

[00:19:10] Going behind his back

[00:19:12] And making him feel left out of the whole situation

[00:19:14] Before I could continue he apologised to me for overreacting

[00:19:18] And feeling entitled

[00:19:20] After that I spent about five minutes telling him

[00:19:22] That the way he behaves in front of her

[00:19:24] Her friends and other people's girlfriends is unacceptable

[00:19:28] He needs to work on the way that he treats them

[00:19:30] And other people outside our friend group

[00:19:32] I told him that this is my future wife

[00:19:34] The future mother of my children

[00:19:36] She will be a part of my life

[00:19:38] And just as importantly

[00:19:39] His life as well if we are friends

[00:19:42] I'm not going to ignore any more disrespect towards my woman

[00:19:45] And if he keeps this up

[00:19:47] He will not be able to make it to our wedding

[00:19:50] I told him that he's important to me

[00:19:52] And I want him to be a part of our life

[00:19:53] But in order for that to happen

[00:19:55] Needs to find a way to fix his behaviour around our partners

[00:19:58] I told him he needs to apologise to her

[00:20:00] And since she is very forgiving and caring person

[00:20:03] She'd be more than willing to give him another chance

[00:20:06] If and only if

[00:20:07] He swears to never cross this boundary of shit stirring again

[00:20:11] There's a reason no friends don't like him and we

[00:20:13] His friend group can respect that decision

[00:20:16] I also told him that if he ever wants to sit down with me

[00:20:19] And talk about what's been causing him to act so childish since 2021

[00:20:23] And I'm here for him

[00:20:25] He gave me an equally long talk

[00:20:27] Apologising and telling me

[00:20:28] He didn't perceive his words to be more than mere banter

[00:20:32] Although they were very clearly more than that

[00:20:34] Love

[00:20:35] Told me

[00:20:36] He swore to keep my girl's name

[00:20:37] And have his mouth in any disrespectful way as well

[00:20:41] As of now we've agreed that he should meet my girlfriend and her sister

[00:20:44] 20 or 21 I forgot in person

[00:20:46] And apologise to both

[00:20:48] And she also really doesn't like him

[00:20:50] And they had a bit of an argument the one and only time they met

[00:20:53] He told me sort of likes her sister

[00:20:57] Which sort of made sense but I told him to forget that idea

[00:21:00] Since she already hates him

[00:21:02] And the father's tear ever get with her is forgiveness

[00:21:04] And tolerance at this point

[00:21:06] Anyway

[00:21:07] That's it

[00:21:08] It's not a boring but I'm glad we sorted it out

[00:21:10] He also accepted that he wouldn't be at her birthday

[00:21:14] Now

[00:21:15] I'm not sure how that's going to go in the future

[00:21:17] It sort of

[00:21:18] made me feel a bit uneasy

[00:21:19] The fact that you know

[00:21:21] The only time

[00:21:22] That that sister's met him

[00:21:24] They basically had a falling out

[00:21:26] And he's gonna meet her again

[00:21:28] And the first thing that pops into his head is like

[00:21:30] I sort of like her

[00:21:31] Maybe we can go out on a date

[00:21:33] Like dude

[00:21:34] She hates your guts man

[00:21:36] Own even go down that road

[00:21:38] But what do you guys make of this situation

[00:21:42] Couple of wild ones there today

[00:21:44] Let us know your thoughts down in the comments below

[00:21:47] And just a huge thank you for joining me today

[00:21:49] For getting involved in the stories

[00:21:50] Your love, your support, your time

[00:21:52] Always means the absolute world to me

[00:21:54] So thank you so much for being involved

[00:21:56] And hopefully

[00:21:57] I'll see you in the next one

[00:21:59] Take care

[00:22:00] And much love

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