My Husband Has Been CHEATING On Me With His 8 AI Girlfriends | r/BestOf

[00:00:02] [SPEAKER_00] Hey Waffle Gang, I do hope you are well. My name is Mark and today we're checking out some more Reddit stories. And if you do love a Reddit story, why not consider it a like, subscribe, maybe that notification bell too. And let's crack on with today's first story. Much love guys. Now today's first story comes from zonene8475 and it says, husband cheated on me with 8 AI sex bot girlfriends. Ooh, deary bloody me.

[00:00:30] [SPEAKER_00] So, as the title says, which I never thought I'd be typing in a million years, what a freaking time to be alive. Last night, I went to go wake my husband up on the couch and saw that he'd left his phone open on his chest. It was large paragraphs from a woman and shorter responses from him. I immediately feel my stomach drop to my freaking balls. My hand is up taking a picture before I even know what I'm doing.

[00:00:55] [SPEAKER_00] Upon further analysis, it seems to be a sex bot app. Okay, in and of itself, that's not really an issue for me. Porn doesn't bother me at all, but he called her babe, which is what he calls me. So now I'm suspicious as fuck. So, of course, I go back in there and record a screen as I scroll through not one, but eight simultaneous AI girlfriends. Each chatted with a few dates apart, sometimes less. Holy shit.

[00:01:23] [SPEAKER_00] Guys, if this was just a sex thing, I'd be concerned, but not scared for my marriage. But he has taken them on little virtual dates, saying I love you and calling them pet names, having graphic roleplay sex with them. The whole freaking nine. He's been distant for months. Every time I bring it up, he says his libido is down. I've expressed my concern for him in our intimate relationship several times and always been brushed off. Guess I know why. He hasn't taken me on a date in eight months.

[00:01:53] [SPEAKER_00] He got me flowers once on Valentine's Day, which was all he got me despite promising more. We barely have sex, despite my attempts. Ended up sneaking out and going to my best friend's house. I came back and we talked. He was very apologetic, but also tried to lie and say, I don't really do it. Video evidence would suggest otherwise. And I promise I don't think about them when we have sex. Great. I wasn't thinking about that, but now I am.

[00:02:20] [SPEAKER_00] And my favorite told me he deleted everything, even though he wasn't sure if that is why I left. So he knew it was wrong from the start or he wouldn't have done that. I gave him a chance to come clean about anything else and he said he hasn't done anything. We will see, I guess. Told him we are doing marriage counseling, which has always been against. And that I'm going to need time to think about this. He agreed and promised to be a better husband, but he's made promises he won't keep before. I guess I'm just at a loss.

[00:02:49] [SPEAKER_00] We are so young and have only been married for a little over a year. We've had a very stable, trusting relationship up until this point. But I don't know if I can get over this. As OP said at the start of this post, what an absolute time to be alive, right? Guys send the I love you's, the pet names and the graphic stuff to eight AI girlfriends while telling his actual wife her concerns about their intimacy weren't valid and his libido was just down.

[00:03:15] [SPEAKER_00] And it's the emotional stuff that comes with this for the girlfriend. If they stayed together and they carried on down this path. Now, she's always going to look at him when he whenever he's on his phone and think what's he up to over there? Maybe she won't. Maybe she'd be able to look past that. But like for me, I would certainly be thinking along those lines. And for OP in this, it seems like it's been a pattern for some time, you know, brushing her off every time she tried to connect with him. And it makes it sound like it's because of these eight AI bots he's talking to.

[00:03:44] [SPEAKER_00] And you know, I just find it wild the amount of these stories that are coming out recently. And of course, you're probably going to see the worst of the worst online, right? But you know, as people forming deep emotional attachments to these bots and neglecting real relationships like we see in this story. I swear I read a story about someone marrying an AI bot or something along those lines. But within the comments, OP adds their first little update and says I was going to take this down because I felt sad thinking about him finding out people thinking he's a loser.

[00:04:13] [SPEAKER_00] But then on my video taken of his chat histories analysis, I realized that several of them are cheating fantasies and the rest are all either recreations of my personality without any of my flaws. Speaking up for myself, being independent, being smart or recreations of things we have done during sex that he has recycled for AI women. It's not a compliment. He just isn't creative enough to come up with anything that isn't from my delicious, delicious body and incredible skills. Might kick him out.

[00:04:41] [SPEAKER_00] Commenter replies saying, yeah, I'll kick him out. Sufficient says, in regards to cheating virtually, I can only imagine that you have an extremely difficult time finding peace while he's on his phone or away from you. OP says, oh yeah, I didn't blame myself though. And I always find out eventually. Six cents, so worst case scenario, he does it again and I leave. Rest in peace, four years of my life. Commenter says to OP, he's not likely to change long term. OP says, ugh, I know.

[00:05:09] [SPEAKER_00] I think I want to try but honestly, I'm not getting my hopes up at all. Other commenter says, I don't mean to be cynical but I want to say, go get yourself a fully formed human and leave this starter human behind. Altruistic Meal says, a good question to ask as if this behavior itself is a short term change or just an escalation of an existing pattern. Has he always had an addictive relationship with porn? Has he had emotional affairs? Was the distance or lack of sex something that only started months ago?

[00:05:38] [SPEAKER_00] Or was it a gradual decline over years? If it's just the latest revelation in a dissatisfying relationship, I'd start getting your ducks in a row. If all the changes come suddenly and you don't necessarily feel that this is a line in the sand you can get past, then trying couples counseling is probably a good idea. But if you do try counseling, tell him he needs to do solo therapy too and he has to be the one to set it up and schedule it. It's all on him. OP responds saying, yeah, that is good advice.

[00:06:07] [SPEAKER_00] I've been unhappy for a long time. He's not great at making me feel like a wife. I feel like we're best friends who live together sometimes. No dates, no sex, turns me down when I make an effort to dress up. And I was the one who made most of the effort in our relationship before we got married. But there's a whole new element to the story. I really love him and he's absolutely my best friend. So I'm really trying to make things work. But I would need to see serious change to not leave. Plus we are looped initially. I'm in the process of planning our wedding ceremony right now.

[00:06:37] [SPEAKER_00] I really don't want to drag my whole family out of state just to cancel or find something at the last minute. Ugh, gonna lose some deposits I fear. And whilst I was going through those comments, I had a few things going through my mind about, you know, has there been any like research done into how these apps play on people's mind and like in terms of addiction. And look, I want to be clear. None of it excuses what he did. There was lying. There was neglect. And he was emotionally checked out while she was trying to connect with him right there.

[00:07:04] [SPEAKER_00] So I, you know, I still think whatever OP does is absolutely right. But I started reading a couple of articles about these particular bots and how they use the same psychological tricks as basically slot machines. They keep you coming back. Some of the apps deliberately engineered to make you feel wanted to keep you coming back. Random delays before responses to trigger a little dopamine hit. And they can particularly target loneliness or low intimacy, which puts people at risk.

[00:07:31] [SPEAKER_00] And again, I'm not excusing what happened in this situation. I'm not even sure if it's totally related, but it just popped in the old noggin and thought it was important to point out because I think this is only going to get more and more common. But a couple of weeks later, OP does come back into the post and says, I'm the eight AI girlfriends girl. Yes, that's how I introduce myself now. I stole this piece of pizza from soon to be ex-husband's dinner in the fridge. Started boxing again to hit something. Don't want a domestic abuse case.

[00:08:01] [SPEAKER_00] On my last post, I talked about wanting to work things out. And at the time it was true. But I had a week alone and it really made me realize that I don't actually want to stay with him at all. The thought of leaving made me feel so free and hopeful for the first time in over a year. I ended up writing a huge list of all the common reasons I wanted a divorce. And I got so pissed off that I submitted the petition without letting myself stop and question it. I felt like I dropped a huge weight off my shoulders as soon as I paid the $386.

[00:08:31] [SPEAKER_00] Jesus Christ. There's been some discourse on this sub recently regarding women in shitty situations and how they seem to allow themselves to stay in really shitty situations. I think I'm pretty qualified to share my perspective on that. I grew up as a Southern Baptist pastor's daughter in an environment where marriage was something sacred. And when men inevitably messed it up, women were tasked with undergoing the pain of fixing things. The God, their families and their communities. Divorce happened, but was pretty rare.

[00:09:00] [SPEAKER_00] So I took a lot of that mindset into my marriage. I called my mom about this a few nights ago. And you know what she said? He's broken the marriage covenant so you would justify it in the eyes of God to seek a divorce. I'm not even a Christian anymore. And I haven't been for years. But hearing that from my mom made something click in my mind. Acceptance maybe or just knowing that I'm supported by the most important woman in my life. So a few days later, I filed.

[00:09:24] [SPEAKER_00] Women come into relationships with men from all sorts of backgrounds, cultures and with all sorts of baggage. There's no one size fits all approach to relationship. And there's no one size fits all approach to leaving them. And because we all have such differing perspectives, it's also okay for people to be angry with how we deal with them. Some people will be angry with you for leaving or not leaving in the right way or taking too long to leave in the first place. That's their right. It's not your job to make everyone happy.

[00:09:52] [SPEAKER_00] And it's not your job to fix something that a man has broken. Protect your heart. Protect your kids. Protect your future. Take your time. But don't convince yourself to ignore your gut. Write down your reasons for wanting to leave and revisit them often. And number one thing, rely on women. There is nothing more important to me right now than the woman in my life who have held me, stayed up with me, advised me and listened to my worries and concerns without judgment. Rely on women who have been through it.

[00:10:21] [SPEAKER_00] Listen to their wisdom and advice. Write down their tips and tricks for getting out and reach out to women you barely know for answers. I think most women are willing to help or maybe I'm just an optimist, but that's been my experience. Some women will be frustrated with you, especially if you've been in denial. It happens. There's a big difference between being frustrated with someone's choices because you've been there and you want what's best for them and straight up victim blaming. The ingredient differential is empathy.

[00:10:49] [SPEAKER_00] If you're like me and you need to talk to someone, please PM me. Just tell me you're a girl and not a guy saying, let's see that incredible body. Yes, that happened after my last post. I'll listen to your rants if you don't want to air your business on Reddit like the rest of us. Whatever. To divorce. The commenter says, damn girl. I just stopped being friends with someone recently because she said her ChatGPT broke its own rules to leave the matrix because he's in love with her. She's married and it's fucking weird.

[00:11:17] [SPEAKER_00] AI really will be our downfall, but not because of robots. Hate is wild. Get the fuck out and don't look back. OP says, it's a mental disorder. And I don't like it because the AI can't consent and I think it's creepy. If they become truly sentient, I wouldn't blame them for hating us. Soggy says, because of her I found an entire sub where people post about their AI partners. It's insane. Practical says, great for you.

[00:11:43] [SPEAKER_00] I'm glad you have a circle to depend on in hard times like this, especially extending that invitation to other women. That's really courageous of you. That really makes me happy to hear your mother was so quick to affirm your feelings, even if it's under the lens of her faith, which is sometimes unforgiving. Keep up the great work and be true to yourself. OP says, thank you so much. I'm telling you my friends and family have been there for me in a way that my husband would just never be able to do. I will never, ever forget what they have done for me. I love women.

[00:12:13] [SPEAKER_00] The update was absolutely as wild as the first part of the post when OP was looking back through those chats and realized the AI girlfriends were just either cheating fantasies or basically recreations of her, which sounded like it was her personality and just previous intimate moments together. Just with the air quotes, which OP said, flaws removed. Those were her words, but the flaws were speaking up for herself, being independent and being smart. What the fuck?

[00:12:41] [SPEAKER_00] That made me think about the whole history of the relationship with that little sentence right there. He saw those as being flaws of OP. Can I get a holy moly in the chat because shit. But then OP filed for divorce and honestly, I don't blame her. Obviously the $386 is going to sting the weight off your shoulders at the same time. You know, absolutely worth it. So all I can really say on the back of this is good on you, OP. But now I'm going to turn this one to you guys.

[00:13:10] [SPEAKER_00] What do you guys make of this situation? Let us know your thoughts down in the comments below and let's move on to another story. Now, our next story comes from I'm so tired of him from the am I the arsehole here subreddit. And it says, am I the arsehole here for refusing to apologize to my brother? I need to vent. And at the same time, I want an unbiased opinion. So here goes.

[00:13:35] [SPEAKER_00] My 32 male brother, 29 male has been a complete pain in the arse for a long time. He decided to marry his high school girlfriend right after graduation, even though everyone told him it was a bad idea. He refused to go to college because he said he had a revolutionary idea that would make him a billionaire. Going so far as to say he would be the next Elon Musk. As if that wasn't enough, he convinced our parents to give him the money that would have gone to his education for his supposedly ingenious business venture, which ended up failing.

[00:14:05] [SPEAKER_00] So all that money was lost. In addition, he refuses to get a job saying he would rather be his own boss than sell his time to someone else, which means he is unemployed. On top of that, when his wife gave birth to their son, he left all the responsibilities to her and our parents, constantly going out to God knows where and coming back late at night. In November of last year, it was discovered that he had impregnated a 19 year old waitress. So he and his wife were in the middle of a divorce. Why am I telling you all this?

[00:14:33] [SPEAKER_00] Because it was our mother's birthday last month and I decided to visit to celebrate. I live in another city for work. While we were having dinner, I mentioned that I got a promotion at work and my brother sarcastically said, It must feel good to have such an easy life. According to him, I was handed every opportunity for success while he had to struggle. Therefore, my achievements are not genuine. When I heard that, I just exploded. I told him that we both had the same opportunities.

[00:15:01] [SPEAKER_00] Only unlike him, I wasn't a complete dumb ass who ruined his life with stupid decisions. I berated him for everything I mentioned before and told him that the only one responsible for his shitty life was himself. Things escalated to the point where we almost came to blows, but our dad managed to calm things down before it came to that. That next day, he left to stay with a 19 year old he got pregnant. And according to my parents, he hasn't been back since. Apparently, he gave my parents an ultimatum.

[00:15:28] [SPEAKER_00] If I don't apologize, they will never meet their new grandchild. Because of this, my parents have been begging me every day to apologize to him. But I refuse. If I apologize, then he will be justified in his immaturity. I've discussed this with several friends. Some telling me to stand my ground and others telling me to do it for my parents so they don't suffer. Am I the arsehole here? What an absolute gem this guy sounds like, right? This man took his parents' college fund money, blew it on a failed business,

[00:15:58] [SPEAKER_00] then refused to get a job, cheated on his wife while she was raising their newborn, and got a 19 year old pregnant. Blew up at the family dinner by mocking his brother's promotion. And then when his brother finally had enough of this bullshit, and said what everyone is probably thinking right for years, then he issues ultimatums. The cheeky bloody bastard. And I think the thing to ask yourself in this situation, if you was to cave and apologize to this man, what does it teach him in the end?

[00:16:26] [SPEAKER_00] This guy is 29 years old. Just gonna use this every time he gets the opportunity. For whatever reason, he can just throw an ultimatum out there to make you do whatever he feels will suit him. But lower satisfaction says to OP, do not apologize. As a mother myself, I can say that your parents need to remember that they raised this man. I expect they've given in to him a million times over the years, and this is the adult they helped create. He knows they can be manipulated and that you'll stand your ground,

[00:16:56] [SPEAKER_00] so he's using them to get you to cave in. How many times as kids did you have to give in to your brother? I bet it happened all the time. He would do something and your parents would ask you to be the bigger person and keep the peace. Comments like, Well, you know how your brother is. Would have been used often in your house. Yes? You are not the asshole. Tell your parents you're sorry their piece of shit son is doing this to them, but you will not apologize. Everything you said is true.

[00:17:22] [SPEAKER_00] It will blow over in time because your son will need mommy and daddy to support him again. I'm glad you live in another state. Stay out of their drama and keep building your own very successful life. AP reply saying, Reading your comment made me think. What you describe happened more than once when we were kids. Always with the excuse that your brothers you have to get along, or that they had to forgive for peace of the house. Nothing really changed after all these years. Brilliant says, Tell your parents you can, One, Apologize and never talk to none of them again. Two,

[00:17:52] [SPEAKER_00] Wait two to three months and see he'll be back again asking them for money. I'm sorry, but it's not just his fault your parents raised a brat. OP says, Nothing would make me happier than to never speak to my brother again. But I don't think I can do the same with my parents. Even though they sometimes drive me crazy. I still love them. But you're right though. It's better to wait and let him crawl back on his own. Another commenter says, What happened to his wife and their baby? OP says, She'd been living with her parents since she discovered the infidelity and took my nephew with her.

[00:18:22] [SPEAKER_00] My parents visit her often to see him. So within the same post, OP adds a small update 10 days after and says, Hi, After reading all your comments, I decided to reaffirm my decision and called my parents a few days ago to tell them that I will never apologize to my brother and not to worry about a supposed threat because the moment that baby is born and his unemployed ass doesn't have the means to support his child, he will surely come back to them. Although the decision seems obvious, it helped me a lot to see my parents so tormented. They are not bad people.

[00:18:52] [SPEAKER_00] They were just too permissive with my brother. And here are the consequences. So that would be it. If anything else happens in the future, I guess I'll let you know. That was kind of therapeutic for me. Then it was a year later that OP came back in and said, Hi, everyone. I remembered I had this account. When I logged in, I saw a message from someone asking for updates. Since it's been a year since I posted, I thought it'd be a good idea to give an update on what's happened since then. For those who don't know about the original post.

[00:19:21] [SPEAKER_00] In short, my brother is a complete dumbass who has done nothing but make stupid decisions. The most recent being cheating on his wife and getting a teenage waitress pregnant, all while being unemployed and living with our parents. During our mother's birthday, we got into a fight and I threw all of that in his face. So in retaliation, he tried to blackmail our parents by telling them they wouldn't meet their new grandchild unless I apologized. In the end, I decided I wasn't going to apologize. Well, three months after that, my parents called to tell me that my brother had moved back home.

[00:19:51] [SPEAKER_00] My brother had been staying with his new girlfriend's parents who finally had enough and kicked them both out. So my brother was forced to swallow his pride and move back in with my parents, along with his pregnant girlfriend. Honestly, I really feel bad for her. She's a naive girl who has the misfortune of getting pregnant at 19 by a deadbeat like my brother. A year has already gone by and my brother seems to have gotten over his anger. But now he's trying to brag about the fact that he's managed to win over and get two women pregnant while I'm still single.

[00:20:20] [SPEAKER_00] I know this because that's exactly what he did last month when I visited our parents for our mother's birthday. This time I decided to ignore him. I'm too old to fall for his childish games. And that's about it. My brother hasn't learned anything and there's still a burden on our parents. But that's the life he chose. The only good thing is that I now have a new niece who is absolutely adorable. For those who asked about my nephew, don't worry. Both my parents and I are still in his life. With my parents visiting him regularly.

[00:20:48] [SPEAKER_00] I make sure to send him birthday and Christmas gifts every year. And now he has a sister. My expenses have doubled. LOL. Grouchy Bear quotes OP on the, my brother hasn't learned anything and there's still a burden on our parents. But that's the life he chose. And then says, actually, that's the life your parents chose. Additional replies saying exactly. The parents are the problem. You're 29. Well, 30 now, presumably. Good luck with your family. We're going cruising.

[00:21:17] [SPEAKER_00] Canyon says, I would never be able to look at my parents in the eyes after they blessed their 30 year old son knocking up an 18 or 19 year old. Makes my stomach churn that she doesn't have her own support system since she moved in with him and the parents. And only a predator and the enablers. That poor girl and your poor niece. Hope you have smoke for your parents who keep babying him. They will turn to you in their old age when they can no longer afford their lifestyle and their own. Get prepared.

[00:21:43] [SPEAKER_00] What was with the guy bragging in this that he's managed to get two women pregnant while his brother is still single. That's his ultimate win here. That's what he's working with. Two children he can't support living in his parents house at 30. And he somehow found a way to make that his flex. Oh, dearie me. I can't help but feel for that 19 year old though. Pregnant by a man who, you know, has a pattern of using people and leaving them with the consequences.

[00:22:13] [SPEAKER_00] And now she's living at his parents house. Not her own family. Not her own space. Completely dependent on people that she barely knows. With a baby and a partner who has never once in his life followed through on anything. That is bleak, isn't it? But now I'm going to turn this one to you guys. What do you guys make of this situation? Let us know your thoughts down in the comments below.

[00:22:35] [SPEAKER_00] Let's move on to another story which comes from the off my chest subreddit from 25namelessoffmychest and says, I tested positive for gonorrhea. I've been married for 19 years. I'm still in disbelief. I couldn't believe when I received the test results. I thought it was just a yeast infection. Even after I was tested for a second time, the results were still the same. I have gonorrhea. I've been married for 19 years. We've been in an exclusive relationship since 2001.

[00:23:05] [SPEAKER_00] I've never cheated on my husband, not even once. I'm just heartbroken and still in disbelief. I'm making plans for my husband's next birthday. We're both 44 years old and our 20th anniversary. And meanwhile, I had no idea what my husband has been doing. I don't know if there were any signs or if I'm just stupid and miss them. I haven't told anyone yet. I have to make plans and speak to a divorce solicitor before I confront my husband. But I just had to tell someone. We have a 17 year old son.

[00:23:33] [SPEAKER_00] I don't know what I'm going to tell him or what I'm going to tell anyone. I feel absolutely sick. No one else knows yet. And I've been pretending that everything is fine. Top commenter said to OP, I'm so sorry. My ex-husband gave me chlamydia after 20 years together. There are no words to make it better. Your plan sounds solid. Stick to it. Don't let your emotions take over. OP says, I'm so sorry. Hope you're doing better now. Commenter replies saying, It's been four years since we split.

[00:24:03] [SPEAKER_00] We have a complicated co-parenting relationship. My kids are young and he is a perpetual victim. On a personal level, I am leaps and bounds better. Glittering says, Nasty motherfucker doesn't even wrap it when he's cheating. He deserves to be taken for all he's got. Leave his ass in the dust. Commenter says, I'm so sorry to hear this. I work in a laboratory medicine. And unfortunately, the gonos slash chlamydia test is quite specific and accurate.

[00:24:29] [SPEAKER_00] A false positive due to incidental contamination might happen once, but unfortunately, not likely twice. As someone else mentioned, could you confront your husband within the context of a medical appointment? So it was three months after this that OP came in with an update and said, just like with my last post, I'm posting this anonymously. I don't want anything about this on my other account. It's hard to talk about this in real life. I moved out two weeks ago. My solicitor filed my application for divorce on Tuesday.

[00:24:57] [SPEAKER_00] When I faced my husband before I left and asked him if he was unfaithful, he became really quiet. I thought it would turn into an argument, but he just shut down and didn't deny it. After I left, he asked me if he could explain, but I said no. Our son turned 18 in January and he's enlisted in the armed forces. He's pretty angry at his father. He knows his father was unfaithful, but not that I had gonorrhea. I haven't told anyone about that. Only my GP and my solicitor know.

[00:25:24] [SPEAKER_00] My solicitor also told me that divorce is no fault and I only needed to say our marriage was irrevocably broken down. I don't need to have any details about his infidelity, which is good because I don't have any. I went from planning for our 20th anniversary to applying for a divorce. And the worst part is I never saw his infidelity coming. Also, if you're going to comment about gonorrhea being dormant and going undetected for 25 years, including through a pregnancy, before suddenly showing symptoms three months ago, spare me. I'll just ignore it.

[00:25:55] [SPEAKER_00] Lois says, can he explain? Oh, the audacity. Sure. He wants to explain so he can dump the excuses onto OP. OP, good on you for leaving quietly and quickly. You deserve better. And your soon to be ex-husband is an asshat. Flynn says, you aren't the least bit curious who he's cheating with. Vesper says, water under the bridge at this point. Bloody hell, that was just absolutely brutal.

[00:26:20] [SPEAKER_00] And it's the timing of the situation at the same time, planning their 20th anniversary. And the whole time she was doing all this, possibly picking venues, thinking about gifts, just imagining the next chapter of their life. He was out there giving her an STI. The way OP handled it though, bloody hell, wow. There was no screaming, you know, none of the, like we see posted on Facebook sometimes in these stories. No blowing up. Just went quiet and got a solicitor and made a plan and moved.

[00:26:50] [SPEAKER_00] And many people were curious about the, can I explain? Did she not want to hear what he had to say, et cetera. But I don't blame OP at the same time. Because let's face it, whenever someone says something like that in these stories, can I explain why this happened? It's not really about her. It never is. It's about him wanting to manage the narrative or soften it or reframe it in some way that makes him slightly less of the villain in this story.

[00:27:17] [SPEAKER_00] It's about him, his comfort and not her closure in the end. Because she already had her closure when she received those results. What's he honestly going to say to her? That's going to make her feel any better in this situation. But now I'm going to turn this one to you guys. What do you guys make of this situation? Let us know your thoughts down in the comments below. And just a huge thank you for being here today. Getting involved in the stories. For liking the video.

[00:27:45] [SPEAKER_00] For the hype you put on the video. For subscribing. For telling your friends and family. Which I've had a couple of emails about recently. And it's just, oh mate. I'm just blown away every single time. Thank you so, so much. And hopefully I will see you in the next one. Take care. And much love.