Wife's Colleague Anonymously Told Me She Was Holding Hands With Another Guy r/Relationships

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[00:00:24] save 50% on the Sleep Number Limited Edition smart bed, have been together for 5 years and got married last year. We definitely have our ups and downs, but we're generally happy." On Friday she went out with people from her work for Christmas drinks and arrived home around midnight absolutely hammered. She just said she had a good time and went straight to bed. Yesterday I got a message on Instagram from an anonymous account claiming to be

[00:01:43] one of her colleagues saying she'd been flirting all night and she admitted that she was talking mostly to him all night but that's just because he's the only person in her office that she has anything in common with and that they're just friends and it wasn't flirting. She mentioned this guy to me before and said how much they have in common. I asked if they were holding hands and she said she doesn't remember but she doesn't think so. She claims to know who sent me the message and

[00:03:04] says it's a woman in the office who hates her although she doesn't know examination. Unless she has a second cell phone, chances are that she isn't having an affair. OP should check her car for it. If there is no affair, she should at least be attracted to him to get to a point where she's holding hands with him. That combined with the fact that she isn't going into crisis mode but is generally just pissed at her colleague points to the fact that she is just a shitty partner.

[00:04:22] Not necessarily a cheater,

[00:04:23] but a very shitty partner nevertheless.

[00:04:26] I don't know, for me, this is an end-all. Her reaction of not even considering this can harm you is telling. And a final comment from New Arrival who says, so she probably wasn't blackout drunk. She most likely just saw an opportunity and left the party to spend time with the co-worker she's been talking about and had her eye on for some time.

[00:05:42] Adults don't leave a party for four hours, just her and Tom. She said that according to Tom they walked past this bar with an amazing live band playing so they stopped in for a drink. Her only regret was

[00:07:01] doing too many shots too early and getting shitfaced. The next day she went shopping Friday so she had time to get ready. He looked amazing and I really didn't want her to go but I felt like I couldn't say anything. I got an Instagram message about midnight saying Sam and Tom hadn't interacted at the party but that people from the office had decided to leave and go to a different bar. They all left just before 11 and were in the new bar by 10 past.

[00:08:21] Sam arrived home about 2am, not quite as drunk as last time and went straight to sleep.

[00:09:24] came home yesterday morning. I asked where she had been and she just said she couldn't do this anymore and wants a divorce. She went to start packing some clothes while

[00:09:29] I tried to get her to talk to me. I asked if she was leaving me for Tom. She once again

[00:09:34] denied anything inappropriate had happened between them but said my jealousy was the

[00:09:38] final straw. It's clear I don't trust her. On Tuesday night, I received an Instagram message from Helen saying that Sam and Tom had arrived at work together in Tom's car.

[00:11:02] I didn't bother replying.

[00:11:04] On Wednesday night, she sent another message saying Sam was poisoning the office against There's a lot of male friends, but she felt like she couldn't hang out with them because I'd get jealous. I pointed out that I've never told her not to hang out with anyone, but she said I'd be in a mood whenever she'd hang out with a guy friend. She feels like we only got married to try and fix a relationship that was already broken. Our conversations had devolved into small talk and we've drifted apart.

[00:12:21] I said I'd heard that she into her and Tom around town. Luckily we rent. This will probably be my last update unless something miraculous happens so thanks for reading. I'm not buying the whole didn't cheat thing and she only got with Tom after they had broken up etc etc it just doesn't feel like that to me. The whole you know being at his

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