My Family Wants Me To Break Up With My GF For How She Reacted To A Prank r/Relationships

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[00:00:20] Much love guys, now today's first story comes from a throwaway account. me for simping and joke about her sleep disorder. He ends always enjoyed a good prank, either pranking or being pranked. He loved to laugh and I genuinely believe that when he goes to prank people, he means in a way to share the laughter. When he's tried to pull little pranks on Lola though, he does things that he figured out triggers her disorder.

[00:01:41] Like making sudden loud sounds, jumping out to scare her and one time I caught him before

[00:01:46] he was going to do in the time it took us to react. He started bawling,

[00:03:02] telling me that she was insane and abusive, that he only wanted to make sure she wasn't going to told me from her side what happened. Ian and my mum are trying to convince me to break up with her and chastising me for not helping or standing up with my brother when he was being assaulted and demanding an apology for not playing my part as an older brother. Ian has faced time to fewer other family members and now my aunt who paid for both our colleges

[00:04:20] and the house my mum and brother live in and help disorder. And you know, without anything else in this her that I made it to graduation, let alone college. I joked that I wanted to be like her when I grew up, and now to know that the same people

[00:07:03] that I own my very life now to are upset sounded quiet, not like her usual bubbly self, and she didn't say much other than to ask if I was okay and if we could talk tomorrow. I wanted nothing more than to keep talking to her. I apologized over and over, but she thanked me

[00:08:21] for apologizing and kept changing the subject to where I wanted to meet her tomorrow. We decided actual update, the bookish foodie says you don't actually need any advice because if Lola has even an ounce of sense, he's your ex. Since this seems to have escaped your notice, your brother is either the biggest asshole or in need of a good diagnosis, or both. For which Lola all the best in life, may the idiots be far from her and may she never

[00:09:40] have a bad hair day.

[00:09:43] Don't 1.39 says you do realise that your brother knew full well the extent of her sleep impediment.

[00:10:43] A man with a mask approaching you in your sleep is a fucking threat. A project manager immediately fired him and no one even considered for a second that I

[00:10:48] might be in the wrong because it's common sense that not men is a sleeping woman.

[00:10:52] If you decide to do it anyway then the consequences are completely on you.

[00:10:56] In the words of the project manager, I'd have been well within my rights to do a hell

[00:11:00] of a lot more than breakers knows.

[00:11:02] Being a woman and waking up to a masked man is Legacy who says, It's very strange that your brother will immediately turn the whole party against her, a bit of apologizing for scaring her and violating her boundaries. It's even stranger that he immediately started telling your family. This is hideously manipulative and abusive behaviour. As a matter of fact, your brother seems to have been escalating this manipulation and

[00:12:22] abuse for months, with little to no consequences can learn from this shitstorm. Thank you. Everyone else has helped me understand that just because family has done a lot for you, it does not mean you're indebted to them and can't have an opinion or life of my own. Thank you. Everyone else reached out to me telling me that I'm such an idiot. I suck as a boyfriend. I hope Lola leaves me.

[00:13:40] I wish she'd beat both of us up.

[00:13:42] Thank you.

[00:13:43] This won't be a full update.

[00:13:44] There's a lot that's happened yesterday and frankly, What is this? I explained Reddit and that I posted for help.

[00:15:01] Inman stopped comforting mum and pushed past me to get to the computer.

[00:15:05] Ask him what right I had sharing family business on the screen. It felt like both a minute and forever that we were yelling in each other's faces and how the night went. How I felt he always used his tears to get his way. Him yelling at me about how ungrateful I was, etc. Unfortunately I forgot where we were and then keep the volume down at all and sometime later there was a knock on the door.

[00:16:20] I didn't know who it could be.

[00:16:22] Some dumb part hoped Lola, One of the officers asked if everything was alright and like clockwork he started bawling his eyes out. My mom asked him what was wrong. I told her she had to stop babying him. It's been lying to you guys. My aunt asking him again if he had anything to report. You were up and arms against his skill this morning. Where'd all that fire go? Did she

[00:17:43] hit you or not? It took a while of us pushing him but he finally admitted to the room that back at him. That's when I pushed the door in. The door wasn't locked, I just panicked, I didn't think to use the door no properly. I just threw my body at the door, and the rest of his story is what I was there for. I'm sure if the police weren't there, I would have hit him, I know I would have. My mum started crying even more when he said she was sleeping. The fact that changed his entire story. Am I aren't true to mouth, everyone

[00:19:04] scolding at him for stupidity and the asshole behaviour. While the office explained that me and I needed to get away I was actually going to get better and stay better. My mum kept fussing with my aunt and another uncle on the phone crying over the drama while I texted a friend of mine who lives across the city if I could stay with him. I was feeling overwhelmed with all of them and didn't want to be within a few minutes of the source of the problem. I also wanted to give myself space to think and understand with a clear head.

[00:20:23] I'm typing this between breaks of me packing.

[00:20:25] My aunt saw me in the room doing make sure she was okay above all. I know I don't deserve her as a girlfriend, I'd much rather she not be with me if it meant she was safe. She brought a friend with her and we all sat and talked. I showed both of them the Reddit posts and load her ass that I not share any more information about her until she feels ready herself.

[00:21:41] She's on Reddit for gaming and general scrolling fairly often and let me know that if she

[00:21:45] came across the story without me having told get it, I'm an asshole.

[00:23:01] I appreciate any and all advice I've been given.

[00:23:04] I'm going to be taking a break from not only the breakup in the end there. It was inevitable. Let us know your thoughts are down in the comments below. And just a huge thank you from the bottom of my heart for getting involved in today's

[00:24:20] stories.

[00:24:21] Your love, your support, your time always means the absolute world to me.

[00:24:24] So thank you so so much for being involved and hopefully I'll see you in the next one.