Fathers Girlfriend Is Insisting I Replace My Photos With Her Photoshopped Ones r/Relationships

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[00:00:23] [SPEAKER_01]: From the MIVRs all subreddit and says

[00:00:26] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm IVRs all for refusing to replace a picture I posted

[00:00:30] [SPEAKER_01]: Within Edited Version of it

[00:00:33] [SPEAKER_01]: My father's girlfriend is very active on social media

[00:00:36] [SPEAKER_01]: She usually makes at least two Instagram posts a day

[00:00:40] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm fairly certain she's trying to become an influencer

[00:00:43] [SPEAKER_01]: Well, I don't care much for that

[00:00:45] [SPEAKER_01]: One thing I've noticed is that almost every picture she posted is photoshopped in some way

[00:00:50] [SPEAKER_01]: Sometimes she makes her wastelands smaller

[00:00:52] [SPEAKER_01]: Other times she airbrushes her face

[00:00:55] [SPEAKER_01]: Sometimes she does both

[00:00:57] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know how noticeable it is to other people but

[00:01:00] [SPEAKER_01]: Me and my husband can always tell

[00:01:03] [SPEAKER_01]: My birthday was this weekend

[00:01:05] [SPEAKER_01]: I had a baby a few months ago, and I haven't had time to do much

[00:01:09] [SPEAKER_01]: Hope last week my friends and family through a surprise birthday party celebrate both my birthday and my first year of being a mom

[00:01:17] [SPEAKER_01]: I later made a post on Instagram thanking everyone and which I included several pictures from the party

[00:01:23] [SPEAKER_01]: A few hours later my father called me to ask if I could add a picture that featured his girlfriend for the post I made

[00:01:29] [SPEAKER_01]: I was frustrated but deleted it and repost it with a picture of me my husband

[00:01:34] [SPEAKER_01]: Our baby my father and his girlfriend

[00:01:37] [SPEAKER_01]: Was he only when I had of her at the party?

[00:01:39] [SPEAKER_01]: I was after that his girlfriend sent me a photoshop version of the picture

[00:01:44] [SPEAKER_01]: And asked if I could replace the one I posted

[00:01:46] [SPEAKER_01]: She had changed her wastelands retouched everyone's faces and wiped in our teeth

[00:01:51] [SPEAKER_01]: I said no, while she's free to post whatever she wants on her socials

[00:01:56] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't want an obviously photoshop picture on mine

[00:01:59] [SPEAKER_01]: She argued the picture I had posted would clash with the ones on her page and she didn't want her followers to see her like that

[00:02:06] [SPEAKER_01]: I reminded her that my account is private and the only people who see my post are friends and family

[00:02:11] [SPEAKER_01]: We already know what she looks like when she kept insisting. I told her she either accepted the

[00:02:16] [SPEAKER_01]: Unedited picture right to remove it from the post entirely

[00:02:19] [SPEAKER_01]: My father wants me to humour her

[00:02:22] [SPEAKER_01]: He says it would take little to no effort on my part to replace the picture

[00:02:26] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm aware of that. I just don't want to do it

[00:02:29] [SPEAKER_01]: I didn't even want to include the picture in the first place

[00:02:32] [SPEAKER_01]: Only did it because they wanted me to

[00:02:35] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm busy this week and dealing with this has become very annoying

[00:02:39] [SPEAKER_01]: I

[00:02:39] [SPEAKER_01]: The R.S.R.O

[00:02:42] [SPEAKER_01]: I think you know, it's your social media. You have control of it. You can post whatever you want on there

[00:02:48] [SPEAKER_01]: I think if someone came up to me and told me they just wanted themselves removed or or whatever

[00:02:53] [SPEAKER_01]: I would have no problem with that but you know, you've done this once you replaced the photo with her in it and then she's went away

[00:03:01] [SPEAKER_01]: Retouch the photo with it sounds like not just herself, but she's retouched everyone else at the same time

[00:03:08] [SPEAKER_01]: Which to me is just bloody rude and what had annoying me at the same time and saying no

[00:03:12] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm not doing that and it's not going to clash with the ones on her page because you said your account is private

[00:03:18] [SPEAKER_01]: So it's gonna make no odd stir like you said everyone's already seen her

[00:03:22] [SPEAKER_01]: That's gonna make no difference and your dad sends a humorous the equivalent of birthday

[00:03:27] [SPEAKER_01]: Emily

[00:03:28] [SPEAKER_01]: But not creative says not the asshole. She's free to post whatever photo shot version of reality she wants

[00:03:35] [SPEAKER_01]: But on yours you compose the real photos with a real thick waist in a yellow teeth

[00:03:40] [SPEAKER_01]: Is your wall not hers is private so she doesn't have to worry about her followers seeing unless they're a handle of people who follow you both

[00:03:49] [SPEAKER_01]: Hope he says I see my social media more as a photo album than anything else

[00:03:54] [SPEAKER_01]: I wouldn't want to put things that aren't real or didn't happen on an album

[00:03:58] [SPEAKER_01]: I also want to add that she's a fairly skinny woman with normal clean teeth from my perspective

[00:04:03] [SPEAKER_01]: There's no reason for her to edit her pictures like this

[00:04:07] [SPEAKER_01]: Manakit and says not the asshole, but your mistake here is giving in and posting the pic in the first place

[00:04:12] [SPEAKER_01]: If your dad wants her featured in pics of the event he can post was social media

[00:04:18] [SPEAKER_01]: It's not your job to further her influencer career and honestly if it's as bad as you describe she won't succeed anyways

[00:04:25] [SPEAKER_01]: Whatever talk with your dad that some boundaries in guidelines now so if in the highly unlikely event she gets famous

[00:04:32] [SPEAKER_01]: You're not forced to help boost her post a free or my dad

[00:04:36] [SPEAKER_01]: If I'm posting for you, I'm getting paid law

[00:04:40] [SPEAKER_01]: Scarlett nightingale says not the asshole honestly. I just take down the one that includes her at this point and put back the original

[00:04:48] [SPEAKER_01]: If she complains again tell her how she doesn't have to worry about anything clashing with a aesthetic

[00:04:53] [SPEAKER_01]: photo shot fake on her page

[00:04:56] [SPEAKER_01]: Especially as she chooses to Photoshop you and everyone else in addition to herself

[00:05:00] [SPEAKER_01]: She keeps pushing you ask her why she felt that you were in need to photoshopping too

[00:05:05] [SPEAKER_01]: But you're okay with what you look like but obviously she feels that you are lacking

[00:05:11] [SPEAKER_01]: And I find no comment from analog weapon who says not the asshole even the she only photoshopped

[00:05:16] [SPEAKER_01]: I would say you wouldn't be the asshole for refusing to replace the image is your page is private

[00:05:22] [SPEAKER_01]: Our options are that she can be included in the image you have available or you can remove it

[00:05:26] [SPEAKER_01]: But especially the fact that she photoshop other people in the image

[00:05:30] [SPEAKER_01]: That's not why do they all have to participate and have anyone who can see it as soon that they're the type of people who would do that

[00:05:38] [SPEAKER_01]: A lot of people would actually be somewhat understandably insulted by such an action

[00:05:42] [SPEAKER_01]: Then applies they don't look good in real life

[00:05:45] [SPEAKER_01]: That's as much of breaches posting someone's image against their wishes

[00:05:49] [SPEAKER_01]: If that

[00:05:51] [SPEAKER_01]: Little side story about photoshop and other images before we do go into that update

[00:05:56] [SPEAKER_01]: When we lost one of our loved ones

[00:05:59] [SPEAKER_01]: We had someone who hired someone to do like to try and do a nice photoshop

[00:06:04] [SPEAKER_01]: Photo of that person as gifts for us all and a way to to you know remember them et cetera

[00:06:10] [SPEAKER_01]: And I don't know if the person who gifted us these photos was oblivious to that they were just badly photoshopped or whatever

[00:06:17] [SPEAKER_01]: But we received these pictures and it was obvious that the teeth had been replaced and the way they must have done this is by

[00:06:23] [SPEAKER_01]: Overlapping like a photo of someone else and then masking it and deleting the rest because also you could notice on the very side of their face next to their eye

[00:06:32] [SPEAKER_01]: Was like an arm from some glasses, but the rest of the glasses were deleted

[00:06:36] [SPEAKER_01]: So we all received these photos and we're also a dead looking arm and I was in my head. I'm thinking fuck me

[00:06:42] [SPEAKER_01]: What's this and I'm just like slightly lifted my head to look at everyone else is looking at the photos is just sort of

[00:06:48] [SPEAKER_01]: nodding

[00:06:50] [SPEAKER_01]: But that was a weird situation like seeing someone that

[00:06:54] [SPEAKER_01]: They they almost looked different they almost look completely different but and we later discussed and I think everyone else noticed that the teeth were completely different

[00:07:02] [SPEAKER_01]: And it was like what the fuck

[00:07:04] [SPEAKER_01]: And I'd be lying if I said I wasn't chuckling in my head when I saw that image because it was just so out there like someone's just like

[00:07:11] [SPEAKER_01]: He's not very good at photoshop

[00:07:13] [SPEAKER_01]: Doing this kind of shit man. Oh, no, it was wild

[00:07:16] [SPEAKER_01]: To OP comes in with her update 12 days later and said I decided to follow your advice

[00:07:22] [SPEAKER_01]: A few days after I first posted here

[00:07:24] [SPEAKER_01]: I removed the picture

[00:07:26] [SPEAKER_01]: My post on Instagram now looks exactly the same as it did before my father made me include his girlfriend

[00:07:32] [SPEAKER_01]: I did so because she was still asking me to switch the pictures she'd begged sent me an alternate version and which he only edited herself

[00:07:42] [SPEAKER_01]: Lie everyone's teeth were still white and then tried to guilt trip me about it

[00:07:46] [SPEAKER_01]: I consider myself to be a very patient woman, but I do have limits

[00:07:50] [SPEAKER_01]: That's when I remove the picture

[00:07:52] [SPEAKER_01]: I think she was checking my post because she texted me about an hour later asking where I changed it

[00:07:58] [SPEAKER_01]: Reminded her I'd promised to remove the picture if she didn't accept the unedited one

[00:08:02] [SPEAKER_01]: My father later tried to convince me to repost it, but I told him I'm not doing that again

[00:08:08] [SPEAKER_01]: When he protested I told him to stop and think about the fact that he was complaining about a social media post on a private account

[00:08:15] [SPEAKER_01]: I think he did because he apologized for the drama and stopped bringing it up

[00:08:19] [SPEAKER_01]: I think at a few more texts from his girlfriend asking me to reconsider

[00:08:23] [SPEAKER_01]: Which I replied that then she don't want any real depictions of her online or will never include her on my social media again

[00:08:30] [SPEAKER_01]: I think she still upset but she's no longer bothering me about it

[00:08:34] [SPEAKER_01]: Also, I took the opportunity to remind all parties that only me and my husband are allowed to post pictures of our child online just in case

[00:08:41] [SPEAKER_01]: Thank you for all your advice

[00:08:44] [SPEAKER_01]: And one comment has says to OPR after this one saying she sounds unhinged and insufferable

[00:08:49] [SPEAKER_01]: OPR says I don't hate her but a behavior annoys me very often as someone who barely uses social media

[00:08:56] [SPEAKER_01]: It feels like we live in two completely different worlds

[00:08:59] [SPEAKER_01]: But now I'm gonna turn this one to you guys what do you guys make of this situation?

[00:09:05] [SPEAKER_01]: I mean, your thoughts down in the comments below and let's move on to another story from Fangonduela who says

[00:09:13] [SPEAKER_01]: What I be the asshole here. I told my friend his online bully is his girlfriend

[00:09:19] [SPEAKER_01]: I 30 female know a couple

[00:09:22] [SPEAKER_01]: Let's call them Blair 28 female and Ben 30 male

[00:09:26] [SPEAKER_01]: I've known both of them separately before they met and started dating

[00:09:30] [SPEAKER_01]: They were in love pretty fast and became a couple

[00:09:33] [SPEAKER_01]: We always thought they would perfect for each other both attractive fun and agetic people who are crazy about each other and also great friends to the rest of us

[00:09:42] [SPEAKER_01]: Important notes we are all from different countries living as ex-pats in a country

[00:09:47] [SPEAKER_01]: So after a while Ben had some family problems back home which required him to fly back to be with his family

[00:09:53] [SPEAKER_01]: But this would be temporary

[00:09:56] [SPEAKER_01]: Blair has always been great support of an understanding towards Ben

[00:09:59] [SPEAKER_01]: Who'd always go around saying how happy he was and help proud he was of his relationship

[00:10:04] [SPEAKER_01]: I met Blair recently for a little girl's outing

[00:10:07] [SPEAKER_01]: It's been about five to six months in Ben left

[00:10:10] [SPEAKER_01]: After a few drinks she told me that she had made her fake Instagram account to test her boyfriend

[00:10:15] [SPEAKER_01]: I thought it was weird but I didn't say much

[00:10:19] [SPEAKER_01]: She said he didn't reply and block the fake account which should have been the end of her test in my opinion

[00:10:25] [SPEAKER_01]: But she continued to tell me that she used another fake account to add him and call him names like ugly good for nothing

[00:10:32] [SPEAKER_01]: Et cetera, et cetera

[00:10:33] [SPEAKER_01]: Pretty bad stuff

[00:10:35] [SPEAKER_01]: I was flabbergasted and could not believe what the fuck was happening

[00:10:38] [SPEAKER_01]: I asked a warrant earth she'd do such a thing

[00:10:41] [SPEAKER_01]: Explanation was that she is the best girlfriend he can have and she just wanted to remind him how great she is so he can appreciate her more

[00:10:50] [SPEAKER_01]: She wanted to show him how horrible the dating ball is and he should hold on to her tight

[00:10:55] [SPEAKER_01]: I told her this was insane and she needs to stop

[00:10:58] [SPEAKER_01]: But she continued to tell me that no, and this is nothing harmful

[00:11:02] [SPEAKER_01]: Ben had told me about a fake account message in him but I didn't know it was her and assumed it was his ex

[00:11:09] [SPEAKER_01]: Was proven to be a stalking weirdo, but now I know it's not her. It's actually his loving girlfriend

[00:11:16] [SPEAKER_01]: I told Blair she needs to stop and I would love to help her work on the issues that make her act like this

[00:11:22] [SPEAKER_01]: I tried to explain how this will eventually ruin her relationship and Ben's confidence as well

[00:11:27] [SPEAKER_01]: But she's not listening by tolder if she didn't stop I'd go ahead and tell Ben everything

[00:11:33] [SPEAKER_01]: Have screenshots of discussing this matter over text how she's not willing to stop

[00:11:37] [SPEAKER_01]: Would I be the asshole if I told Ben everything?

[00:11:41] [SPEAKER_01]: My boyfriend says end these to no and I totally agree because nobody deserves to be treated this way

[00:11:47] [SPEAKER_01]: But some of my friends back home told me not to tell him but instead convince her to come clean

[00:11:52] [SPEAKER_01]: Which I've been trying but to know a veil but would I be the asshole here?

[00:11:58] [SPEAKER_01]: Edit this has been a shocking event for me

[00:12:01] [SPEAKER_01]: We all thought she was a great person all this time never even crossed our minds that she'd even think such things

[00:12:07] [SPEAKER_01]: Little don't act on them

[00:12:09] [SPEAKER_01]: It hasn't been very long since I found out about this about a week or less

[00:12:13] [SPEAKER_01]: I waited this long to give her the chance to come clean on a run and figure out a way to break it to Ben gently

[00:12:19] [SPEAKER_01]: If the roles were reversed, I still give a man the same chance

[00:12:23] [SPEAKER_01]: Which isn't really my point of posting this but I appreciate the comments and wanted to clarify my position in this

[00:12:28] [SPEAKER_01]: Thanks you're encouragement. I feel much more confident in telling him everything about possibly facing her later

[00:12:35] [SPEAKER_01]: My boyfriend and I message Ben an arranged a video call so we'll tell him everything soon with the evidence

[00:12:41] [SPEAKER_01]: Post an update thank you all so much

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[00:13:35] [SPEAKER_01]: Wrong with what she is doing I told her is absolutely insane and I'll give for a bad an hour and she kept saying

[00:13:41] [SPEAKER_01]: But there's nothing wrong with it. It's just a fake account well laughing

[00:13:46] [SPEAKER_01]: After that night's which was about a week ago

[00:13:48] [SPEAKER_01]: I've been pestering her with my text and telling her she doesn't stop and come clean. I'll tell Ben

[00:13:54] [SPEAKER_01]: She turned on me and message my boyfriend something like

[00:13:57] [SPEAKER_01]: Who p wants to talk to Ben can you keep a rat in my relationship but my boyfriend already knows everything

[00:14:02] [SPEAKER_01]: This whole thing made me think that once challenged you'll turn on anyone

[00:14:07] [SPEAKER_01]: Shake my head

[00:14:09] [SPEAKER_01]: These relationship tests are so crazy and I know we always see the worst of reddit

[00:14:14] [SPEAKER_01]: But I've never ever seen one do anything positive in these stories

[00:14:18] [SPEAKER_01]: I know we probably wouldn't but always reminds me when we see relationship test stories of the the one where

[00:14:25] [SPEAKER_01]: The boyfriend invites his girlfriend to come round and visit the family for the first time

[00:14:30] [SPEAKER_01]: And he's got a brother as well and during dinner the whole family basically leaves but leaves the brother with the girlfriend

[00:14:36] [SPEAKER_01]: And he starts flirting with her. I can't met. I think he might touch her leg or something like that

[00:14:41] [SPEAKER_01]: I can always remember thinking of that moment and thinking what in the Texas chainsaw massacre family is this

[00:14:46] [SPEAKER_01]: Absolutely for open in this situation Ben deserves to know the truth here big pooper two says great name by the way

[00:14:54] [SPEAKER_01]: If she is doing weird shit like that, I think it is only a sign of what's to come

[00:14:58] [SPEAKER_01]: You've got to tell Ben so he knows the BS that could happen in the future

[00:15:03] [SPEAKER_01]: And just jumping in again what I find doubly sad about this is in the middle of the post

[00:15:08] [SPEAKER_01]: It mentioned that you know is ex was proven to be a stalking weirdo

[00:15:13] [SPEAKER_01]: So he's already gone through that he's out and to deal with a current girlfriend who's testing him on this

[00:15:18] [SPEAKER_01]: You know it's gonna damage his outlook on relationships

[00:15:22] [SPEAKER_01]: Hot Fox says not the asshole Ben deserves to know that he's dating a nasty manipulative psycho bitch at least then he'll be able to leave and find a normal girl

[00:15:31] [SPEAKER_01]: He doesn't try and destroy her boyfriend self confidence just to keep him tied to her

[00:15:37] [SPEAKER_01]: Glad promotion says not the asshole isn't this domestic abuse

[00:15:40] [SPEAKER_01]: This is girlfriend is quite literally abusing him verbally but not directly and while I get this doesn't seem like a niche in right now

[00:15:47] [SPEAKER_01]: She's willing to verbally abuse her lover to try and make him more dependent on her

[00:15:51] [SPEAKER_01]: That sounds really weird and creepy

[00:15:53] [SPEAKER_01]: Imagine what I'll she could do if she thinks he isn't appreciating her enough

[00:15:58] [SPEAKER_01]: And a final comment from chef staff who says you're the asshole if you don't tell him

[00:16:03] [SPEAKER_01]: Call him right now and let him know what she's been doing and send him all the messages you have between you and her about this

[00:16:09] [SPEAKER_01]: Not only knows what else she has done

[00:16:11] [SPEAKER_01]: Is she sending his family messages like this taking money from his bank accounts screwing with his job?

[00:16:16] [SPEAKER_01]: She basically said she wants him dependent on her and she's the best he can ever get

[00:16:20] [SPEAKER_01]: There's no redemption for that level of crazy a data is please

[00:16:25] [SPEAKER_01]: So then OP comes in with a ruptains as first off. Thank you for encouraging me to be a better friend

[00:16:31] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't like confrontation and I shy away from anything that's dramatic like this

[00:16:35] [SPEAKER_01]: I also want to apologize for the overdue update but life was crazy for me so here's the update

[00:16:41] [SPEAKER_01]: After about five to six hours of my post we had a phone call with Ben

[00:16:45] [SPEAKER_01]: My boyfriend was there with me to break the news to him

[00:16:49] [SPEAKER_01]: First I asked Ben whether the fake accounts were still messaging him or not

[00:16:52] [SPEAKER_01]: He said no, not for a week or so

[00:16:55] [SPEAKER_01]: And I told him the messages were being sent by Blair and she told me this herself

[00:16:59] [SPEAKER_01]: He didn't understand the talk. I told him everything the girl was nice out Blair and I had and she told me what she was doing and why

[00:17:07] [SPEAKER_01]: I asked her to stop but she didn't see the point at such a such a

[00:17:11] [SPEAKER_01]: As I was explaining I saw my friend Ben losing the spark in his eyes and I saw the devastation settle in

[00:17:17] [SPEAKER_01]: Horrot was real for him

[00:17:19] [SPEAKER_01]: And when I was done telling him everything there was a moment of silence

[00:17:23] [SPEAKER_01]: I boyfriend told him if he needed or wanted for us to help him in any way would be more than happy

[00:17:29] [SPEAKER_01]: He thanked us for telling him everything and wanted us to keep this as secret from Blair

[00:17:33] [SPEAKER_01]: Didn't want her to know that he now knew everything

[00:17:37] [SPEAKER_01]: He said he needed some time to figure stuff out since it's all a big shock now

[00:17:41] [SPEAKER_01]: I sent him whatever evidence I had and we ended the call

[00:17:45] [SPEAKER_01]: We didn't hear from Ben again for a couple of days

[00:17:48] [SPEAKER_01]: 190 called my boyfriend to ask his help with retrieving a box from his and Blair's apartment

[00:17:54] [SPEAKER_01]: He said Blair would be home to let us in and we can take the box after checking the contents of it

[00:17:59] [SPEAKER_01]: He gave us a list of all the things that should be in the box when we arrived Blair was there with the box but she seemed off

[00:18:07] [SPEAKER_01]: I asked her how she was doing and she said not very well because the anti depressants were

[00:18:11] [SPEAKER_01]: Wearing on her

[00:18:12] [SPEAKER_01]: She self-diabones to start taking unprescribed illegally obtained anti depressants

[00:18:17] [SPEAKER_01]: I said anti depressants could be dangerous to take on your own due to the side effects

[00:18:21] [SPEAKER_01]: And she really should ask a doctor before taking them

[00:18:24] [SPEAKER_01]: She brushed me off and gave us the box and shut the door on us

[00:18:28] [SPEAKER_01]: We called Ben and told him the box was with us and asked if he wanted us to send it to him

[00:18:34] [SPEAKER_01]: He said that just keep it safe until he was back

[00:18:37] [SPEAKER_01]: He came back to the country three days ago

[00:18:39] [SPEAKER_01]: He went to see Blair when they had a huge falling out

[00:18:42] [SPEAKER_01]: He confronted her with everything I gave him and she said it was his fault for being absent

[00:18:47] [SPEAKER_01]: And said he would be willing to try and understand and help her if she didn't blame him

[00:18:51] [SPEAKER_01]: After all, it's not as fault that his father is dying and he has to be there for his family

[00:18:56] [SPEAKER_01]: He came to fix things but every action blew up everything

[00:19:00] [SPEAKER_01]: He took the remaining belongings and left the house

[00:19:03] [SPEAKER_01]: He's now staying in our spare bedroom

[00:19:04] [SPEAKER_01]: The man is devastated

[00:19:07] [SPEAKER_01]: In the past two days Blair had been blowing up social media with lies

[00:19:11] [SPEAKER_01]: Posting things about how Ben cheated on her while he was supposed to be helping his family

[00:19:15] [SPEAKER_01]: Saying he's always been one foot out the door and she's better off without him

[00:19:19] [SPEAKER_01]: He should never have lowered her standards for him, etc. etc

[00:19:23] [SPEAKER_01]: And is not a social media person so he just deactivated his account and is now trying to heal

[00:19:29] [SPEAKER_01]: She's called me to curse at me multiple times

[00:19:32] [SPEAKER_01]: We now all blocked our numbers in our socials

[00:19:35] [SPEAKER_01]: We'll be staying here with us until we fly back home and they are coming weeks

[00:19:39] [SPEAKER_01]: I try to help both of my friends and now I'm helping my only friend in the situation

[00:19:43] [SPEAKER_01]: A text Blair's cousin to let her know that she's taken unprescribed anti-depressants acting erratic

[00:19:49] [SPEAKER_01]: And should see a doctor and that was it

[00:19:51] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't like this at all

[00:19:53] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't want to be in the middle of all of this but Ben needed to know the truth

[00:19:57] [SPEAKER_01]: But Ben, he still feels betrayed and shocked

[00:19:59] [SPEAKER_01]: But he also feels that it was for the best and that this would come to an end since he cannot trust her anymore

[00:20:05] [SPEAKER_01]: I guess that this is the end of my update

[00:20:07] [SPEAKER_01]: The relationship ended, the friendship ended

[00:20:09] [SPEAKER_01]: We don't know what she plans to do next

[00:20:12] [SPEAKER_01]: Thank you again for encouraging me to help my friend

[00:20:15] [SPEAKER_01]: Like I said before

[00:20:16] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm not willing for confrontation

[00:20:18] [SPEAKER_01]: I feel sad for the way things turned out but I guess it is what it is

[00:20:23] [SPEAKER_01]: All in all, watch out, fake accounts

[00:20:26] [SPEAKER_01]: So, I hope he replied to some additional comments

[00:20:29] [SPEAKER_01]: Scary cycle says

[00:20:30] [SPEAKER_01]: He should be another friend and post your own social post

[00:20:33] [SPEAKER_01]: I can Blair's post

[00:20:34] [SPEAKER_01]: Don't just spill everything but just say that Blair's account is full of lies because Ben never cheated

[00:20:39] [SPEAKER_01]: And whoever of your friends want the truth can contact you directly

[00:20:42] [SPEAKER_01]: And you'll show them all the proof

[00:20:45] [SPEAKER_01]: Hope he says I ask Ben if he wanted us to post online about our insane lies

[00:20:48] [SPEAKER_01]: And he said, not just yet

[00:20:50] [SPEAKER_01]: Some of his friends are collecting some more evidence from our posts

[00:20:53] [SPEAKER_01]: And from the abusive tech she sent

[00:20:56] [SPEAKER_01]: I think there will be a public post online with the evidence once they have enough

[00:20:59] [SPEAKER_01]: Also I saw some screenshots of her post via mutual friends

[00:21:03] [SPEAKER_01]: And seems like the comment section isn't going as well as Blair expected

[00:21:07] [SPEAKER_01]: People are questioning her and asking her for evidence

[00:21:10] [SPEAKER_01]: Which she does not have

[00:21:11] [SPEAKER_01]: I've got a couple of people commented on her posting

[00:21:13] [SPEAKER_01]: She's lying and she was bullying Ben

[00:21:16] [SPEAKER_01]: She's better and called me a bunch of names for ruining her relationship

[00:21:20] [SPEAKER_01]: Most of our mutual friends know the story now because they call this and Ben

[00:21:25] [SPEAKER_01]: Also last night Ben, my boyfriend and I went out for some drinks

[00:21:28] [SPEAKER_01]: And so many of our friends

[00:21:30] [SPEAKER_01]: So on most ends, a post are being perceived as a bit of reaction to her losing in her own little game

[00:21:35] [SPEAKER_01]: Hope he was told that she's a good friend that she tried to help Blair as well

[00:21:40] [SPEAKER_01]: Hope he says thank you so much

[00:21:42] [SPEAKER_01]: I really tried to help Blair so many times but she refused my office

[00:21:45] [SPEAKER_01]: I can honestly say I did my best as a friend and now we're no longer friends

[00:21:50] [SPEAKER_01]: I do not regret anything

[00:21:51] [SPEAKER_01]: I am just sad that a person I valued as a friend turned out this way

[00:21:56] [SPEAKER_01]: And yeah, if I obligated to tell her family that she's not doing well

[00:22:00] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm not responsible for her but she obviously needs some serious help

[00:22:04] [SPEAKER_01]: And her family should take over from here

[00:22:06] [SPEAKER_01]: Because then the night talked about her alarming situation

[00:22:09] [SPEAKER_01]: She didn't know and apparently how family had no idea either

[00:22:12] [SPEAKER_01]: So I guess that's up to them now

[00:22:15] [SPEAKER_01]: I saw a couple of comments on this discussing and

[00:22:18] [SPEAKER_01]: About how

[00:22:20] [SPEAKER_01]: Let normalize her behavior herself that she normalized it so much so that when she went on the girls night out with OP

[00:22:28] [SPEAKER_01]: That she thought it was just like a little fun conversation like I'm testing my boyfriend by making fake accounts and

[00:22:35] [SPEAKER_01]: And trying to make him dependant on me

[00:22:37] [SPEAKER_01]: How mad is that?

[00:22:39] [SPEAKER_01]: OP did absolutely the right thing, you know many of us don't like getting into confrontation

[00:22:45] [SPEAKER_01]: Don't like being a middle of things but OP did absolutely the right thing

[00:22:48] [SPEAKER_01]: Even as far as you know telling Blair's family about what's going on with her with that she's self-guid nose

[00:22:55] [SPEAKER_01]: And she's taken medication that she's got from somewhere

[00:22:59] [SPEAKER_01]: Because there can certainly be side effects that's having this effect as always never an excuse

[00:23:05] [SPEAKER_01]: What a behavior with shitty she deserves to be called out for it?

[00:23:08] [SPEAKER_01]: It's set or etc. She might just be an asshole but just in case I think OP did the right thing there

[00:23:14] [SPEAKER_01]: What do you guys make of this situation?

[00:23:18] [SPEAKER_01]: Let me know your thoughts down in the comments below

[00:23:21] [SPEAKER_01]: Now just a huge thank you from the bottom of my heart for getting involved into these stories

[00:23:25] [SPEAKER_01]: Your love your support your time always means the absolute world to me

[00:23:29] [SPEAKER_01]: So thank you so so much for being involved and hopefully I'll see you in the next one take care

[00:23:35] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm much love

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[00:24:10] [SPEAKER_00]: A flake

[00:24:11] [SPEAKER_00]: No panic, a puzzle disc with their head full of formals

[00:24:16] [SPEAKER_00]: Besides they themselves have the hard-nacchixed flake for deep rain

[00:24:20] [SPEAKER_00]: Just the disc in the trombe and the rest that's going to be a washing machine

[00:24:24] [SPEAKER_00]: Because you always have your best there

[00:24:27] [SPEAKER_00]: Try the best discs from a puzzle

[00:24:29] [SPEAKER_00]: And you'll be able to get out of here