Friend Gifted Me A DNA Test And I Discovered My Dad Isn't My Bio Dad r/Relationships

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[00:00:25] In four weeks, the typical Noom user can expect to lose one to two pounds per week. your stereotypical old couple just as in love as the day they married. For Thanksgiving, one of my friends bought DNA kits for a whole friend group. He super into genealogy and family trees, and wanted to share his hobby I guess. I just got my results back and my biological father was found. Except he's not the man who I grew up calling my dad.

[00:01:42] He's some rando from New Jersey.

[00:01:44] He hasn't reached out to me and I have figured Reddit might be a good place. I'm going to think about what I should do for a while before taking any drastic action. I have the power to destroy my parents' lives and I don't take that lightly. As always we have some relevant comments with some answers from the OP so boardpanda55 says

[00:03:01] it kind of depends on the couple, age, religion etc.

[00:03:05] You literally have no idea what happened around your conception unless they told you something. first, your dad may know that they're not his biologically. Opie says I'm 27 and you're right that it doesn't matter. I know people think I'm acting immature by jumping to cheating but my gut is telling me that it can't be something as simple as a sperm donor or adoption. We're family, we tell each other everything, me and my dad especially and I can't believe

[00:04:22] that they'll hide something as important asalogy kit when I was in my 30s. They planned to never tell me. Your mum may not have cheated at all.

[00:05:40] Which do Hickey reply saying this is exactly what I think happened with OP's parents.

[00:05:45] Especially since the identical twin is infertile and a piece of shit. My point is that lying is considered the greatest sin in my dad's eyes.

[00:07:00] He always told me that a man is only good as his word.

[00:07:03] The thought of my dad keeping something, that he's completely unable to have biological kids. Apparently my parents didn't have the cash to pay for a sperm donor or an adoption, but they wanted a kid more than anything in the world. What they agreed to do was for my mum to drive to the next state over and have unprotected

[00:08:21] intercourse with men in the hopes she'd get pregnant.

[00:08:25] Apparently she tried to choose guys who had similar features to my dad, so that the extended so get your I told you so's out of the way now lol. What? It's one of those stories where I'm just like I don't know. I know honesty is the best policy but I'm just trying to imagine that situation where Obi confronted his mum and his mum just sort of chuckled and then went and told the story how she

[00:09:42] was going to other states and you know basically basically sleeping with other guys in the hopes And let's move on to another story. feel free to do so timestamps are always down in the description and along the timeline below and it says I'm either arse or here for telling a friend what a tattoo really says. Throwaway friend group knows my main account. I37male went out to a New Year's Eve Chinese guy in the shop and demanded he be the one to do her ink. I asked Julie and Andy if Julie did anything that could have pissed the tattoo artist off. She denied it but Andy confessed she was super pushy about it and kept saying

[00:13:40] she wanted him to do it over any other artist says. And we're going to start in the comments with Dangerous Ad 1986 who says I'm not the asshole, she pushed for a person she assumed was Chinese to do a Chinese tattoo.

[00:15:01] Her character was revealed to everyone how she treats others.

[00:15:04] Now she has a messed up tattoo that she didn't even know what it said.

[00:15:07] You did her a kid. She was a really fantastic singer now and got a standing ovation at an open mic night

[00:16:20] when I went to see her sing.

[00:16:21] At the time she was in middle school and talk to Andy and Julie and even offered to meet them at the tattoo shop. Who went Friday night walked in I saw the tattoo artist in question.

[00:17:41] Funny thing is most Asians can tell I'm half Asian by looking.

[00:17:45] Oh, he saw and he went you told her what it said. Yes. ended healing before a cover job. Chek accepted the offer for a free cover and paperwork was signed and such. And one of the top comments on the whole post was from what is in a name 19 who says the lack of common sense in the comment section doesn't even surprise me. A smart thing to do would be to refuse her service and ban her. If you want to go a step further contact all the

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