I Left During My Wife's TRAUMATIC Delivery To Help With My Dad's Work Meeting | r/AmITheDevil

[00:00:01] [SPEAKER_00] Hey Waffle Gang, I do hope you are well. My name is Mark and today we're checking out some more Reddit stories. And if you do love a Reddit story, why not consider that like, subscribe, maybe that notification bell too. And let's crack on with today's first story. Much love guys. Now, today's first story is going to be a collection of the AmITheDevil subreddit once again. Some of you guys really enjoyed that, so we're going to cover it again.

[00:00:27] [SPEAKER_00] And we're starting with APCSOIS, not sure how to pronounce that username, but it says, AmITheArsehole for leaving during my wife's labor? Oof. And just before we do get into this story, I do want to give you a trigger warning of descriptions of childbirth and labor, medical procedures, vomiting in it as well.

[00:00:50] [SPEAKER_00] So if you do want to skip the story, please feel free to do so. Timestamps are always down in the description and along the timeline below. Thank you. My wife went into labor around 6pm on Sunday. We were expecting twins. It quickly turns into a very painful process. She kept cutting off the blood pressure to my hand when she squeezed and nearly sprayed my shirt with vomit.

[00:01:14] [SPEAKER_00] Around 3am, my dad calls. I worked for my dad's company and we had a presentation for clients Monday morning that I had to get ready for. My dad heard my wife was in labor but told me he needed me on this presentation. He said there was nothing I could do to help my wife and delivery and seeing the baby come out was overrated and people don't prepare you for the gore.

[00:01:37] [SPEAKER_00] He said he needed me to rest up and make myself presentable for the presentation. My wife's labor was progressing very slowly and we were all certain she would need forceps or other assistance to deliver the babies. I realized that I couldn't help her here and my dad was counting on me so I told her I needed to leave. She started screaming at me so loudly that a few nurses rushed over to our room. I ended up doing the presentation with the clients and things went well.

[00:02:07] [SPEAKER_00] I leave the office and see a text on my phone that my wife delivered an hour ago at around 10.30am and they had to use forceps. I would have missed the meeting had I stayed and my dad has given me everything he could possibly give me in life. So I didn't want to let him down. Am I the arsehole? I had responsibilities I had to take care of and while my wife is still screaming at me saying that she was alone when they destroyed her body.

[00:02:33] [SPEAKER_00] I'm the only one who works and her mom herself said that she was emotional and overreacting. My wife even went as far to say that her family would disown her if she was the first of them to divorce. But that she doesn't consider me her husband right now. Bloody hell. Now I know we're in the am I the devil subreddit so you know it's going to be a you're the arsehole that's rated below this. And you can absolutely see why. Your dad's advice childbirth is overrated gore.

[00:03:03] [SPEAKER_00] It's just like the worst advice ever. Because let's face it being there isn't about being medical help or anything of that sort. It's about not abandoning your partner during one of life's biggest moments. And let's face it your wife isn't overreacting. She's traumatized from her experience. You chose a work meeting over witnessing your child's birth and supporting her through a painful and vulnerable experience. And her saying that she doesn't consider you a husband right now.

[00:03:33] [SPEAKER_00] That's the consequence of your choice. Bloody hell. The first commenter said to OP you're the arsehole quoting I realized I couldn't help her here. And then says yeah you could. You could provide a comforting supportive presence while she's extremely scared and in pain. Instead you abandoned her. Which made everything even more stressful. Quoting again and said and seeing the baby come out was overrated. And said it's not.

[00:03:59] [SPEAKER_00] There's a reason why people usually list the birth of their children as the most memorable moments in their lives. And you missed it. Moonlit Kitten says you're the arsehole god. You may be the biggest arsehole of the week. Your wife the woman you vowed to stand by for the rest of your life was having what could likely be the most traumatic experience of her life. And instead of supporting her. You left her because you figured helping your dad was more important. The second you get married.

[00:04:26] [SPEAKER_00] Your nuclear family becomes your wife and any children you have. They should become your first priority. And you managed to abandon all of them at a time when your wife needed you. And missed the birth of your children. You'll be lucky if you ever get to see those kids. You need a reality check. It's unfortunate your wife doesn't want to divorce you. Hopefully she changes her mind. Another commenter says you're the arsehole but your dad is the supreme arsehole overlord. She should be mad at him too.

[00:04:54] [SPEAKER_00] I don't blame your wife for hating you right now. What a painful experience to go through alone. You better do everything you can to make it up for her. Deadly Sin says you're the arsehole. What exactly did you think you were going to be doing there in the first place? Catching the baby? Your sole purpose was moral support. You failed. She was scared. She was vulnerable. And you left her. Your responsibility is your wife and children. Yes, your dad raised, provided, etc.

[00:05:22] [SPEAKER_00] There's a reason the family you create becomes a priority over the family you came from. You even made it sound like it's somehow your wife's fault. That what was happening was somehow in her control. She cut off the blood pressure and spewed vomit. I can't tell if you were just misguided about the beauty of childbirth. Or you're just completely unsympathetic about how hard this was for your wife. And of course, as you can imagine, the you're the arsehole comments just went on and on and on.

[00:05:50] [SPEAKER_00] And Opie never returned to the post, of course. But what do you guys make of this situation? I've seen a couple of those stories like this in the past. And I find it absolutely wild that you could even consider doing that. But let us know your thoughts down in the comments below. Let's move on to another story. Now, our next story is from Ndining33.

[00:06:13] [SPEAKER_00] Who says, am I the arsehole for only paying my brother $10 a week on a 25k loan until I get my feet back on the ground? I'm a 25 male with a 29 female fiancé and a 1-year-old son. My brother is 30 and his husband is 31. I work on the farm in Oz, which I'm assuming is Australia, and get $58k a year. My fiancé and I own a house on the farm.

[00:06:41] [SPEAKER_00] And 18 months ago, I had major renovations on the house. To complete these renovations, I needed to borrow $25k from my brother. We made an agreement that I'll pay him back with no time pressure. I even wrote a contract that reads, I will pay you guys back. No time or amount listed. Since moving into the house, we've had our son. And we haven't paid anything back due to having little to no money. Living paycheck to paycheck and just trying to survive.

[00:07:10] [SPEAKER_00] He's been aware of our situation and never pushed for money. At Christmas, he mentioned to us in front of our entire family. In front of our entire family that didn't know about the loan. That he wanted to talk to us regarding the loan and us paying him back. We later text him saying we are happy to talk. However, it was disgusting to mention the loan in front of our family. Especially on our son's first Christmas. On Boxing Day, he and his husband came over and tore us a new arsehole.

[00:07:38] [SPEAKER_00] Having shots at us, telling me I'm not doing a good enough job and telling my partner she needs to get a job to help pay them back. I tried explaining. These last 12 months of having a baby have really been tough. Expenses have gone through the roof. We've had many appliances break on us. Car service and tires. 5k and vet bills, etc. They also mentioned we should put our son into childcare. I refused as it's none of their business for starters. My partner has always wanted to be a stay at home mom.

[00:08:08] [SPEAKER_00] And she's worked in childcare and has seen the horrible side of it. And we don't want to put our son there. I tried telling my brother at this very moment we only have $900 to our names. We want to pay them back. And said we will do $10 a week. And slowly increase it over time when we get back on our feet. Frankly, I want and need to look after my family before him. We were told that $10 a week is an insult. And that everything else is an excuse.

[00:08:36] [SPEAKER_00] We've always known we were going to be a low income household. And have accepted that. We've never complained. Just worked hard and get on with our life. We also reached out for financial help to see if they can help us. My brother is a pilot for a major airline. And between him and his husband, we estimate they bring in roughly $200k. Compared to my $58k. They also live in a major city. And travel usually overseas twice a year. So have no money issues. And the reason for them suddenly wanting the money.

[00:09:04] [SPEAKER_00] They're going through surrogacy to get a baby. And have just found someone from Canada who is willing to carry for them. They have enough money to pay for this first baby. Their surrogate isn't even pregnant yet. But they want a second baby in the future. And can't afford that so they want the $25k back. So am I the arsehole for only paying $10 a week? I just did a quick little calculation on how long it's going to take him to pay him back on $10 a week. And I think it's like 48 years. When your son is 49 years old.

[00:09:34] [SPEAKER_00] And I think from the brother's perspective. It's like you borrowed $25k for renovations. A choice, I guess. Not an emergency, right? And then you had a baby. Which was another choice. And now you're prioritizing literally everything else. I guess some of it you have to deal. But it's all over repaying him. And towards the end, it almost sounded like, you know, you're treating this loan as optional. Because he earns more. For bloody hell, $10 a week.

[00:10:03] [SPEAKER_00] Imaginary says you're the arsehole. Everything your brother says is true. $10 a week is an insult. Your wife should get a job. Or you should find some alternate ways to increase your income and curb other expenses. If you're making $58,000 a year and only have $10 a week to spare. You need some serious financial advice. And you need to take that advice. Just focus says you're the arsehole. This upsets me. You are not in a good financial state. And you chose to get your wife pregnant.

[00:10:33] [SPEAKER_00] Utter nonsense. The both of you are immature and irresponsible. I hate when people count my money for me. Yes, I have money. So they don't feel they have to pay back or pay back when they agreed to. Have stopped lending money a long time ago. Box of Duckling says you're the arsehole, my guy. And I say this as someone from Australia. Are you way out in the middle of nowhere rural? Semi-rural? The fact that your fiance getting a job and putting your son into childcare was mentioned

[00:11:01] [SPEAKER_00] tells me that you can't be that far away from a town or metro area. For your information, you earn under the threshold for the family tax benefit payment. You should also qualify for free daycare up to three days per week. Max 12 hours per week. That's more than enough for fiance to find part-time work. Everyday Defenders says you're the arsehole. Why on earth are you borrowing money to do a kitchen remodel when you can't even scrape together more than $10 a month? That's not just irresponsible.

[00:11:30] [SPEAKER_00] It's insulting. Yeah, it's kind of rude to bring it up in front of family. But what you are doing is much worse. Just because they make a lot of money does not mean you are somehow entitled to it or entitled to paying it off whenever you damn well please. And one more comment that says you're the arsehole. You could not afford those renovations. You spent your brother's money without being honest about not wanting to pay it back. That in itself is arsehole behavior. But now you're trying to justify not paying it back too. After he had to ask for his money back.

[00:12:00] [SPEAKER_00] And have the balls to be mad that he told others about you spending his money on things you couldn't afford. And of course OP didn't respond to it. But I just find it wild in itself that you know people can write these posts. And during this process they don't sit back and think fuck me. I am the arsehole in this situation right? Absolutely wild. But what do you guys make of this one? Let us know your thoughts down in the comments below. Let's have another story.

[00:12:27] [SPEAKER_00] Our next story comes from Throwaway Project Car who says Am I the arsehole for buying my nephew a project car and giving my niece absolutely nothing? Throwaway because nephew knows main account. I 34 male. I'm well off financially. I have a lot of cars but I've worked for every cent of it. I don't have kids of my own so I like to spend my money on things that actually matter to me. My sister has 12 year old twins Sven and Emma.

[00:12:57] [SPEAKER_00] Fake names. Sven and I are both autistic and share a massive special interest in mechanical engineering. He's always in the garage with me getting greasy and learning how things work. Emma is great but we don't click. She's into fashion and competitive dance. I try to be involved but we usually run out of things to talk about after a few minutes. Which I have with most people. Autism I guess. Last week I bought a project car for Sven.

[00:13:26] [SPEAKER_00] It's a beat up BMW E30 for under $3000. More including parts and stuff. Calling it a car is generous. The engine needs a total rework. The interior is gone and it doesn't even roll straight. It's basically a metal shell. It isn't a gift he can use now. It's going to take years of hard labor before he can even think about driving it. My sister is furious.

[00:13:51] [SPEAKER_00] She says spending $3k on Sven and nothing on Emma is blatant favoritism and sexism etc. She wants me to spend around $3k on Emma for a new iPhone. Designer clothes in tech. I told her no. The car is an investment in a skill and a hobby we share. By the time we're done that E30 will actually be worth money. Whereas a $1000 phone is worth nothing in two years. I'm not just handing him a toy.

[00:14:19] [SPEAKER_00] I'm giving him and myself 500 hours of manual labor. I'm not willing to just drop thousands of dollars on clothes and gadgets for Emma to just keep things even. When there's no bonding or work involved. My sister's last word on it was that I'm being a hypocrite. She says that if I really cared about the investment, I'd be happy to invest in Emma's dance career. Which is just as much hard labor as fixing an engine.

[00:14:43] [SPEAKER_00] She thinks I'm using autism as an excuse to ignore my niece and favor the twin who is easier for me to talk to. She told me that fair is fair. That if I can afford a surprise car for one, I can afford a surprise MacBook for the other. She essentially told me. I'm being a cool uncle to one and a deadbeat uncle to the other. So, am I the arsehole for buying my nephew a project car and giving my niece nothing? Yet.

[00:15:11] [SPEAKER_00] KBD says on this one, you're the arsehole. There are several problems here. One, you are showing blatant favoritism to your nephew. Two, you should never purchase a gift at large for a child without consulting their parents first. Lady Purple Butterfly says sorry, but you don't get to use autism as the reason behind blunt favoritism. If your niece is strongly into fashion, where she is even drawing designs and wanting to sew her own clothes,

[00:15:38] [SPEAKER_00] get her a truly great, not a cheap, sewing machine. Sketchbooks, color pencils, and sewing supplies. That is how you attempt to connect with your niece. Actually take time to look at what she does and say, even if it's not your hyperfixation, you're the arsehole. Another commenter says, you're the arsehole. You do realize that autism in girls and women presents differently, and chances are your niece is autistic too. Her special interest may just be fashion and dance.

[00:16:05] [SPEAKER_00] You're being a huge arsehole, and yes, misogyny is a part of it. Stop hiding behind being neurodivergent as an excuse for being an arsehole. Signed, another autistic. AFAB. Tired of this shit. And one more from Saturn who says, you're the arsehole. Blatant favoritism. As a child, one of my relatives always gave nice expensive gifts to my brother because she liked him better. And I got stuff that was clearly a re-gift with zero thought. I felt like there was something wrong with me because why wouldn't my great-grandmother

[00:16:35] [SPEAKER_00] love me? Well, at least now I can say she at least gave me something, whereas you did zip zilch for your niece. Autism or not, you're clearly aware of what she likes and her interests are. You could have done something. So OP did add a couple of edits after all this and said, edit, it stays in my name at least until he's 18. Can't do it earlier in my country. If he doesn't work for it, he'll be sold and he will get nothing. It stays in my garage too.

[00:17:04] [SPEAKER_00] Can't really go anywhere else. Then edit two says, I will get her something to do with her interests. Just not sure what. Definitely not the consumerism, but maybe something to do with dancing. Now, what do you guys make of this situation? Let us know your thoughts down in the comments below and let's move on to another story. The next story is from a throwaway account and says, am I the arsehole for going to my parents' house while my roommate painted her room?

[00:17:35] [SPEAKER_00] It said, my roommate, 34 female and I, 31 female, decided to buy a house together after living together in apartments for the past 10 years. She and I dated from 2013 to 2019. We're still best friends. We moved in February of 2021. From the talks we had before moving in, we agreed that our house would look so cute if we painted every room a different shade of purple.

[00:18:00] [SPEAKER_00] Purple is both of our favorite colors and purple is a color that everybody loves. It goes with everything. Our home has four rooms, two bedrooms and two offices. Soon after moving in, I decided to paint my rooms my two shades of purple. She did not offer to help me paint and did not offer to pay for the paint. It took me a while to get it done. However, I did complete my rooms and even managed to paint one of our bathrooms as well. By myself. Months passed and she did not paint anything.

[00:18:28] [SPEAKER_00] I did not really mind though because she's very busy. In hindsight, this is obviously not why she was putting it off. Keep reading. Out of the blue, she comes home from work at 3pm with her boyfriend and two of his loud friends to help her paint her bedroom with hideous grey-blue paint. I was very uncomfortable as I could hear the four of them snickering amongst themselves and jumping around while I was in my room trying to game. I managed to keep my cool as I played.

[00:18:55] [SPEAKER_00] Until that evening when her boyfriend knocked on my door to ask me if I wanted Wendy's as if I were a child and capable of getting my own food. I could not handle them any longer and drove to my parents' home just so I could get some quiet. Her plus her friends took two days to complete the process and when I returned back, the structure no longer felt like my home. It felt like it had been contaminated. Strangers have been there. One of my rooms is a different color than we had intended.

[00:19:23] [SPEAKER_00] I got emotional when I asked her why she decided to go back on her word like that. She told me that since her boyfriend would be coming over more often and staying the night, she should consider his feelings when deciding what color to paint her room. Question mark. She said she intended to paint her office and her bathroom purple just like that one specific grey-blue. The conversation did nothing for me. I find it so rude that not only have her boyfriend over without even asking permission from her

[00:19:51] [SPEAKER_00] roommate, but that she would do this knowing this would hurt me. We have a history and it feels like she wanted to hurt me for some reason. We both decided every room would be purple. I kept my side of the promise that would allow us to have our dream home. She didn't. She gave in to the wants of her boyfriend and now our house, not hers, and his house looks tacky. She tried to pin this on me by saying I was home when she started painting and could have told her not to paint her room blue-grey while she had friends over.

[00:20:21] [SPEAKER_00] Good way to make me seem like a bee in front of people who made no effort to get to know me. I had to go back afterwards and was just like, did they really just buy a property together as exes of six years? That is just, I found that absolutely wild. And it kind of just felt like Opie just still hasn't emotionally or whatever moved on. But it sounds like the ex has. And it just sounds like a whole clusterfuck for things to come.

[00:20:48] [SPEAKER_00] You know, if the boyfriend wants to move in or one of them meets someone who doesn't want to live with their partner's ex, it's just wild. But the fact of this story is, you know, she painted her room the color that she wanted and it's as simple as that in the end, right? But I can't get over the fact that they've just legally tied themselves together in probably one of a really complex way. And it's wild. But wild comes in and says,

[00:21:14] [SPEAKER_00] I can't get past the point that you bought a house with a friend who was an ex-lover. Talk about poor life choices. She painted her room the color she wanted. And when you own a house, you have boyfriends over. It's a thing. You're the arsehole. Another commenter says, Just by the comments of referring to the house as contaminated because she bought her friends that you refer to as strangers already raises red flags. And the boyfriend asking you if you want to take out and you getting offended

[00:21:41] [SPEAKER_00] because treating you like a child that is incapable of getting her own food makes you sound obnoxious. Oh yeah, I forgot about that as well. I mean, it sounded like a nice thing, didn't it, to me? Like coming to offer you some food. It almost sounded like an olive branch kind of thing. Or trying to get to know you or something. But the commenter continued, From what I can tell, you both bought that house. She's entitled to 50% of it. So she can paint her room however she well likes. You seem to have this future planned with her and are angry that she doesn't share your vision.

[00:22:10] [SPEAKER_00] You're the arsehole. You're clearly still hung up on her and she's obviously moved on. You shouldn't have bought a house together. You'll only cause yourself more pain. Moggett says you're the arsehole love. It's gotta be a Brit, right? You're the arsehole love. Please reread your own post. You sound so entitled, controlling, and up your own arse. And yep, there it is, the arse spelling. And I don't think you even realize. You both own the house, but your roommate painted her room. It doesn't affect you.

[00:22:38] [SPEAKER_00] Neither does the fact that she got some friends over to do it. She's allowed to have her boyfriend there. It's not rude or to hurt you. It's not about you at all. I would suggest therapy. There's a lot of red flags here, which will only get worse if you don't speak to someone. You don't want to end up being the woman everyone hates because you got the emotional intelligence of a toddler. ETA downvoting everyone who is calling you on your arsehole behavior isn't going to help. Doubling down doesn't make you less of an arsehole. It just makes you a pathetic one.

[00:23:07] [SPEAKER_00] And I just had a quick look because I thought, as OP replied to that, OP did reply to it. It says, It does affect me because it completely throws off the theme of the house. With guests coming over, they obviously know that there was a miscommunication or something because a room stands out like a sore thumb. While every single other room sticks to the theme. I mean, as people could be wandering, every guest wandering around into every bedroom to look at the theme of the house. What the fuck's going on here? But what do you guys make of this situation?

[00:23:34] [SPEAKER_00] Yeah, it's just some of these stories are absolutely wild in this sub, aren't they? But let us know your thoughts down in the comments below. And let's move on to another story. Now, our next story comes from Gargoyle Winged Angel saying, Am I the arsehole for taking out a payday loan so I can go to Level Up Expo and get my cosplay right? My parents are furious with me to the point of cutting me off.

[00:24:01] [SPEAKER_00] If you're unfamiliar, Level Up Expo is a convention in Las Vegas, I believe, where they do like sort of gaming, anime, pop culture, all that kind of stuff. According to Google, of course. This is one of those ones where I see myself as being 80% right. And I want to be fair because honestly, I depend on my parents for a lot of stuff. Rent, tuition, food, car insurance. I'm huge into cosplay and gaming.

[00:24:28] [SPEAKER_00] It has been my dream to go to a big convention in my cosplay. A friend suggested we go to Level Up since it has everything we like. The badges aren't super expensive, but we decided we wanted to super splurge on accommodation so maybe we could host parties in our room. So the total cost of my trip, including everything, airfare, room, estimates for food, badge, is about $3,500. At $2,000 that I was supposed to pay towards my credit card,

[00:24:57] [SPEAKER_00] but I decided to get the rest, I would get a payday loan. And this was back in March, so the trip is all paid for. I wanted to keep it a secret from my parents, but I accidentally missed my first payment to pay the payday loan. And for some God knows how reason, the people at the payday loan place did a search for my name since I'm ducking their calls until I could borrow some money from a friend. And they call my parents' home number looking for me. I can't even imagine this is legal. So here's the deal.

[00:25:25] [SPEAKER_00] I'm not like so dense that I don't understand I messed up. I mean, I know that I need to pay my debts. But here's the deal. I mean, I'm only in college once, and I only get to do things like level up while I'm young. I also think this was a very normal mistake. My parents should give me enough room to make mistakes and learn from them. But my parents are freaking the hell out. My dad has basically said this is it. That after the credit card debt and my grades and now the payday loan and missing a payment,

[00:25:54] [SPEAKER_00] I have shown a level of irresponsibility that he can't trust me anymore. And I either move home to go to community college and work for his company, or he cuts me off for good. As harsh as that was, my mum was even worse. And she literally screamed at me like cussing names and told me that they didn't raise me like this. And I'm acting like a spoiled Instagram asshole. Edit. Just for clarification, I'm 20 female. Like I said, I know I messed up. And am I really an asshole?

[00:26:23] [SPEAKER_00] I was going to talk about payday lenders, but the top comment is already on it. And they say it much better than I can. Danny 17402 says, you're the asshole in so many ways OP. Payday lenders are disgusting, predatory industry that is designed to capitalize on people who literally have no other choice. I've never heard of someone taking out a payday loan and agreeing to the monumental interest rates they provide, unless they absolutely needed money right away to keep a roof over their head or feed their children. And even then,

[00:26:53] [SPEAKER_00] it's a terrible decision that will ultimately blow up in their face. It's such an incredibly horrible deal, you'll have to be really backed into a corner to actually take a payday loan. Or so I thought. The thought of taking out a payday loan because you want to blow thousands of dollars on a fancy hotel you can't afford for some imaginary anime party you're hoping to have. Just may be the dumbest thing I've ever heard in my life. There's nothing normal about a mistake like that. You're not self-reliant.

[00:27:21] [SPEAKER_00] I'm assuming your parents are funding your education so that you don't have to go into debt. And how are you repaying that generosity? By going into massive debt anyway, so you can party instead of focusing on school. I don't blame them one bit. I'll cut you off too. You've shown that you have no appreciation for their money, or their sacrifice, and that you fully intend for them to bail you out of these problems over and over again because you should be allowed to make mistakes. That kind of reckless, entitled attitude

[00:27:48] [SPEAKER_00] is not going to make anyone inclined to help you out. Ormel says, You're the arsehole. You need to wake the fuck up. Quoting, At $2,000 that I was supposed to pay towards my credit card. And it says, You're in college. You have thousands of dollars in credit card debt. That is a fucking catastrophe. You got together some cash, and instead of using it to pay the debt, you spend it on an anime convention, or going into even more debt, at a goddamn payday loan place. The interest at payday loan outfits is compounded weekly.

[00:28:17] [SPEAKER_00] If you don't pay that debt off right fucking now, you're gonna have to declare bankruptcy before you finish college. You're acting like a junkie. You're being insanely self-destructive, and you're doing it for anime. Quoting, I've shown a level of irresponsibility that he can't trust me anymore. Then says, Accurate. If I were your parent, I'd be ashamed that I'd raise someone who would act this way. You're ruining your life for meaningless shit. And yes, your mom pretty much nailed it. You're a spoiled arsehole,

[00:28:46] [SPEAKER_00] and you're committing financial suicide. Do whatever your parents tell you to do from this point on, and then say thank you to them for saving you from your idiocy. And one more comment who says you're the arsehole. Taking a loan for $3,500 vacation is one of the least responsible things I've ever heard. You could not afford it. You did not deserve it. You don't go. That's life as a responsible grown-up. I was more responsible than you when I was 11.

[00:29:13] [SPEAKER_00] That's the age I save for a new Nintendo system instead of borrowing money I didn't have. You need to grow up. You're the arsehole. I feel bad for your parents. If they have an accident, they know you can't manage their estate and finances. You simply don't have the common sense. Hopefully, you have some more responsible siblings they can turn to in a crisis. You're the arsehole. And a lot of people saying, you know, they absolutely love cosplay, they love anime, they love all these things and conventions, etc. And it's all good

[00:29:41] [SPEAKER_00] if you could afford it. Don't be going to a fucking payday loan to go to it because that is just awful. And basically backing Opie's parents But now, I'm going to turn this one to you guys. What do you guys make of this situation? Let us know your thoughts down in the comments below. And just a huge thank you for being here today, getting involved in the stories, your love, your support, your time. It always means the absolute world to me.

[00:30:11] [SPEAKER_00] So thank you so, so much for being here. Truly, it's absolutely amazing. Thank you so much. And I will see you in the next one. Take care and much love.

[00:30:20] Wake up.

[00:30:28] [SPEAKER_01] Wake up. Brush my teeth up. Watch my face. I can smell the smoke from the bacon. Yum, yum, yum. Let's...